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US mother sends bullied boy to school with stun gun

US mother sends bullied boy to school with stun gun

The mother of an openly gay high school student in the US armed her son with a stun gun so that he could defend himself from bullying, saying that she had no choice.

But Chelisa Grimes’ decision backfired. Her son was arrested by school police and has been suspended after he was approached by six bullies and tried to scare them off by holding the gun in the air.

The Indianapolis mum told CNN that her son, who was bullied for being gay and wearing female apparel to school, needed to be protected. She says that the school did nothing to support her son Darnell “Dynasty” Young’s complaints.

“I do not promote violence — not at all — but what is a parent to do when she has done everything that she felt she was supposed to do at the school?”

Grimes says that the bullying affected Darnell’s behaviour at school and at home and his grades had dropped from A’s to F’s.

Darnell, 17, says he was targeted by bullies before admitting he was gay. He said fellow classmates would call him names and throw rocks and other objects at him.

“All day I’d be on my guard,” he told the Indy Star. “It never got better. It always got worse.”

Arsenal Tech High School principal Larry Yarrell said that he doesn’t defend students’ anti-gay attitude, but there wasn’t much he could do about the bullying.

“If you wear female apparel, then kids are kids and they’re going to say whatever it is that they want to say,” he said.

Yarrell and the staff at the high school instructed Darnell to “tone it down as much as possible”, referring to his attitude and clothing choices, in order to make his time at the school more bearable.

“They’re just trying to make his transition over here as easy as they possibly can,” he said of the suggestion.

At this point, Darnell’s mother decided to take matters into her own hands. “If they weren’t going to protect him, I’ll protect him,” she said.

Darnell was sent to school with a stun gun and after a few weeks of carrying it in his bag, he was approached by six students who made physical threats towards him.

Darnell then took out the gun and held it up in the air hoping that it would scare off the students. It worked but school police were called to arrest the teen. Once the stun gun was recovered he was suspended from school and now faces the possibility of expulsion.

Meanwhile, the bullies who verbally attacked Darnell are yet to be punished because the witnesses who confirmed Darnell’s version of events have refused to identify the bullies.

A hearing on the matter has taken place, but a decision has yet to be announced.

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Ten amazing uses for lavender

Ten amazing uses for lavender

Who would have thought that an all-purpose medicine could smell so lovely? Well-known for its use in making perfume, soaps, and scented sachets, lavender — either as a tea, tincture or ointment, or essential oil — has been used in healing for centuries.

Infection fighter

Along with garlic and cloves, lavender was an ingredient of the ‘Four Thieves vinegar’, an infamous brew attributed to 18th century grave robbers who washed their hands with it before stripping corpses of their valuables. Lavender does, in fact, contain tannins that kill bacteria and prevent minor cuts from becoming infected. Add 10 drops of lavender oil to 1/2 cup of water and use to wash the wound.

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Tummy tamer

European doctors recommend lavender tea as a digestive aid. It has an antispasmodic effect, helping to relax the muscles of the digestive tract and prevent cramping of the stomach and intestine. It also helps to ease and expel wind. To make tea, put a heaped teaspoon of fresh, unsprayed flowers (or one lever teaspoon of dried lavender) in 1 cup of boiling water for 10 minutes; strain and add honey, if you wish.

Burn buster

In 1910, French chemist Rene Maurice Gattefosse noted that when he burned his hand, lavender oil resulted in faster healing. This discovery sparked research into the capabilities of essential oils: it was, in fact, Gattefosse who invented the word aromatherapy. Put a drop or two of undiluted lavender oil on small burns to ease pain immediately. The discomfort of sunburn can also be alleviated with a compress of cold lavender tea.

Help for headaches

Queen Elizabeth I was said to have favoured lavender tea for her frequent tension headaches, and lavender farmers of old would wear a spray of the flowers beneath their hats — it was apparently a notable fact that they never suffered from headaches, despite working in the bright sun all day. Apply a little neat oil to temples and massage it in for remarkable relief, or sip cool lavender tea.

Acne assistance

Lavender’s natural antibacterial, antiseptic, and oil-regulating effects make it ideal for treating acne and other inflammatory skin problems, including eczema and psoriasis. It also helps to reduce scarring. Add 10 drops of lavender oil to 50ml of witch hazel, and dab directly onto spots.

Bathing beauty

A lavender-scented bath is not just a fragrant treat, it provides relief from musculo-skeletal pain, including arthritis, sciatica, sprains, strains, muscle spasms, labour pain, and period pain. Not only does the lavender reduce the actual pain, it also eases anxiety and tension about the pain, which can be a trigger in itself. Add 10 drops of oil to a bath.

Stress less

According to a Japanese study published in the Journal of Agricultural and Food Chemistry, linalool — a substance found in lavender — ‘switches off’ stress-induced activity in more than 100 genes. Add lavender oil to a diffuser to disperse the scent through a room, or if you have the luxury of time, take a stress-busting soak.

Ease emotional upset

Lavender’s aroma comes from airborne molecules of linalyl esters, oils that stimulate the olfactory nerve in the brain and have a balancing effect on the central nervous system, making it very helpful for treating shock, panic, faintness, hysteria, anxiety or depression. Researchers have also discovered that lavender increases the production of particular brain waves that are associated with relaxation and calm. Massage lavender oil down either side of your spine, or inhale it, either via a diffuser or on a tissue.

Stop the sting

Lavender oil helps to reduce the transmission of nerve impulses that carry pain signals, giving it a mild analgesic effect. Apply it neat to relieve the itching and irritation of insect bites and stings — this will also ease redness and swelling.

Get a good night’s sleep

It is no accident that lavender is a universal ingredient in sleep pillows. Its calming and mildly sedative effect encourages you to sleep soundly and wake refreshed. A few drops of oil on a pillowcase is very effective; this is also comforting for a child having nightmares.

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Caution: Avoid lavender in first trimester of pregnancy or if blood pressure is very low.

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Graveyard shift risks

Working nights may lead to more than just sleep deprivation, according to a study published in the American Journal of the National Cancer Institute, which reported a startling 60 per cent...

Working nights may lead to more than just sleep deprivation, according to a study published in the American Journal of the National Cancer Institute, which reported a startling 60 per cent increased risk of breast cancer for women who had worked nights for more than three years. Why? Researchers think that night workers produce less of the sleep hormone melatonin, which in turn may cause their bodies to make more oestrogen, a hormone linked to breast cancer.

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A travel guide to Burma

Referred to as Myanmar by the military junta, Burma is being hailed as "the next Thailand", a country seldom visited at present but one that promises to eclipse its neighbours in popularity.
&copy Mike Dolan

It’s dawn in Burma and we’ve climbed hundreds of steps of an 11th-century pagoda to watch the sun rise over Bagan, an ancient city on a great bend in the River Irrawaddy. In the distance, a rugged mountain chain is wreathed in mauve mist, but as the sun appears, the scene is transformed.

Above us, the pagoda’s golden spire, dull and muted in twilight, glows triumphantly. On the dry, dusty plain below, the river shines silver and emerging from the shadows are thousands of pagodas -— some the size of houses, others higher than cathedrals and then there are the mega-structures, memorials to long-gone kings that would stand proud next to an Egyptian pyramid.

Officially, there are 3280 of these pagodas — far too many to visit on a two-day stop-over — and yet it’s a scene of such splendour, it ranks with Cambodia’s Angkor Wat. Sadly, Angkor is overrun by such great multitudes of visitors throughout the year, archaeologists warn it is in danger of sinking into its soft alluvial plain. Bagan, as yet, is untouched by mass tourism.

One of Bagan’s most intriguing temples is the Ananda Pahto. Built in 1105, this perfectly proportioned pagoda houses four 25m-high statues of Buddha, two of them 900 years old. Guides like to point out that if you stand at a distance from the Buddha facing south his face looks sad, but as you approach a smile unfolds on his face — an optical illusion created by ancient master-sculptors.

As our guide takes us back to our hotel in a pony and trap, along dusty tracks passed villages that have changed little in centuries, we stop at a monastery built entirely of teak. Its facade is composed of elaborately carved panels of “dragons” and “demi-gods”, often entwined, reaching for the sky.

This is the Shwedagon, a 100m-high golden stupa that stands triumphantly over the impoverished city — a great beacon of hope for some of world’s most disadvantaged people.

Poor as the villagers are, they invite us to share their mid-morning meal. They have little food as it is, so we decline. Back at the hotel, the Thiripyitsaya Sanctuary Resort, with its huge infinity pool overlooking the river, guests are enjoying lunch on the terrace. For a five-star establishment, it’s a bargain at $130 a night. A bottle of Italian white wine is $40, almost the monthly salary of an average Burmese family.

A two-hour flight south of Bagan is the port of Yangon (formerly Rangoon), the country’s capital, where most visitors begin and end their journey to Burma. After years of neglect and commercial atrophy, Yangon’s grand British colonial buildings are now dilapidated. It’s a smaller, shabbier version of India’s Mumbai, but at the heart of the city is what Somerset Maugham once described as “a sudden hope in the dark night of the soul”.

Covered in tonnes of gold — supposedly more than is currently in the vaults of the Bank of England — the Shwedagon is encrusted with 7435 precious stones. Perched at the top is a 76-carat diamond that catches the early morning sun. Author Rudyard Kipling called it that “beautiful winking wonder” and every day you’ll find Buddhist pilgrims taking at look at the gem through telescopes installed in the temple grounds.

Diamonds aside, the gold at the Shwedagon has more than trebled in value as the price of the precious metal has soared on world markets. It’s now estimated to be worth around $3000 million.

Ironically, it’s the people’s gold. The Burmese may be among the poorest people in Asia, but every week thousands of them bring wafer-thin sheets of gold to rub reverently onto the base of the stupa. Every day the Shwedagon becomes a little richer, the people it seems become a little poorer.

Most of the Burmese live on around a dollar a day. In Yangon, people are a little better off, but are lucky to earn $50 a month. With inflation running at between 25 to 30 percent, every spare cent counts. Only members and supporters of the military junta in Burma enjoy a standard of living equal to ours in the West.

To visit Yangon and not see the Shwedagon would be more than unfortunate, it would be unforgiveable. Like the Taj Mahal, it is one of the wonders of the world. A colourful kaleidoscope of hundreds of temples, porticos, monks in saffron robes, countless Buddha figures in gold, bronze, silver, ivory and painted clay, and processions of pilgrims dressed in ceremonial clothes — all beneath the colossal stupa. It is the Burmese people’s great symbol of hope for a better future.

At Yangon’s most famous hotel, The Strand, little seems to have changed since it was built in 1901 by the Sarkies brothers, also famous for giving Indo-China the legendary Raffles Hotel in Singapore. Behind the neo-classical facade are some seriously gracious interiors — a lobby with a black and white marble floor and Doric columns, several equally elegant reception rooms and a grand staircase leading to its spacious suites that boast four-poster, mahogany, king-sized beds.

It’s a little like stepping back in time — into the Edwardian era, but with life’s little five-star luxuries thrown in. It’s the perfect place to use as a base while exploring Yangon and a great refuge to return to at the end of the day — with its fine dining and atmospheric bar.

High on the Shan Plateau a few hours’ flight north west from Yangon is Lake Inle. It’s a very different world from bustling Yangon or historic Bagan — a great body of luminous water held captive on the “roof of Burma” by a great circle of serrated mountain peaks. Sunny, warm and sparklingly clear by day; it turns deliciously cool at night.

Here, the Intha people have developed their own system of hydroponic agriculture by growing fruit and vegetables on floating gardens on every corner of the lake. They produce some of the finest fruit and vegetables in Asia — organic and so full of flavour, you’ll never forget the taste of its tomatoes, apricots, egg plants, melons — even the green beans and onions. Inle is equally famous for its jewel-coloured silk fabrics.

The Intha people live in villages of teak houses built on stilts over the water, where every street is a canal and every vehicle a canoe. If they had a rush hour, it would be signalled by a series of splashes rather than blaring horns and squealing brakes. At every village, there’s a monastery — some of them built entirely of teak and many hundreds of years old.

If not tending their floating gardens, the Intha people fish with nets and propel their dug-out canoes with one oar wrapped around a leg — a unique method of propulsion found nowhere else in the world.

The best way to explore Inle and its many markets is in a motorised long boat, always available for hire at the lakeside resorts, where most tourists stay. TheInle Princessis run by a Shan princess and her French husband and is reputed to be the best.

Most of the markets are held in the shadow of a shrine, where an ancient colonnade leads from the village to a gilded stupa high on a nearby hill. No wonder, Burma is known as the “Golden Land”. Wherever there are people, there is the glimmer of gold.

Back in Yangon, there’s one last “temple” you have to visit. It’s a shrine to hospitality — a truly beautiful hotel, a grand mansion built of teak known as the Governor’s Residence. Inside, the overhead fans spin, the polished wood and silk wall hangings gleam, and the artwork inspires. But it’s the fine food and exquisite service I look forward to.

Surrounded by a little lake and a sapphire swimming pool, the hotel boasts an expansive balcony that overlooks an exquisite garden. To sit here on a balmy evening and watch the fireflies rise and fall in the subtly lit shrubs below is unforgettable and a great place to mull over your travels in Burma.

Fly: Qantas and Singapore Airlines have daily flights from Australian capital cities to Singapore. Silk Air flies two or three times a day from Singapore to Yangon.

Flights inside Burma: Air Mandalay between Yangon, Nyaung Oo (Bagan), Lake Inlay (Heho) two or three times daily.

Visa: Forms available at Embassy of Myanmar in Canberra or at the embassy website.

Stay: Yangon — The Strand Hotel; The Governor’s Residence.

Bagan — The Thiripyitsaya Sanctuary Resort.

Lake Inle — The Inle Princess Resort.

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Author claims Princess Diana was ‘mentally unstable’ and a ‘bad mother’

Princess Diana 'mentally unstable' and a 'bad mother'

Charles, Diana, William and Harry at Highgrove in 1986.

Princess Diana was “mentally unstable” and a bad mother who permanently damaged her sons, a controversial new book has claimed.

In life, Diana was praised for her devotion to William and Harry, but author Penny Junor says the young princess was actually a manipulative and damaging mother.

Junor details Diana’s terrible treatment of her little princes in an explosive new book Prince William: Born to be King, which will be published on William’s 30th birthday.

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The book claims Diana suffered from several mental illnesses, which were hidden from the royal family until it was too late.

“Within days of their engagement, Diana had changed from a happy-go-lucky teenager into a volatile and unpredictable stranger,” Junor writes.

“Before the marriage, no one in Charles’s camp had spotted that she was suffering from an incipient mental illness. And the people who did know kept quiet.”

Junor claims Diana’s own father admitted he was wrong not to “warn” Charles that his daughter was mentally unstable before they married.

Charles was reportedly destroyed by his marriage to Diana. He didn’t know how to cope with her behaviour, and became angry and violent himself.

“Diana’s mood swings were violent and unnerving,” Junor writes. “In the blink of an eye, she went from cheerful and funny to brooding and sobbing, or furiously angry and screaming. At other times, she cut herself until she bled profusely.

“His wife needed constant reassurance, constant attention, constant love; but Charles had no idea how to cope. He became prone to temper tantrums, for which he didn’t always ?apologise.

“But he did everything she asked: he got rid of loyal staff whom she said she didn’t like; gave away the faithful dog she couldn’t stand; and stopped seeing the friends she neither liked nor trusted. But nothing seemed to make her happy.”

Junor says William was largely shielded from his mother’s mental illness at first, protected by his nanny Barbara Barnes.

But by the time William was four, Junor claims, Diana became increasingly jealous of his love for Barbara and fired her “on the flimsiest of excuses” plunging William into a deep depression.

“The reality was that Diana was not always as warm and demonstrative in private as she was in public,” Junor writes. “Away from the cameras, the boys saw the extremes of her moods and were often frightened and bewildered by them.

“She just didn’t know how to be a mother.”

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Junor’s book is sure to provoke outrage from Diana’s millions of fans.

Diana — nicknamed the ‘Princess of Hearts’ — was famous for her caring nature, which saw her selflessly support many charities.

She was also praised for attempting to give her children a “normal” upbringing, far from the “cold” childhood typical of the royal family.

Perhaps the greatest evidence of Diana’s success as a mother is the continuing devotion of William and Harry. The young princes frequently speak of the great love their mother gave them and their sadness that she is no longer with them.

Your say: Do you think Penny Junor should be writing such hurtful things about William and Harry’s mother?

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Princess Charlene’s baby blues

Princess Charlene's baby blues

Princess Charlene and Prince Albert at the Academy Awards in February.

Monaco’s Princess Charlene cried throughout her wedding day, and if French magazine Voici is to be believed, things haven’t improved in the months since.

Charlene, 33, is reportedly “depressed” because she hasn’t fallen pregnant as quickly as she had hoped.

“Charlene has made the subject of pregnancy a taboo topic around the royal palace,” Voici reports.

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“She might have a smile on her face at official functions, but inside she is stressed and frustrated. This subject is weighing more and more heavily on her shoulders.”

Charlene married Prince Albert, 54, in a lavish wedding last July, but the event was overshadowed by claims the beautiful blonde had tried to flee Monaco three times in the lead-up to the wedding.

Charlene was reportedly devastated by rumours Albert had fathered a third love child during their relationship and was said to be desperate to escape the marriage.

She ended up walking down the aisle, but sobbed throughout the ceremony, while Albert appeared to look on in disgust.

Shortly after the nuptials, reports emerged that Charlene had agreed to go through with the wedding after agreeing to a “pregnancy pact” with Albert.

The deal reportedly stated that she could return to her native South Africa once she had given him a legitimate child. Only a child born in wedlock can become Albert’s heir and his love children have no claim to the throne.

Once the legitimate child is born, Charlene will be free to leave the marriage, and after a “decent” amount of time, will receive a generous divorce settlement.

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Charlene and Albert has repeatedly denied claims she tried to escape their wedding, and insist they are very happy together.

“Why would we go to all this effort, to have this fantastic couple of days, and have our most intimate and dearest friends come and join us, for us to be reluctant,” Charlene told a US TV show last year.

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March 2003 book reviews

Angel On My Shoulder - An Autobiography by Natalie Cole, (written with Digby Diehl), Warner Books, $19.95. The Grammy...

Angel On My Shoulder – An Autobiography by Natalie Cole, (written with Digby Diehl), Warner Books, $19.95. The Grammy Award-winning singer and daughter of the legendary Nat King Cole dishes up her amazing life story with honesty and bravura. Told in straightforward and simple prose, Cole resembles a prize fighter the way she manages to bounce back after any number of knock-out crises – drugs, estranged mother, family fights over money, abuse, marriage break-ups. Fast-moving and entertaining, it’s all there, if a bit religious at times. Nutmeg by Kristin Valla, Weidenfeld and Nicolson, $27.95. In a small town in the Andes, Klara forms a relationship with a college professor, Gabriel, who for the first time in his life finds a woman to love. Torn between the inspiration for her life that he gives her and William, her lover, Klara has to accept that the love of your life is not always the person with whom you could live – and the person with whom you live happily, may not be the love of your life. Touching and truthful. The Pirate Queen by Alan Gold, HarperCollins, $18.95. It is the middle of the 16th century. A strong woman leads her people, winning the love, respect and admiration of the men who serve her. Yes, this could be England’s Queen Elizabeth I, but it also applies to the infamous Grace O’Malley, an Irish pirate and patriot, whose life and loves come vibrantly alive in these absorbing pages. Her exploits challenged Elizabeth’s golden age, until the feud between them ended in friendship. lazy ways to make a living by Abigail Bosanko, Time Warner, $22.95 Read this over the holidays and loved it for its engaging characters and zingy writing style. Rose Budleigh is the failed sister, whose Ph.D. in lexicography and talent for chess pales alongside the achievements of her sisters, Catherine (the clever one) and Helen (the pretty one). Rose is scraping a living when she meets her match – a chess rival from her teenage years who is good looking and fabulously wealthy. He makes her an offer – he’ll provide her with every luxury in life in return for her chess skills and love. From then on, every move they make counts. I’m Not Scared by Niccolo Ammaniti, Penguin, $23.00. Read this over the holidays as well and couldn’t put it down. A marvellously gripping tale about a small boy who stumbles across a dark and sinister secret that begins to take over his life. Set in a small Italian village during a sizzling summer, this charming story brings back the joys and tortures of childhood, has a lot of suspense and a great twist towards the end that didn’t occur to me for one moment. The Bone Vault by Linda Fairstein, Little Brown, $29.95. History and mystery intermingle in this latest Alex Cooper thriller. Alex is attending a glitzy reception at New York’s Metropolitan Museum of Art when a gruesome discovery is made of the body of a young woman in an ancient sarcophagus bound for a show abroad. The cause of death is an unusual one – arsenic poisoning. The investigation leads Alex and NYPD detective Mike Chapman into another world and makes for an engrossing read. For those previously disappointed with Fairstein, she is back in good form with this one. Sacking The Stork by Kristin Webb and Kathy Wilson, Macmillan, $30. Sophie loves cocktails and stilettos, her lover Max and her life in general. Then she finds herself pregnant and everything changes. Max scarpers to the US and Sophie is left literally holding the baby, in turn supported by a bunch of unlikely friends who see her through the first lonely, difficult months of single motherhood. Then along comes a new business venture – and a new man. An entertaining, thoroughly enjoyable read, with warm characters and pep in the writing and the plot.

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Delta exclusive: ‘I never said I was perfect!’

Delta exclusive: 'I never said I was perfect!'

Delta Goodrem has become the most scrutinised woman on Australian TV.

When her music career took her overseas, Delta Goodrem momentarily stepped out of the spotlight in Australia. But 2012 has marked her triumphant return to our screens and radios. Yet her role as a coach on The Voice has been polarising. Now, it seems, even a toss of her famous hair can incite debate. Team Delta supporters have proudly spouted their encouragement on social media, but her critics have been just as outspoken. “She seems all style and little substance. She comes across as bland and contrived,” fumed one.

But far from agonising over less-than-kind comments, the 27-year-old singer remains calm about the furore that surrounds her. Spend time with her, and you quickly realise she has a worldly sensibility you’d expect from someone twice her age. “Anybody who has gone through a life-changing experience will tell you there is a different understanding of what is real and what is important, and when you are going through different moments, you can reflect and go, ‘I have been through worse’.”

What do you enjoy most when you come home to Australia?

Seeing my dogs, seeing my mum, obviously getting to spend time with my family and friends. The food, the fresh air, it’s coming back home. It feels great to be back, just being among the Australian people and going and releasing music and the incredible supporters I have. I don’t take anything for granted… coming home has been amazing.

All the coaches have faced criticism, how do you cope with it?

I can’t be all things to everyone. I know who I am and where I’m going, and I’m doing the best I can. I’ve gone through worse and you just have to keep kind of rising above and keep your dignity and grace. You have to take the good and the bad, and I’m very thankful for a show that everybody is enjoying. I’m thankful for my songs being at the top of the charts, but I am human – I think people still have to remember that. I’m still human – I can’t not feel.

Read more of our exclusive interview with Delta in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday May 7, 2012.

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Grant and Candice: Why they split

Grant and Candice: Why they split

Olympic swimming great Grant Hackett has separated from his wife Candice Alley after a series of alcohol-fuelled incidents, including an “embarrassing” fight at their Melbourne apartment that ended when the police arrived.

“I can confirm media speculation that Candice and I have separated,” Grant said in a statement released last Thursday. “I want to be dignified in my approach to everything and ensure the children’s needs are paramount and put first. I wish Candice every success. It is my hope that everybody can respect the process and be kind to all parties involved, as it is a very difficult time.”

Friends says Grant’s drunken antics at the TV Week Logie Awards at Crown Melbourne last month were the final straw for Candice, who was humiliated when bouncers asked the Olympian to leave an after-party at Club 23 at 3am. It was his second embarrassing incident in the past six months.

Up to eight police cars were called to the couple’s Southbank apartment on October 31 last year, after neighbours heard a loud argument and smashing furniture. The pair had just returned from a Derby Day function, which Grant, 31, hosted for Westpac Bank.

He later claimed the fight was “very much unfortunate and out of character for me”. “I am overwhelmingly embarrassed and apologetic and look forward to putting this incident behind us,” he said at the time. Friends say he and Candice, 29, have struggled to reconcile their differences ever since, and the blonde singer finally asked Grant to move out when his drunken appearance at the Logies made headlines.

Read more about Grant and Candice’s split in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday May 7, 2012.

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Kim and Kourtney Kardashian’s Mexican wave!

Kim and Kourtney Kardashian's Mexican wave!

They’ve already taken LA, New York and Miami, and now it’s Mexico’s turn to be overrun by members of the Kardashian clan.

But they weren’t in town to film yet another reality TV spin-off – instead, Kim took time out from her jet-setting lifestyle to celebrate her sister Kourtney’s 33rd birthday.

The sisters, along with Kourt’s son Mason, 3, left their boyfriends Scott Disick and Kanye West at home and pitched up at the Girls Gone Wild creator Joe Francis’s luxury $30million Punta Mita estate – the same place Kourtney had a birthday break last year.

It was much-needed time out for Kourtney, who’s expecting a baby daughter next month. And 31-year-old Kim – who rocked an orange bikini that made serious waves across the beach – catered to her expectant sister’s every whim.

Read more plus see the exclusive pictures of the sisters in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday May 7, 2012.

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