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What to plant now: winter roses

What to plant now: Winter roses

Hellebores

“It’s called a ‘winter rose’ or hellebore,” she said. I looked down at the ankle-high plant with dull green leaves and even duller green-white flowers, then at the bright red real rose glory blooming on the fence.

Then I looked back at the hellebore. “They call this a rose?” I said.

My elderly friend looked at me sternly. “When it’s the only flower in the middle of a winter drought, it’s a rose,” she said simply.

She was right. Hellebores are (almost) indestructible and by the middle of the next cold dry winter I was looking at the bunch of greenish pewter flowers on the kitchen table with affection.

Hellebore flowers last… and last… and last, both in a vase and on the plant.

Then came spring. The remaining flowers turned brown, the leaves were spotty from industrious little sap suckers. The whole plant looked tired and tatty.

That was when I learned the first trick to growing good hellebores: cut back old leaves and old flowers in spring, to encourage new growth, brighter green leaves with no hint of brown splodges.

But there was still too much of the ‘bore’ in hellebore. The flowers were nice enough in winter, but nothing to be adored. And then things changed.

It seemed that many breeders had been working to make hellebores the brightest of all winter blooms — and doing it incredibly successfully.

I first noticed the new clear white flowers, that shone from among brighter green leaves; then a deep almost magenta red; then pink, then pink and white striped, and green, a pure red, an almost black, a deep grey which sounds terrible but can look stunning in a vase…

Within a few years there were singles, doubles, stripes, spots in every shade of red and purple and pink and green and white, frilly petals and rounded petals and sharp-edged petals, each more stunning than the last.

I fell in love. My hellebores fell in love too… or at least that’s the romantic way of saying that hellebores cross pollinate easily and the resulting seedlings that have sprung up are an unpredictable mix of colours and shapes.

Normally I ruthlessly pluck out any plant that self-seeds — they can become a weed too easily. But hellebores have one overwhelming need — they must have shade in hot mid-summers. And in our climate there’s no way that hellebores are going to go feral in the hot and sunny bush around me.

Hellebores will grow anywhere in Australia except the hot and humid tropics. Ideally they have hot shaded summers and cold sunny winters — under a dense deciduous apple or persimmon tree is ideal.

The hotter the climate, the more shade they need. In humid areas they’re best grown in above-ground gardens, so the leaves don’t get mildewed and the stems don’t rot. And make sure you cut them back hard, right to the crown, at the end of every winter, too, as the old leaves can encourage diseases.

But even hellebores grown in deep shade may flower — not as much, and sometimes they lose their vivid colour (I find the old green-white ones do best in heavy shade, while the brighter ones need sun as though they are drinking in the light).

Start planting hellebores now in any dull, shady spot in the garden, so they’ll be fully established and gloriously blooming all through winter and spring.

Feed your hellebores from summer to early autumn to encourage more flowers, too — but if you forget they’ll forgive you and bloom anyway.

They love mulch, especially rotten autumn leaves — hellebores are naturally an edge-of-forest plant and love it when you try to mimic those conditions. Move seedlings or divide clumps at any coolish time of the year.

Basically there are only the three great secrets of growing stunning hellebores: choose the shape and colour you love best, prune back to keep them healthy and looking good and grow LOTS.

A rose bush can look dramatic all on its own. A single hellebore just looks lonely. Buy them by the half dozen, or even more, and suddenly you’ll find they really are ‘winter roses’, just as beautiful as their more glamorous namesakes — and a heck of a lot hardier and easier to look after.

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The best bikini bodies ever!

Bikini babe Kim Kardashian seems to always be happy to pop into a brief bikini and we can see why!

Kristin Davis showed off her bikini body on the cover of Fitness magazine.

Miranda Kerr showed off her perfect bikini body during a photo shoot.

If Beyonce Knowles wanted to show off her toned body and muscle definition she definitely succeeded! She was snapped in this bright bikini while on holidays with husband Jay-Z.

Beach-loving Gisele showed off her bikini body in this itsy bitsy bikini.

Former Bond girl Halle Berry’s bikini body was still obvious despite her trying to cover it up.

The original Victoria’s Secret angel recently hung up her wings, but she still knows how to rock a bikini with effortless style.

Isla Fisher knows how to show off her best assets in this one piece.

Fitness fanatic Jennifer Aniston has notably one of the hottest bikini bodies in Hollywood. And it’s no surprise when you take a look at her super healthy lifestyle.

From one fitness fanatic to another, Jessica Biel is known for her toned abs and discipline when it comes to exercise.

After giving birth to her daughter Honor, Jessica Alba bounced back to her original bikini body in no time.

She has appeared on more than 300 magazine covers, so she had no problem posing for photos or taking them while holidaying in Thailand.

Super cute Katherine Heigl showed off her curves in this metallic pink two-piece.

In a recent US magazine poll, Penelope Cruz was voted as having one of the best bikini bodies in Hollywood!

Mother of two-adopted sons 48-year-old Sheryl Crow showed she still has it when she visited the beach with her sons recently.

With long legs and a toned tummy, Cameron Diaz can easily look fantastic in any bikini.

Beach babe Charlize Theron shows off her super slim bikini body.

Super model Cindy Crawford keeps herself hydrated while showing that a plain black bikini is all you need for summer!

It’s certainly not hard to see why Elle Macpherson is known as “the body”.

Singer Fergie not only looked fit in her lime green bikini, but tanned too!

Heather Graham’s hot pink bikini shows off her slim figure.

Even when she hits the beach Kate Hudson keeps her casual fresh faced signature look.

Lily Allen has long battled with her body image. But recently the star has demonstrated just how beach ready her body is.

Anna Kournikova struts her stuff along the beach in her tiny yellow bikini.

Despite now wearing a bikini model Adriana Lima still shows she has a stunning beach body.

Carmen Electra is know for her bikini body!

Demi Moore is still smokin’ at age 48. She even posts photos of herself in a bikini on her Twitter account.

Recently single Eva Logoria shows off her cute bikini and her tanned body.

Model Jenny McCarthy shows that she still has it while holidaying in Hawaii.

Former Miss Universe Jennifer Hawkins strut her stuff on the runway.

Just like her competition, Megan Gale knows how to work it on the catwalk!

Even after giving birth to twins, JLo has a hot bikini body.

Although she isn’t wearing a bikini Katie Holmes’ slender figure is still obvious in this once-piece.

Katy Perry shows off her pretty side in their sweet pink bikini.

beach babe Brookyln Decker on the set of Adam Sandler’s movie Just Go With It!.

Madonna takes some time out to show off her fit bod.

Singer Pink soaks up the sun while taking time out from her busy schedule.

Singer and actress Vanessa Hudgens shows off her tanned beach body.

Desperate Housewives star Nicollette Sheridan shows that she still has it at 46-years-old showing off her curves in this tiny string bikini.

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Lose 5 kilos in 2 weeks: Day 2

Want to know how to lose five kilos in two weeks? Elle Macpherson’s trainer James Duigan shows you how!

When it comes to losing weight, just like everything in life we need to a little bit of inspiration to achieve our goals. Elle Macpherson’s trainer James Duigan has come on board for the Woman’s Day diet in 2012 and shares with us all of his top tips. “I am thrilled to contribute to The Woman’s Day Diet 2012,” he said.

“You’ll find all your favourite WD diet recipes – kJ-crunched, cooked and tested in the WD test kitchen – plus a few of my own recipes, diet tips and the workouts that get my celebrity clients in tip-top shape.”

Make sure you follow the rules, work out plan, eat two snacks from the snack list per day and stick to the portion sizes.

Top tip: Please note foods in bold are free kj and you can eat as much as you like.

  • You should lose 1-2kgs a week (up to 5kgs for heavier women), depending on your starting weight. The total daily kJ count is 5500-7000kJ. This compares to the average of 8000-9000kJ for a 70kg Australian woman;

  • Eat lots of green vegetables or a fibre supplement. Fibre helps reduce “bat wings” and “bingo arms” by eliminating toxins;

  • Limit alcohol to four standard drinks a week. A 400kJ glass of wine replaces one snack.

  • Your body converts wheat to sugar faster than any other grain. So try and avoid bread and pasta, if you can.

  • All breakfasts on the diet can be swapped with other breakfasts, lunches with lunches and dinners with dinners.

  • One coffee per day is allowed. After that, drink green tea.

  • All beakfasts on the four week diet are interchangeable with other breakfasts, lunches with lunches and dinners with dinners;

  • Studies show that low-fat yoghurts, for instance, are loaded with sugar and sodium to make up for the blandness of having no fat. So, eat real butter, yoghurt and milk and cheese. Keep the doses small, though, says James.Snack ListEach day choose from any two of the following:1 apple and 1 matchbox-sized serve full-fat cheese (700kJ);

  • Vegetable sticks and ¼ cup hummus (600kJ);

  • 1 piece of fruit and a handful of nuts (400kJ);

  • 100g natural yoghurt with berries, cinnamon and almonds (400kJ)

  • 1 small latte (400kJ)

  • 2 Corn Thins with 1 teaspoon no added sugar peanut butter (400kJ)

  • Make a yoghurt paddle pop (with fruit and nuts) (450kJ)

  • Frozen grapes and bananas (480kj)

  • Fruit smoothie with added fibre or bran (400kJ)

  • 4 squares dark chocolate (400kJ)

  • Green smoothie (blend up celery, cucumber, lime, ginger, mint) (negligible).

  • 1 apple and 1 matchbox-sized serve full-fat cheese (700kJ);

  • Vegetable sticks and ¼ cup hummus (600kJ);

  • 1 piece of fruit and a handful of nuts (400kJ);

  • 100g natural yoghurt with berries, cinnamon and almonds (400kJ)

  • 1 small latte (400kJ)

  • 2 Corn Thins with 1 teaspoon no added sugar peanut butter (400kJ)

  • Make a yoghurt paddle pop (with fruit and nuts) (450kJ)

  • Frozen grapes and bananas (480kj)

  • Fruit smoothie with added fibre or bran (400kJ)

  • 4 squares dark chocolate (400kJ)

  • Green smoothie (blend up celery, cucumber, lime, ginger, mint) (negligible).

  • 1 serve of rice or pasta = a fist

  • 1 piece of meat, fish or chicken = the size and width of a deck of cards

  • 1 serve of cheese = one slice, or 4 small cubes that could fit in a matchbox

  • 1 serve of butter = your fingertip

For more great diet and work out tips, plus the full diet plan, see Woman’s Day on sale January 9, 2012.

DISCLAIMER: Please do not embark on a vigorous exercise program without speaking to your doctor first. This advice is general only and does not replace the advice of your doctor or exercise physiologist.

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How we halved our body weight – we lost 242kg!

Amazing weight loss

When Woman’s Day gave readers the chance to win $5000 and guidance from Elle Macpherson’s personal trainer, we were flooded with inspirational weight-loss stories. Meet our three amazing finalists.

“I started with small changes.”

“I began piling on weight in 2006 after my husband left me and I became a single mum to Jordan, 9, Natashja, 7, and Xzavaier, 5.

“The loneliness drove me to eat. My mouth became an endless black hole. I wanted to get fat, as I couldn’t stand the thought of anyone getting close to me again.

“Then Tashj was diagnosed with autism and ADHD. Jordan was diagnosed with the same condition in 2009, and Xzavaier was diagnosed this year. Tashj cannot show any affection at all, Jordan can only go to regular school three hours a day and has a special aide, while Xzavaier also needs special attention at school.

“I was so busy with the kids I didn’t even think about exercise but last year, when I saw a full-length photo of myself taken at a birthday party, something tweaked. Was I really the person in this photo? How had I become so big? I was a size 28 and knew I had to change, not just for me, but for my kids.

“Food is not the enemy.”

“Growing up, I was always the tubby kid and I am still haunted by the nickname ‘Fat Amy’ from school. I remember going to the school formal in a long-sleeve dress that went up to my neck and down to my ankles – it was the middle of summer and I just wanted to disappear.

“There wasn’t a light bulb moment for me but a gradual series of revelations that made me realise I needed to change.

“I have lost 90kg in three-and-a-half years. I have a Facebook following of 1000 weight-loss friends and my biggest tip to them is not to stop eating. A lot of people see food as the enemy rather than simply restructuring the way they eat.

“I inspire others to lose weight.”

“I think the first emotional trigger for my weight gain was losing my younger brother in a tragic accident when he fell off a balcony playing at a friend’s house.

It was shortly after that I started piling on the pounds.

“I tried everything on and off for 30 years, but my biggest trigger was going shopping with a friend who had lost weight on a program called Be Trim.

As I watched her try on tiny-sized clothes, I thought, if she could do it, perhaps I could too. It cost $50 a week and involved weighing food, strictly limiting carbohydrates and one-on-one sessions with a consultant.

“Exercise was hard – I was utterly exhausted after walking up two flights of stairs. After dropping a few kilograms, though, I started walking a kilometre every day and now I go to the gym four times a week.

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Our real-life Thumbelina

Our real-life Thumbelina

A rare genetic disorder means Eva Pym will stay smaller than most, but this adorable 18-month-old girl has a huge heart, writes Glen Williams.

They say good things come in small packages, and little Eva Pym is proof of that. She may be tiny, but this precious little girl is proving to be a big-hearted fi ghter and an endless source of joy and nspiration to her loving mum and dad, Katherine and Daniel. Eva was born full term weighing just .86kg (4.2lb). She came into the world with an extremely rare “genetic chromosome deletion” – which means her body is missing the vital “programming” it needs to know how to develop normally.

Compared to other 18-montholds, Eva, at 68cm, is tiny. Because of her condition, she may never grow taller and, as she gets older, the gap between her and other children of the same age will become even more pronounced. Her grandmother Noelene nicknamed her Thumbelina after the much-loved Hans Christian Andersen fairytale. Mum and Dad prefer to call her little Evie.

“Basically, she’s the only one in the world with her condition,” says Katherine, 27. “We only found out in July that Eva’s specifi c gene deletion has never been detected in any DNA test in the world. “Very little is known about the condition and there is very little information available, so Eva’s future is very uncertain. As parents, we are devastated that our daughter has to face the unknown, and that even doctors don’t know what to expect because they have never seen a case like it before.”

From the moment she was born in July 2010, Eva has been plagued with health issues. “It had been a normal pregnancy until the last trimester, when Eva stopped growing,” says Katherine. “[At birth] she was rushed to The Children’s Hospital at Westmead’s neonatal intensive care unit with major heart problems. Her heart was the size of her chest cavity instead of the normal 60 per cent. It was so frightening – Eva’s heart was racing at 200 beats per minute, which is about 90 per cent capacity.”

Doctors fought to bring Eva’s heart back to normal function, but she still wasn’t thriving. She developed sleep apnoea and wasn’t breathing properly. “Every single thing that could go wrong did go wrong,” says an emotionally spent Daniel. “Nothing could prepare us for this.”

For the devoted mum and dad, the last year has been a blur of specialist appointments, endless tests and traumatic hospital visits. “I think our little girl has been in hospital at least nine times in the last 12 months,” says Daniel, 34. “And the specialists we need to see form a mind-boggling list. We’ve lost track of how many X-rays and ultrasounds she’s had.” And through it all, this brave and inspirational little girl has managed to smile and delight others with her playful spirit.

“Eva is a little trouper,” says Katherine proudly. “She’s been put through the wringer, and I think she can handle anything.” She’s such a good little girl and takes everything in her stride. “She really is a happy baby. She’s playful and loves games, like any other child. She loves seeing other children. She just wants to grab them and kiss them. She’s so loving and adorable.”

When Woman’s Day visits the family’s Sydney home, Eva and her friend Scarlett are happily lost in a game. Scarlett, like other children Eva’s age, is substantially taller. But when it comes to little girls at play, size doesn’t matter.

“Eva tries her hardest in everything she does,” says Daniel. “I’m sure she knows she’s not the same as other kids – she observes them and knows. But she always gives 100 per cent, and has her own strong little personality.” Daniel admits he and Katherine worry about the future. “My biggest fear is that, as she gets older, she’s not going to look like every other kid, and kids can be so cruel when someone is different from them. It would absolutely break my heart if she was picked on in school.”

Fortunately, there have been some recent positive developments in Eva’s health. “Her sleep apnoea is being treated with an oxygen machine, which we are hopeful will give her a good night’s sleep – that really helps babies to grow with more strength and energy,” says Katherine. “We are hoping she can start hitting those developmental benchmarks.”

Daniel and Katherine are quick to pay tribute to their parents for their constant love and support during this difficult year. The couple are cautious when asked about having more children. “We’d love to,” says a teary Katherine. “But for now, our focus is on our beautiful little girl. It would be nice for her to have a brother to grow up with and protect her. We’ll see.”

“We are blessed,” says Daniel softly. “It’s an absolute miracle we got to leave the hospital. A lot of parents don’t even get the opportunity to bring their little ones home. We’re very thankful.”

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Kate Middleton at 30

Catherine at 30

The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge

On her 30th birthday, Michael Sheather looks back on the royal transformation of Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge.

It’s been a remarkable transformation but Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, has handled everything life has thrown at her with grace, style and more than a little élan since becoming romantically involved with her handsome prince.

From unknown student commoner to Royal fianc&eacutee and now wife of the future King, the former Kate Middleton, daughter of an airline hostess and a businessman, has successfully navigated more than 10 years of momentous personal change to emerge as a strong and increasingly vibrant figure on the world stage.

In pictures: Kate Middleton – a year in dresses

As she turns 30 on January 9, she faces a new decade in which her life will transform yet again, in which she will undoubtedly become a mother and in which there is even a possibility that her husband might assume the throne.

The extensive refurbishments of the couple’s new apartments in Kensington Palace are nearing completion and they will move in later this year.

It will present the duchess with an opportunity to show the world even more of her personal sense of style, as well as an opportunity to decorate a nursery.

That’s just one of the enormous changes coming for Catherine, so it’s safe to say that her 30th birthday marks a new beginning for both herself and Prince William as they embark on their married life together.

Change has been Catherine’s constant companion ever since she became involved with the handsome prince as a student at the University of St Andrews in Scotland back in 2002.

Then, she was a reserved and mostly shy teenager — good at sport and undeniably beautiful but demure and content to keep in the background.

Those attributes explained some of the reasons why Prince William found her so attractive; she shunned the limelight as avidly as he did, right from the start.

Throughout the early years of their relationship she remained unfailingly discreet — even during their temporary separation in 2007 when William suffered his now infamous “wobble” — and in fact projected an image of strength and independence as she toured London’s nightclubs with her friends.

That self-assurance eventually brought William back to her.

She wasn’t always so confident. As a teenager, and distinctly more curvy than she is today, she was unremarkable, with a rounder, girlish face and dressing in shabby jeans and t-shirts.

It was on her gap year studying art in Florence that both her beauty and her self-confidence blossomed.

That transformation continued through her first year at university and by the time William fell in love with her — during a student fashion parade in which she wore a see-through dress — she had completely changed her personal sense of style, morphing into an elegant and contemporary young woman, albeit with a Prada/Sloane Ranger emphasis.

And she may well need that self-assurance. For many, turning 30 is a time for reflection, often about where life is taking you, what the future will be like and perhaps even whether you are heading in the right direction.

Many of the questions that Catherine will ask herself are the same questions that the rest of the world is already asking: How will her first child affect her life? What will parenthood be like? What will it be like to bring up a child as part of the Royal family? And will she be as happy as the wife of the heir to the throne as she thought she would?

In pictures: William, Kate and Harry dress to impress

As 2012 is the Queen’s Jubilee year, more eyes than ever will be on the royals, and it will be up to Catherine to make the role of Duchess of Cambridge her own.

She’s already proved her individuality by popping out to the supermarket for groceries — only time will tell what her legacy will be.

Read more of this story in the January issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

Your say: Do you think Kate is better-prepared for life as a princess than Diana was?

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Video: Is Kate Middleton hiding a baby bump?

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Beyonce Knowles and Jay-Z welcome baby girl

Beyonce Knowles has given birth to her first child, a daughter named Blue Ivy Carter.
Beyonce and Jay-Z in November.

Beyoncé Knowles has given birth to her first child, a daughter named Blue Ivy Carter.

The baby was born via scheduled caesarean section at Lenox Hill Hospital in New York City on Saturday night.

Beyoncé’s husband Jay-Z — real name Shawn Carter — was at her side during the birth and mother and baby are reportedly doing well.

The couple’s close friend Gwyneth Paltrow confirmed the baby’s name on Twitter, posting: “Welcome to the world Blue! We love you already”.

Gwyneth later clarified the baby’s full name, after a confused Twitter followed enquired about it. “It’s Blue Ivy Carter,” she wrote.

The baby’s middle name is thought to be in reference to Beyoncé and Jay-Z’s love of the number four.

They both have the Roman numeral for four, IV, tattooed on their wedding fingers.

Beyoncé’s birthday is on September 4, while Jay-Z’s is on December 4. Beyoncé’s latest album is called 4, and it’s her fourth studio album.

The ‘Blue’ could be in reference to Jay-Z’s Blueprint trilogy of albums.

Beyoncé, 30, and Jay-Z, 42, married in April, 2008.

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YouTube star Kristian loses his battle with cancer

Kristian Anderson

He inspired people all over the world with his moving YouTube clip, but Kristian Anderson was foremost a loving father, reports Michael Gadd.

Cancer sufferer Kristian Anderson became a household name when the heartfelt video he made as a tribute to his wife Rachel went viral.

The YouTube hit – which featured Rachel’s favourite actor, Hugh Jackman – inspired and moved millions, and even captured the attention of Oprah Winfrey.

Now the tributes are flowing in for Kristian himself. The brave father of two finally lost his two-year battle with bowel cancer, dying in his sleep at a Sydney hospital last week, at 36.

“His breaths got lighter and quieter, and then they just stopped and he was gone,” says Rachel, who was by his side to the end. “His passing was truly peaceful.”

Kristian’s legacy remains on YouTube, where more than 500,000 people have viewed his 2010 birthday message to Rachel, starring their young sons Cody, 5, and Jakob, 3, along with Hugh and NZ Prime Minister John Key.

To read about what Hugh Jackman and Oprah Winfrey have said about Kristian and how Rachel is helping her sons cope with their father’s death, get in this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale January 2, 2012.

Watch Kristian’s beautiful YouTube message to his wife Rachel at the top of this page. Kristian’s blog is at howthelightgetsin.net.

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Cruel Katy taunts Russell ‘You’re too boring!’

Katy Perry and Russell Brand

The bizarre truth behind the showbiz couple’s sudden split after just 14 months.

When Katy Perry wed Russell Brand in 2010, everyone wondered how a sweet young pop star could tame one of the showbiz world’s most notorious bad boys. But according to those closest to the couple, the problem that led to their shock divorce announcement late last month was quite the opposite – Katy, 27, wanted a life of wild partying, while Russell, 36, was the one who wanted to settle down and start a family.

“Katy needs to realise she brought this on herself,” reveals a fellow chart-topping singer who counts Katy as a close friend. “She’s been partying nonstop ever since she married Russell and she needs to calm down.”

Speaking exclusively to Woman’s Day on condition of anonymity, the pop star explains, “Katy is so paranoid that she is going to fall out of the limelight and is obsessed with being ‘the next Madonna’. Her life is a 24/7 whirlwind of social climbing and fame chasing. She’s partying with other celebrities until four in the morning every day of the week, whereas Russell would prefer a quiet dinner party or a date night for just the two of them. It’s a recipe for disaster.”

When Katy married the flamboyant comedian, who has confessed to heroin and sex addictions, she thought she had found her “partner in crime” – someone to fuel her wild, rebellious side. But to her horror, a now-sober Russell has spent the past 12 months trying to convince Katy to tame her behaviour. Last November, he even told Ellen DeGeneres, “I am very much looking forward to being a dad – soon I hope.”

Read more about the issues that have sparked furious rows between the couple and who will come out on top in the divorce settlement in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale January 9, 2012.

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Happy 30th Birthday Kate!

Kate Middleton

As the Duchess of Cambridge celebrates her birthday, biographer Katie Nicholl, author of The Making Of A Royal Romance, talks Kate, presents and the big 3-0!

Reaching 30 is a big deal for anyone, but for Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge, it’s a particularly significant birthday – her first as a fully fledged member of the royal family.

From her humble beginnings as the daughter of two former flight attendants, “commoner Kate”, and later “Waity Katie”, has become easily the most enchanting and talked-about member of The Firm since the late Diana, Princess of Wales.

While many had predicted Kate’s 30th birthday celebrations would coincide with a baby announcement, it seems the only declaration we can expect are which charities she’ll be taking on.

Starting a family is apparently on the backburner until later this year because of Prince William and his wife’s commitments during the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee and their role as ambassadors at the London Olympic Games.

Those who know the duchess well say Kate is happier than she has ever been – after all, she has her prince and is deeply in love. However, this week’s milestone may be tinged with disappointment, because Kate had always wanted a baby by this age.

“At school, Catherine was never one of those girls planning a career,” a friend reveals, speaking exclusively to Woman’s Day. “What she wanted was a family, and she always said she wanted a baby by the age of 30. It was something her mother, Carole, also believed was very important. But Kate has accepted things don’t always go to plan and she has too much on her plate for a baby at the moment.”

Read more about Kate Middleton’s 30th birthday celebrations and her plans for the coming months in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale January 9, 2012.

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