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Raquel Welch: “Sex is overrated”

The image of Raquel Welch in a fur bikini is burnt into the brains of a whole generation of men, but the women herself thinks sex is "overrated".
Raquel Welch at 71.

The image of Raquel Welch in a fur bikini is burnt into the brains of a whole generation of men, but the women herself thinks sex is “overrated”.

In an interview that is certain to disappoint her legions of male admirers, the 71-year-old actress has criticised the insatiable libidos of modern men, saying sex has become something mundane and distinctly unsexy.

“I think we’ve gotten to the point in our culture where we’re all sex addicts, literally,” Raquel told the current issue of US Men’s Health magazine.

“We have equated happiness in life with as many orgasms as you can possibly pack in, regardless of where it is that you deposit your love interest.”

Raquel blames pornography for turning men into slobbering messes interested only in ‘plastic’ women and ‘prefabricated’ encounters.

Proper sex, she says, is all about mystery and sensual daydreams, unspoiled by a graphic play-by-play downloaded from the internet.

“It’s just dehumanising and I have to honestly say, I think this era of porn is at least partially responsible for it,” she said.

“It’s all prefab now … so plastic and phony. It’s an exploitation of the poor male’s libidos. Poor babies, they can’t control themselves.

“I don’t care if I’m becoming one of those old fogies who says, ‘Back in my day we didn’t have to hear about sex all the time’. My fantasies were all made up on my own. They’re ruining us with all the explanations and the graphicness.”

Raquel shot to international fame when she played a sexy cavewoman in a fur bikini in 1966 hit in One Million Years BC.

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Why airbrushing can’t be banned

Why airbrushing can't be banned

It has never been easy to be a teenage girl. But it has never been harder than it is today.

Young women have always felt insecure about the way they look and their place in the world.

But when you throw modern-day pressures into the mix — 10-year-olds pouting on the cover of Vogue, perverts stalking Facebook, simulated sex on video clips — you have a generation desperately needing understanding, support and guidance from its elders.

In pictures: Beauties who have banned airbrushing

Never before have girls been sexualised so young. Toddlers are being paraded in beauty pageants. Sexy clothes are being marketed to “tweens”. Teenagers are saving up to have breast implants, liposuction, nose jobs.

Girls are shaving all their pubic hair off in year seven. Sending nude pictures is the new flirting for kids as young as 12. Boys are getting their sex education from online porn.

These aren’t easy issues to address. We need smart education, strong parenting — and we need to set good examples.

One of the things that most worries young women is their body image. A Mission Australia survey of people aged 11 to 24 found girls were more concerned about the way they look than anything else.

As adults, we forget how crippling this insecurity can be. The older you get, the more you understand that it’s impossible to look like a stick-figure on a fashion magazine cover, and the less you want to anyway.

You realise you’re lucky if your body is healthy, even if you would still like to lose 5 kilos. But teenage girls are still learning about the world, and their place in it.

The messages that it’s all about size comes from a million bewildering angles; advertising, fashion photos, music clips, weight-obsessed celebrities, boyfriends, mothers. It’s impossible to put these things into perspective when you’re in the insecure haze of adolescence.

There is no simple solution, just small steps in the right direction. That’s why I agreed to chair the Positive Body Image Awards.

The awards recognise businesses in media, entertainment, fashion and advertising industries for their efforts to send a positive message to young women between 12 and 25.

It is not a solution. But recognising those who make an effort and set a good example can keep key players in this area aware of the issues and reward businesses that do the right thing.

I know readers want change. They demand less airbrushing and more real women. And we would love to be able to deliver this to them every month. But it’s not that simple.

Firstly, many celebrities insist on having their photographs retouched. Some will not allow their pictures to be used without it.

Many photographers insist, understandably, on carrying out their own retouching. Since I have been at The Weekly, only two have embraced the idea of no retouching.

In one case, Sarah Murdoch, she was then criticised. Mia Freedman was the other. But it’s impossible to find a picture of an overseas celebrity that hasn’t been retouched.

Secondly, while women might ask for honest photographs, they buy beautiful ones.

On a stand full of international magazines, we compete with Vanity Fair, Italian Vogue and dozens of others. They all use Photoshop. People want to buy magazines with dazzling covers.

Magazines are often in the firing line on Photoshop, but they are not the only culprits. Advertisers do it. Film and television do it. Newspaper photos are often adjusted to make the colours more dramatic.

News and lifestyle websites use retouched images, often without knowing, because they have bought them from a photo agency.

The technology is so accessible, any of us can air brush our own photographs.

The genie is out of the bottle when it comes to Photoshop and some argue where do you draw the line? Why not ban makeup, soft lighting, Botox and boob jobs as well?

But I believe there is a case for using the technology more responsibly.

At The Weekly when we retouch photographs we do it lightly. Whenever we alter an image, we declare it on the page, and we encourage celebrities to accept lightly touched images.

I know that’s not going far enough for some people. But magazines (like fashion) are a business.

When Peter Garrett asked me what could be done to reduce the body issues of young women, I didn’t have the answer. I still don’t.

But I am aware that the decisions we make do have an influence on young lives.

In pictures: The worst Photoshop fails

Helen McCabe is editor in chief of the Australian Women’s Weekly and the chair of the Body Image Awards.

Your say: What do you think we can do to improve body image among young women?

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Cindy Crawford jealous of her 10-year-old daughter

Cindy Crawford jealous of her 10-year-old daughter

Supermodel Cindy Crawford, 46, and her daughter Kaia, 10.

Cindy Crawford is one of the world’s most beautiful women, but she would rather look like her 10-year-old daughter.

In a sad reflection of the world’s obsession with youth, Cindy, 46, says she would swap her womanly curves for her daughter Kaia’s childish figure in an instant.

“I look at my daughter and I’m like, ‘You have my old skin and I want it back! You have my old legs, I want them back! You have my old hair, I want it back!’ She is just getting more and more beautiful,” Cindy told Access Hollywood.

In pictures: Baby beauties – Is 10 too young to model?

But while Cindy is jealous of her daughter’s beauty and insecure about her own maturing looks, her happy home life makes everything easier to cope with.

“I think if you’re happy in your life, it’s a lot easier to take,” she said.

Kaia — Cindy’s daughter with her husband Rande Gerber — made her modelling debut last year, posing for a Versace youth campaign.

Her entrance into the modelling industry at such a tender age ignited controversy around the world, but Cindy defended her decision to let Kaia model, saying the shoot was “beautiful” and “age-appropriate”.

In pictures: Supermodels who still look super

Cindy was 16 years old when she was discovered and quickly became one of the biggest supermodels of the 1980s and ’90s.

She still models today, and is widely regarded to have one of the most beautiful faces of all time.

Your say: Are you jealous of your daughter’s good looks?

Video: Child model provokes controversy

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Prince Harry and Pippa Middleton’s secret texts

Prince Harry and Pippa Middleton's secret texts

Emboldened by alcohol on the other side of the world, the love-struck prince declares his true feelings.

Having received the kind of wild welcome usually reserved for a rock star, Prince Harry looked to be having the time of his life as he danced with local beauties, mingled with celebrities and sampled delicious tropical rum cocktails on his Diamond Jubilee tour of the Caribbean and Brazil.

But a close friend of the fun-loving royal reveals the prince’s mind was on the other side of the world, with Harry firing off flirty text messages to Pippa Middleton, his brother Prince William’s sister-in-law, throughout the trip. “Harry has been turning on the charm big time,” says the friend, who has known the prince since they were children. “He likes her a lot and is ready for romance now he’s finished his helicopter training.”

Harry, 27, is apparently desperate to take his friendship with Pippa, 28, to the next level, and it was while partying in Belize that the prince took action in his bid to woo her. “After he had a couple of drinks, Harry decided to send a text message to Pippa with a link to pictures of himself showing off his dance moves,” the friend tells Woman’s Day. “He also attached a note that read: ‘See what you’re missing? Xoxo’.”

“Pippa thought the message was hysterical,” says Harry’s friend, a London socialite who also mixes with the Middleton sisters. “She texted Harry back straight away, saying, ‘You crack me up!’” Despite the time difference – Pippa was in Sweden to compete in a 90km cross-country ski race – the pair continued to exchangeaffectionate texts throughout the night.

Read more about Harry and Pippa’s flirty texts plus see all the pictures from Harry’s Caribbean and Brazil tour in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday March 12, 2012.

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Whitney Houston’s shocking debt revealed

Whitney Houston's shocking debt revealed

She was one of the world’s most lucrative entertainers, yet Whitney Houston had just $29,000 in her bank account and was more than $4 million in debt.

Details of the star’s financial situation has emerged following the release of an income and expense declaration filed by the singer, during her divorce from Bobby Brown in 2007, Radar Online reported.

Despite blowing many of her millions that she earned throughout her career, she still managed to leave her daughter Bobbi Kristina, the sole inheritor listed on her will, around $6 million worth of assets.

The documents revealed that Houston had a life insurance policy worth $312,000. And while she stated that she had $40,000 in cash, $225,000 in stocks and earned in excess of $1 million for performances, it was her real estate situations that lead her into financial trouble.

This includes a property in New Jersey worth $6.5 million, which she still owed $3.247 million on and a townhouse in Atlanta, Georgia, where her daughter now lives, worth $1.244 million with $1,046,603 still owing on it.

Houston’s other assets include $1.8 million in jewellery and art and her record contract which is listed as confidential, due to her prenuptial agreement with Bobby Brown, in which the pair kept their career earnings separate.

Considering all of the assets and her debt, Bobbi Kristina is left with an inheritance of about $5,948,917.

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Rehab fears for Elle Macpherson following split

Rehab fears for Elle Macpherson following split

Dumped for a model half her age… the love of her life’s having a baby with Uma… Will it all spark another downward spiral?

In early January, Elle Macpherson told two of her closest girlfriends she was looking forward to 2012 because “I think Jeff and I will take that next step”. The supermodel, who turns 48 later this month, finally felt she’d found a man to put an end to her run of romantic bad luck – and she was dreaming her boyfriend of more than two years, Jeff Soffer, would soon propose.

But just weeks later, Elle’s dreams lie in tatters. Hotel tycoon Jeff has dumped her and has started seeing a 25-year-old Colombian bikini model. Elle has endured a chequered love life over the past 30 years, but her friends say this break-up is especially painful for her. “Jeff’s new girlfriend is 25 years old – Elle had been on the cover of every magazine going before this new girl was even born,” says a close friend. “Elle is old enough to be her mum. It’s ridiculous to think that Elle is being dumped for someone younger when she still looks so incredible herself.

“But even though this just proves Jeff is shallow and not the right guy for Elle, she has taken it really hard.” Elle’s closest friends and family are now keeping in very regular contact to make sure she doesn’t sink into the depression that led her to rehab back in 2003.

Nine years ago, Elle blamed spiralling depression and exhaustion for the breakdown that landed her in the Meadows clinic in Arizona – and her inner circle is determined to make sure she doesn’t hit rock-bottom again. “We all want things to turn around for Elle,” says her friend. “She is an incredible woman and doesn’t deserve this. We want her to be able to smile again and be happy.”

Read more about Elle’s heartbreak and her rollercoaster romances in the past in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday March 12, 2012.

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Dr Harry Cooper’s marriage breakdown

Dr Harry Cooper's marriage breakdown

TV vet Dr Harry Cooper talks for the first time about the breakdown of his marriage to his second wife.

Veteran TV star Dr Harry Cooper’s welcoming smile hides the pain of ending his marriage and moving from his historic farmhouse in Tasmania to a modest block on NSW’s mid-north coast to start all over again.

One of Australia’s most loved and trusted celebrities, Dr Harry has quashed his heartache and turned to his other great love – campaigning for the welfare of animals. The grandfather of four celebrated his 68th birthday on February 20 at the small hobby farm he now calls home – with Scarlett, the faithful border collie who has been at his side for the past 14 years, and his beloved chooks.

Dr Harry says he is “happy” since his 26-year marriage to second wife Janine ended, embracing a simpler life with his animals, while continuing to star on Better Homes And Gardens. “We are separated now,” he confirms in an exclusive interview with Woman’s Day.

“You get to the stage of your life when you drift apart – and for the past five or six years we’ve probably been going like that – so I thought, ‘what’s the point?’, as she wanted to stay there [in Tasmania] and I didn’t.” A passionate animal lover who launched his TV career on Burke’s Backyard back in 1987, Dr Harry has been married to Janine since 1985 and they have one daughter, Heidi, now 25.

Read more about Dr Harry Cooper’s marriage breakdown and find out how Dr Harry is campaigning for the welfare of animals in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday March 12, 2012.

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Mel B’s tears over bitter family feud

Mel B's tears over bitter family feud

As an ugly fight heats up, the singer’s nearest and dearest publicly question her sanity.

Having regained her pre-baby body in record time, landed a highly coveted hosting gig on Seven’s Dancing With The Stars and leapt gleefully into a new lifestyle in Sydney, outwardly, it seems Melanie Brown is living the dream. However, not all in the mum-of-three’s life is quite so rosy. A nasty family feud has kept the former Spice Girl estranged from her mother, father and sister for the past five years.

The latest instalment of the ongoing spat has seen sister Danielle, 30, a former star of British soap Emmerdale, publicly question Mel’s mental health and accuse her husband, Stephen Belafonte, of being controlling. “Enough is enough,” Danielle tweeted last week. “We need a family meeting, you, me, Mum and Dad. No film crew, no cameras and no Stephen! All of us are worried about your mental state. Are the kids safe?”

The message was possibly in response to a previous tweet from Mel, 36, saying, “Family and money don’t mix… Go sell another story. Such a shame money has done this to you.” It included a link to an interview Danielle had given to Britain’s OK! magazine last year, in which she said the whole family had begun worrying about Mel after her marriage to film producer Stephen in 2007.

“Ever since we expressed those concerns, we’ve not heard anything from her,” Danielle claims in the story. “I just hope I will speak to Melanie again, because she’s my only sister. I miss her and my nieces ridiculously. It hurts.” Mel later claimed her Twitter had been hacked, saying, “Someone is messing with me. My sister has never asked me for money. Love her to bits.”

Read more about Mel B’s family feud in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday March 12, 2012.

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Hero SES tracking dog sniffs out trouble

Hero SES tracking dog sniffs out trouble

Australia’s first corgi SES tracking dog has earned praise from the Queen.

With her ears rigidly vertical and her tail cocked to attention, there’s something about Manhon that says, “Every inch of me is ready for action.” “I purchased her sight unseen,” says SES volunteer Glenys Nottle, from Albany, WA, of the four-year-old dog that has just qualified as the first corgi tracking dog in the State Emergency Service anywhere in Australia.

What the pooch lacks in size she makes up for with smarts. In one recent challenge, Manhon tracked a scent for five kilometres! “She may be only 25cm tall, but Manhon’s nose does all the talking,” winks Glenys.

So grand are Manhon’s achievements, she has received a letter of praise from the greatest corgi lover of them all, the Queen. Glenys has spent more than 400 hours training her sniffer dog, when many said it couldn’t be done.

“She’s dynamite in the orange rescue jacket, but not so clever in other areas,” laughs Glenys. “She tries to trick you into thinking she’s finished eating by burying her food or dragging a tea towel over it… but I love her anyway.”

Read more dog hero stories in this week’s Woman’s Day, on sale March 12, 2012.

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Eight-year-olds perform ‘nude’ burlesque routine

Eight-year-olds perform 'nude' burlesque routine

This video shows the shocking moment a group of girls — the youngest being just eight years old — are asked to dress in ‘nude’ bikinis and perform a provocative burlesque routine.

The promo clip is from the latest episode of US reality show Dance Moms and shows choreographer Abby Lee Miller informing her young students that their new costumes must “give the illusion of nudity”.

Related: Why girls are having sex at 12

The girls are visibly horrified by the news, and clearly uncomfortable when Miller instructs them to act as though a man ‘can’t afford’ them.

The pre-pubescent girls are also told to cover their ‘crotch’ and non-existent ‘boobs’ with large feathered fans in the saucy routine.

Miller defends her choice of choreography, saying everyone knows the girls aren’t really naked onstage.

This is not the first time a TV show has been accused of sexualising young girls.

Toddlers and Tiaras — which follows girls on the child beauty pageant circuit in the US — is frequently criticised for going too far.

Related: Are our girls growing up too fast?

In a recent episode, four-year-old beauty queen Maddy Jackson caused outrage when she wore fake breasts and bottom padding to perform a suggestive Dolly Parton routine onstage.

Your say: Do you think TV shows should be banned from sexualising children?

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