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Catholics are more likely to cheat study finds

Catholics are more likely to cheat study finds

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A British survey has found that Catholics are the most adulterous religious group in the UK.

The research showed that 21.5 percent of the 600,000 members on an extra-marital dating site were Catholic — a high figure for the UK as Catholics make up just 10 percent of the population.

The research found that Church of England followers are more faithful than Catholics, atheists or agnostics with the most loyal spouses being either Jewish or Methodists the UK’s Daily Mail reported.

Harley Street social therapist Christine Elvin, said that people who subscribe to stricter religions, may be more likely to cheat.

“In tight structured relationships the pressure is huge, religious boundaries can create many rules and to obey them all could result in some feeling suffocated and tempted to escape so they can feel alive again,” she said.

“To be religious does not automatically make you a good person; religious people aren’t always immune from the trials and tribulations that affect others.

“Religious texts have given us a tool on how to live and how not to live. Some religious beliefs can cause much pain and guilt, being obedient and powerless can cause ‘irrational guilt’ leading to depression.”

The research found that three religions that have the strictest rules when it comes to fidelity, are also the three that are statistically the most likely to cheat.

“Many can get wrapped up in the idea that being good is more important than being happy,” Elvin said.

“Needs are not met, so psychological problems appear, causing some people to seek out happiness elsewhere.”

Spokesperson for Illicit Encounters, a UK website which offers confidential extra-marital affairs dating service for married women and men, Rosie Freeman-Jones said religious people liked to break the rules.

“Religious people have a much stronger sense of right and wrong, which also means they’re likely to get a bigger thrill from breaking the rules,” she said.

“For some people, affairs are about being ‘naughty’, and because religious people are instilled from a young age with a set of concrete morals, being naughty for them holds much more of a kick than for your average agnostic or atheist.”

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Mean girls: Pre-teens want ‘revenge’ on bad friends

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Little girls may be sugar and spice, but they are anything but nice when friends let them down.

A new study conducted by Duke University has proved that movies like Mean Girls are not as exaggerated as people might think.

While previous research suggested young girls were better at forming and maintaining friendships than young boys, the Duke University study found that girls are more likely to be angry, sad and seek revenge against the pal who wronged them.

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Researchers asked a group of 267 pre-teen boys and girls about how they would feel in 16 hypothetical situations, which included friends telling their secrets to other children, friends not completing their part of a group assignment and friends not reacting compassionately to personal tragedies, such as the death of a pet.

Both sexes were just as likely to want to verbally attack the friend, threaten to end the friendship, or seek revenge against the friend.

But when it came to emotions, girls were far more affected by a disappointing friend than boys, reporting they would feel more anger and sadness.

Girls were also more likely to view the friend’s transgression as a sign the pal didn’t care about them.

“Our finding that girls would be just as vengeful and aggressive toward their friends as the boys is particularly interesting because past research has consistently shown boys to react more negatively following minor conflicts with friends, such as an argument about which game to play next,” study leader Steven Asher said.

“It appears that friendship transgressions and conflicts of interest may push different buttons for boys and girls.”

Asher and the report’s co-author Julie Paquette MacEvoy hope their findings can be used to help parents better understand how to support children going through a difficult time at school.

“When we try to help children who are struggling in their friendships, we may need to focus on somewhat different issues for boys versus girls,” MacEvoy said.

“For girls, it may be critical to help them learn how to better cope when a friend lets them down.”

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The study will be published in an upcoming issue of Child Development.

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The Thread

The Thread

The Thread by Victoria Hislop, Headline, $29.99.

There’s a lot of history in The Thread, but Victoria Hislop’s lightness of touch and warm lyrical style make it a lesson you genuinely relish.

This is the author’s third novel set in Greece and here, in the multicultural city of Thessaloniki, she delves much deeper into the fabric of this nation, examining the relatively recent and painful past that has informed the last few generations.

“Thessaloniki is an amazing place — you can feel the history even in the streets. It was the striking mixture of architecture — grand 19th century French mansions, 3rd century Roman buildings, including a very, very early church, and old Turkish ‘cottages’ — that first made me ask questions and want to find out more,” Victoria tells The Weekly.

“When the novel begins, the population was made up approximately of one-third Muslims, one-third Greek Orthodox and one-third Jewish. These three sectors of population lived together harmoniously, but everything suddenly changed in the space of only two decades. My story begins in 1917 when all three elements were there and two decades later, only the Greek Orthodox remained.

“How and why that happened and the relationships caught up in a world of Nazi occupation and religious prejudice are the building blocks of the novel’s traumatic tale of devastation and survival, which is also a deeply felt love story.

“It was inspirational material and very sad, too, and the novel describes how people survived all the traumas of change,” explains Victoria, who developed a complex plot with multiple threads. Hence the title, which also refers to pieces of embroidery crucial to the structure.

Yet the real power of this work lies in the intense and sensitively drawn relationships between the generations — grandparent and grandchild — and childhood friends torn apart by their backgrounds.

Mix in pervasive descriptions of Greece so vivid you can almost smell the Mediterranean aromas and it’s impossible not to lose yourself in Hislop’s tempestuous world.

About the author: Victoria Hislop

Raised in England, this 52-year-old mother of two started writing novels after the birth of her first child, a daughter.

“I used to write while she was sleeping.” The Thread is her third novel.

The first, The Island, sold more than two million copies and was made into a TV series in Greece.

Victoria is married to Ian Hislop, editor of UK satirical magazine Private Eye, who she says isn’t allowed to read her books until the final draft.

“He is always truthful. He told me with The Thread that I had rushed the end. So I went back and made it much better. He was right, so I was very grateful!”

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Celebrity Apprentice reveals who is nice – and who is nasty

Celebrity Apprentice reveals who is nice – and who is nasty

The cast of Celebrity Apprentice 2011.

If the Australian stars of Celebrity Apprentice had done their research and watched the US version, they would have realised that the show is Russian Roulette for their careers.

The show gives us an intimate look at celebrities’ personalities, without the publicists, marketing teams and soft lighting.

For those who come off well, it can revive or make their career — Aussie chef Curtis Stone’s popularity rocketed in the United States because he was such a nice bloke on the show.

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It can show a whole different side to a celebrity you thought you knew — hard rocker Meatloaf cried almost nightly. Or, it can really take the gloss off.

And so it was with the Australian series. Some of the contestants will do well as a result of it.

Julia Morris, the winner, was likable and funny, and showed an admirable ability to contain her frustration with the other contestants. I bet she’ll be hosting a show soon.

Jesinta Campbell gave us new respect for beauty queens by being smart, honest and unafraid of playing a straight bat.

Shane Crawford’s football background stood him in good stead; he was very much a team player, and as a result, his fame will spread from the AFL states to the rest of the country.

But other stars damaged their “brand”. I will never look at Jason Coleman again without gritting my teeth in frustration at his smug sense of superiority.

General esteem for Max Markson was never very high anyway, but will have slipped further, except among those who have patience with relentless attention-seekers.

I will remember Pauline Hanson for her pursed lips and her sulking. And I disagree with Julia Morris’ suggestion that criticism of Deni Hines was racist; Deni came across as a self-absorbed, sometimes-nasty diva.

I haven’t done the numbers, but I’m guessing only the lucky few celebrities survive Celebrity Apprentice with greater respect than they had when they started. But for our sake, I hope they keep lining up for it anyway.

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It’s refreshing to watch them warts and all, and may be a timely antidote to this silly notion that somehow celebrities are better people than the rest of us.

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Chew gum, lose weight

Chew gum, lose weight

Forget diet and exercise — weight loss could soon be as simple as chewing some gum.

Scientists at Syracuse University are developing a gum that will make chewers feel full, leading them to consume less kilojoules and ultimately slim down.

A team of researchers led by chemist Robert Doyle have discovered that the hormone that makes people feel ‘full’ after eating can be delivered into the body orally.

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Doyle’s study — published in an upcoming issue of the American Chemical Society’sJournal of Medicinal Chemistry— centres around the hormone PYY, which regulates appetite.

The human body releases PYY into the bloodstream when people eat or exercise, leading to a feeling of being full. Typically, obese people have far lower levels of PYY in their bloodstream, leading them to consume more kilojoules because they don’t feel satisfied.

Previous studies have identified PYY’s role in supressing appetite, but have been unable to deliver the hormone into the bloodstream because it is destroyed by the body’s digestive system.

“PYY is an appetite-suppressing hormone,” Doyle says. “But, when taken orally, the hormone is destroyed in the stomach and that which isn’t destroyed has difficulty crossing into the bloodstream through the intestines.”

Doyle and his team have overcome this problem using his patent-pending Vitamin B12 system, which is used to deliver insulin orally instead of intra-venously. The system works by binding insulin to Vitamin B12, a substance that passes through the digestive system and into the blood with ease, carrying less-hardy substances with it.

Early trials have shown that PYY taken orally can also reach the bloodstream in this way, effectively being ‘smuggled’ into the blood by the B12.

“Phase one of this study was to show that we could deliver a clinically relevant amount of PYY into the bloodstream,” Doyle says. “We did that, and we are very excited by the results.”

Doyle’s team is now trying to find a way to insert the modified B12-PYY into chewing gum or oral tablets to help people lose weight.

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“If we are successful, PYY-laced gum would be a natural way to help people lose weight,” he says. “They could eat a balanced meal, then chew a stick of gum.

“The PYY supplement would begin to kick in about three to four hours later, decreasing their appetite as they approach their next meal.”

Scientists from Perth’s Murdoch University also collaborated in the study.

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Hugh Jackman’s daughter Ava is his toughest critic

Hugh Jackman's with daughter Ava and wife Deborah-Lee

Hugh Jackman may be a talented actor and heartthrob for many, but his fame and fortune won’t be going to his head if his daughter Ava has anything to do with it.

The 43-year-old Australian actor, whose 16-year career has seen him go from Aussie TV, to London’s West End and on to Broadway and Hollywood, has in recent years hosted the Oscars and been named the ‘sexiest man alive” by People magazine.

But six-year-old Ava isn’t one to be won-over by past performance and it seems she can be relied on to speak her mind, with no sugar-coating in sight when asked for her honest opinion of her father’s performance in his current Broadway show Hugh Jackman Back On Broadway.

Speaking on US talk show Anderson Hugh revealed, “About a week ago [my kids] came on a Sunday matinee. I said, ‘Guys, look, you can be honest with me. Do you like the show?'”

“My [11-year-old] son Oscar says, ‘I really like it.’ I was touched. My daughter said, ‘I find it a little boring.'”

Not only that, but Ava also appeared mortified of her dad’s performance, opting for the safe cover of hiding under the seat when he came into the audience to serenade her mum, Deborah-Lee Furness.

“My daughter, oh, my God. I sing a song for my wife in the show and sometimes I go out to the crowd,” he explains. “My daughter literally hides under the seat in front. She dies.”

Talking about what’s he’s like as a parent, the Real Steel actor admitted he is “more the strict one”, probably due to his own regimented upbringing as one of five kids, a stark contrast to Deborah-Lee’s easy-going only-child early years.

After consulting the advice of various parenting books, the couple avoided potential conflict in their parenting styles by embracing the rules of none other than Super Nanny to help them through the minefield of child discipline.

“I’m one of those parents, I read every book. My son came out and apparently he hadn’t read any of them, so we were really all at sea,” Jackman reveals. “Then we found that show and, I tell you, our daughter has a much easier ride.”

But it doesn’t look like Ava is about to give her dad an easy ride when it comes to being his critic!

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Sexy seniors are happier, study shows

Sexy seniors are happier

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The secret to happiness past your 65th birthday has been revealed — sex, and lots of it.

New research conducted by Florida Agricultural and Mechanical University found that the more often married individuals have sex, the more likely they are to be happy.

Assistant professor Adrienne Jackson analysed data from the 2004 General Social Surveys, an opinion poll that quizzes a national sample of US adults about a number of topics including their sex life, relationships and happiness.

Based on the survey responses of 238 married people over the age of 65, Jackson found a strong link between how often they had sex and how happy they said they were.

Almost 60 percent of people who engaged in sexual activity more than once a month said they were “very happy”, compared to just 40 percent of those who had no sexual activity in the past 12 months.

The relationship between sex and happiness was regardless of gender, age, health status and financial situation.

Jackson said she hoped the findings would encourage health systems to become more active in helping senior people maintain active sex lives.

“Highlighting the relationship between sex and happiness will help us in developing and organising specific sexual health interventions for this growing segment of our population,” Jackson said.

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Celebrity Apprentice grand final form guide

Celebrity Apprentice grand final form guide

Our top picks to take out the title: Julia Morris and Jesinta Campbell.

Given the eclectic bunch that we are, it’s not often that a single TV show will become the subject of water-cooler chat here at The Weekly, but Celebrity Apprentice is that rare beast.

As the last remaining contestants square-up for the grand final showdown tonight, I’ve been charged with the responsibility of assessing the form of the field and indulging in a bit of crystal-ball gazing to predict who among the celebrity apprentices is going to emerge victorious.

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JASON COLEMAN — 25/1

So let’s start with the runner with the longest odds. Jason, God bless him, must surely be the least favourite to win tonight.

Despite what can only be described as unwavering self-belief (he’s staged 464 shows this year AND has only recently gotten back from Moscow, don’t you know?), Jason has become the celebrity contestant we all love to dislike.

The mealy-mouthed pandering to “Mr Bouris”, the complete lack of self-awareness, the persistent use of words he clearly doesn’t know the meaning of — it all boils down to a reality TV show contestant who exists to annoy us.

Be under no illusion, gentle viewers: the only reason Jason is still in the competition is because we love to tune in and rail against him. To squirm every time he opens his mouth and hurl objects at the telly every time he appears on the screen.

From the producers’ point of view, he is reality TV manna from heaven. A winner, though, he ain’t.

SHANE CRAWFORD — 10/1

Look, there’s little not to like about Shane. He’s been so damned likeable in the series that he almost disappears into the background.

He’s the series’ wallflower. Pleasant enough, inoffensive enough, but not exactly charismatic winner material.

Unless he pulls it out of the bag tonight and makes a late dash for the finish line, or, unless he continues to skate calmly along in the background while his more vocal, showy opponents trip over one another allowing him to step over them and slide to victory (a la Aussie speed skater and accidental Olympic medallist, Steven Bradbury), I can’t see it happening. But I could be wrong. Never underestimate the power of nice.

JESINTA CAMPBELL — 5/1

On the subject of nice, the former beauty queen has developed quite the following thanks to her consistently pleasant performance in this dog-eat-dog competition (just ask Didier…).

Deni’s attempts to undermine Jesinta during last week’s challenges only upped the public’s sympathy ante for the fresh-faced ingénue whose challenge throughout has been to shuck off the airhead beauty queen tag and prove she has more to offer than a great silhouette in a bikini and a plan for world peace.

It’s hard to dislike Jesinta, whose dedication to the cause has been absolute, whose enthusiasm has been unrivalled and whose big brown eyes just get you every time. Or is that just me?

That said, I wonder if she has the gravitas required to carry home the trophy?

JULIA MORRIS — 4/1

Which brings us neatly, and inevitably, to the last woman standing — the effortlessly wonderful Ms Julia Morris.

Why do I think J.Mo deserves to walk away the winner? Because she alone among the celebrities has brought a practical, mother-of-two sensibility to proceedings.

If the object of the program was to show the true colours of this handful of celebs, Julia has come out as the most likeable. Not least because she alone among the grab-bag of famous faces has consistently been able to step back from the madness and laugh at it for the silliness it all represents.

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In what must surely rank as one of the most understated performances in the history of celebrity reality TV (and here we must doff our caps to the camera operators and editors who masterfully capture every one of her raised eyebrows) Julia has managed to walk that fine line between taking the competition deadly seriously, but not taking herself at all seriously. And for this reason alone, she deserves to take out the gong.

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Di Morrissey on pressure, nerves and penning bestsellers

Di Morrissey on pressure, nerves and penning bestsellers

Di Morrissey with her 20th book, The Opal Desert.

Di Morrissey has 19 best-selling books under her belt and another one on shelves now — but despite her success she still feels nervous about every new release.

Here, Di discusses her fear of failure, her cadetship at The Weekly and why she once wished she wrote sex books instead of novels.

AWW: Did you ever think when you sat down to write your first book that you’d be penning your 20th 20 years later.

Di: Twenty books in 20 years, it’s pretty amazing. When you start out you don’t think that far ahead. You just think about each book and you just want each book to do well.

Related: Our review of The Opal Desert

AWW: Does it get easier after you’ve got a few best-sellers under your belt?

Di: No! If anything it gets harder. I’ve had 19 novels where each one has sold more than the last one. Given the market at the moment, and the closure of bookshops and the economy, it’s very scary thinking about trying to do as well with this one.

AWW: Most writers would be happy to publish a book a decade — how do you manage one a year?

Di: The work rate is huge and not many authors can maintain that kind of pace. Lots of people think, ‘Oh she’s churned out another book’, thinking it’s done very quickly with no thoroughness, which is far from the case. I can do a book a year because I have a full-time editor that I work with every day. By the time the book is sent to the publisher it’s really been redrafted about five times and it’s ready to print. Other writers finish their draft, send it to their editor, get it back, write another draft, send it to their editor and the process goes on for months.”

AWW: What made you decide to sit down and write that first novel?

Di: I wanted to write a book since I was seven, but it’s not something you can just go and do straight out of school. That’s why I became a journalist. I was a cadet on the Women’s Weekly and that training was the best I could have done. It helped my writing and my researching. It took quite a while to get to the point where I had a contract to write my first book, but I think all the other things that have happened in between have made my life richer and given me more things to draw on.

AWW: Where does your inspiration come from?

Di: Every book is inspired by a particular place. I go and live in that place for up to two months so I get to know the background, the culture, the rhythms of the season and what the people are really like. There is a lot of credibility to my stories, because I’ve been there.

AWW: What do the locals think of the books you write about their hometowns?

Di: Most of them have been over the moon. I’m always very nervous. Some people feel they recognise themselves, so they get a kick out of imagining who the characters are based on, but mostly they’re really thrilled because it puts their place on the map. Everybody goes to the places I write about.

AWW: What has been your biggest challenge over the years?

Di: To get people to take me seriously. I couldn’t get any publicity for my first book. Everyone thought, ‘Oh, well, she’s about to turn 40, she’s not on TV anymore — what do they do? They write a book’. People were saying to me, ‘Look, if you’d written a diet book or a sex book we might be interested, but a novel? No way.’ No one would give me any air time so I dragged myself to every book shop in the country that would have me, talking to anyone who would listen. That word of mouth slowly built up and then everyone started to take notice.

AWW: Have you had an ‘I’ve made it’ moment?

Di: It was lovely when I had my 20th anniversary party and old friends and my wonderful daughter made this amazing speech and suddenly I thought, ‘Wow, look at what I’ve done’. You don’t often stop and pat yourself on the back, you’re too busy running forward and writing the next book. It was a lovely moment.

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AWW: Will there be a 21st book or is The Opal Desert your swansong?

Di: No way! I’ve got about five books standing in the wings. In fact, I set out to research the next one in a few weeks! I’ve got plenty more in me.

Di Morrissey’s 20th book The Opal Desert, published by Macmillan Australia, $32.99, is on sale now.

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Crown Princess Mary’s family crisis

Princess Mary's family crisis

Her plans for an extended summer family holiday back home in Australia have been dashed by the rigours of royalty.

It was meant to be the ultimate happy homecoming, Crown Princess Mary’s chance to show her four children a true-blue Aussie Christmas. Sadly for Mary, the demands of her royal duty as the future queen of Denmark have seen her forced to shorten her dream holiday, throwing her family into crisis. Yet again, she has been forced to make the agonising choice between following her heart and the demands of the palace.

It was widely reported and expected by her Australian family that Mary, 39, would be here for a traditional family Christmas – a time when the Donaldsons get together for barbies, sumptuous seafood and rowdy, impromptu games of backyard cricket and footy. But according to the Danish Royal Court, Mary and her family must return to Copenhagen, heading off any anticipated furore from Danes that the future queen and heirs to the throne would be celebrating Christmas in another country. It seems Denmark’s royal family and Queen Margrethe have their own traditions which must be observed.

It’s not known when Mary will depart Australia, but she certainly won’t be having the extended holiday that was originally planned. Asked if Mary had been ordered to cut her time in Australia short, a spokesperson from the Danish Consulate remained tight-lipped, only saying, “I cannot comment either way on that.” Showing her customary grace and poise, Mary remains determined to make the most of what must be an emotionally testing time. Radiant and thrilled to be back home under her cherished blue skies, she can’t wait to show off her delightful twins.

Kicking off with the “official’’ part of the visit that will see Mary and Crown Prince Frederik take in Sydney, Canberra, Melbourne and a surprise outback visit to Broken Hill, the popular princess is making sure this shortened summer trip Down Under will be more pleasure than business. It is more about renewing her romance with her homeland. Mary wants her family to experience an Aussie summer holiday, to take in the sights and sounds of her childhood. The trip is also her chance to introduce her twins, Prince Vincent and Princess Josephine, 10 months, to her Aussie family and friends.

Read more about why Mary won’t be seeing her Aussie family when she visits Australia and see the itinerary for her trip in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale November 21, 2011.

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