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Book Review: ‘A Guide for the Advanced Soul’ by Susan Haywood

The premise of the book is to help with motivation and positive thinking with each page having an inspirational quote or saying.
A Guide for the Advanced Soul

A Guide for the Advanced Soul by Susan Haywood, Harper Collins, $22.99.

My favourite book of all time is A Guide for the Advanced Soul. It was given to me by my older sister Toni before the 1990 Commonwealth Games to help me get through my first major swimming meet.

The premise of the book is to help with motivation and positive thinking with each page having an inspirational quote or saying.

After performing well at that competition, it then became a superstition that the book had to be packed in my suitcase for every swim meet.

Since retiring, the book continues to be a great source of inspiration and guidance.

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Book Review: Silent Valley by Malla Nunn

There's much more to the particularly disturbing murder of prostitute Bernice Hogan than police are letting on and journalist Jack Gannon is determined to discover the truth.
Silent Valley

Silent Valley by Malla Nunn, Macmillan, $24.99

A beautiful young girl, Amahle, is found dead in the remote foothills of South Africa’s majestic Drakensberg Mountains. She is the daughter of the local Zulu chief and her body has been treated tenderly, garlanded with wildflowers.

Yet no-one seems to know anything about her death – or perhaps her life either. A vast silence has fallen across the community.

Nunn’s novels are set during the 1950s, the years of apartheid, which adds an intriguing complexity to relations between her two favourite sleuths – Englishman Det-Sgt Emmanuel Cooper and his native off-sider and tracker Constable Shabalala.

They’re a great team and Nunn enjoys exploring the way they work around both the legal restrictions on race and skin colour, and the personal contempt of the valley’s religious white farmers, who call Shabalala the kaffir.

But slowly, they penetrate the wall of silence and pry open the secrets surrounding Amahle’s death.

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Book Review: Mr JW Lewin by Richard Neville

The story of John William Lewin, who left England a nobody and rose to become a respected artist, author and printmaker in the young convict colony of Australia, is a gently inspiring one.
Mr JW Lewin

Mr JW Lewin by Richard Neville, New South Books, $39.99

The story of John William Lewin, who left England a nobody and rose to become a respected artist, author and printmaker in the young convict colony of Australia, is a gently inspiring one. It reminds us that our early history was not all about floggings and rum but embraced the dreams of free settlers who came here seeking better lives than the Old Country could offer.

Lewin was one of them.

His passion was natural history, all the rage in the late 18th century, though Lewin was no Darwin or Joseph Banks but a humble foot soldier who, through talent and hard work, created the first illustrated book ever published in Australia (now a valuable rarity) and in 1810 became Sydney’s coroner, entitled to add Gentleman after his name.

Especially impressive given it all started so badly, Lewin having missed his boat in 1798, leaving his poor wife Maria to sail alone to the colony and cool her heels until her husband turned up two years later!

The book is profusely, vividly illustrated and concludes with John Lewin’s happy conclusion that he had found “the finest country in the world”.

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Book Review: Scared Yet? by Jaye Ford

Livia Prescott thought she was at rock bottom even before the stalking started. You would think that a failed marriage, a custody battle, and a dying father would be traumatic enough for anyone.
Scared Yet?

Scared Yet? by Jaye Ford, Random House Australia, $32.95

Livia Prescott thought she was at rock bottom even before the stalking started.

You would think that a failed marriage, a vicious custody battle, a struggling business, and a dying father would be traumatic enough for any woman.

But a blood curdling assault in the office car park turns out to be just the start of a vicious campaign to destroy the Newcastle mum. Jaye Ford cleverly keeps you guessing as to the identity of Livia’s tormentor.

Is it her cruel ex-husband?

Could it be the sexy rescue expert who works in her building who seems determined to help her?

Surely it’s not her best friend’s husband? The menace dogging Liv’s every move creeps into your bones.

You wouldn’t blame her for giving up. Her relentless stalker has almost broken her when she finally gets the chance to fight back.

Scared Yet? is a thriller that’s all too terrifyingly believable.

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Book Review: ‘Once Upon A Secret: My Hidden Affair with JFK’ by Mimi Beardsley Alforth

Sleeping with JFK as a naive nineteen year old wasn’t Mimi Alford’s best idea. But far worse was the fact the intern let the secret affair eat away at her life like a cancer for decades to come.
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Once Upon A Secret: My Hidden Affair with JFK by Mimi Alford, Hutchinson, $32.95

Sleeping with JFK as a naive nineteen year old probably wasn’t Mimi Alford’s best idea.

But far worse was the fact the willowy intern let the secret affair eat away at her life like a cancer for decades to come.

In 1962 the glittering Camelot of Kennedy’s White House captivated the sheltered private school girl. Mimi’s perfunctory seduction by the president quickly followed.

Exposure by a Kennedy biographer forced Alford to confront her guilty secret more than 40 years later, and eventually led to her write this fascinating memoir.

Mimi is annoyingly timid, frustratingly square (post-affair), and stubbornly guilt ridden, but despite her continuing admiration for him, it’s John Kennedy’s character that suffers the most in these long hidden reflections.

We all know about his philandering, but some of his actions when it comes to Mimi are shameful. Once

Upon A Secret reveals the sexist, cynical world lurking behind the glittering Kennedy show, but it’s the emotional fall-out suffered by Alford that most intrigues.

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Book Review: ‘What It Was’ by George Pelecanos

Set in the criminal underworld of Washington DC in 1972, it’s alive with huge “afro” hairdos, glamorous muscle cars, and classic soul music.
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What It Was by George Pelecanos, Orion, $19.99

What It Was is one book that’s just screaming to make the leap on to the big screen.

Set in the criminal underworld of Washington DC in 1972, it’s alive with huge “afro” hairdos, glamorous muscle cars, and classic soul music.

The fashions, the Firebirds, and the tunes create a vivid backdrop to a psychopathic crime spree being carried out by murderous Red Fury Jones and his brothel-owning girl Coco Watkins.

On his trail are womanising private investigator Derek Strange, and old school cop Frank “Houng Dog” Vaughn. But they’ll have to get in quick if they’re to beat the mob, which is looking for vengeance on the rogue gangster.

Writer George Pelecanos of the television show The Wire brings its winning combination of grit, compassion and humour to this tense hunt for a killer.

He ratchets up the intensity with great skill, until it explodes into a climactic seventies style shoot out.

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Book Review: ‘True North: The Story of Mary and Elizabeth Durack’ by Brenda Niall

Mary and Elizabeth Durack were the spoiled creative daughters of a pioneering cattle king. They grew up to become two of Australia’s most influential artists.
True North: The Story of Mary and Elizabeth Durack

True North: The Story of Mary and Elizabeth Durack by Brenda Niall, Text Publishing, $32.95

Mary and Elizabeth Durack were the spoiled creative daughters of a pioneering cattle king.

They grew up to become two of Australia’s most influential artists.

As teenagers in the early 1930s they left behind parochial Perth and proceeded to fall passionately and eternally in love with the Kimberley.

Mary, a writer, and Elizabeth, a painter, started their careers with heavily sentimental portrayals of cheerful station life and cute Aboriginal children.

But it wasn’t long before they became troubled by the transformation of those kids from quick, willing and joyous imps to dull-eyed, sunken adolescents. Together their works would begin to transform the way Australia regarded Aboriginal people.

This biography makes great use of a rich store of family letters to tell the story of two remarkable women. It’s also the story of twentieth century Australia in all its shame and its glory.

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Book Review: ‘The King’s Concubine’ by Anne O’Brien

Historical author Anne O'Brien is as comfortable capering around the courts of the Tudor Kings and Queens of England, as she is tending the country herb patch at her UK home - unsurprisingly fashioned on a genuine Tudor knot garden.
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The King’s Concubine by Anne O’Brien, MIRA/Harlequin, $29.99

Historical author Anne O’Brien is as comfortable capering around the courts of the Tudor Kings and Queens of England, as she is tending the country herb patch at her UK home – unsurprisingly fashioned on a genuine Tudor knot garden.

And in this the latest scandalous yarn from the House of Plantagenet, O’Brien charts the unbelievable rise of “tavern whore bastard” Alice Perrers, the real-life teen concubine of 50-year-old Edward III, whose grip on the monarch was made all the more powerful because of her cast-iron guile, rather than any lustful looks.

When sickly consort Queen Philippa gives her blessing to the union, as a silent partner in the “menage a trois”, gifted convent raised Alice builds a protective moat around herself, and her four subsequent illegitimate – yet recognised – royal babies.

Ambitious yet fiercely loyal, O’Brien has found a truly liberated subject matter in plucky, spirited Perrers – a fourteenth century nobody whose fervent belief in manipulating a higher station for herself in life, is breathtaking even by twenty-first century cunning.

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Menopause: everything you need to know

Menopause: everything you need to know

Every woman’s experience is different so menopause treatment is not a one size fits all – it has to be tailored to your needs says Professor Kerryn Phelps

Flushing? Awake at night sweating? Cranky?

One of the great medical controversies of the past decade has been the debate over the best and safest treatment for women trying to find relief from these and some of the other, perhaps less obvious, effects of menopause.

Since long term research raised concerns that HRT increased the risk of heart disease, stroke and breast cancer, women have been in the difficult situation of searching for the safest and most effective way to improve their quality of life and state of health into older age.

Gone are the days when most women were told to take hormone replacement therapy (HRT) with the promise of staving off the ravages of ageing.

It seems that it takes more then a little white pill or a hormone-laced patch to ensure a healthy older age for women. Who would have thought?

In my opinion you need to start by deciding on the goal you are trying to achieve. I try to encourage women to think not just of the immediate symptoms, but of the broader health issues they potentially face.

If menopause symptoms are really troublesome, then that becomes the immediate priority.

Symptoms of Menopause

  • periods stopped, infrequent, or irregular hot flushes

  • night sweats

  • irritability

  • uncharacteristic emotional outbursts

  • loss of interest in sex

  • fatigue or lack of motivation

  • incontinence (leaking urine)

  • trouble concentrating and memory lapses

  • aches and pains

  • sleeplessness

Hormone therapy is available in oestrogen and progesterone singly or in combination in a range of doses, as pills, patches, implants, gels and creams. Testosterone and DHEA are sometimes added.

Related: Escape from hormone hell

Troches and “bio-identical hormones”

Many women have been attracted by the promise of “natural HRT”, “compounded troches” (like lozenges) or “bio-identical hormones”, believing them to be lower risk than other forms of hormone therapy. However this could be a case of “out of the frying pan, into the fire”.

There are no long-term safety studies of individually compounded HRT combinations. Like other forms of HRT, it will help symptoms in the short term but there is no proven difference in safety compared with regular HRT.

Other medications are sometimes prescribed, depending on the nature and severity of symptoms. These include clonidine and gabapentin (for flushes), SSRI antidepressants (for irritability and flushes) and tibolone.

Managing hot flushes

  • Quit smoking

  • Avoid or reduce foods or substances that may trigger flushes, such as spicy foods

  • Reduce caffeine and alcohol

  • Lower your stress levels

  • Exercise daily. Wear loose clothing and dress in layers

  • Herbal medicines such as black cohosh

  • Medication including HRT

  • Acupuncture

If you are one of those lucky women who barely noticed the transition, then the focus will be on optimising your health and wellbeing into the future. For some, menopause is a wake up call.

Older age increases the incidence of chronic disease, with many having a preventable component including heart disease, osteoporosis, osteoarthritis and diabetes.

Exercise

It helps bone and muscle strength, heart health, mental state and general wellbeing . It can also improve your sleep.

Diet

Healthy eating is important throughout life. Around menopause and beyond principles of low fat, plenty of water, a variety of fresh fruit and vegetables and grains, plenty of soy foods, fish and other sources of protein apply.

You will need a source of calcium from food or as a supplement. Supplements will not replace whole foods. However, many people do not consume the necessary amount of micronutrients in their diet so a daily multivitamin and mineral supplement can help.

Lignans may help menopause symptoms and are found in most cereals, seeds, vegetables and fruits, rye, millet and legumes with high concentrations in oils seeds, especially linseed and flaxseed.

Hot spicy food, coffee, tea and alcohol can all trigger hot flushes. As a general rule, lower intake of alcohol and caffeine is a good thing.

Overweight contributes to sweating and flushes as well as contributing to chronic diseases of ageing, so keep your weight in the healthy range.

Stress management

We all have pressures in our lives. If you can take control of stress, it makes it easier to cope with the physical and emotional challenges of menopause. Try some of these strategies:

Related: Learn to love your hot flushes

  • Time management

  • Professional counselling

  • Fostering a network of supportive friends

  • Techniques such as meditation, T’ai Chi or Yoga

  • Slow deep breathing (“paced respiration”)

  • Relaxation training.

  • Regular exercise

  • Refuse to accept negative stereotypes of ageingHerbal medicinesA variety of combinations of herbs can help symptoms of menopause. Make sure you get expert advice (including doses and combinations).Two examples are black cohosh and St John’s wort. Black cohosh, also known as Cimicifuga racemosa, has a beneficial effect on hot flushes, anxiety and vaginal dryness, said to be similar to or better than the effect of oestrogen.You can expect improvements after about 4 weeks.St John’s Wort is known to be effective for treatment of depression and irritability, in some cases it has been found to be as effective as pharmaceutical antidepressants with fewer side effects.Regardless of how well you have looked after yourself up until now, the big take-on-board message is that investing in healthy lifestyle now will make the difference in things like mobility, independence, and ultimately longevity.The current state of play means that if you are planing ahead for menopause, going through menopause symptoms or wanting the best for your health and wellbeing as you prepare for getting older…you will need to do some homework.There is no one-size-fits-all answer, and while the array of options might seem bewildering, there are some safe and simple strategies.Your say: What are your tips to deal with menopause

Herbal medicines

A variety of combinations of herbs can help symptoms of menopause. Make sure you get expert advice (including doses and combinations).

Two examples are black cohosh and St John’s wort. Black cohosh, also known as Cimicifuga racemosa, has a beneficial effect on hot flushes, anxiety and vaginal dryness, said to be similar to or better than the effect of oestrogen.

You can expect improvements after about 4 weeks.

St John’s Wort is known to be effective for treatment of depression and irritability, in some cases it has been found to be as effective as pharmaceutical antidepressants with fewer side effects.

Regardless of how well you have looked after yourself up until now, the big take-on-board message is that investing in healthy lifestyle now will make the difference in things like mobility, independence, and ultimately longevity.

The current state of play means that if you are planing ahead for menopause, going through menopause symptoms or wanting the best for your health and wellbeing as you prepare for getting older…you will need to do some homework.

There is no one-size-fits-all answer, and while the array of options might seem bewildering, there are some safe and simple strategies.

Your say: What are your tips to deal with menopause

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The people want King Charles, not King William

Charles overtakes William as people's choice for king

Prince William and Prince Charles attend an Order of the Garter Service in 2009.

Prince Charles is more popular than his son Prince William for the first time in a decade, a new poll has revealed.

Public pressure has been mounting for the crown to skip Charles and go straight to William, 30, in the event of Queen Elizabeth II’s death.

But Charles, 63, has seen a surge in popularity in the past 12 months, and has now overtaken William at the people’s choice for king.

Related: Prince Charles wows as weatherman

A new poll published in The Sun to mark the queen’s Diamond Jubilee found that 51 percent of those surveyed wanted Charles and Camilla as their next king and queen, while 40 percent wanted William and 9 percent weren’t sure.

Charles’ public image nosedived when his extramarital affair with Camilla was revealed in the early 1990s and reached an all-time low after his wife Princess Diana’s death in 1997.

His excellent relationship with his sons improved his popularity, but it decliined once again when he married Camilla in 2005, with many people saying they could never accept Camilla as their queen.

Charles has publicly “loosened up” over the past few months, recently reading the weather live on air for BBC Scotland and even trying his hand at DJing.

Camilla has also been mending her public image, supporting several charities and taking royal favourite Catherine, the Duchess of Cambridge, under her wing.

“This poll shows that Prince Charles is now pretty much rehabilitated,” Ben Page, chief executive of Ipsos MORI which conducted the poll.

“Time heals everything and people see he has been acting in a fit enough manner to be King.

“Camilla has also been doing a tremendous job, getting on quietly with a lot of good work, and I think this has not gone unnoticed.”

The poll also showed that support for the monarchy in Britain is at an all-time high, with 80 percent supporting the queen.

This increased popularity has led to the royal family being valued at more than £44 billion ($70 billion).

This figure includes £18.1 billion in assets, including the Crown Jewels and royal palaces, and the £26.4 billion in economic benefits the royals bring to the UK through tourism and other industries.

“The Monarchy is making a significant contribution to the task of driving Britain out of recession,” Brand Finance’s Jubilee Report 2012 reports. “When special one-off events are taken into consideration, the benefit for the economy is enormous.

“Novelty mugs and tea towels aside, the public relations benefits generated through the world’s intense interest in the royal family are equally significant. The value of what is essentially free publicity for the United Kingdom when considered in the long term, is enormous.

Related: Queen Elizabeth’s bizarre shoe secret

“The halo effect which results from the pageantry and history it represents, is something which is leveraged effectively by numerous brands, as well as the Monarchy itself, to provide a boost to both the economy and the brand of the United Kingdom currently valued at £44?billion.”

Your say: Do you want Prince Charles or Prince William as your next king?

Video: Prince Charles makes his debut as a DJ

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