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The rise of the man-boob job

The rise of the man-boob job

First, it was moisturiser, then it was “manscaping”. Now, as Bryce Corbett reports, Australian men are being Botoxed and undergoing cosmetic surgery in greater numbers than ever before.

Ladies, take a long hard look at your man. Is he starting to fray a little around the edges? Has the toned physique you married all those years ago long since succumbed to the combined forces of gravity and good living?

Does he need a trip to the David Jones bra department for a fitting? Or would you, on balance, prefer to be running your fingers over a washboard stomach, rather than his carefully cultivated beer gut?

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Don’t nag him into exercising more. Don’t foist your jar of Ponds onto him or stick him on a diet. Discipline is so ’90s. And besides, there’s no need.

We live in an age in which the silhouette we want is but a surgeon’s knife away. A judicious nip here, a little tuck there and a vial or two of Botox for good measure.

And though cosmetic procedures in this country were once the exclusive preserve of the fairer sex, Australian men — formerly the planet’s last bastion of cold, hard machismo — are going under the knife in greater numbers than ever before.

According to The Australasian College of Cosmetic Surgery, Australians submit themselves to almost a quarter of a million Botox injections each year, for which we collectively fork out $250-$300 million.

The College estimates that as a nation we now spend as much as $1 billion a year on cosmetic surgery and medical procedures. And while the lion’s share of work is being done on women, cosmetic surgeons all over the country say they are starting to see more and more men in their waiting rooms.

They come for brow lifts, Botox injections, eyelid surgery and frown-line removals. They’ve been lining up in increasing numbers for tummy tucks, liposuction, hair plugs, pectoral implants and two procedures that are in particular demand — man-boob and love-handle removal operations.

In part encouraged by a celebrity trend to not only have work done, but happily own up to it, there’s been a wholesale makeover of the Aussie bloke.

“Ten years ago, I was lucky to see maybe one man a week,” says Sydney cosmetic surgeon, Dr Joseph Hkeik, whose All Saints Cosmedical clinics specialise in “non-invasive” cosmetic procedures such as Botox, dermal fillers and microdermabrasion.

“Now, it’s not unusual for my waiting room to be filled with men. Women are now competing with men to get appointments. The difference between men and women is that men don’t see it as pampering. They see it as a results-oriented process,” says Dr Hkeik.

Results were certainly at the top of 28-year-old Sydneysider Andy’s mind when he recently underwent liposuction of the chest, stomach and love handles.

“I had the procedure on Friday and was back at work by Monday,” he recalls.

Just so we are all on the same page here, it’s worth breaking down the procedure to which Andy willingly submitted himself — and paid handsomely for.

He was sedated but conscious during an operation in which his body was injected with up to six litres of saline solution, the fat was liquefied by a laser and a scapula was inserted under his skin to scrape out stubborn layers of fat that had settled on top of his musculature.

“That’s when it all went a bit Nip/Tuck and they started jiggling around in there,” Andy recalls. “Towards the end of the procedure, I had to stand up while the surgeon fine-tuned everything and made sure everything sat in the right place. It was uncomfortable, but not painful.”

One and a half hours and $8000 later, Andy emerged with a flat stomach, a defined chest and a sleek silhouette.

“I felt I wasn’t getting the same results from the gym and running that I used to,” says Andy. “And in the gay community, there’s a lot of pressure to look good. For me, this was money well spent.”

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It’s one thing for cosmetic enhancement to be increasingly common among young metrosexuals and the gay community in urban centres, but quite another for the trend to be upheld among older fellas in regional parts of the country. Yet the creep is happening.

Read more of this story in the January issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

Your say: What do you think about the rise in cosmetic surgery for men?

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Richard Wilkins: My friendship with Molly Meldrum

Richard Wilkins: My friendhsip with Molly Meldrum

Friends with Molly for many years, the TV star talks Woman’s Day through their special relationship.

Only a few short weeks ago I was sitting across from Ian “Molly” Meldrum at the ARIA awards in Sydney, one of the many times over the years the two of us have shared a table, a laugh and a man-hug at everything from the Logies to weddings – including one of mine – since we met on Countdown in 1982.

When I first came to Australia with my band (Wilde and Reckless), everybody told me I had to get on top TV music show Countdown. To get on the top TV music show was the Holy Grail for musicians and performers, a huge step towards being successful in Australia. But we made a fatal mistake when someone gave our first video to the rival TV show, Sounds, and found ourselves blacklisted by Countdown, and Molly.

When eventually we managed to get ourselves on Countdown I had learned a thing or two about the pecking order, and Molly was very gracious about the mix-up. And that was him all over. When it came to business, Molly always played the game but he never played his fellow man. Looking back on that footage now, things have changed so much. Molly had hair then, and was a seasoned TV professional, while I was a tall gangly Kiwi guy who was nervous as hell about making my first appearance on Australian television, hoping this would be my big break. But what never changed over the years was Molly’s charm, his enthusiasm for life and his passion for the music industry.

Back then, of course, I didn’t realise Molly and I were destined to cross paths a million times in the line of duty as I would go on to work for MTV and Today, while Molly moved on to doing Hey Hey It’s Saturday and Sunrise. He and I have always been friends, rivals, colleagues and competitors. We’ve often been up against each other pitching for the same big celebrity interviews and we have done several memorable overseas trips together where drama seems to follow Molly every step of the way.

Read more about Richard and Molly’s friendship in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale December 23, 2011.

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Simone Callahan’s sizzling body at 41!

Simone Callahan's sizzling body at 41!

She’s never looked better… and Simone tells Woman’s Day it’s all thanks to her new man Toby Roberts. She shows off her hot bikini body on a holiday in Bali.

With her skin glowing and blue eyes sparkling, Simone Callahan laughs when asked what sort of diet and exercise plan she relies on to look so good. “I’m not into diets,” the mum-of- three insists, instead attributing her renewed vitality to boyfriend of 12 months, Toby Roberts.

“Toby has always been big on eating well and that has probably rubbed off on me. “We both love the occasional chocolate, and I’ve always loved sweets, biscuits and lollies – probably too much!” How then does she keep in such great shape at 41? Friends would say it’s a “love diet”, with Simone the happiest she’s been in years since falling in love with model and business executive Toby, 37. “I don’t have much discipline when it comes to food,” she says.

“If I’m hungry, I like to eat, so I think a diet would kill me. “I’ve also been doing yoga on and off for eight years,” Simone explains. “And I know I shall be doing it the rest of my life. It’s almost addictive. “I started with iyengar yoga and changed to ashtanga 18 months ago. It’s a very disciplined yoga and I’ve been averaging about five sessions a week.” Simone credits yoga with helping her through the tough and turbulent times in the latter part of her 10-year marriage to Shane Warne, and the 18 months after they reunited.

“Yoga makes me feel very calm, centred and at peace with life,” she says happily. “It has been a great way of letting things go.” While Toby is dedicated to health and fitness, Simone has also been encouraging him to explore yoga. “Toby does cross training,” she explains. “He doesn’t like the gym environment. He prefers to be outside surfing, swimming, running and cycling as much as he can.”

Read more about Simone’s new body, see more pictures, plus see Liz Hurley’s bikini body in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale December 23, 2011.

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Woman’s Day winning bride: I wore Kate Middleton’s dress!

Woman's Day winning bride: I wore Kate Middleton's dress!

Kate’s beautiful gown, two stunning “Pippa” bridesmaids…Bec Wade-Ferrell’s wedding was a right royal affair, thanks to Woman’s Day.

The setting wasn’t exactly Westminster Abbey, and the groomsmen looked more like the Blues Brothers than dashing princes, but Bec Wade-Ferrell’s marriage to the love of her life, Dan Jackson, was a day no-one will ever forget. For a start, the couple were wed on Remembrance Day, with the magical date of 11/11/11.

“I was determined Dan would never forget our anniversary,” Bec told Woman’s Day on the morning of her very special day.And Bec and her attendants looked lovely in replicas of Kate and Pippa’s gorgeous gowns. Bec, 32, and Dan, 34, were the lucky winners of Woman’s Day’s Win Your Own Royal Wedding competition. Bec’s little boy, Henry, inspired her winning entry. When Woman’s Day asked, “How did you celebrate the royal wedding?” Bec replied: “With my son, four-year-old Henry. He said, ‘She’s beautiful, Mummy, but you will be more beautiful at your wedding and you have me to walk you.’”

The weepy judges were unanimous: Bec’s entry was the winner! And she would be a fairytale princess bride. Bec marvelled at her satin and French Chantilly lace wedding gown, a replica of Kate’s. Valued at $10,000, it took leading dressmaker Karen Willis Holmes and her team 130 hours to create. “It’s so heavy, it needs three coathangers,” Bec says. “It weighs more than 20 kilos. It’s a good thing I’m reasonably fit!”

Bec’s bridesmaids, Elissa Wright and Jenni Howells, wore exact replicas of Pippa Middleton’s much-talked-about maid of honour dress. Their rear views were pure Pippa! Melbourne’s Jason Grech designed the stunning gowns. “Sexy, elegant, hot,” is how Harry Georgiou, one half of the design team, summed up the head-turning outfits.

Read more about Bec’s beautiful wedding and see all the pictures in this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale December 23, 2011.

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Suri’s toy store melt down!

Suri's toy store melt down!

Tom and Katie’s precious little diva has the mother of all meltdowns.

She may have looked like an angelic fairy princess in a floaty mauve party dress and cute pink tiara, but Suri Cruise was transformed into a screaming banshee after not getting her way in an exclusive New York toy shop.

The mini-fashionista daughter of Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes threw her biggest public tantrum ever, stomping her tiny gold designer heels and turning on the waterworks inside the Big Apple’s famed FAO Schwartz store. While embarrassed mum Katie tried to reason with her little girl as astonished fellow shoppers looked on, a red-faced Suri showed she wasn’t about to be placated in a hurry, clenching her teeth, fiercely clutching a soft toy and intimidating Katie as she screamed right into her face.

Perhaps feeling this was one meltdown that required calling in the big guns, Katie decided there was only one thing to be done – pacify her daughter with a lollipop and some toys. And, wouldn’t you know it, Suri’s tears soon dried up.

The lipstick-loving youngster, perhaps the most famous five-year-old on the planet, looked like the cat that got the cream as she left the toy store with a bag of treats. Friends of Tom and Katie have been known to refer to Suri as “the little dictator”, with one telling Woman’s Day, “Her tantrums have to be seen to be believed. She’ll be on the floor, kicking and screaming her head off, and Katie will just shrug.”

Read more and see the pictures of Suri’s meltdown in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale December 23, 2011.

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Miss country girl Australia 2011

After searching rural Australia for our next top models, Woman’s Day proudly presents the winners wearing summer’s hottest trends.

Meet winner Belinda Adams, 14 from Nannella (left), NSW, 2nd place winner Arielle Panta, 16 from Warrigal, NSW (middle) and 3rd winner place Ryle Waugh, 16 from Warwick, Qld (right).

See our shoot with the girls showing off all the latest trends followed by our video interview with them.

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Cheating men spend more on their mistress than wife

Cheating men spend more on their mistress than their wife

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It seems Christmas shopping for some men has become a little more expensive this year, with a new study finding that cheating men spend more money on their mistress than their wife.

The statistics taken from 2,000 men who use the Illicit Encounters website, an extra marital affairs dating service in the UK, found that cheating men spend an average of $192 on their mistress’ presents, while $170 is spent on their wives, the UK’s Daily Mail reported.

During the study 89 percent of men admitted to choosing something ‘ultimately decorative with that being it’s sole purpose’ for their mistress in comparison to 42 percent of the men surveyed choosing an item like this for their wife.

Half of men preferred to chose something ‘practical and useful for around the home’ for their wife.

Cheating expert and spokesperson for Illicit Encounters, Rosie Freeman-Jones says the way men buy gifts shows how they feel about their relationships.

“The difference in the sort of gifts men choose to buy for their mistress and wives mirror the different ways married men often view these two relationships,” she said.

“Men often see their mistresses as playing more “surface”, decorative roles in their lives, providing sex and affection without much emotional attachment.

“This explains why mistresses receive less practical and more “pretty” gifts.”

Rosie said that over time men start to see their wives as needing more practical things than pretty things.

“On the other side of the coin, a man’s relationship with his wife, after time, becomes less about being pretty and more about being practical – the bigger issues of mortgages and maintenance overtake the seemingly less important things like romance,” she said.

“The less a husband thinks of his wife as a sexual being, the more functional and “unsexy” his gifts will become.”

And according to the Illicit Encounters website, Christmas is their busiest time of year with a rise of 200-300% in activity and new members joining on the site.

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Five nutrition myths busted

Busting five nutrition myths

One of the biggest dilemmas for dieters is sorting fact from fiction when it comes to nutrition claims. So, get ready to set five of those urban, nutrition myths straight.

  1. ‘Lite’ means a product is low in fat

Seeing the word “lite” on a product may automatically trigger a response to purchase that product. More often than not people are buying these products because they believe that “lite” products are low in fat. This word can be quite deceiving considering it can have other meanings. For example, ‘lite’ oil means light in colour and ‘lite’ dry biscuits can mean light in salt. The fat and kilojoule content of these products is usually the same as the regular product.

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  1. Olive oil is lower in fat than other oils

Olive oil contains the same amount of fat as other oils. The type of fat found in oils varies — olive oil contains predominantly monounsaturated fat. These healthy fats can help control cholesterol levels if they replace saturated fats in the diet. Olive oil also supplies beneficial anti-oxidants. But if you are watching your weight, the amount of all fat in your diet should be controlled, including the use of oils.

  1. Supplements can be taken instead of food

Replacing foods you do not like with pills is not the way to improve your health status. Fruits and vegetables have enormous health benefits because they contain vitamins, minerals, phytochemicals and fibre. Their combined presence in food allows them to work synergistically. A tomato not only contains vitamin C but also phytochemicals and many other nutrients. When vitamin C is consumed as a supplement, you miss out on the benefit of the other nutrients present in the food. Supplements often contain greater amounts of nutrients than their food counterparts, however some may not be absorbed as well and many may be toxic in high concentrations. Most importantly food does taste a whole lot better than a handful of pills!

  1. By increasing my protein intake I will build huge muscles

Adequate protein is essential for muscle repair and maintenance. However, every gram of dietary protein is not converted to a gram of muscle. Consuming more protein than your body requires can result in the excess being stored as fat if your overall kilojoule intake exceeds energy expenditure. Without the appropriate strength training regime your body will not automatically convert the protein to muscle. So if you want to increase your muscle mass, combine a well-balanced diet with an appropriate strength training program.

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  1. Bananas are high in fat

Bananas are high in energy-giving carbohydrates and low in fat. They are a good source of fibre, potassium and vitamin C. Some people believe they are high in fat because of the creamy texture and sweet taste of the perfectly ripened banana. However, once you dip banana in batter, deep fry it and call it a banana fritter — well that’s a different story!

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Bah humbug! Rich people really ARE less compassionate

Bah humbug! Rich people really ARE less compassionate

Penny-pinching millionaire Ebenezer Scrooge is famous for his mean, miserly behaviour — now new research has suggested that rich people really are less compassionate than their poorer counterparts.

A study by researchers at the University of California, Berkeley, found that poorer people were better at recognising signals of distress in others because they had been through hardship themselves.

People from more privileged backgrounds, on the other hand, found it much harder to notice when someone else were suffering because they hadn’t experienced adversity before.

“It’s not that the upper classes are cold-hearted,” study leader Jennifer Stellar said. “They may just not be as adept at recognising the cues and signals of suffering because they haven’t had to deal with as many obstacles in their lives.

“These latest results indicate that there’s a culture of compassion and cooperation among lower-class individuals that may be born out of threats to their wellbeing.”

Stellar and her team studied more than 300 young adults from different ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds.

There volunteers were then divided into different classes — lower class, lower middle class, middle class, upper middle class or upper class — based on their parent’s income and education.

A group of 148 participants were then quizzed on how frequently they felt positive emotions such as joy, contentment, pride, love, compassion, amusement and awe.

When the answers were compared, compassion was the only emotion reported at significantly higher levels by people from lower socio-economic backgrounds.

In the second experiment, a new group of 64 volunteers viewed two videos. One was a neutral training film, while the other was an emotional clip about the families of children who have cancer.

All respondents reported feeling ‘sad’ when watching the cancer video, but those from poorer backgrounds reported high levels of empathy and compassion distinctly separate to sorrow.

The remaining 106 participants were then divided into pairs and interviewed for a fictional job.

To make the situation more stressful, they were told the person who performed best would be given a cash prize.

Researchers found that people from poorer backgrounds were quicker to notice when their rival was becoming stressed and reacted with sympathy and compassion.

Richer respondents were less able to detect stress in their opponents, and therefore did not react accordingly.

Stellar said the results don’t mean rich people are uncaring, just that they struggle to detect when others are suffering so don’t realise there is a need for compassion or sympathy.

“Recognising suffering is the first step to responding compassionately,” she said. “The results suggest that it’s not that upper classes don’t care, it’s that they just aren’t as good at perceiving stress or anxiety.”

The study was published in December 12 in the online journal Emotion.

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Charlie Sheen’s family holiday

After a troublesome year, Charlie Sheen has escaped the hype of the festive season by heading on a holiday with ex-wife Denise Richards and their daughters.

Escaping to a luxury tropical location the pair, who have had a turbulent relationship since their divorce in 2006, have put it all behind them to enjoy a family holiday with their daughters Sam, seven, and Lola, six. Denise also took her six-month-old adopted daughter Eloise.

Sheen, 46, tweeted: “What’s better than a modern family vacation!?! love spending winter break w/ @denise_richards & my kids.”

“All in the family a Christmas…. to remember..! xo c”

See the pictures of their holiday tweeted by Charlie Sheen here.

Charlie Sheen has tweeted a series of photos from the family holiday.

“All in the family a Christmas…. to remember..! xo c” Sheen tweeted.

Charlie take in a spot of fishing.

“hello fish!! hmmm… Small but feisty!!!” Sheen tweeted.

“…an awesome crab cake fest.” Sheen tweeted.

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