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Family spends two years traveling Australia

When life in Townsville became too much, Chris and Claudia Bouma bought a trailer, packed up their three kids and spent two years travelling Australia.
Claudia Bouma and family

The sun was slowly setting and the rock walls of majestic Windjana Gorge in the Kimberley were ablaze with the most amazing colours.

Soon the sky was filled with numberless stars and, with our three children fast asleep, we just sat in front of our camper trailer absorbing the beauty and ruggedness of this remote destination in north-west Australia.

It is hard to believe that two years earlier my husband Chris and I had both hit rock bottom.

Working in Townsville as a carpenter was a drag, life was a routine and we didn’t have enough time to be together as a family.

So we planned a four-week camping holiday in far-north Queensland just to get away from it all and to re-evaluate our lifestyle.

Up at Cape Kimberley we chatted with a couple who had a four-year-old daughter and a six-month-old baby girl.

They had been travelling around Australia for almost four years — husband and wife were both nurses and could get work anywhere around the country.

They’d had the baby on the road as well; it just meant they stayed in one place longer.

It didn’t take us long to make up our minds. We had always dreamt of going on the big trip around Australia, but we figured we needed to save up tons of money before we could go.

Now we started planning for a two-year working holiday around Australia. Suddenly we were filled with hope and excitement — life was going to be an adventure!

We figured we would need a year to get the right gear together and to save enough money to keep us going for at least four months before we had to find work.

First things first: We had to buy a camper trailer. We already had a suitable 4X4 with aftermarket suspension, long-range fuel tank, snorkel, bullbar, cargo barrier and a roof rack.

Fortunately Chris and I both believe in keeping things simple so all we wanted was a basic off-road camper trailer without too many extras.

Our reasoning was that having less gadgets would mean fewer things to break. And a big reason for going on this two-year trip was for simplicity, so we could enjoy life without getting distracted by too much stuff.

An off-road camper trailer was the obvious choice. We wanted to visit remote places and needed decent living space as we would be travelling with our two-and-a-half year-old son, Shannon, and our 15-month-old daughter Chantelle.

Within a month of coming back from our holiday we looked at a second-hand off-road trailer and bought it for $7500.

With a 2.7m tent and annexe it was spacious enough for two adults and two kids. The two-burner stove with grill and a kitchen box were basic but would suffice.

Chris then made an extension to the kitchen bench so we would have plenty of room to prepare meals. We also bolted a heavy-duty toolbox to the drawbar; this would be the storage spot for our generator, pegs, guy ropes and, of course, tools.

We had electric brakes installed because safety comes first with kids in the back.

The fridge was our biggest challenge. Initially we trialled a heavy-duty icebox during a three-week trip to Cape York, but we soon got jack of cleaning the thing and, really, by the time you added your ice there wasn’t that much space for food and drinks.

We started shopping around for a car fridge but were horrified by the prices, and the fact that they had to run on power pretty much all the time.

Bush camping is our preferred way of camping however you can’t run a generator in a lot of places (especially SA and WA) so we opted for a three-way Primus fridge which we could run on gas while in the bush.

The thing isn’t big but it can stock a one-week supply of vacuum-sealed meat, two litres of long-life milk, veggies for seven meals and a one-litre carton of juice.

Simple but sufficient and the best thing is that you never have to worry about recharging batteries.

During road trips the fridge goes in the trailer and we connect the fridge to the second car battery with an Anderson plug. We used the fridge for 2.5 years and it never missed a beat. The best part was the price: it only cost us $299!

Sleeping arrangements were the next challenge. A camp mattresses or airbed might be okay for a long weekend away but for a two-year odyssey we decided that we wanted as much comfort as possible.

We ended up putting our own mattress on the camper trailer and Chris built timber double bunks for the kids that could come apart to be packed on top of our bed. This meant that the kids could sleep on their own mattress as well.

Just when we thought that we had the car and the rig sorted, something unexpected happened … with only six months to go until our proposed departure date we had the biggest surprise of our lives: we found out we were pregnant with our third baby!

Of course we were very happy because we had both said that we would love to have a third child. However, we weren’t too sure about the timing.

After adjusting our expectations we decided to still go on the trip, five months later than originally planned. Now it’s amazing how much stuff you have to bring for such a little person but Chris figured out a way to accommodate the double pram, baby carrier, porta cot with foam mattress and all the other things that come with a baby.

The only other issue was the fact that the lease on our rental house finished six months before we were planning to leave.

This problem was easily fixed; we packed all our furniture into a shipping container (which we bought) and lived in our camper trailer until we were ready to head off on our big adventure.

Friends of ours generously offered to let us camp at their property outside Townsville for as long as we needed to.

In September 2008 little Hannah Jane was born (in hospital, not in the camper trailer!) and 10 weeks later we spent our last night in Townsville.

I cannot describe to you the sense of elation and excitement when we finally set out to explore this amazing country with our newly expanded family.

It felt like we had a new lease on life. There were places to see, people to meet and memories to be made. It felt so incredibly good to be on the road and to be living out our big dream, there is absolutely nothing like it.

Initially we didn’t have any travel plans and we would look for a place to stay when we rocked up to a town or national park.

This approach soon lost its appeal because you get sick of driving around to find somewhere to pitch the tent with three kids whining in the back.

So we started planning ahead with the help of the Camps 4 book as well as the RACQ Tourist Park Guide and, of course, the laptop computer with wireless broadband to surf the internet.

After our first four weeks of travel Chris and I realised that we were exhausted from setting up and packing up every three days or so.

The days that we stayed put, we still sat in the 4X4 doing a day trip of some sort. Life was anything but relaxing and it was time to put the brakes on.

Our minimum stay in most places was going to be five days and we would limit our day trips to just one or two during each stay (or none if we felt like doing absolutely nothing).

We decided that we would drive for no more than two or three hours to get to a different camping spot and we would have the destination picked out before taking off.

It worked! Chris and I started to feel more relaxed and the kids were a lot happier too because they actually had time to play and muck around in the bush.

During our two years on the road we spoke to many other couples and families who found it a challenge to balance sightseeing and relaxing at the campsite.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking that seeing more places equals a better trip; the opposite can be true.

Even though we had two years to trip around Oz, we still had to make choices in terms of where we wanted to go and what we wanted to see.

To put it into perspective, we met people who had been travelling for 10 years and they still hadn’t seen everything.

In fact, the more you see, the more you realise you haven’t seen. Chris and I came up with a list of places we both wanted to see; fortunately we were keen to see the same spots so we didn’t have too many arguments about trip planning.

On the top of our list was the Flinders Ranges, followed by the Kimberley, the WA coast, the Gulf and outback Queensland.

We decided that the first year we would go via Flinders Ranges, through the Red Centre to Darwin, find a job there for a couple of months, and then take the Gibb River Road to Broome and down the west coast to Perth.

The only deadline we had was to be back in country Victoria to spend Christmas with the family.

The second year we could travel to Tassie, the Gulf and explore outback Queensland and maybe country New South Wales.

The first year went pretty much as planned. I found an admin job at Darwin International Airport for three months and I loved every minute of it.

The kids enjoyed staying put for three months but we were all itching to leave when the weather started to warm up and everybody else around us started packing up. It was time for more adventure!

The Gibb River Road through the Kimberley was so amazing that we decided we would go back the next year.

We also missed out on the Bungle Bungles so that went on our list too. The distances down the west coast of WA were massive which meant a lot more time on the road but places like Exmouth and Denham were definitely worth it.

Still, we were happy to get as far south as Kalbarri where the distances became shorter and more manageable.

By the time we reached Perth we had clocked up 15,000km and our car never missed a beat.

The south-west coast of WA is simply awesome and this is one area where we would love to go back to one day.

Crossing the Nullarbor, however, was long and nothing we desire to do again any time soon.

Before we knew it our first year of travelling had come to an end and we started planning for the second.

We worked out an itinerary for the first five months as we knew exactly where we wanted to go.

Tassie was fantastic; we had beautiful weather and we bush camped for five weeks, apart from a couple of nights in a Hobart caravan park.

Back on the mainland, I couldn’t wait to go back to Wilpena Pound, in the Flinders Ranges; this is one place you have to experience for yourself.

The previous year we’d run out of time to see Arkaroola. You must see Arkaroola at least once in your lifetime; its ruggedness and remoteness make for a memorable Aussie camping trip.

We drove the Oodnadatta Track and made a detour to the Painted Desert, a place for glorious sunrises and sunsets.

Up the Red Centre for the second time with a stop at the Devil’s Marbles and back to Kununurra in WA to prepare for another Gibb River Road journey.

Chris and I had both been looking forward to camping in the Bungle Bungles and we were not disappointed.

Our second Gibb River Road adventure was even better than the first because we knew what to expect.

Our adventure in the Gulf almost came to a premature end due to a broken alternator which got fixed in the middle of nowhere at a tiny town called Borroloola in the Northern Territory.

We travelled for many kilometres without seeing another car or human being and we loved every minute of it.

After the isolation of the Gulf we experienced the tropical Atherton Tablelands. Camping in the rainforest was a new experience and our canvas tent didn’t like the damp conditions.

Charters Towers was a great town to learn about gold, greed and ghosts.

The last leg of our trip took us through outback Queensland, via Winton, Longreach, Ilfracombe and Barcaldine where we heard stories about Aussie pioneers and the history of the great Aussie poem ‘Waltzing Matilda’.

We were flooded out in Carnarvon Gorge and became stuck there due to rising floodwaters.

Our last stop was Charleville in outback Queensland where we dried out from our experience in Carnarvon Gorge and prepared to go back to country Victoria to live in the house that we purchased during our second year of travelling.

At the end of two years we had travelled 55,000km and stayed in 120 different campsites.

Would I do it again? Yes. Our two-year trip was the most amazing experience in our lives so far.

Life was simple, the kids were happy (they still are!), we enjoyed every single day and the memories last a lifetime.

Don’t wait for the right moment to come along to live out your own dream of hooking up the camper trailer or caravan and travelling around Oz.

Someone once said that people have more regrets about the things they didn’t do than some of the things they did. Just make sure you are not one of them.

For more great stories on family-friendly off-road adventures, see the latest issue of 4X4 Australia out now

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Weekend art trips: where to go and what to see

Spectacular arts events are becoming a powerful new catalyst in travel Down Under encouraging Australians to take weekend breaks away.
The art of travelling

Canberra’s Renaissance

National Gallery of Australia, Parks Place, Canberra (until April 9th)

When the walls of an established art gallery need a lick of paint or two there can be surprising consequences.

First, we witnessed the Masterpieces From Paris exhibition attract a record number of visitors at Canberra’s NGA when the Mus&eacutee d’Orsay closed for renovations in 2010.

Currently, another blockbuster, Renaissance, is pulling in the crowds, while the Accademia Carrara, in Bergamo, undergoes a refit.

Leaving Italy for the first time in almost 500 years, the 70 works of religious art include masterpieces by Raphael, Bellini, Botticelli, Titian and Giovanni and are guaranteed to stir the soul.

In a bid to bring these masterpieces to Canberra, NGA director Ron Radford first wrote to the Bergamo museum before playing his trump card.

“Negotiations had been going on for over three years, but it wasn’t getting very far until I turned up on their doorstep,” he says.

“It was a big mind shift to have so many of their treasures come all the way to Australia.”

Renaissance promises a once-in-a-lifetime glimpse into the 15th and 16th-century flowering of Italian art that would otherwise require an airfare to Europe to see.

Masterpieces From Paris had 500,000 visitors. To date, Renaissance’s audience is 75 percent interstate, which just goes to show that art is a powerful force in travel.

Tickets available from Ticketek. For more information, visit the National Gallery of Australia website.

Sydney’s open-air opera

La Traviata on Sydney Harbour, Royal Botanical Gardens, Sydney (March 24-April 7)

It’s a first for Sydney Harbour — a gigantic chandelier, measuring nine metres by nine metres, suspended above the waters of Farm Cove in The Royal Botanical Gardens.

Under this sparkling colossus, one of world’s most romantic operas will unfold on a floating stage with the Harbour Bridge and the Opera House as backdrop.

Verdi’s La Traviata — the story of a 19th century Parisian courtesan who sacrifices all for her well-heeled lover — is one of the most accessible operas ever staged.

The title role of Violetta will be shared by Emma Matthews and Rachelle Durkin and the daring sets come from Brian Thomson, whose projects include Priscilla, Queen of the Desert and the Sydney Olympic and Melbourne Commonwealth Games ceremonies.

Audiences will watch this extravaganza from a 3000-seat grandstand erected next to Fleet Steps.

Extensive catering facilities that include a waterside trattoria, a Parisian-style salon dining room, food stalls and bars will cater for the 60,000 punters that promoters are anticipating during the three-week run.

Staged by Handa Opera and Destination NSW on behalf of the NSW Government, it is hoped this open-air spectacular will attract tourists worldwide.

Tickets available fromTicketmaster. For more information, visit Opera on Sydney Harbour.

Picture credits: Saint Michael from Scanzo polyptych by Bartolomeo Vivarini, Accademia Carrara, Bergamo. Australian Ballet dancer in pool by Andrea Francolini. Costume sketches for La Traviata by Tess Schofield, courtesy of Handa Opera. Walter Pavilion, courtesy of MONA.

Ballet in the Whitsundays

Australian Ballet at Qualia, Hamilton Island, Whitsundays, Queensland (November 16-18)

The “Cuban Stallion” brings a Nureyev moment to the stage as he leaps across the stage with such power the audience gasp convinced the young dancer will end up in the waters of the Whitsunday Passage.

The dancer is Yosvani Ramos, a principal with Australian Ballet, who is performing a scene from Don Quixote on a temporary stage in front of the same stretch of water Captain Cook navigated in 1770.

To see a world-class ballet company perform outside an auditorium is rare. To see one perform on a paradise island is very rare indeed.

And yet, 2011 saw artistic director David McAllister bring four of his principal dancers, make-up artists, wardrobe et al to Hamilton Island’s Qualia, the upmarket resort and first stop of Oprah Winfrey’s tour Down Under.

As Yosvani Ramos takes his bow, the sun is setting over the turquoise waters of the Whitsunday Passage.

Next on stage is a scene from The Merry Widow and by the time the Swan Lake finale begins, the Milky Way is lighting up in the sky.

For ballet aficionados, the weekend is a must. Besides the gala night performance, there’s relaxed schedule of ballet events, including a spirited question-and-answer session with the dancers, a talk by David McAllister and guest (Graeme Murphy, former Sydney Dance Company director, was the 2011 attraction), a champagne cocktail party and five-course dinner, where guests mingle with company members, and the chance to watch the dancers in rehearsal.

Everything anyone could want to know about life on points is just a question away during the Pas de Deux in Paradise weekend.

2012 sees the Australian Ballet return to Hamilton (November 16-18) to mark its fifth year at Qualia and its 50th anniversary as a company.

For those who want to treat themselves and celebrate, maybe a significant anniversary, the Pas de Deux in Paradise weekend is perfect.

For more information, visit the Hamilton Island website.

Underground art in Hobart

MONA — Museum of Old and New Art, Hobart (Open seven days a week)

Where can you find a king-size bed in a giant glass cube with edgy art on the walls and one of Australia’s most audacious galleries on your doorstep? MONA in Hobart has it all and much more.

Thanks to gambling millionaire David Walsh, the Apple Isle boasts a provocative $200 million collection of artworks dating from 100BC to the 21st century in a subterranean gallery in an old sandstone quarry.

Works by Brett Whiteley, Sydney Nolan, Damien Hirst and Jean-Michel Basquiat are artfully displayed next to treasures from the Ancient world and contemporary installations.

Dismiss any thoughts of gloomy tunnels and dripping stalactites. Instead, imagine airy three-storey high caverns with spectacular lighting, futuristic display areas and high-speed glass-fronted lifts.

Above ground among a stand of trees next to the Derwent River are four accommodation pavilions named after four famous Australian artists.

Further up the river bank are four other pavilions dedicated to leading 20th century architects.

Walsh has filled these with art treasures and furniture by leading contemporary designers, such as Philippe Starck, Ron Arad and Filippo Dell’Orto.

Three of the four “Architect” pavilions are glass cubes sheathed in steel. The Walter pavilion, named after Walter Burley Griffin, who designed Canberra, pays homage to the A-frame house. All four have spectacular views of the Derwent River.

The four “Artist” pavilions of wood and steel with their Japanese-style interiors have cantilevered decks over the river.

A minute’s walk away is MONA’s Source Restaurant, open for breakfast, lunch and dinner, and wine tastings are available at Walsh’s Moorilla Winery next door.

MONA provides a one-stop destination — perfect for an indulgent weekend away, where visitors can stay in style, enjoy fine food and wine and be challenged by some of the world’s edgiest art.

For those who want to stay in Hobart, ferries depart and return from Victoria Dock every half hour.

For more information, visit the MONA website.

Picture credits: Saint Michael from Scanzo polyptych by Bartolomeo Vivarini, Accademia Carrara, Bergamo. Australian Ballet dancer in pool by Andrea Francolini. Costume sketches for La Traviata by Tess Schofield, courtesy of Handa Opera. Walter Pavilion, courtesy of MONA.

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Support tragic celebrity chef Matt Golinski

Survivor Matt Golinski

Matt Golinski alongside a picture of his late wife and three children.

On Boxing Day 2011, celebrity chef Matt Golinski lost his wife and three daughters when a fire devastated their family home.

Matt survived the fire, but sustained third degree burns to 40 percent of his body. He was unconscious for weeks and only recently learned of his family’s fate.

Now, Matt’s colleagues and friends — including MasterChef stars George Calombaris, Manu Feildel and Gary Mehigan — have banded together to create ‘Plates for Mates’, a nationwide fundraiser.

Money raised will go to the Matt Golinski Recovery Fund Trust, to fund Matt’s emotional and physical recovery.

A portion of the proceeds will also go to The McComb Research Foundation, a charitable organisation set up by former Australian of the Year Dr Fiona Wood to aid burns research.

Plates for Mates asks food industry businesses across Australia to devise simple fundraising activities during the months of April.

Suggested activities include asking every customer to donate one dollar, asking staff to donate their tips, creating special dinner events or adding 20 cents to the price of a coffee or cocktail.

You can help by encouraging your favourite restaurant or café to participate or by making a direct donation via the Plates for Mates website.

Video: Memorial held for Matt Golinski’s wife and daughters

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Beyoncé and Blue Ivy take a stroll

New mum Beyoncé Knowles was all smiles as she strolled through New York with her two-month old daughter Blue Ivy and her mum Tina Knowles.

Looking slim in a pair of patterned pants, the 30-year-old singer was relaxed as she chatted with her mum and held baby Blue close to her chest.

It seems the trio are certainly spending some quality time together, after visiting Brooklyn’s Prospect Park earlier this week.

“It seemed like a family day! They were chilling,” an eyewitness told Us Weekly.

Beyoncé with her mum Tina Knowles and Blue Ivy.

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Real life story: “I became a stripper to pay my way through university”

Nightclub stripper

True confession:

The year of my 21st was the worst year of my life. I had been dealt a double blow six months earlier, when my beautiful dad passed away from stomach cancer and my long-time boyfriend broke up with me.

Things were financially stretched as I struggled to get myself through my vet science degree. I was utterly exhausted as I juggled uni with working nights teaching aerobics classes in gyms across Brisbane.

To make matters worse my over-bearing mother had switched into over-drive and we fought constantly.

Things came to a climax between my mother and I when the sprinkler sprayed water through the window and somehow managed to land on the computer just as I finished a 3000 word assignment. It was nobody’s fault but the tension caused another huge row with Mum and I knew that I had to move out before we killed each other.

I spent the next few days plotting my escape but $25 for the occasional aerobics class was not going to support me and I needed to earn some real money very quickly.

As luck would have it, a solution appeared almost immediately. A friend of mine had arranged for me to meet up with a DJ at a local nightclub one Monday afternoon. The DJ was going to mix tapes that I could use for my aerobics classes.

I had never been to this particular club before. I knew that it stayed open later than most of the clubs in the area and had a pretty sleazy reputation.

It turned out to be a fantastic afternoon. The club had a huge music library and it was great fun mixing up Billy Ocean, Duran Duran and several big artists of the ’80s to create the most dynamic aerobics music that had been played in a long time. The DJ also helped himself to the bar and after three Coronas many of my worries seemed very far away.

“You know you could get a job here and earn five times what you make at gyms?” the DJ told me.

I was surprised that working at a bar could pay so well.

“Well you could earn $80 for four hours behind the bar or $350 for an hour’s work.” He was talking about stripping of course. I wasn’t overly naive but had no idea that this particularly club turned itself into a strip joint each Saturday night.

I don’t know if it was the Coronas, the desperation of the situation or the lavish compliments that the DJ kept paying me, but the idea was very appealing.

I had in fact been a dancer all through primary and high school and one main point of contention between my mother and I was that I had given it up. If only she knew. And $350 a week was enough to get me my own place easily. I was in!

The preparation was remarkably simple. I had numerous outfits from dancing and just needed to add some strategically placed velcro.

The DJ was a huge help. Thrilled to have someone he could mentor, together we worked out a dazzling routine to Janet Jackson’s “Black Cat” that culminated in me pouring water over my semi-naked body from a cat’s saucer. Intrigued by the money and creative side, I totally lost focus of how sleazy my routine really was.

The night of my stripping debut arrived quickly and I was very pumped about the direction my life was taking. I strutted on to the stage like I owned it and except for one minor hitch — when I almost slipped on my discarded cat ears — the routine went off very well and was fantastically received.

Clad in only a pair of bejewelled undies, I collected my props and made my way off stage, when one enthusiastic punter caught my eye. There in the corner perched on a bar stool was my grade 11 maths teacher.

His name was Mr Right but we had always called him Mr Wrong because he was constantly hugging the senior girls trying to get a look down their shirts. I, a girl who prided herself on being good, had just given him the complete show. Worst still, what would my beloved Dad think?

My stripping career began and ended on that bizarre Saturday night. I toughed it out at home with my mum and eventually qualified as a vet.

Now 12 years later I am married with two sons. My husband, a school deputy principal, would be horrified if he knew what I had done.

As for my sons, I try and teach them to treasure and respect woman.

Sometimes we see Mr Right out and about in the local area and it may be my guilty conscience but I am sure he winks at me. He still seems to be the same sleazy man he always was. I just hope he can keep a secret.

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Michael Jackson’s kids looking all grown up

Michael Jackson loved Peter Pan and wished he didn’t have to grow up, but nothing seems to be able to stop his eldest son from morphing from child to adult.

Prince Michael I, 15, was almost unrecognisable when he took his sister Paris to the movies in Calabasas yesterday.

Prince seems to have gone from boy to man overnight and Paris is not far behind, looking much older than her 13 years.

Prince and Paris are the King of Pop’s kids with his former wife Debbie Rowe. Michael also had another son Prince Michael II – known as ‘Blanket’ – who is the child of an unknown mother.

Prince Michael I seems to have shot up overnight.

Prince went to the movies with his sister Paris, 13.

Paris is also growing up fast, becoming quite a beautiful young woman.

Paris and Prince in January this year.

Prince has grown several centimetres since this photo call in January.

Prince, Paris and Blanket Jackson paying tribute to their dad in October 2011.

The kids at their father’s memorial service in 2009.

The kids with their late father in an undated family snap.

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The stars who hate Botox

Nicole Kidman

Although plastic surgeon experts say Nicole Kidman has had work done, she has only ever admitted to Botox, telling German magazine Interview that she has tried many things to combat ageing.

“I’ve tried a lot of things but apart from working out and a good diet most things don’t help,” she said.

“I even tried Botox but I didn’t like how my face looked afterward. Now I don’t use it anymore — and I can move my forehead again.”

Jennifer Aniston

Jennifer Aniston told Instyle magazine that she didn’t use injectables as much as people think and that she wasn’t all that impressed with how the procedure made her look.

“People think that I do a lot of injections, but I don’t. I’m not saying that I haven’t tried it … but I see how it’s a slippery slope. All that cosmetic stuff looks ridiculous on me.”

Kerry Katona

Despite criticising Dannii Minogue for having Botox, Kerry Katona admitted to New! magazine that she had the procedure done. Although she tried it, Kerry said she was “terrified” to have it done.

“I’ve had a bit on my forehead. I was worried sick about having it as I didn’t want to look weird,” she said.

Rachel Weisz

Oscar-winning actress Rachel Weisz is so against Botox she suggest that it be banned.

“It should be banned for actors, as steroids are for sportsmen,” she told UK Harper’s Bazar.

“Acting is all about expression; why would you want to iron out a frown?”

Joan Collins

Joan Collins has always maintained that she has not experimented with plastic surgery, but in a recent interview with Glamour magazine she admitted to having Botox.

“I had it once in my forehead and it hurt like hell,” she said.

“Plus, you see all these plastic surgery nightmares these days. I have girlfriends who’ve had Botox and been left with lumps in their faces. And the lips, don’t even get me started.”

Courteney Cox

Courteney Cox admitted to Botox telling Marie Claire magazine that she tried it and hated it.

“I went to this doctor once and he was like, ‘Oh, let me do it just here and here and here.’ And I was miserable. I mean, I’m an actor, I’ve got to be able to move my face.”

Cindy Crawford

Supermodel Cindy Crawford has admitted to having had Botox, but said that it “scared” her.

“Because people have such expectations of what they are going to find when they see me, that brings added pressure to fight the ageing process,” she told Piers Morgan.

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The most stylish celebrity kids

They may be small but these tiny tots are certainly following in their parents’ fashionable footsteps.

From those who are getting a helping hand from mum, like Flynn, who recently stepped out in matching Velcro sneakers to his model mum Miranda Kerr, to those who are discovering their own style, like Suri Cruise and Coco Arquette, these celebrity kids are one stylish bunch.

Whether they are dressing themselves or not, these kids are certainly on trend!

Flick through our favourite mini celebrity fashionistas here.

Miranda Kerr and her son Flynn wear matching sneakers.

Aussie Actress Isla Fisher with her adorable daughter Olive.

Suri Cruise has long been considered a mini fashionista, and this outfit says it all!

Being part of the Kardashian Klan, Mason Disick must have style in his genes.

It’s hard to tell who is more stylish, Kingston Rossdale or his mum Gwen Stefani.

Although Pink’s daughter is still a tiny tot, we think she going to be one stylish kid.

With Victoria Beckham for a mum, there’s no doubt Harper will have a sense of style!

Courteney Cox’s daughter Coco is all about accessories. We love her double necklaces.

Brange’s twins Vivienne and Knox not only match each other but mum and dad too.

Jennifer Garner’s daughter Violet is very on trend in stripes and happy to show them off too.

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Raquel Welch: “Sex is overrated”

The image of Raquel Welch in a fur bikini is burnt into the brains of a whole generation of men, but the women herself thinks sex is "overrated".
Raquel Welch at 71.

The image of Raquel Welch in a fur bikini is burnt into the brains of a whole generation of men, but the women herself thinks sex is “overrated”.

In an interview that is certain to disappoint her legions of male admirers, the 71-year-old actress has criticised the insatiable libidos of modern men, saying sex has become something mundane and distinctly unsexy.

“I think we’ve gotten to the point in our culture where we’re all sex addicts, literally,” Raquel told the current issue of US Men’s Health magazine.

“We have equated happiness in life with as many orgasms as you can possibly pack in, regardless of where it is that you deposit your love interest.”

Raquel blames pornography for turning men into slobbering messes interested only in ‘plastic’ women and ‘prefabricated’ encounters.

Proper sex, she says, is all about mystery and sensual daydreams, unspoiled by a graphic play-by-play downloaded from the internet.

“It’s just dehumanising and I have to honestly say, I think this era of porn is at least partially responsible for it,” she said.

“It’s all prefab now … so plastic and phony. It’s an exploitation of the poor male’s libidos. Poor babies, they can’t control themselves.

“I don’t care if I’m becoming one of those old fogies who says, ‘Back in my day we didn’t have to hear about sex all the time’. My fantasies were all made up on my own. They’re ruining us with all the explanations and the graphicness.”

Raquel shot to international fame when she played a sexy cavewoman in a fur bikini in 1966 hit in One Million Years BC.

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Why airbrushing can’t be banned

Why airbrushing can't be banned

It has never been easy to be a teenage girl. But it has never been harder than it is today.

Young women have always felt insecure about the way they look and their place in the world.

But when you throw modern-day pressures into the mix — 10-year-olds pouting on the cover of Vogue, perverts stalking Facebook, simulated sex on video clips — you have a generation desperately needing understanding, support and guidance from its elders.

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Never before have girls been sexualised so young. Toddlers are being paraded in beauty pageants. Sexy clothes are being marketed to “tweens”. Teenagers are saving up to have breast implants, liposuction, nose jobs.

Girls are shaving all their pubic hair off in year seven. Sending nude pictures is the new flirting for kids as young as 12. Boys are getting their sex education from online porn.

These aren’t easy issues to address. We need smart education, strong parenting — and we need to set good examples.

One of the things that most worries young women is their body image. A Mission Australia survey of people aged 11 to 24 found girls were more concerned about the way they look than anything else.

As adults, we forget how crippling this insecurity can be. The older you get, the more you understand that it’s impossible to look like a stick-figure on a fashion magazine cover, and the less you want to anyway.

You realise you’re lucky if your body is healthy, even if you would still like to lose 5 kilos. But teenage girls are still learning about the world, and their place in it.

The messages that it’s all about size comes from a million bewildering angles; advertising, fashion photos, music clips, weight-obsessed celebrities, boyfriends, mothers. It’s impossible to put these things into perspective when you’re in the insecure haze of adolescence.

There is no simple solution, just small steps in the right direction. That’s why I agreed to chair the Positive Body Image Awards.

The awards recognise businesses in media, entertainment, fashion and advertising industries for their efforts to send a positive message to young women between 12 and 25.

It is not a solution. But recognising those who make an effort and set a good example can keep key players in this area aware of the issues and reward businesses that do the right thing.

I know readers want change. They demand less airbrushing and more real women. And we would love to be able to deliver this to them every month. But it’s not that simple.

Firstly, many celebrities insist on having their photographs retouched. Some will not allow their pictures to be used without it.

Many photographers insist, understandably, on carrying out their own retouching. Since I have been at The Weekly, only two have embraced the idea of no retouching.

In one case, Sarah Murdoch, she was then criticised. Mia Freedman was the other. But it’s impossible to find a picture of an overseas celebrity that hasn’t been retouched.

Secondly, while women might ask for honest photographs, they buy beautiful ones.

On a stand full of international magazines, we compete with Vanity Fair, Italian Vogue and dozens of others. They all use Photoshop. People want to buy magazines with dazzling covers.

Magazines are often in the firing line on Photoshop, but they are not the only culprits. Advertisers do it. Film and television do it. Newspaper photos are often adjusted to make the colours more dramatic.

News and lifestyle websites use retouched images, often without knowing, because they have bought them from a photo agency.

The technology is so accessible, any of us can air brush our own photographs.

The genie is out of the bottle when it comes to Photoshop and some argue where do you draw the line? Why not ban makeup, soft lighting, Botox and boob jobs as well?

But I believe there is a case for using the technology more responsibly.

At The Weekly when we retouch photographs we do it lightly. Whenever we alter an image, we declare it on the page, and we encourage celebrities to accept lightly touched images.

I know that’s not going far enough for some people. But magazines (like fashion) are a business.

When Peter Garrett asked me what could be done to reduce the body issues of young women, I didn’t have the answer. I still don’t.

But I am aware that the decisions we make do have an influence on young lives.

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Helen McCabe is editor in chief of the Australian Women’s Weekly and the chair of the Body Image Awards.

Your say: What do you think we can do to improve body image among young women?

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