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Collette Dinnigan: I’m lucky to be pregnant at 46

Collette Dinnigan

Australian fashion designer has given birth to a healthy baby boy

Fashion designer Collette Dinnigan considers herself “very very lucky” to be expecting her second child at age 46, but wants to warn other women not to leave pregnancy so late.

Dinnigan, who will be 47 when her son is due in November, underwent years of IVF treatments with her husband Bradley Cocks, 36, before falling pregnant after switching to “a more natural approach” she told Sunday Life magazine.

Related: 48-year-old mum of 10 expecting quintuplets

She told the magazine she thought she was invincible in her 30s, not thinking that she would have to rely on assisted reproductive treatments which have caused her and so many other older hopeful parents much heartache.

“In my 30s, I didn’t even realise that women’s eggs aged,” she said.

“You have a career, life slips by and suddenly you’re 40.”

She urged older women not to take the chance of trying to have children later in life.

“We might just be very, very lucky,” she said. “We are thrilled. You can’t expect to have a child at this age. We’re blessed.”

According to IVF Australia’s medical director Associate Professor Peter Illingworth, Dinnigan is lucky indeed, with the chance of a 46-year-old woman falling pregnancy either naturally or via IVF with her own eggs only one percent.

Related: I had a baby at 50 — without IVF

Even then, the chance of miscarriage greatly increases with age. The miscarriage rate for women aged 40 and over is 25 percent, jumping to 50 percent for women aged 45 and over.

“I completely agree with Collette Dinnigan,” Professor Illingworth said.

“We recommend that women should try to start a family as soon as they are in a position to do so.”

Your say: Do you think women who want children should be mindful of their age?

Video: IVF designer babies

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Patagonia: land of the condor

Patagonia is a windswept wilderness of staggering beauty and the only way to see it is to put on your boots and go trekking, writes Mike Dolan.
The Perito Moreno Glacier, Argentina

Imagine for a moment, we’re in Patagonia in southern Chile, a place so remote, it’s been called “the land at the end of the earth”. We’re on a trek with 10 strangers in one of the world’s most beautiful national parks, Torres Del Paine. It’s exhilarating, but also a little alarming.

After three days walking through alpine meadows under the lofty snow-capped peaks of the Andes, we haven’t seen a house or a parking meter, let alone a dirt road. Familiar household sounds, such as the old fridge humming in the corner of the kitchen or the faint babble of a sit-com emanating from next door, are distant memories. Instead, there’s the unsettling sound of flapping canvas as our tents are buffeted by a stiff breeze. And the only neighours are guanacos, delicate llama-like creatures, that stare straight through us.

In fact, the one constant is the wind in all its moods, whether it’s momentarily light enough to ruffle your hair or strong enough to slap you in the face. Even the condors seem to be at its mercy as they reel across the sky.

Patagonia lies within the roaring forties and crosses the borders of Argentina and Chile, that band below 40 degrees south, where the air is in perpetual motion around the planet and, as we trek through this spectacular wilderness past sombre lakes and luminous glaciers, the manifold sounds it creates as it sweeps over the landscape become our companions.

The rustling leaves in the forests of stunted beech trees sound like reassuring whispers: “Just another stream to ford, it’s getting easier, one more slope to climb and success is yours.”

Even when a thumping blast almost knocks you off your feet, the echo that comes resounding back after it has slammed into a 1000-metre wall of granite sounds like the roaring applause from a distant stadium.

Yet, most welcome of all, is the steady blow that suddenly comes from behind and pushes you triumphantly up a hill. This is when our fellow trekkers swallow their curses and laugh with delight.

The holy grail of this park are three giant granite pillars, the Torres Del Paine (Towers of Paine), that soar almost vertically for 2000 metres above the Patagonian steppe. Around sunrise and sunset, these colossi turn vibrant pink. It’s Patagonia’s Uluru, a rock that also changes colour just before dusk — from rust to blood red. Some people confuse Patagonia with the pampas, the endlessly flat steppe in Argentina that stretches from one horizon to the other — sometimes called the “Nullabor of South America”.

In reality, Patagonia has many landscapes. In the Torres Del Paine National Park, the pampas gives way to undulating hills that in turn are dwarfed by the great bulk of the Andes. In spring, wide U-shaped valleys fill with wild flowers as frozen streams thaw and begin to flow.

Even so, only the trekkers seem impressed. The guanacos appear to have seen it all before. So have the flocks of small emu-like birds (rheas) that keep strutting across the grassland. Maybe, they are too busy keeping an eye out for the ever-present, but rarely seen puma, Patagonia’s top predator.

Now and then, trekkers catch sight of Patagonian cowboys (known as huasos in Chile and gauchos in Argentina) galloping across the pampas as they round up wild horses. Once they were graziers, but since Torres Del Paine was declared a UNESCO Biosphere World Reserve in 1978, livestock has been banned in the park.

On our trek, the wind blew constantly for a week. Then one day as we were walking on a track between a beech forest and Glacier Grey, it vanished in an instant, as if kidnapped and dropped into a vast chasm. They say silence is golden. And believe me, in Patagonia it is. When all is still, the landscape comes alive. Bird song fills the air and even the guanacos return your gaze.

On the day the wind died, Glacier Grey, a five-kilometre wide rugged river of ice, let out a great sigh – one worthy of Methuselah. Startling at first, it was followed by a sonar-like ping and deafening crack. “Those are the sounds of pent-up forces being released,” the tour leader said reassuringly. “She’s a mover, all right, deep down.” More than 20,000 years old, Glacier Grey is very much awake and on the move. Yet its bulk is so vast and its speed so slow that to the human eye it appears as stationary as the mountains that surround it, until that is, some monumental block of ice, weaker than the rest, is crushed by a glacial cataclysm.

Sadly, the glaciers in Patagonia are in retreat, on average by four metres a year. Not even the Great Patagonia Ice Sheet, one of the largest after the Poles, is immune to global warming.

Of all the glaciers, the big fella is Perito Moreno. You’ll find it at the end of a six-hour drive along a rugged dirt road in Argentina, past the frontier town of Califate, in Los Glaciares National Park. It’s one of the biggest glaciers in the world and worth every pothole and bump getting there.

If you’re relatively fit, a trek through the Torres Del Paine National Park can be a life-affirming experience. Only the experts climb the mountains and cross the crevasses; for the rest of us it’s a daily six-to-nine-hour slog across moderate terrain. However, if you’re the type of person who drives 200 metres to pick up a pack of cigarettes, best not.

Which brings us to what is billed as the trek’s high point – the pilgrimage to the Torres (Towers) of Paine. It was a trying seven-hour walk at trek’s end — first, through a beautiful beech forest and then across a nightmarish moraine field strewn with boulders. And on the appointed day, what came into view? A large dam full of dirty water, a stupendous rock face and the colossi looking bashfully brown under a leaden sky. No glowing pink for us!

Be warned: Patagonia can weave a spell. In his celebrated book, In Patagonia, author Bruce Chatwin records a conversation with a poet of 40 years’ residence: “His fingers gripped my arm. He fixed me with an intense and luminous stare. “Patagonia!” he cried. “She is a hard mistress. She casts her spell. An enchantress! She folds you in her arms and never lets go.”

And, in part, it’s true. Once visited, never forgotten. Will you return? That depends on whether you can sing along happily with the wind.

TRAVEL TIPS

Summer trekkers who find it difficult to sleep in a tent with flapping canvas can stay in refugios — snug hostels, built of wood, usually next to the park’s main landmarks. 

Achieve a good fitness level before going. 

Buy a good pair of trekking boots and wear them in gradually before your vacation to avoid getting blisters on the trek. 

Take a large day backpack, warm sleeping bag, fleece and light waterproof jacket and trousers; water bottle and sun block and hat; plus trekking snacks such as muesli bars. 

Dress in layers of clothing, so you can peel off and put on clothes as needed. 

Get in the spirit and read some of the following books:In Patagonia(Bruce Chatwin),The Old Patagonian Express(Paul Theroux), Lonely Planet guide toArgentina, Uruguay and Paraguay(includes Chilean Patagonia).

Lan and Qantas fly daily to Santiago, via Auckland or Los Angeles. From Santiago, Lan has a daily four-hour flight south to Punta Arenas, where a five-hour drive to Puerto Natales takes you to the Torres Del Paine National Park. World Expeditions has six tours/treks to Patagonia, several of which visit Torres Del Paine National Park. Chilean Tourism Promotion Corporation is a great place to start planning your travels.

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Prince Harry dumped by ‘humiliated’ girlfriend

Prince Harry stood up by girlfriend

Prince Harry and his reported new love interest, Burberry model Cressida Bonas, 23.

Prince Harry is single again, with his new girlfriend calling time on their burgeoning romance after seeing pictures of him partying naked in Las Vegas with another woman.

Harry had been dating model Cressida Bonas, 23, since June and the pair have been spotted canoodling in several London nightspots.

Related: Harry deletes Facebook account after nude scandal

Harry spent a week with Cressida on Richard Branson’s exclusive Necker Island just before his ill-fated Las Vegas trip, and friends say the couple were starting to get serious.

“They had been for a few dates including one just before Necker,” a source told the Sunday Mirror. “Things went further there between them and they had a great time fooling around.

“Everyone in their group thought they were getting it on. Cressida definitely saw the romance as a goer and is gutted by what happened.”

Cressida was reportedly “humiliated” when naked images of Harry and a mystery blonde woman were published worldwide last week.

She is said to be furious and now wants nothing to do with the party prince.

“He’s ruined his chances now,” a friend of the heiress said. “Harry has blown it. Cressida saw a future with him, but he clearly isn’t as serious about her as he claimed to be.”

Another friend added: “Cressida is pretty peeved.”

Related: Harry’s bodyguards ‘too busy partying’ to stop naked photos

Cressida is the daughter of 1960s model and banking heiress Lady Mary-Gaye Curzon.

She was introduced to Harry by his cousin Princess Eugenie, who has been friends with the model for a few years.

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Diana: Queen of Hearts remembered

Prince William and Kate's touching tribute will make sure that Diana, Princess of Wales, will never be forgotten.

She was known as the Princess of Hearts and her death was mourned from the slums of Africa to the White House and everywhere in between. And now, Prince William, and wife, Catherine, have made sure that she will never be forgotten.

It was announced overnight that the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge had decided to name their newborn daughter, Princess Charlotte Elizabeth Diana of Cambridge, with her middle name a touching salute to her late grandmother, Diana, Princess of Wales.

Princess Charlotte of Cambridge, who was born on the 2nd of May, will carry her beloved grandmother’s name and memory with her forever.

In celebration of Princess Charlotte and the grandmother that would’ve given anything to meet her, we look back at Diana’s extraordinary life and those she touched.

A glowing Princess Diana in 1986.

Diana was affectionately dubbed ‘The People’s Princess’, and was loved universally around the world.

Diana in March, 1981, before her marriage to Charles.

Lady Diana Spencer was just 20 when she became engaged to Charles, Prince of Wales.

Diana and Charles announcing their engagement in 1981.

Diana selected her own engagement ring, an iconic sapphire surrounded by diamonds.

Diana and Charles on their wedding day.

Diana and Charles’ wedding was watched by more than 750 million people.

Diana and Charles on their honeymoon.

The royal couple’s relationship was painted as a fairy tale.

Charles, Diana and baby William at Kensington Palace.

Soon after their wedding, Diana and Charles welcomed their first son, Prince William. Diana was just 21.

Charles, Diana and baby William.

Diana was absolutely smitten with Prince William.

Diana presents Prince Harry to the world in 1985.

The Prince and Princess of Wales soon followed William with their second son, Prince Henry ‘Harry’ of Wales.

Diana and Harry.

Diana subverted royal tradition and sent away nannies and sitters, so she could care for William and Harry herself.

Charles, Diana, Harry and William on holiday in Italy.

The family were close-knit.

The Wales family on the royal yacht.

William and Harry accompanied their parents on royal tours, at Diana’s request, so they would not be separated.

An undated photo of Diana in Canada.

Diana was a fashion icon, and remains til this day, one of the most photographed women of all time.

Diana in Australia in 1983.

Diana and her boys on Harry’s first day of nursery school.

As her children grew up, Diana began to retreat from public life.

Diana in Australia in 1983.

Pretty in pink at the Sydney Opera House in 1983.

Charles and Diana in Australia.

Diana doing charity work in Angola in 1997.

Diana was dedicated to her philanthropic work throughout her life.

Diana in Australia.

She never shied away from getting her hands dirty.

A glamorous post-divorce Diana.

Even after she divorced Prince Charles and stepped down from public life, Diana was followed and reported on every day.

Diana on her 36th birthday in 1997, shortly before her death.

In the last months of her life, Diana received endless criticism for her relationship with Dodi Fayed.

Charles, William and Harry viewing floral tributes to Diana.

Diana was tragically killed in a car crash in 1997.

Philip, William, Earl Spencer, Harry and Charles following Diana’s coffin.

Her sons, Prince William and Prince Harry, were just 15 and 13 at the time.

But Prince William, now 32, married and with two children, has ensured that his mother will never be forgotten.

Prince William and Catherine named their daughter, Princess Charlotte Elizabeth Diana, in tribute to her.

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Prince Harry deletes Facebook account after nude scandal

Prince Harry deletes Facebook account after nude scandal

Prince Harry

Prince Harry has deleted his Facebook account amid fears more private photos of him could be leaked by his unsuspecting friends.

The 27-year-old royal is a huge fan of the social networking site, and has been using it for four years under the pseudonym Spike Wells.

Harry used the site to keep in touch with his 400 online ‘friends’, post photos of his holidays and write cryptic comments about his party-hard lifestyle.

Related: Should Harry be stripped of his royal title?

He was updating his Facebook profile as recently as last week.

But after naked photos of the prince partying in Las Vegas were leaked to the press on Wednesday, Harry was advised to delete the account.

His private secretary Jamie Lowther-Pinkerton — who is heading a royal enquiry into the ill-fated Las Vegas jaunt — began damage control by telling the Prince to delete any private social networking accounts.

Harry’s friends Tom ‘Skippy’ Inskip and Arthur Landon and a royal protection officer — all three of whom accompanied the Prince to Vegas — have also deleted their accounts.

The Scotland Yard protection officer in question has frequently posted pictures of Harry on his account, referring to him in captions as “Spike”.

While neither Harry, nor his three accomplices posted pictures from Las Vegas on Facebook, Arthur Landon uploaded some questionable images from a recent trip to Necker Island.

Harry, Arthur and other friends partied for a week on Richard Branson’s luxurious private island immediately before they headed to Vegas.

Arthur posted a series of images from that holiday, including one of his suitcase which contained a gas mask, a storm trooper costume and what appeared to be a purple bong — a device used to smoke drugs.

Another image appeared to show Prince Harry passed out on the sand with the caption: “The perfect start”.

Related: How the Queen will punish Harry

Harry is not the only royal to use Facebook under a pseudonym — his brother William created an account using the name “Wills Wombat Wales”, which he used until his true identity was uncovered and he was forced to quit.

Your say: Has social networking destroyed our privacy?

Video: Prince Harry parties with bridesmaids in Las Vegas

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Grandmother gives birth to her own grandson

Grandmother gives birth to her own grandson

Angel Hebert’s little son Madden is just like any other healthy two-week-old baby. The story of how he was born, however, is anything but ordinary.

Angel’s 49-year-old mother, Linda Sirois, from Maine in the US, gave birth to her own grandson after Angel was told it was too dangerous for her to go through with a pregnancy, due to a heart condition.

Linda had long suspected her daughter may have problems due to her condition, and for years had told Angel that if she was unable to carry a child, she would be a surrogate for her.

‘It was all pretty simple as far as I was concerned,” Linda told the Portland Press Herald.

“I just saw it as I was babysitting for a few months.”

Angel, 25, and her 29-year-old husband, Brian, were told last year by doctors that it was unsafe for Angel to give birth.

“It was pretty disappointing and we were pretty upset about it,” Angel said “But we kind of had an idea that it was a possibility and, all along, my mother was saying, ‘I’m here and I can carry for you.’ I guess we didn’t really take her seriously.”

Angel says after getting the bad news from doctors, she called her mum to ask if her offer to be a surrogate was still on the table, and Linda immediately began calling fertility clinics.

After finding one that would help them, Linda was successfully implanted with her daughter’s egg, which had been fertilised with her husband’s sperm.

From there, everything ran smoothly, with Linda saying it was the easiest of all of her pregnancies with no morning sickness or complications.

Baby Madden Hebert was born on August 13 via C-section, with Angel standing by her mother’s side.

Linda says it is not unusual for a grandmother to be a surrogate for her own grandchild.

“I just saw it as I was babysitting for a few months,” she said. “It was their child all along. It was just a room for rent.”

Video: See more of Angel and Linda in the video player above.

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The hefty price of raising Suri Cruise

The hefty price of raising Suri Cruise

How much does it cost to raise celebrity tot Suri Cruise? According to leaked divorce settlement documents, by the time she turns 18, her dad Tom Cruise will have paid a total of $4.8 million.

The leaked divorce documents, published on TMZ, reveal that Tom will fork out $384,000 a year in child support as well as medical and educational costs.

While Suri’s lavish lifestyle is costing Tom big bucks, the website reports that the settlement does not include a lump sum payment or any alimony for Katie.

Suri is already getting used to a more casual lifestyle living with her mum in New York. She has taken her first commercial flight after a lifetime of flying in her father’s private jet, and is enrolled in school rather than being home-taught.

Meanwhile, while Suri is with her mum, her dad Tom has been spotted supporting his son Connor at his latest DJ gig at London hotspot Chinawhite.

According to UK reports, Connor was left embarrassed by his dad after Tom banned alcohol from the DJ box and was spotted chatting up Playboy bunny twins Carla and Melissa Howe.

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Lisa McCune’s love triangle

Lisa McCune's love triangle

Much-loved star Lisa McCune shocks friends and fans alike as she divides her time between hot new love Teddy and husband Tim.

Lisa McCune spent last Tuesday morning hand-in-hand with her husband Tim Disney in Melbourne before flying back to Sydney and straight into the arms of her South Pacific co-star Teddy Tahu Rhodes. The two performed to a sell-out crowd at Sydney Opera House that night, just hours after Lisa was spotted at her children’s private school holding hands with Tim after a weekend together.

The couple’s united front at their children’s school in an upmarket Melbourne suburb did little to stop speculation about their marriage after Woman’s Day sensationally revealed Lisa’s steamy relationship with Teddy last week. Lisa and Tim arrived together, with Tim clutching Lisa’s hand as they walked their children, Archer, 11, Oliver, 8, and Remy, 7, into school. Both kept their sunglasses on but were smiling and appeared comfortable in each other’s company.

Just hours later Lisa looked more than comfortable when she took to the stage with Teddy in South Pacific, in which they play lovers and even share a passionate kiss as part of their performance. “The chemistry was simply electric,” says one female fan, who watched Teddy, 46, and Lisa, 41, perform on Tuesday night, just a day after the scandal broke. “It’s strange but riveting watching them, knowing about the affair. I wouldn’t want to be her husband right now!”

Teddy, who is known as the “Brad Pitt of the opera world”, is understood to have separated from his second wife of just three years, US mezzo-soprano Isabel Leonard, who moves between New York and London and is raising their two-year-old son Teo.

Read more about Lisa’s love triangle in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday August 27, 2012.

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Tom Cruise’s new heartache

Tom Cruise's new heartache

Still reeling from his shock divorce, a gaunt-looking Tom Cruise is shattered by news of his friend’s death.

Just when Tom Cruise thought life couldn’t get any harder, he was forced to contend with two heartbreaking events in the same week. The actor – who has been looking increasingly gaunt and tired since Katie Holmes announced her intention to divorce him – is said to have lost 6kg from his already lean frame within three weeks.

Not only did his divorce from Katie, 33, officially go through last week, but Tom was also devastated by the news that his good friend Tony Scott, 68, plunged to his death from an LA suspension bridge just two days after they met up to scout film locations for a sequel to their 1986 blockbuster Top Gun.

Tom, 50, who also co-starred with his ex-wife Nicole Kidman in Tony’s 1990 racing hit Days Of Thunder, issued an emotional statement soon after hearing the news. “Tony was my dear friend and I will really miss him,” Tom says. “He was a creative visionary whose mark on film is immeasurable. My deepest sorrow and thoughts are with his family at this time.”

It’s no wonder this is the loneliest time in Tom’s life. With his divorce signed off by a judge last Wednesday and his beloved daughter Suri, 6, spending most of her time with her mother, it’s believed Tom is struggling to grasp just how his life spiralled out of control so quickly.

Read more about Tom’s heartache in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday August 27, 2012.

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Will the Queen step down?

Will the Queen step down?

With her husband’s health failing, the buzz is that HM will abdicate – and bypass Prince Charles for Wills!

It’s been a massive year for Queen Elizabeth. She’s experienced the highs of her Diamond Jubilee celebrations and watched her country bask in the glory of the Olympic Games. But behind the scenes, it’s believed there’s only one thing on her mind – the deteriorating health of her husband, Prince Philip. As he was rushed to hospital for the third time in eight months, it’s believed murmurings have begun behind Palace walls for a succession plan – one that is likely to sensationally see Prince William take the throne over his father, Prince Charles.

“The Queen is a tremendously strong-willed woman but she is not keen to face public life without Prince Philip beside her,” royal expert Bill Coles tells Woman’s Day. “Now that he’s been in hospital for another extended stay, she recognises that, at the age of 91, he can’t keep up with her. The Queen is determined to be there for Prince Philip. He’s the love of her life.”

Our sources have revealed that when British Prime Minister David Cameron was informed the Queen, 86, was considering stepping down, he addressed the matter in their weekly meeting. “He hopes to convince the Queen to appoint William as her successor,” says our exclusive source from inside the British Conservative Party. “The Prime Minister offered his opinion that were Prince William to succeed the Queen he would be ‘a vibrant monarch and one that would unite his country behind him’.

“There is considerable concern that Prince Charles is less likeable and that the prospect of his wife Camilla becoming queen would be deeply unpopular with much of Britain.” It’s believed the Prime Minister’s subtle hints were not taken kindly by the sharp monarch. “He didn’t get a warm response from the Queen, who would only say, ‘I believe William has the makings of an extraordinary king – when his time comes.’”

Read more, including the details of Prince Harry’s wild week in Vegas in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday August 27, 2012.

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