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Should a woman carry the flag for Australia?

Should a woman carry the flag for Australia?

Leisel Jones, the first Australian swimmer to take part in four Olympics could hold the flag at the opening ceremony

The debate over who will lead the Australian team in the Olympic opening ceremony in London this Friday is heating up as athletes and flag bearing hopefuls demand a female be given the honour.

The last time our Olympians followed a woman into the opening ceremony stadium was in 1992 when four-time Olympian diver Jenny Donnet held the flag.

Donnet is of one only three Australian female athletes who have been selected to carry the flag, the others being Raelene Boyle (1976) and Denise Boyd (1980). Every other flag bearer since 1920 has been male.

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The choice of who has the honour of leading the team into the Olympics is supposed to reflect the best person to represent the nation’s athletes, but historically, our female athletes have outperformed the men.

Of Australia’s top five Olympic medal winners, four of them are women. Ian Thorpe is the only man, followed by Dawn Fraser, Leisel Jones, Petria Thomas, and Susie O’Neill.

One of Australia’s Olympic legends, hockey super-coach and silver medal winner Ric Charlesworth was the flag-bearer in Seoul in 1988. He’s now said it’s “time for a woman”.

“Australia has been lucky enough to have some great female athletes over the years including several who are here now,” he said.

“We have had quite a few males in succession and I would like to see them give a female athlete a chance.”

Gold medal winner and flag bearing contender Natalie Cook was more forceful, saying the decision to select a female to carry the flag in London, which will be her fifth Games, was “a no brainer”.

“I’ve walked behind four men. I think it’s definitely got to be a female,” she said, adding that she would sit in protest if a male carries the flag.

“From my view it has to be a women. Go the chicks.”

Though the decision won’t be revealed until Thursday night, Cook joked that that she has been practising her flag-carrying just in case.

The flag bearer will be decided by Australia’s chef de mission, Oarsome Foursome rowing medallist Nick Green, and will be announced at the team’s official reception in East London.

Although he is feeling pressure from many outspoken athletes, including seven-time world surfing champaion and Olympic athlete liaison office Layne Beachley, Green has said that a battle of the sexes would not effect his decision.

“Our flag bearer will be the best person to represent this country, as simple as that,” he said.

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Eight-time Olympic medallist Dawn Fraser is the latest to enter the debate, urging athletes to stay out of it.

“We shouldn’t be having this debate — the athletes will be listening to what being said and they have got more important things to worry about,” she said.

The top female contenders for the job include Natalie Cook, multiple medal winner and four-time Olympian Leisel Jones, and three-timer Libby Trickett.

Natalie Cook is the first female to represent at five summer Games, but shooters Michael Diamond and Russell Mark are at their sixth Olympics and equestrian Andrew Hoy enters his seventh.

Your say: Do you think a woman should be selected as the Australian team’s flag bearer?

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Princess Mary’s family happy snaps

Denmark’s Crown Prince Frederik and Princess Mary‘s children are certainly growing up fast! The pair showed off their adorable family at the Danish royal annual summer photocall on Friday, July 20.

With the youngest of their brood and one of the twins Princess Josephine sick in bed, her twin brother 18-month-old prince Vincent took his opportunity to be the centre of attention.

The family, who gathered at the picturesque gardens of Grasten Palace, smiled for happy snaps while the children including six-year-old Prince Christian and five-year-old Princess Isabella played in the gardens.

Proud grandparents Queen Margrethe and Prince Henrik also posed for photos along with other members of the Danish royal family.

Crown Prince Frederik and Princess Mary with their sons.

Princess mary helps Prince Vincent find the fish.

Prince Vincent is the star of the show.

Prince Vincent gets a hug from mum.

Princess Mary and her daughter Princess Isabella.

The Danish Royal family.

What a difference a year makes: The twins with their grandparents.

Prince Christian and Princess Josephine at last year’s photo call.

Crown Prince Frederik and Princess Mary with the twins and Princess Isabella.

Princess Mary with her daughters.

Crown Prince Frederik and Princess Mary and their family.

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Over 60s spend more time watching TV than other adults

Over 60s spend more time watching TV than other adults: study

While research into how many hours we spend in front of the TV and how this affects our health are usually focussed on children, a new study has found that seniors are the ones most affected.

A study by The University of Queensland found that Australians aged 60 and over spend more time watching TV than other adults. On average they watch nearly four hours a day, about an hour longer than younger adults.

“Up until now, most research about sitting and watching TV has been focused on children, while older adults have potentially the most to gain from changing their behaviour,” lead researcher of the study Dr Paul Gardiner said.

The research, conducted at The University of Queensland’s school of population health, found that those seniors who watch extended amounts of TV are at greater risk of developing type 2 diabetes.

The study found that for every hour a person watches TV they increase their risk of developing metabolic syndrome, which is a combination of medical disorders that can increase the risk of developing cardiovascular disease and diabetes.

The other lifestyle factors linked to metabolic syndrome include a lack of regular exercise, poor nutrition, high alcohol consumption and smoking.

Previous studies have shown that while lack of exercise is harmful, sedentary behavior is even worse and has a unique physiological effect on the body.

Dr Gardiner said that even light activity such as folding washing while watching TV, can reduce the risk of developing metabolic syndrome.

“Reducing sedentary behavior may be a feasible and practical way for older adults to improve their health and may be particularly important for those whose health or physical functioning limits their participation in moderate-intensity physical activity,” he said.

The study of almost 2,000 elderly Australians was one of the first to examine the effects of sedentary behavior and TV watching on older men and women. Following the study, an intervention program developed and run by Dr Gardiner, saw older people reduce their sitting time by an average of 30 minutes a day.

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Rudd ready to shape the nation

Rudd ready to shape the nation

Kevin Rudd with his daughter Jessica and her new baby.

Former Prime Minister Kevin Rudd has opened up to The Australian Women’s Weekly about his desire to shape the nation’s future.

In an interview with the Rudd family in the August issue of The Weekly, he said that keeping a level of public service and being involved directly in shaping Australia’s future is “just who I am”.

Related: Did Kevin Rudd’s daughter predict his own downfall?

Mr Rudd, who unsuccessfully challenged Julia Gillard for the Labor leadership earlier this year, now finds himself again at the centre of leadership speculation.

Since the February ballot which saw the then foreign minister moved to the backbench, Mr Rudd has welcomed his first grandchild, Josephine Tse, the first child of Kevin’s daughter Jessica and her husband Albert Tse.

In an interview with Australian Women’s Weekly Editor-in-Chief Helen McCabe in the family’s Brisbane home, Mr Rudd said becoming a grandfather had prompted him to think about the kind of country and world he wants baby Josephine to grow up in.

“There’s a feeling about what sort of community and country you want this new generation to be brought up in,” the former Prime Minister said.

“Without wanting to sound too pious about it all, you just have a keen eye to where will the country be in half a century’s time when this little one’s contemplating grandchildren,” he said.

Although polls indicate Labor will be in opposition by the next election, Mr Rudd, who has held the Brisbane seat of Griffith since 1998 told The Weekly he was happy to renominate, saying an ongoing role in public service is part of who he is.

“You gotta be who you are, so whatever position you occupy in life is less important,” he said.

“What’s more important is being involved directly in shaping the nation’s future, to the extent that you can.”

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And now, he says, there’s a real personal dimension.

“So I suppose what I’m saying through all that is: when you see this little possum … you think of where she’ll be beyond that and what sort of Australia and what sort of world she lives in.

“So many things that we take as certainties now will not necessarily be certain (when she grows up) so, you know, having always been a bit of a nerd about these questions, unapologetically so, and that is trying to think through the future and how we secure a good and fair and prosperous future for the country.”

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No more makeup and heels for Suri Cruise

Suri Cruise's love of makeup, high heels and designer clothes is infamous, but the six-year-old's diva days are reportedly numbered.
Suri Cruise wearing her lipstick

Suri Cruise’s love of makeup, high heels and designer clothes is infamous, but the six-year-old’s diva days are reportedly numbered.

Katie Holmes is said to be determined that Suri lead a more “normal” life to make her transition to school easier.

Suri has been enrolled at New York’s prestigious Convent of the Sacred Heart, an all-girls Catholic school, and Katie doesn’t want her daughter to stand out and become a target for bullies.

Katie is reportedly clearing Suri’s extensive closet and cosmetics drawer, turning down all designer freebies and ordering in more “age-appropriate” items from chain stores.

“Katie has been returning unsolicited gifts and loans from designers for Suri since she arrived in New York,” a source told Reveal magazine.

“She’s issued instructions to remove Suri from all freebie lists. She’s also put the word out in LA to stop any mini-me diva products being sent her way. Tom loved to spoil Suri and indulge her, but Katie has other ideas.”

Suri was first photographed wearing high heels and lipstick when she was three years old.

Tom has frequently defended his daughter’s controversial fashion choices, saying his encouraged her to wear whatever she wanted.

“In Spain, they wear the high-heeled flamenco dance shoes form birth,” he told Britain’s GMTV in 2009.

“Listen, I believe that she should wear whatever she wants to wear. She dresses herself. I want to encourage her creativity and her own self-expression. I think that’s important for the child’s own identity.”

Tom’s approach is consistent with his religion Scientology, which encourages parents to treat children like adults and allow them to make their own decisions about everything from what they eat to what they wear.

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Video: Antonio Banderas caught dirty dancing with actress

Video: Antonio Banderas caught dirty dancing with actress

It looks like Antonio Banderas is at it again. Amid rumours that his marriage to Melanie Griffiths is on the rocks, new video has emerged of him getting steamy on the dance floor with actress Mallika Sherawat.

The video (above) shows the pair dirty dancing aboard a yacht at this year’s international Cannes Film Festival, while Melanie was at home in Los Angeles. Ivan Bitton, Mallika’s stylist who attended the party, told Radar online that Antonio was definitely interested in Mallika.

“Antonio was very attracted to Mallika and you can see that from the video,” he said.

“Antonio grabbed her from behind, and he was really into the dance. I could hear Antonio telling Mallika how beautiful she was.

“However, as Antonio and Mallika were dancing together, a haggard looking woman in her 40s, came up to them and violently pushed Mallika out of the way. It was like a move out of the jungle or something. I just grabbed Mallika’s hand and we went downstairs, we didn’t want to deal with any drama. The woman that pushed Mallika was definitely not Melanie Griffith.”

Despite the pair sharing a moment on the dance floor, Ivan insists there is nothing going on between the two.

“You could tell Antonio was hot for Mallika and she was flattered, but she would never get involved with a married man, it’s totally not her thing,” he said.

This video is the latest in a long string of reports that Antonio’s marriage is on the rocks. In April 2012, Woman’s Day exclusively reported that Antonio had been caught kissing another woman, while just last week Melanie, 54, was spotted shopping without her wedding ring.

“[Melanie] is playing hard to get,” an unnamed source told Radar Online.

“She has always known how to keep him on his toes and it wasn’t a coincidence that the cameras caught her with her wedding ring off! Ultimately she will probably stay with him but not before making him squirm.

“The last thing Banderas wants is a nasty high-profile divorce. Despite their problems he still loves her and will do anything to keep her from leaving him.”

The pair are currently keeping their distance with Melanie holidaying with their children in Aspen and Hawaii, while Banderas is busy with work.

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Olympics outrage: Female athletes fly economy, men fly business

Female Olympians get second-class treatment

Australian women's basketball team the Opals

Australian female athletes are being given second-class treatment on their long-haul journey to the London Olympics.

The Australian women’s basketball team, the Opals, have confirmed that they had different travel arrangements to the men’s teams.

While the Boomers made the long-haul flight trip in business class, the Opals were bailed up in premium economy — they were upgraded from their original economy class booking.

Related: Women still doing more housework than men

The Opals have never complained about the unfairness of differing travel standards between the teams, but have today spoken out joining an escalating international debate sparked by revelations that the Japanese women’s soccer team flew economy to London while their lower-ranked men’s team were up front in business.

Like the Japan’s soccer players, our female basketballers have a strong chance of securing gold in London. The Opals have won silver medals at the last three Olympics, but while the men’s team have come close, they have never won an Olympic medal.

While the Opals haven’t commented on the record over the issue, it’s clear they’re not happy about their lesser travel arrangements.

Basketball Australia has denied sexism, claiming the player’s average heights determine their seating.

“Different factors are taken into account when organising travel arrangements for our national teams — height and size being a primary consideration,” a spokesperson said.

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“The average height of our male basketball players is 200.2cm. The average height of our female basketball players is 183cm.

“Ultimately, each national team has a budget, and the leadership group of each team is consulted on how that budget is spent — including travel arrangements.”

Your say: Do you think female Olympians should get the same travel privileges as men?

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What to do when your ex is spoiling your child

What to do when your ex is spoiling your child

Tom Cruise taking Suri for a helicopter ride around Manhattan yesterday.

Tom Cruise jetted into New York yesterday and whisked his daughter Suri away for a morning helicopter ride, leaving Katie Holmes to ponder a question all too familiar to many mums: How do you deal with a good time dad?

It’s a scenario millions of mothers — and some fathers — can relate to.

One parent shoulders the burden of discipline, care and all the mundane aspects of daily life while the other charges in every second weekend with presents, trips to the zoo and ice cream for dinner.

Related: What to do when your kids don’t get along

Before long, the kids are uttering the heartbreaking words every separated mother dreads, “But daddy lets me…”

Parenting expert Janet Cater, author of Why won’t my child listen?, says mums need to react calmly and avoid criticising their former partner at all costs.

“It can be awful to hear those words and tempting to retaliate by bagging out your former partner but that will only hurt your child,” Janet says.

“You need to be calm and say, ‘In this house we do it this way. Everybody is different. Mum and dad are different, but we both love you.’

“Snapping and saying something nasty about your ex won’t help. You need to accept that your child will love their other parent no matter what, and trying to undermine that love will just confuse and upset your child.”

Janet says it can be “soul-destroying” to watch your ex try to buy your child’s love with pricey gifts, but insists that kids eventually see through these tactics.

Instead of trying to compete, mothers should focus on spending quality time with their children and building bonds that have nothing to do with money.

“What we want the kids to understand is, presents and sweets and helicopter rides do not equate to love,” Janet says. “A child will grow up and appreciate that in the long run.

“What the father is trying to do is buy affection and you can’t. The mother needs to do those things where you bond, the talking, laughing, listening, cuddling, going to the beach, hanging out, reading stories. They are things that you can’t buy, but they are priceless to the child.”

It is also important to give children time to adjust to their new situation.

It can be tempting to interrogate your child when they return from a weekend with the other parent, but giving them space will make the transition easier for them.

Related: How to help your child lose weight

“Mums have to imagine that their house is Mars and the father’s house is Jupiter and that Mars and Jupiter are completely different to each other,” Janet says.

“You need to understand that your child is going to feel quite disorientated when they come home to you. It can be tempting to give the child the Spanish Inquisition, ‘What did you do, where did you go, what did your dad say.’

“The child needs time to land back on Mars and be given space to deal with the change. The child will tell you what they did in their own time.”

Your say: Have you dealt with a good time parent? How did you handle it?

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Hollywood movies make kids more promiscuous

Hollywood movies make kids more promiscuous

Characters from raunchy 1999 teen film American Pie.

Parents are endlessly warned about the corrupting influence of pornography on children, but a new study shows sex scenes in mainstream movies can be just as damaging.

Psychologists found that kids exposed to sexy scenes in Hollywood films were more likely to be promiscuous, have unprotected sex, and lose their virginity at a younger age.

Indeed, for every hour of exposure to sexual content in films, the teens studied were more than five times more likely to lose their virginity before their 18th birthday.

Related: Why girls are having sex at 12

“Adolescents who are exposed to more sexual content in movies start having sex at younger ages, have more sexual partners, and are less likely to use condoms with casual sexual partners,” study leader Dr Ross O’Hara said.

“This study, and its confluence with other work, strongly suggests that parents need to restrict their children from seeing sexual content in movies at young ages.”

Researchers from Dartmoor College in the UK studied 1228 teens between the ages of 12 and 14.

Each child was asked to identify which popular films they had seen from a random list of 50.

Six years later, the participants were questioned about their sexual behaviour, including how old they were when they became sexually active, how many partners they had and whether they had used condoms.

The findings proved a link between exposure to sex on screen and sexual behaviour.

The same researchers also analysed the sexual content of 684 of the highest-grossing films between 1998 and 2004.

Surprisingly, more than a third of G-rated movies had “sexual content”, which for the purpose of the study was defined as anything from kissing to full-blown sex scenes.

More than 50 percent of PG films contained sexual content, and four in five R-rated films.

Related: What all parents need to know about sexting

The raunchiest films were Spike Lee’s Summer of Sam, 40 Days and 40 Nights and American Pie.

“These movies appear to fundamentally influence their personality through changes in sensation-seeking, which has far-reaching implications for all of their risk-taking behaviours,” Dr O’Hara said.

This study was published in the current issue of Psychological Science.

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Is Yolanda Pecoraro the next Mrs Tom Cruise?

The Church of Scientology has reportedly already found Tom Cruise a new wife - devout Scientologist Yolanda Pecoraro.
Tom Cruise and Yolanda Pecoraro.

The Church of Scientology has reportedly already found Tom Cruise a new wife — “Scientology Princess” Yolanda Pecoraro.

Yolanda, a struggling Latin actress, is said to be the “perfect match” for Tom. She is 27, beautiful, and a serial Scientology girlfriend, with two long-term relationships with senior church members under her belt.

Tom’s minders in the bizarre religion are allegedly keen for him to remarry quickly to neutralise the negative publicity resulting from the actor’s divorce from Katie Holmes.

“With the embarrassment his divorce has caused the church, they want to stabilise the situation quickly,” a source told gossip magazine The National Enquirer.

“They also want to show that Tom has rebounded fast and that his new wife is beautiful and steeped in Scientology. If the church decides to make Yolanda Tom’s next wife, they’d certainly want her to have a child soon.

“So she could quickly be going from her modest apartment to a mansion in Beverly Hills with a baby on the way. And there’s little doubt she’d do what’s best for the church.”

Yolanda’s parents were Scientologists and she is said to have started taking lessons when she was 13, earning her the nickname “Scientology Princess”.

She has also reportedly dated Tom before. The couple are said to have met at the opening of a Scientology centre in Spain in 2004.

A month later, Tom and Yolanda were photographed at a soccer game with David and Victoria Beckham, seemingly confirming their relationship.

Yolanda has so far refused to confirm or deny rumours she is Tom’s next wife, but gave the publication a cryptic comment: “Yes, I knew and still know Tom Cruise. And no, I’m not married or engaged.”

Yolanda currently lives in California with her boyfriend.

Tom was married to Mimi Rogers from 1987-1990, Australian actress Nicole Kidman from 1990-2001 and Katie Holmes from 2006-2012.

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