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Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban kiss at the tennis

They've been married for six years, but Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban behaved more like newlyweds on the weekend, passionately kissing for the cameras at the US Open.
Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban kiss

They’ve been married for six years, but Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban behaved more like newlyweds on the weekend, passionately kissing for the cameras at the US Open.

The famously private couple couldn’t resist a public smooch while watching the tennis in Flushing Meadows, New York.

At one stage, Keith, 44, leaned over the wife of the president of the United States Tennis Association to plant a huge kiss on Nicole, 45, who seemed thrilled with the attention.

Their public display of affection also delighted tennis fans, who cheered and applauded as the couple kissed.

Nicole and Keith enjoy a kiss at the tennis.

Keith couldn’t resist leaning over his host to kiss Nicole.

The crowd cheered and clapped as the couple smooched.

Nicole and Keith have been married six years.

The couple have two children, Sunday Rose and Faith Margaret.

Nicole and Keith.

Nicole looked much younger than her 45 years.

Nicole and Keith were in excellent spirits.

Nicole looked lovely at the sporting event.

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How to grow crab apples for spring

Crab apple trees are hardier than a cherry tree and the blossom lasts longer in our harsher climate, too.
Spring into glory with crab apples

The Japanese have a ceremony where they watch the first of the cherry blossom unfold. We watch our crab apple tree do the same thing — crab apple trees are hardier than a cherry tree and the blossom lasts longer in our harsher climate, too.

Every winter we watch the buds swelling, then suddenly in late August the first pink and white flowers open until the tree is a glorious mass of flowers, bees and birds.

Then every summer we discuss cutting the tree down, as it’s too close to the house and the leaves clog the gutters and cause drips indoors in summer storms. But we love it too much to let it go, even though I’ve planted many other crabs around the garden.

Crab apples are grown mostly for their stunning spring flowers. No other trees gives quite as much glory as the best of the crabs, like ‘Gorgeous’ (Malus x atrosanguinea ‘Gorgeous’), with its white flowers blushed with pink and small fruit covering the tree.

M. floribunda, the Japanese crab, is one of the most specular crabs, with deep pink buds opening to pink tinged white flowers so thick you can’t see the braches, followed by small fruit that can be used for jelly.

Bechtel’s Flowering Crab or M. ioensis ‘Plena’ is one of the largest bloomed crabs, with huge soft pink buds opening to semi-double pink white flowers, but it rarely sets fruit.

‘Eleyi’ or M x purpurea has deep pink-red flowers, and red foliage too. Its fruit is small and deep red, and hangs in attractive bunches, but again is too small to really bother with if you want crab apple jelly (but if you do decide to give it a go, the jelly is the most glorious deep red colour).

‘John Downie’ is one of the best ‘flowers and fruit’ varieties, with pink buds, large white flowers and orange red fruit.

The fruit of a few crab apples can be eaten fresh like ordinary apples, but basically the definition of a ‘crab apple’ as opposed to an eating apple is that they produce small, hard fruit.

Once the name ‘crab apple’ referred to wild apple trees with small fruit, but these days many of the crab apple varieties have been carefully bred to produce even more stunning and long-lasting flowers.

We have three varieties that can be eaten, one bought simply as ‘big red crab’ and the other as ‘big yellow’, while the third is an unnamed purple fleshed apple.

All three have single flowers — beautiful, but not nearly as spectacular as the ones grown simply for their blooms.

You’d be better off with the newly released ‘Tom Matthews’ crab, with vivid scarlet spring flowers, and clusters of dark red-purple fruits, or ‘Sutyzam Sugar Tyme’, if you can forgive it’s awkward name. It’s another new release, with massed pink white flowers, and small red crabs that hang even after the leaves have dropped in autumn.

‘Golden Hornet’ gives large, oval, bright yellow fruit ‘Wandin Pride’ is a weeping crab apple tree, and makes a superb ‘show off’ tree in the spring front garden.

Actually crabs can be stunning in autumn, too. Most have bright gold yellow autumn leaves, but a few, like M. trilobata and M. tschonoskii have striking red orange leaves. M. ioensis ‘Plena’ also has rich red and orange autumn foliage.

It’s very easy to fall in love with crabs. We had seven varieties at last count, all opening at slightly different times, so we have flowers from late August through to October, and a healthy crop of crab apples for what, with no modesty at all, are some of the best crab apple jellies around, ranging from deep red through pink to a glowing gold, depending on variety.

This year I threw several varieties of crab together, and the result almost glows from the bottle.

Crabs are drought resistant, once established — water and feed them well for the first three years, then ignore them.

They don’t need pruning to give stunning displays, and if you forget to pick the fruit the birds will do it for you. The fruit are usually too hard to get infected by fruit fly or codlin moth, though it can happen.

Crab apples are suitable in any area that gets light to heavy frosts each year. (If you wear sandals all winter, plant a jacaranda instead).

Some can grow very large indeed, others will have been grafted onto dwarfing stock and only grow about two metres, perfect for pots. But most crabs are naturally small, neat trees.

The only rules with crabs is not to plant it too close to the gutters, as they get clogged with leaves and fallen petals — same with swimming pools.

You should also avoid the very large fruited varieties in areas with bad fruit flies.

Otherwise crab apples are one of the most easy-care spectaculars for the garden — flowers in spring, followed by bright coloured fruit; a glory of autumn leaves than crab apple jelly all winter.

If I were starting my garden again, an avenue of crab apples would be one of the first things planted — all the same, for a couple of months of magnificence, with other crabs scattered around the garden to lengthen the displays and give me the joy of picking fruit you’ll never see in a supermarket.

When it comes to crabs, just go wild.

Jackie French’s crab apple jelly

This is one of the greatest of all jams and jellies, almost glowing in the jar. Different crabs will give slightly different jellies, some red, some pink, or orange or gold. It’s impossible to give accurate quantities, as the juiciness varies with the variety and the season.

You need:

Crab apples

Water

Sugar

Empty sterilised jars, with lids

A very large pot

Wooden spoon

Sieve

Large bowl

A clean cloth

Optional: mint leaves if you want to make mint jelly; dark red rose petals for rose and apple jelly; grated ginger for ginger jelly.

Method:

1. Place crabs (and any optional extras) in the pot. JUST cover with water. Simmer till tender. This can take half an hour or two hours. Mash a bit with the spoon.

2. Pour it all into the bowl, or several bowls if there’s too much for one. Suspend the sieve over the pot and line it with the cloth, then pour the crabs and liquid into the sieve. Don’t press down — let the clear juice drip into the pot overnight.

3. Next day, throw the crabby mess to the chooks, retaining the liquid. Measure the liquid in the pot. For every cup of liquid add 3/4 cup of sugar. Bring to the boil slowly, stirring so the sugar dissolves before it boils. It will rise up in the pot at first, then settle down and glop like a volcano. At this point it may be ready. Drip a little on a cold plate and push with your finger — if it wrinkles it should be right.

4. Turn off the heat, let it cool in the pot and see if it’s jellied. If not, cook for another five minutes and test again. If it gels, bring to the boil, then while still as hot as possible pour into the sterilised jars and seal at once. Store in a dark, cool place for at least six months and possibly a decade. Throw out if it changes colour or ferments.

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Harry who? Loved-up Will and Kate ignore scandal

Prince Harry’s naked photos scandal rocked the royal family, but William and Kate seemed blissfully unconcerned at the Paralympics yesterday.

The pair – dressed in matching red sneakers – spent the day watching team GB compete in the cycling and goalball events, looking happier than ever before.

Harry’s indiscretion seemed far from their minds as they took part in the Mexican wave, cheered raucously and grinned at each other, the picture of marital harmony.

Today is likely to be less joyous for the young couple. August 31 marks 15 years since the death of William’s beloved mother Princess Diana.

The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge take part in a Mexican wave.

The couple couldn’t stop grinning throughout the day.

The pair wore matching red Adidas sneakers.

Kate and William seemed more in love than ever.

William and Kate at the velodrome.

The couple seemed fresh despite a late night at the Paralympics opening ceremony.

William and Kate doing the Mexican wave.

The couple cheered loudly for team GB.

Kate was particularly thrilled with the day’s sport.

William and Kate.

William and Kate.

The couple put on a similar loved-up display at the Olympics.

William and Kate at the Olympics cycling earlier this month.

William and Kate share a moment at the Olympic tennis.

The couple exchange a loving look at the Olympic equestrian.

William and Kate at the equestrian.

Kate shoots William a playful look.

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William and Kate prepare for island getaway

William and Kate prepare for island getaway

The Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are preparing to continue their duties as part of the Queen’s Diamond Jubilee celebrations with a planned trip to the South Pacific.

Starting on September 11, the couple will visit Singapore, Kuala Lumpur, Borneo and the Solomon Islands, before ending their nine-day trip on the fourth smallest country in the world, the South Pacific island of Tuvalu.

The couple, who are visiting destinations chosen personally by the Queen, will also spend one night on privately owned Tavanipupu Island in the Solomons, which they are treating as a second honeymoon.

Kate is expected to take around 30 different outfits suitable for occasions ranging from state banquets to a jungle trek, as well as jewellery reportedly loaned to her by the Queen, including one of her favourite tiaras.

Kate’s famous hair will also be taken care of throughout the trip, with Prince Charles personally footing the bill for a freelance stylist to travel with the pair.

The trip will include visits to the Commonwealth nations of Singapore and Malaysia on behalf of the British Government, a dinner hosted by the Malaysian king in his palace, a trek through the jungles of Borneo and a state dinner in the form of an outdoor island feast. Kate will also give her first official speech abroad, at a hospice in Kuala Lumpur.

The Queen last visited the Solomon Islands in 1982.

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Hollywood’s hottest dads

David Beckham

David Beckham is dad to Brooklyn, Romeo (pictured), Cruz and the family’s latest edition Harper Seven.

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Orlando Bloom

Orlando Bloom, who is married to Aussie supermodel Miranda Kerr, is dad to the couple’s first born son Flynn.

Will Smith

Will Smith is dad to three children Willard, from his first marriage to Sheree Zampino, and Jaden and Willow with his now wife Jada Pinkett Smith.

Jason Bateman

Actor Jason Bateman is dad to his four-year-old daughter Francesca Nora Bateman.

Brad Pitt

Brad Pitt is famously the father of six children with partner Angelina Jolie. The Jolie-Pitt clan includes Maddox, who was adopted as a baby from Cambodia in 2002 by Angelina, and then she and Pitt together adopted baby Zahara from Ethiopia in 2005. Then in 2007, the pair adopted Pax as a three-year-old from Vietnam.

The couple also has three biological children including four-year-old Shiloh and two-year-old twins Vivienne and Knox.

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Christian Bale

Christian Bale is dad to five-year-old daughter Emmeline.

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Hugh Jackman

Hugh Jackman has two adopted children with wife Deborra-Lee Furness, Oscar Maximillian and Ava Eliot.

Matthew McConaughey

Matthew McConaughey is father to his two children with partner Camila Alves, Levi Alves McConaughey and daughter Vida Alves McConaughey.

Tom Cruise

Tom Cruise is father to two adopted children with ex-wife Nicole Kidman, Isabella Jane and Connor Antony.

He has a biological daughter named Suri with his now wife Katie Holmes.

Ricky Martin

Singer Ricky Martin is father to twin sons Matteo and Valentino, which were born via a surrogate.

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Violent video games, books, make kids more aggressive

Violent video games, book, make kids more aggressive

Popular video games, TV shows, films and even comic books are making our children violent and aggressive, a new study has found.

The International Society for Research on Aggression (ISRA) conducted a major study into the link between television, films, illustrated books and video games and anti-social behaviour.

They concluded that people who consume violent media are far more likely to behave aggressively, mimicking what they see on screen.

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Violent media can also act as a trigger for pre-existing aggressive thoughts and feelings that otherwise would have remained dormant.

Further to this, people who viewed violent TV, video games or films were more likely to react aggressively to perceived slights that would not provoke other people.

“One may become more vigilant for hostility and aggression in the world, and therefore, begin to feel some ambiguous actions by others, such as being bumped in a crowded room, are deliberate acts of provocation,” the report said.

Children are particularly susceptible to violent images, so the ISRA report recommends parents limit their access to any hostile media wherever possible.

They should also take time to talk to their kids about what they are seeing, and teach them about the consequences of aggression and violence in the real world.

“Parents can set limits on screen use, and should discuss media content with their children to promote critical thinking when viewing,” the researchers wrote.

“Schools may help parents by teaching students from an early age to be critical consumers of the media and that, just like food, the ‘you are what you eat’ principle applies to healthy media consumption.”

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The study was published in the journalAggressive Behaviour.

Your say: How do you control what your children watch, play and read? What have you banned them from viewing?

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Private Pippa’s publishing debut

Pippa Middleton's party planning book

Pippa Middleton's party planning book

Since being thrust into the spotlight at the side of her sister Kate, now the Duchess of Cambridge, Pippa Middleton has played the part of socialite, a formidable bridesmaid, and occasional honorary royal. Now she can also call herself an author.

Following in her parents professional party-planning footsteps, Pippa has released her debut book — a celebration guide filled with recipes, decorating ideas, and other inspirations.

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Celebrate: A year of festivities for families and friends, has been billed as a ‘comprehensive seasonal guide to simple and creative entertaining’, and is reported to be the product of a $260,000 book deal for Miss Middleton.

On the patchwork style cover of the book, Pippa is pictured four times, fixing garden decorations, preparing food with a child, setting a table, and on the beach throwing a Frisbee.

The posed pictures may come as a surprise, as Pippa constantly insists on maintaining her privacy.

UK newspapers are in agreement not to use paparazzi photographs of the Duchess’ sister because of her request to remain out of the public eye, even though she often attends public events, and is now further boosting her profile with her publishing debut.

Whether she is able to maintain her “private citizen” status following the book’s release remains to be seen.

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The book, described as a cross between a party planning bible, entertainment guide and recipe book is set for an October release, but is already attracting criticism.

Some commentators have accused the author of cashing in on her sister’s royal status.

Kate and Pippa’s parents Carole and Mike Middleton, have faced similar accusations, with their online family business Party Pieces, which sold Royal Wedding paraphernalia last year, quadrupling in traffic surrounding the event.

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Why I donate my eggs

Why I donate my eggs

Melissa, her husband Chris and their daughters Caitlin and Emily.

Melissa Bridges is a 29-year-old nurse, mother of two, and egg donor to women who can’t have children. She is responsible for four babies and three more on the way.

One day, I was working at a hospital and I heard crying, so I went to find out what was wrong. One of the nurses was in tears; her seventh IVF cycle had failed.

She was saying, “What if my husband leaves me because I can’t give him a baby?” I wished I could help her, but at that stage, I didn’t know donation existed.

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A few weeks later, I found an “egg donor wanted” ad. I thought many people would apply and they wouldn’t want me. Still, I Googled it and was fascinated. Here were people just like me, only they couldn’t become mothers.

I tried to find something that would put me off, but instead I found an ad from the Gold Coast, where I live. I met the woman and we had coffee together. I just knew.

They had been trying for 13 years — they’d done IVF, acupuncture, herbs — she would have done anything to have a baby. I offered, she accepted, and a few months later she was pregnant with her little boy. I really fell in love with the whole thing.

My husband, Chris, and I have two children, and he has two children from his previous relationship. He’s fine with it.

He comes around to the Egg Donation Australia events and works the barbecue with the other husbands. Because we’ve made so many good friends through the site, we jokingly call them the EDA Widowers.

He supports me, even though he knows more than most guys what the risks are. When I had a bad reaction to one of my donor cycles, he was there for me.

That was a case of ovarian hyper-stimulation. Your ovaries can get swollen and you feel a bit of pain. In extreme circumstances, you can be hospitalised.

When you donate an egg, you generally synchronise your cycles with the recipient. You might both be on the pill, and come off the pill. You’ll do 10 to 13 days of what we call follicle stimulation hormones; small, pen-sized injections once a day.

Then 10 days later they’ll do a trigger injection, which ripens the fruit. A woman’s body naturally has small amounts of this hormone, but we take extra because we want to produce more eggs than usual — maybe between five and 25.

Then, 36 hours after the last injection, we go under a general anaesthetic, and they take out the eggs. I think some people find the procedure harder than others, but most donors describe it as mild discomfort.

It’s not difficult, as long as you look after yourself — the blood tests and needles in the tummy every day are a mild inconvenience.

Once the eggs are collected, they are fertilised with sperm — usually that of the woman’s husband — and most will fertilise.

Three-to-five days later, an embryo will be transferred to the mother, and two weeks later she has a blood test to see if there’s a pregnancy.

One of the questions people ask me all the time is, “Don’t you look at that child and think ‘that’s mine’?” My answer is that I’ve got my two girls, and I’m satisfied I’ve finished my family.

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I’ve met the children, I keep in contact with the mums. I look at the children with mild curiosity. But my relationship is not with the children, I feel no bond with them whatsoever.

I think when you have your own children the bond is born, it’s those days and nights of nurture. It’s the care and the love you put into them, not the genetic material.

For more information, visit eggdonationaustralia.com.au.

Read more of this story in the September issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Disqualified *The Voice* contestant Carmen Smith is back and in a big way

Showgirl Charne bows out of Big Brother

Carmen Smith is the self-confessed funky soul sister who caught our attention with her super-cool singing style on hit TV show The Voice.

After a memorable early exit from the competition – she was disqualified for her performance on Guy Sebastian’s video clip for his track Gold – Carmen is back on the scene with her first funky single They Don’t Know Me.

We chatted to the singer to find out how her life has changed after The Voice and where she hopes to take her new solo career.

Congratulations on your first single! How does it feel to have it released?

Thank you, I’m so excited about it. I love the track and what it stands for — individuality and independence. It’s been a long, hard road to get here but every hard moment makes it all worthwhile.

They Don’t Know Me is a pretty funky track, what was the inspiration behind it?

The song kind of wrote itself. I heard the guitar riff and beat and just started humming melodies and within a few hours, I had written the song. Trust me, it’s not always like that, but some songs are just meant to be written.

How has your life changed since appearing on The Voice?

Drastically. Not so much the fame but it really changed me on the inside. It forced me to step out of my comfort zone and respect a part of myself that I had put to the side for many years.

I will always be grateful for my time on the show for that. I am working harder than ever to show people what I am about and that excites me.

You had a pretty dramatic exit from the show, how did you feel about that at the time?

At the time it felt dramatic. I mean, nobody wants to be disqualified from a show, especially at the point where you feel like you are ready to bloom. It was a tough blow for me, but there was no time for self-pity.

I had to get ready to go on the road with Guy. As they say, the show must go on. I felt a change in me when all the drama went down, like an inner strength I never knew I had.

What is it like to be on the road with Guy Sebastian?

Well, I have toured with Guy for years but the Armageddon Tour — his most recent — was especially amazing for me. I mean, Guy’s fans seemed to embrace me with such love it was overwhelming.

The moment when we sang Gold together was epic. I’ll never forget the roar that song brought from the audience. It was a special time. Guy is a supreme vocalist and talent, but also a great friend. He has always encouraged me and there is a lot of trust between us on stage. I don’t trust him backstage, he’s a prankster!

Has he heard your new single? What does he think of it?

He has, he sent me a message about it and really, any compliment from Guy I’ll take. He does not give them away freely.

Who is your favourite Australian performer to work with?

All of them for different reasons. Guy, Stan Walker, Jess Mauboy, Diesel, I love them all. People know them as faces on television or “famous” but I know them as super talented friends/family.

What can we expect to see from you next?

Well, I have just released my single and EP They Don’t Know Me and I’m going to be doing some acoustic shows with my friend Diana Rouvas.

I am working on putting some live band shows together because performing live is what I do best. Whatever I do, I’ll be keeping it cool and funky!

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Don’t let your guard down against cold and flu

Don’t let your guard down against cold and flu

Each year, one in five Australians suffers from the influenza virus, with more than 2.5 million people taking time off work to overcome their symptoms.

Although we are now heading towards warmer days, health professionals warn that this is not the time to let your guard down.

Pharmacist Gerald Quigley says the change of season is a key time to suffer from the flu.

He explains that throughout winter our immune system works overtime to fight against viral infections and is always active, but slows down in the warmer months.

“As the weather warms up towards the end of winter, our immune system relaxes and we tend not to rug up as much as we should,” he said.

“This also means we become a little careless when the sun appears. Nurturing our immune system all year enhances wellness and reduces the impact of an invading viral infection at any time of the year.”

Although many of us try to “soldier on” and deal with the symptoms, Gerald warns this will only make matters worse.

He says it is important to seek affective treatment and, above all, get lots of rest so that symptoms aren’t prolonged.

“The best way to fight a winter bug is to take time off work and get plenty of rest, keep warm and drink lots of water,” he said.

“It’s also important to increase immune supporting foods like garlic and onion to your diet when you are feeling particularly run down.”

Gerald says that apart from not getting adequate rest, flu sufferers ignore their symptoms for too long.

“A survey by the Chemists’ Own brand showed that a quarter of Australians persist with symptoms for at least three days before finally getting treatment, with one in five failing to treat a nagging cough or cold at all,” he said.

“While there are no hard and fast cures to beat the common cold and flu, there are over-the-counter remedies that can help ease the symptoms.

“Rather than ignoring the symptoms and therefore spreading germs and prolonging your illness, the best course of action is to take a trip to your local pharmacist who will be able to determine whether you have a simple infection like the common cold, or something more serious such as the influenza virus.”

Here are Gerard’s 5 top tips to surviving the cold and flu season:

  1. Drink plenty of liquids to maintain hydration.

  2. Increase your intake of Vitamin A and C and zinc from nutritious food to help your body withstand viral infection.

  3. Eat immune supporting foods like garlic and onions.

  4. Keep warm at all times to avoid a chill.

  5. Most importantly – get plenty of bed rest.

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