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Matilda Is Missing

Matilda Is Missing

Matilda Is Missing by Caroline Overington, Bantam Australia, $32.95.

It sounds like it could be dry and grueling content — a novel about a custody fight for a little girl from a family torn apart by divorce.

Yet Matilda Is Missing is so much more than that. It is a gripping and emotional tale of love and marriage — and why we do it at all!

As the book’s description reads — “Garry Hartshorn and Softie Monaghan were never love’s young dream. Not even on their wedding day. But Softie’s body clock was ticking and Garry wanted children …”

This is a very familiar tale for thirtysomethings, as declining fertility is never far from the headlines these days.

It raises the uncomfortable question: do we always really marry for love? This story of what really goes on inside families and marriages is compelling.

Author Caroline Overington obviously draws on her experience as a columnist for The Australian and writes elegantly and with emotion about the complex and not always fair workings of the Family Court.

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Lola’s Secret

Lola's Secret

Lola’s Secret by Monica McInerny, Penguin, $29.95.

Lola Quinlan’s 12-year-old great grand-daughter approvingly likens her to Lady Gaga; kitted out with panache in pink tights and leopard-print dress.

Family saga author Monica McInerney’s 84-year-old creation also loves the internet and slips in smiley emoticons on emails like they are going out of fashion.

Lola’s secret — a Christmas bash which backfires — spells out more life, love and laughter where best-selling The Alphabet Sisters left off.

McInerney’s cast of a thousand chatty voices are etched effortlessly and resonantly by the end of chapter two and have been described as “comfort reading” and “warm buttered toast”.

True, except McInerney’s painted protagonist is no pushover and there are no honey-dripped endings either.

This slice of life is crusty and tough, full of grains of truth: it is never too late to live, but you are never too old to learn.

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Demi and Ashton in happier times

Demi Moore has announced that she is filing for divorce, ending her six-year marriage to Ashton Kutcher.

The 49-year-old actress released a statement today, confirming she was ending the relationship with “great sadness and a heavy heart”.

The split comes two months after Ashton was accused of cheating on Demi on their six-year wedding anniversary.

Here are some pictures of Demi and Ashton in happier times.

Demi and Ashton exchange a loving look earlier this year.

The couple couldn’t keep their hands off each other last year.

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The couple looking very much in love in 2010.

Demi and Ashton whispering sweet nothings on the red carpet in October 2006.

Looking blissfully happy in August 2009.

Smiles all around in September 2009.

Demi and Ashton looking tense on the red carpet in October.

Demi’s weight has dropped dramtically since the scandal broke in September.

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Demi Moore announces divorce

Demi Moore announces divorce

After attempting to repair her marriage, Demi Moore has announced she is divorcing her husband of six years, Ashton Kutcher.

In a statement to Associated Press the 49- year-old said it was with a “heavy heart” that she announced the news.

“It is with great sadness and a heavy heart that I have decided to end my six-year marriage to Ashton,” she said in the statement.

“As a woman, a mother and a wife there are certain values and vows that I hold sacred, and it is in this spirit that I have chosen to move forward with my life.”

The pair’s marriage fell apart after claims that Ashton cheated on his wife with 22-year-old Sara Leal.

Ashton quickly followed his estranged wife’s statement by tweeting: “I will forever cherish the time I spent with Demi.”

He then took to his Chime.in page and wrote: “Marriage is one of the most difficult things in the world and unfortunately sometimes they fail. Love and light, AK.”

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The most shocking celebrity stories of 2011

It has been a big year! So, here are the most shocking celebrity stories of 2011.

Arnold Schwarzenegger’s love child

In May 2011, Arnold Schwarzenegger and his wife of 25 years announced their separation. Just a week later it emerged that the driving force behind their split was that Maria found out Arnold had fathered a secret love child with the family maid more than 10 years ago.

Read more: Maria Shriver heartbroken that Arnold fathered love child

Ashton caught cheating

When news broke that Aston Kutcher spent his six year wedding anniversary with two mystery blondes in a hot tub, it was clear Demi and Ashton weren’t happily married any more.

Following this news breaking Sara Leal, the woman who says she had sex with Kutcher on that night, opened up about her night with Ashton. Despite trying to work it out, Demi filed for divorce from Ashton a month later.

Read more: Sara Leal breaks her silence

Kim Kardashian’s 72-day marriage

It was dubbed “Hollywood’s royal wedding” but the marriage between reality queen Kim Kardashian and basket baller Kris Humphries only lasted 72 days.

In what turned into a media frenzy, Kim filed for divorce against Kris just before she landed in Australia for a number of media appearances, but left prematurely to work things out with Kris who was said to be “devastated” by the divorce.

Read more: Kim claims she made no money off her wedding

Mel’s rant at Oksana

In July 2011, voice mail messages and phone conversations between Mel Gibson and his former partner Oksana Grigorieva were leaked to the public.

In the exchanged between the pair Mel launches a number of insults towards Oksana saying that she “deserved” the beating she took because she was keeping their daughter away from him and ruining his career.

Read more: Listen to Mel’s rant here.

Justin Bieber’s paternity test

Mariah Laci Yeater claimed that pop star Justin Bieber was the father of her five-month-old son and issued court documents ordering a paternity test.

Justin strongly denied the reports and agreed to a DNA test. But Yeater revoked her suit against the singer after he said he would countersue if the results came back negative.

Charlie Sheen’s meltdown

Following a troubled year in 2010, Charlie Sheen’s downfall continued. In January 2011 he was admitted to hospital after complaining of severe abdominal pains. He then checked himself into rehab stopping production on his hit TV show Two and a Half Men.

Charlie was soon fired from the show after making all-out media assaults on his “Two and a Half Men” producers and began claiming that “tiger blood” flowed through his veins in an interview.

Read more: Why Denise stands by Charlie

Shane Warne proposes to Liz Hurley

Everyone was shocked when images emerged of cricket legend Shane Warne and Liz Hurley canoodling in the UK.

The pair who have since made their relationship well and truely public via Twitter, shocked everyone just as much when they announced their engagement.

Read more: Shane and Liz engaged!

Monaco wedding

When Prince Albert II of Monaco married 33-year-old South African Charlene Wittstock a national French newspaper,Le Journal du Dimanche reported that his bride tried to escape three times before the £55 million ($82 million) wedding took place.

Prince Albert, who already has two illegitimate children, also faced another paternity scandal at the time.

Read more: Monaco’s royal wedding

Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony split

While the public were shocked by the split between Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony, those close to the couple weren’t.

“Marc is very controlling. In the beginning she liked that because he stood up to her, and in the early days he was very much in love with her and she was with him,” J-Lo’s stylist Phillip Bloch.

Read more: Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony’s shock split

Lindsay Lohan’s jail time

Lindsay Lohan has had multiple trips to jail and rehab since 2007, and 2011 wasn’t any different with her starting it off in rehab and being accused of stealing a $2,500 necklace.

As part of her punishment for stealing the necklace the actress was sentenced to 360 hours community service, but failed to attend all of the community work, which resulted in a short stint in jail and more community service.

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Sofia Vergara told to reduce bust to be successful

Sofia Vergara told to have a breast reduction

Modern Family star Sofia Vergara.

Sofia Vergara is famous for her curvaceous body, but when she first moved to Los Angeles her publicist told her she needed a breast reduction if she wanted to be taken seriously.

The 39-year-old Modern Family star moved to the US from Colombia and tried to pursue a career in television.

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While most aspiring actresses get boob jobs to increase their assets, Sofia was told that she needed to have her DD bust reduced if she wanted to “make it”.

“When I moved to America, I was more voluptuous, and I felt a little different,” Sofia told the December issue of Health magazine.

“My publicist [at the time] told me, ‘I think you should just reduce your boobs because nobody’s going to take you seriously here’.”

Sofia said she seriously considered having her famous assets altered, but her mother convinced her that it was a terrible idea.

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“She was like, ‘God is going to punish you! You can’t cut your boobs!'” Sofia told the publication. “I don’t regret not doing it, because now it’s become a big part of my character on Modern Family.”

Your say: Do you think actresses should be pressured to have plastic surgery to be successful?

Video: Sofia Vergara discusses her famous body

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Demi and Ashton discuss marriage at Bruce Willis’ house

Demi and Ashton work on marriage at Bruce Willis' house

While they are yet to publicly speak about the breakdown of their marriage, it seems Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher have continued working on their relationship behind closed doors.

So where did the estranged spouses chose to meet to work over their problems? The pair escaped to Demi’s ex-husband, Bruce Willis’ holiday house in the Turks and Caicos Islands US magazine reports.

“Things have been very strained,” an unnamed source told the publication.

“[But] they’re trying to figure things out.”

The pair has kept a very low profile since it was revealed that Ashton spent the night with 22-year-old Sara Leal, who spoke openly about his infidelities and the night they spent together.

“They had to get away,” the unnamed source said.

“Ashton’s tweeting [about Penn State] was the last straw.”

Last week Ashton stood up for ousted Penn State football coach Joe Paterno, who was fired amidst a huge child-abuse sex scandal, without knowing full details of the story. He later apologised, but handed his Twitter account over to his management to run.

Do you think that Demi and Ashton can mend their marriage? Share your thoughts below.

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Soldier surprises parents

Soldier surprises parents

We usually see US soldiers returning from Afghanistan to surprise their children, but in this case National Guardsman First Lt Charles Jacobs surprised his parents.

The pair were being honoured with dropping the ceremonial opening puck at the Boston Bruins’ hockey game and didn’t know their son had just arrived home on leave.

The Bruins had arranged for them to be reunited which lead to an emotional surprise that brought everyone in the arena to tears.

“I just thought we were out there to be supporting family members, we didn’t think he’d be showing up. Didn’t think about it,” said Darron Jacobs, Charles’ father said.

“The listened to the announcement and it said they had someone to help us drop the puck … I don’t know what to say, it’s just [makes us] very happy.”

Watch the video of Charles Jacobs surprising his parents in the video player above.

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Princess Mary’s twins turn one!

Denmark’s littlest prince and princess celebrated their first birthday on Sunday with matching Eskimo cakes.

Crown Princess Mary’s youngest children Vincent and Josephine spent their big day at home at Amalienborg Palace in Copenhagen with their older siblings Christian, six, and Isabella, four.

An official photographer captured the family celebrating the occasion in a series of relaxed portraits.

Vincent and Isabella were born on Janaury 8, 2011, at Copenhagen’s Rigshospitalet.

Prince Vincent and Princess Josephine celebrate their first birthday.

A Danish royal family portrait from November 2011.

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The royal family at a photocall in Copenhagen in August 2011.

Prince Christian plays with Princess Josephine at a photocall in August 2011.

Prince Christian on his first day of nursery school in March 2007.

Prince Christian’s first day of nursery school in March 2007.

Frederik and Christian at a photocall in Denmark in August 2007.

Mary, Frederik and Christian at Isabella’s christening in July 2007.

Mary and a baby Isabella in May 2008.

Prince Christian on the royal yacht in June 2008.

Mary and Isabella on the royal yacht in June 2008.

Christian almost falls into a fountain in Hobart in August 2008.

Mary, Frederik, Christian and Isabella at Hobart Zoo in August 2008.

Mary and her family in Sydney in September 2008.

Mary messes around with Christian in Sydney in September 2008.

Mary cuddles Isabella in Sydney in September 2008.

Isabella learning to walk in Sydney in September 2008.

Isabella tries to escape the royal balcony at a function in April 2009.

Mary, Frederik and Christian at the wedding of Sweden’s Crown Princess Victoria in 2010.

The family at Vincent and Josephine’s christening in April 2011.

Christian and Isabella at the christening of their brother and sister in April 2011.

Mary and Frederik at Vincent and Josephine’s christening in April 2011.

Mary and Frederik take Christian to his first day of school in August 2011.

Christian couldn’t wait to get to his first class.

The royal family on Christian’s first day of school in August 2011.

Christian was obviously thrilled to be off to school.

Christian on his first day of school in August 2011.

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Get sun savvy

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We’re constantly reminded about the perils of the sun. Although crops wouldn’t grow, solar panels would be wasted and vitamin D in our skin would be deficient without it, the sun is often given a bad wrap.

Yet when we look at the irreversible damage it causes to our skin, we do need to make sure we protect ourselves from it at all times (and leave the solar panels to soak it up, not our skin).

What is sunburn?

The redness of the skin, what we call sunburn, is caused by surface blood vessels of the skin starting to dilate (similar to cheeks being made red by pinching) as a reaction to the UV radiation of the sun (specifically UVB rays). No doubt, your next question is, “What is the difference between UVA and UVB radiation?” UVA rays are the ageing rays and UVB the burning rays, and both are harmful to the skin.

Sun care must haves

The dark side of tanning

Gone are the days of the tan as a status symbol of the West (in the Middle East, India and many parts of Asia it is the opposite, with white skin symbolising a higher social status). These days, we are all on the hunt for products and services that will give us flawless, youthful skin.

One way to achieve this is to protect your skin every day by using a broad spectrum sunblock cream. Remember, though, that the sun doesn’t only affect you while on holidays/in a swimsuit/playing outdoors, so make sure you have a defence against it each time you leave the house. UVA rays (“A” for ageing) are also strong enough to penetrate glass, so don’t think that your skin is protected by the windscreen when you’re on a lovely Sunday drive.

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What does SPF mean?

We all know what it stands for – sun protection factor – but what does the number represent? Basically, if your skin can withstand 10 minutes in the sun without burning, then with an SPF15, for instance, your skin will last 15 times that – 150 minutes – in the sun before burning. With SPF30, it will last 30 times that – 300 minutes. However, this is only a guide because everyone’s skin reacts differently and the best choice is to wear sunblock whenever you go outside – and reapply it!

SPF30+ will filter out 97 per cent of the sun’s UV radiation, but in reality, it might be much less than this because we often do not apply sun cream correctly. The Cancer Institute of NSW recommends, as a guide, using a teaspoon-sized amount of sun cream on each arm, leg, front of body and back of body. The average adult needs around 7 teaspoons of sun cream to protect their whole body.

The best advice is to stay covered up. With so many cute caftans available, there is no reason you can’t cover up and look fabulous at the same time.

**Sun=1, You=0

** Even the best of us stumble and fall at the altar of the sun every now and then (hopefully not often) and end up with a bit of sunburn (perhaps you missed a spot with the sun cream or the water was just so nice that you forgot to get out and reapply).

The first thing to do if you are sunburned is to cool down by running a cool or cold bath or shower, to take the initial sting out of the burn, and drink lots of water. Next is to get some anti-oxidants onto your skin as soon as you can, such as a body lotion with vitamins A, E and C in it, spread liberally over your body. The anti-oxidants help resist the free radicals in your skin that have been awakened by too much exposure to sunlight.

The damage the free radicals are causing continues for up to 72 hours, so keep your skin well covered with anti-oxidants for as much of that time as possible.

Once the initial burn has started to go down, you can follow up with sun damage repair products (gels or sprays usually). Also take some vitamin C and E supplements to help your body keep up the fight against free radicals.

Fake it…

The best way to achieve the “I’ve just returned from summering on the Continent” sun-kissed look is artificially. There are so many fake tan products on the market that we’ve barely scratched the surface, but we’ve put together a few of our favourites. One thing to remember with fake tanning is skin preparation – it is essential. Otherwise, all the time you spend gloved up in front of the mirror, bending into awkward positions, will be wasted when your elbows and knees turn a bright white (because you didn’t exfoliate first).

Make-up

A full face of make-up at the beach is about as natural as nylon – not a good look. Let your skin breathe on the beach by cutting make-up down to the bare essentials – waterproof mascara and an SPF30+ tinted moisturiser for your face and body. The debate around tinted moisturiser is as old as the hills. Some swear by it, while others argue it is neither a good moisturiser nor a good foundation. Yet it is a safe way to keep some colour on your face while you’re hitting the waves or paddling in the pool.

Sun loving make-up

Lip smacking

Don’t forget your lips. Lips don’t tan, but they sure do burn. Make sure to reapply lip balm with SPF as often as you can. Each time you take a sip of water or get dumped by a wave (and get a mouthful of water), your lip balm gets washed off. So, when you reapply your sunblock, pop your lip balm on again.

Your say: What is your favourite suncare product? How do you make sure you are protected from the sun? What are we most likely to find in your beach bag?

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