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Book Review: ‘Me Before You’ by Jojo Moyes

Anyone who has filled the role of a carer volunteer or paid will identify with the unique and intensely personal relationship that develops between two opposites in Jojo Moyes' latest novel.
Me Before You

Me Before You by Jojo Moyes, Michael Joseph, $29.95

Anyone who has filled the role of a carer — volunteer or paid — will identify with the unique and intensely personal relationship that develops between two opposites in Jojo Moyes’ latest novel.

Working class 26-year-old Lou, and 35-year-old high-flying London toff Will, are thrown together by a motorcycle accident which leaves the extreme sports’ loving lawyer a quadriplegic.

Initially condescending and crotchety to the chatterbox carer who loves chips and cheesecake, Will eventually turns mentor, introducing his protégée to Nancy Mitford, subtitled French films and violin concertos.

With the potential to turn to a slushy climax, Moyes takes the tougher tack and instead steers a disciplined discourse on the right to die.

But don’t be put off, it also abounds with humour — “Don’t let him watch films like The Diving Bell and the Butterfly. Major downer!” advises a chat room for spinal injuries as loveable Lou seeks help from support groups to cheer her broken man.

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Book Review: ‘The Testimony’ by Halina Wagowska

81-year-old Halina Wagowska felt compelled to write this "her last testimony before she drops off the twig" and it's remarkable; at once harrowing, thought provoking and surprisingly uplifting.
The Testimony

The Testimony by Halina Wagowska, Hardie Grant Books, $24.95

Eighty-one-year-old Halina Wagowska felt compelled to write this “her last testimony before she drops off the twig” and it’s remarkable; at once harrowing, thought provoking and surprisingly uplifting.

Written as a series of autobiographical snapshots, what comes through most is Halina’s incredible belief in humanity against the most punishing odds, although the central premise of how to explain the Holocaust still eludes her.

“It involved sustained, professional engagement of doctors, organisers and builders for nearly six years — and so many of them eager and sadistic beyond the call of duty. How did the cultured German nation find such a large army of willing perpetrators?”

Halina pleads. Her journey from not very religious Jewish child in Poland to Auschwitz where she had to help dispose of the bodies of gassed inmates, Stutthof where she was beaten near to death and where her mother died in her arms and eventually to Australia where she overcame the “refo” tag to follow a career in pathology and support society’s less advantaged, especially the Aboriginal community, is riveting and shines a pertinent light on the current hot political issue of asylum seekers. There is so much we can learn from Halina.

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Book Review: ‘The Snow Child’ by Eowyn Ivey

In the publishing industry there has been a lot of chatter about this debut novel, a lyrical charmer based on a Russian folk tale about a childless couple who conjure a girl made out of snow.
The Snow Child

The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey, Headline Review, $29.99

In the publishing industry there has been a lot of chatter about this debut novel, a lyrical charmer based on a Russian folk tale about a childless couple who conjure a girl made out of snow.

It’s apt that Alaskan author Eowyn Ivey was named after a character in The Lord of The Rings, for this is story that interweaves the realities of life in Alaska’s tough wintry wastelands in the 1920s with the magical whimsy of snow foxes, wolverines and an elusive otherwordly girl, who lives at one with the frosty savage landscape — in fact a hobbit or two would fit right in here.

Faina is the snow child who captures the hearts of Jack and Mabel, newcomers to Alaska where they hope for a fresh start to escape the pain of the death of their baby.

The descriptions are poetic and at times so evocative you can feel the chill lifting from each page, but the heavy pall of the couple’s despair can also be cripplingly depressing.

We long for Faina to save our couple from their — and our — torment and while delightful at times, it is a mighty long trudge through the snow to find out what happens next.

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Book Review: ‘Home Front’ by Kristin Hannah

Dedicated to the men and women of the US forces, this is Hannah's twentieth novel, but the one she says she had the most difficulty writing, because of her determination to do the military proud.
Home Front

Home Front by Kristin Hannah, Macmillan, $24.99

“I have nothing in common with those people,” reveals reluctant party-goer Michael to his wife Jolene, on the eve of her 41st birthday do with her military workmates.

“I am those people,” replies the United States Army Black Hawk helicopter combat pilot.

Dedicated to the men and women of the US forces, this is polished Hannah’s twentieth novel, but the one she says she had the most difficulty writing, because of her determination to do the military proud.

Mid-life marriage shock aside — as her lawyer husband announces that he doesn’t love her anymore — the mum with the “best part time job in the world”, must also battle pre-teen daughter Betsy’s embarrassment at a mom in a flight suit.

But domestics will always be trumped by war, and when Jolene is suddenly deployed to Iraq, the household is literally blown apart — a minefield both in small-town Poulsbo,Washington where Michael must become full-time dad, and in the cockpit where the mum of two dodges death for her country.

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How to get a glorious autumn garden

How to get a glorious autumn garden

Autumn is the gentle time in Australia. Spring can suddenly present you with a frost that withers the new shoots and tomatoes, but autumn is mostly blue skies. Autumn rain is usually gentle, the great thunder heads of summer gone.

As I write this the persimmons are ripe, big fat orange fruit, and the leaves are just turning orange.

In a few weeks they’ll be stunning, a tree like a blaze of fire, with leaves that will drop to an almost perfect circle on the ground.

I only rake them after they have turned brown. The persimmons will still be hanging like orange globes on the bare tree, unless the birds have eaten them, which they probably will — but then the birds are even more beautiful than the fruit.

The pomegranates are round and gorgeous too. The pomegranate leaves have turned bright yellow and the sugar maples have turned bright red.

You need cold night and warm days and little wind for the best autumn colours, as well as a good wet summer.

We’ve had the wet summer all right and the autumn colours are the most stunning I have ever seen.

If your climate is too warm for traditional autumn leaves, you may still be able to get some autumn colour with crepe myrtles, both the brilliant purple, mauve, pink or white blooms and the reddish orange leaves.

Old-fashioned crepe myrtle varieties were prone to mildew in warm and humid climates — or even if it wasn’t particularly warm and humid.

Modern varieties both bloom longer and are pretty much disease free, no matter what the weather throws at them.

I inherited an old crepe myrtle when we bought our place, and a hideous straggly multi-stemmed bush it is, with vaguely pink blooms almost hidden by the branches.

But the new varieties I planted about five years ago are one of the most stunning features of our autumn garden.

You can prune crepe myrtles to keep them as low shrubs, but if you let them grow tall to their natural 3-6 metres high they have smooth mottled trunks, one of the most beautiful barks you can find in the backyard.

Crepe myrtles require little care to keep them lovely. Prune off spent flowers in winter, if you get around to it.

If you don’t, they’ll eventually turn into small crisp debris that blows away in the wind. Do prune off small low twiggy branches though, to keep the smooth ‘top model perfect’ slim crepe myrtle shape.

Older varieties tended to sucker, so you ended up with a big bushy mass instead of an elegant shape.

Be firm if your crepe myrtle shows any tendency to sucker and snap off suckers at once. Sucker-bushes can become so shaggy that even the flowers look messy, instead of one of the highlights of the autumn garden.

Crepe myrtle flowers seem to jump at you. One day it’ll be an unremarkable green tree; the next there’ll be a brilliant blaze of blooms.

The new varieties flower for months, from early autumn well into winter. Make sure you plant them where you can see the tops of the trees as the plant grows taller.

In cold areas, plant them near a warm sunny wall or in a sheltered courtyard, as they don’t like cold winds.

In return you’ll get the most brilliant of autumn blooms, colour without fuss for decades in almost any garden in Australia.

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Jen and Justin’s wedding venue

Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux‘s wedding plans are well under way with the pair looking at the exclusive Elounda Beach Hotel & Villas resort in Crete to host their July nuptials.

As reported in Woman’s Day, Jen and Justin are planning a wedding on the Greek island of Crete where her dad was born.

Jen has reportedly visited the hotel recently looking for a wedding venue, with the hotel’s manager telling celebrity website TMZ “She has connections on the other side of the island as well”.

Take a look at the stunning Elounda Beach Hotel & Villas resort here!

Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux are planning their Greek wedding!

The stunning Elounda Beach Hotel & Villas resort.

The stunning Elounda Beach Hotel & Villas resort.

A number of celebrity guests are expected to attend the wedding.

The pair are planning on tying the knot in a traditional blue-domed chapel.

The breath-taking view from the resort.

One of the luxury resort rooms.

One of the luxury resort rooms.

The spectacular wedding setting in Crete.

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True Confessions Agony Aunt: I hate my Stepson

True Confessions Agony Aunt: I hate my Stepson

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Visitation with his mother is very much to her convenience, she drives a nice car and lives in a wealthy neighbourhood yet she only pays $100 a month in child support! My husband refuses to remodify the payments because he doesn’t want to cause waves. I can kind of see his point of view, however, the situation leaves me financially drained. It’s just not fair to me. And though I have been more of a mother figure than his mum I am not treated as an equal.

I am becoming increasingly unhappy with the situation and have bailed before but I truly love my husband and have returned to try to make things work. However, as bad as this sounds I really feel nothing at all for my stepson. He is eight-years-old and I am only going through the motions of being a step-parent. I am relieved when he is at his mother’s house and enjoy the time away from him. I dread when he comes back.

I would never harm him in anyway but I wish so badly that he would just go live with his mother. I can honestly say if I never saw him again I wouldn’t shed a tear or miss him one single bit! It would be AWSOME if he moved out of state and I could never see him again. I love the alone time with my husband and the only reason I have lasted this long is because I love him so much. I know this may sound selfish, but I miss my husband.

If you sincerely want to make a go of it then the effort has to come from you as well as the recognition that you need to look honestly at your behaviour. Whatever you might think, you have not given 150 per cent nor are you a mother figure to this little boy, who appears to be let down badly by both you and his mother so his father’s love and affection will be even more important. By all means enjoy the time alone with your husband, but stop thinking about yourself the rest of the time, and if you want to be treated as an equal then behave like one.

If you can’t love your stepson then at least treat him with respect, as you would anyone else of importance to your husband. Talk to your husband without being negative about his son and ask him what he thinks would make life easier all round for the three of you. Work as a team with him to make his son feel loved and cherished. Children are very intuitive and he will know that you don’t like him and can’t wait to be rid of him, so you cannot expect a positive response or any sort of warm relationship until you put the real effort in yourself.

You’ve built a strong and loving relationship with his dad and you need to build one with him so try doing some things together just for the two of you. It could be connected to his dad, like organising a birthday treat or cooking him a special meal, because one thing you have in common is that you both love the same person and can start from that angle.

At the heart of this is the simple fact that you fell in love with a man who is a fantastic dad and he always will be but whether or not he is always your husband will undoubtedly be affected by how you treat his son. You don’t have to be your step son’s mother but if you get this right you and he could have a very strong friendship which can only enhance your marriage.

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Book Review: ‘Secrets of the Tides’ by Hannah Richell

A cracking, taut prologue in which a traumatised young woman launches herself off a London bridge to be lost to the murky depths of the Thames sets the pace and tone for this highly accomplished novel.
Great read: Secrets of the Tides

Secrets of the Tides, by Hannah Richell, Hachette Australia, $29.99.

A cracking, taut prologue in which a traumatised young woman launches herself off a London bridge to be lost to the murky depths of the Thames sets the pace and tone for this highly accomplished debut novel.

Who is she, why is she in such a state of despair and is she beyond saving? These are just a few of an intriguingly woven web of questions that make up the patchwork plot of this emotional modern-day family thriller.

Time ebbs and flows as we dart between present, near past and long past trying to unlock the secrets of one family.

It’s as if the constantly present sea — along the south coast of England — has entered the storyteller’s psyche (which you’ll find it literally has, in a way), although calling the family the Tides is possibly a metaphor too far.

As we gather snapshots of the lives of mother Helen and daughters Dora and Cassie, it’s clear this is a family torn apart by betrayal, guilt and clandestine trysts, which rise to a head on one summer’s day of tragedy.

Yet there’s much more to author Hannah Richell’s writing than a cleverly constructed plot.

Her characters — and by these I mean her female characters for they are by far the strongest — are multi-layered and not necessarily wholly likeable (always a good sign).

Helen struggles with motherhood and, frankly, seems to be doing a pretty shoddy job of it, but emotionally, we understand exactly where she’s coming from.

Second-born Dora ricochets from mother to father to sister like a bruised pinball trapped in her family machine and we long for her to be able to grow and not repeat her mother’s mistakes.

Even Cassie seems crippled emotionally, but why? All does become clear and while smart minds may get there before the big reveal, it doesn’t matter because half the joy is watching our characters free themselves and breathe again.

A definite page-turner with unexpected depths.

About the author

Born in England, Hannah Richell, 37, emigrated here in 2005 after falling in love with Australia’s beauty.

She lives in a little cottage in Sydney with her husband, their two young children and a black-and-white cat called Lennie.

She only started writing when she was at home on maternity leave. “It was one of those distant things I’d only ever dared dream of,” says Hannah, who admits the inspiration for her debut work came from her own journey into motherhood.

Hannah is already working on a second novel.

Hannah Richell is a guest at the Sydney Writer’s Festival.

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Kerri-Anne’s TV crisis: ‘I’m not after revenge’

Kerri-Anne's TV crisis: 'I'm not after revenge'

Kerri-Anne Kennerley.

She’s been on our TV screen longer than any other star in Australia, so it’s easy to imagine that you know everything there is to know about Kerri-Anne Kennerley.

But you only have to delve a little beyond her perma-peppy on-screen persona to discover there are things about the so-called “queen of daytime TV” that most mortals would never guess at.

Like, for example, that she thinks she’s not very bright. That she’s always been dogged by a nagging desire for credibility. Or that she’s a self-confessed adrenaline junkie whose 30 years of live television have left her addicted to the spotlight.

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Now starring in Dancing with the Stars and preparing to launch a secret TV project, Kerri-Anne is back on top. But if 2012 marks yet another rebirth for Kerri-Anne, 2011 was her annus horribilis.

Sacked from the Nine Network in November and forced off the morning show she had spent nine years fronting, TV’s original sunshine girl found herself momentarily in career free-fall.

That the news of her impending demise was delivered by a journalist calling to ask how she felt about being replaced was, Kerri-Anne says, a body blow that took no small amount of grace to absorb.

But despite her ignominious dismissal, Kerri-Anne is adamant her decision to join rival Seven Network was not motivated by even the slightest desire for revenge.

“I’m not out for vengeance. Not in the slightest,” she tells the May issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly. “I think it was Matisse who once said you shouldn’t carry around hatred and revenge, because it’s a poison in your body. And it’s so true.”

And so the Seven Network pounced with an offer Kerri-Anne couldn’t refuse. If she would agree to sliding into sequins every Sunday night (something she was fine with) and offer up her lack of dance skills for the nation’s amusement (something she was less fine with), they would give her a prime-time gig, a show she will only describe now as “an overseas format [Seven] bought from a production company”.

“Truth be known, I didn’t even really want to do Dancing With The Stars and I initially said no,” says Kerri-Anne. “But Seven really wanted me to do it and they dangled the carrot of another show in front of me and I got suckered in.”

As much as Kerri-Anne’s story is one of achievement, it’s also a tale of survival. How she has prevailed in an industry renowned for its fickle nature is a lesson in old-school showbiz doggedness.

Since the age of 13, when she pestered former kids’ TV personality Uncle Jim Iliffe until he relented and made her co-presenter of his afternoon show on Queensland telly, Kerri-Anne has hardly been a day out of work.

“I’ve never really spent time analysing how I survived, I was too busy surviving,” she says. “I guess I was always nervous I would never work again, which is a powerful motivator.

“I grew up in a middle class family with a strong work ethic. I am sure people think I have had a charmed life, but I haven’t. I’ve really had to apply myself.”

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Like many women of her generation who left school at 15, Kerri-Anne is convinced she’s not smart.

“I’m not a very bright person,” she says. “I don’t learn very quickly. I have street smarts and I am a plodder. Those are the cold hard facts of my life.

“I honestly think one of the reasons I have survived is because I am not that bright. As a result, I’ve always been prepared to just put my head down and put the work in. Plus, I really don’t have seriously high expectations.”

Read more of this story and see our photo shoot with Kerri-Anne in the May issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Miranda Kerr: I can’t imagine life without mum

Three model mums: Miranda Kerr, her mother and grandmother

Miranda Kerr, her mother Therese and grandmother Ann.

Three generations of Kerr women talk to Bryce Corbett, who discovers how tragedy taught them the importance of having a mum.

Mother’s Day is especially poignant in the Kerr household. Not least because two generations of the women whose gene pool gave the world Miranda Kerr lost their mothers when they were only very young.

Talk now to Miranda’s mum, Therese, or Miranda’s grandmother, Ann, and they will both speak of the day they lost their mother in matter-of-fact terms.

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“She went into hospital and never came out,” recalls Ann, 75. “Mum was 32 and I was 13 years old. We waved her goodbye in the taxi that took her to hospital and that was the last we saw of her.

“My father went grey overnight. He never remarried. He always said he loved my mother too much.”

For Therese, who was 17 years old and pregnant with Miranda when her mother unexpectedly passed away, the memory of that day is similarly vivid.

“Mum woke up one morning with pains in her chest, was admitted to hospital and never came out,” Therese remembers. “I felt like my heart had been ripped from my chest. And the saddest thing for me is that she never got to meet my children. I would give anything for that. She would have been so proud of them.”

There are no tears from either Kerr matriarch as they relate their sad story, yet barely a day goes by that Ann and Therese don’t think about their mums.

But time is a healer and the Kerr women of Gunnedah, in country NSW, are nothing if not stoic, all products of good country breeding.

Observing Ann and Therese now as they pose with Miranda for The Weekly’s cameras, it’s obvious that they form a close-knit family.

Although the rigours of full-time supermodelling mean Miranda has to divide most of her time between homes in Los Angeles and New York, she still speaks to or texts her mother at least once a day.

“I learned at a very early age that family is more important than anything,” says Therese. “Ann has been like a mum to me.”

Adds Ann: “We know what it is like to lose your mother at a young age. It created a bond between us. It makes you realise how important it is in your life to be able to say that one little word: Mum.”

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It’s a source of no small amount of pride for Miranda, too, that she was born of such hardy stock.

“Mum and Nan are two of the strongest women I know and they are a great source of strength in my life,” she says.

“I am so very close to my mum. I couldn’t imagine my life without her. I think you can only ever fully appreciate how devastating losing your mum would be when you actually go through that experience yourself.”

Read more of this story in the May issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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