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How to avoid a financial hangover after Christmas

It's very easy to overspend during the festive season. Be kind to your wallet by following these twelve tips on gift giving and more.
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Do a budget

Write out a list of the people you’d like to buy for and put a price limit next to each name. If it adds up to too much, review the limits you’ve set.

Organise a ‘Secret Santa’

Instead of buying a gift for everyone, consider a ‘Kris Kringle’ arrangement where each member in your family draws a name out of a hat and only buys a present for that person. Don’t forget to set a price limit.

Shop in end of season sales and use catalogues

Get organised and start your shopping early at the end of season sales. Scour the catalogues to ensure you’re getting the best price as huge savings can be made by shopping around, especially on toys.

Don’t forget layby

Some large retailers offer no deposit laybys right up until Christmas which is something to take advantage of.

Shop online

More often than not you can find the item you want for a fraction of the cost. Books make a great Christmas gift and can often be ordered on the internet at heavily discounted prices.

Get baking

The most appreciated gifts are often the ones that are made with love. Homemade fruit cakes, rocky road, shortbread, jam and relishes are festive favourites.

Stockpile Christmas groceries

Pop a few extra non-perishable items in your shopping trolley each week and store them away in the pantry, so your Christmas grocery shopping bill won’t be so scary.

Buy booze in bulk

Most bottle shops offer great specials around this time of year, so keep an eye out early on and be ready to pounce when the prices are low.

Be credit card wise

While credit cards are convenient, they are also addictive over the Christmas period and can quickly undo a well-planned budget. Avoid buying gifts with credit, unless you are going to be able to pay off your card before interest is charged.

Ask family for vouchers this Christmas

Then take them to the after Christmas clearance sales. You’ll get more bang for your buck, and that way, you can really choose what you want.

Start paying off your holiday now

If you’re going away over the Christmas break, try to pay off your accommodation costs in instalments before you leave. Also, aim to keep the holiday within your budget.

Think about New Year expenses

When doing your Christmas budget, don’t forget to factor in some of the big expenses you’ll be facing in the new year. If you’ve got children, be mindful that all those back to school costs are just around the corner.

With a bit of planning, you can jingle all the way to Christmas with money left over.

Dianne Charman is an AMP financial planner and mother of two.

Dianne Charman is an Authorised Representative of AMP Financial Planning Pty Ltd, ABN 89 051 208 327, AFS Licence No. 232706. Any advice given is general only and has not taken into account your objectives, financial situation or needs. Because of this, before acting on any advice, you should consult a financial planner to consider how appropriate the advice is to your objectives, financial situation and needs.

To find your nearest AMP financial planner visit www.amp.com.au/findaplanner.

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Charles and Camilla hit Sydney harbour

Charles and Camilla arrive in Sydney

Charles inspecting the royal guard in Sydney.

There’s a military theme in the air as the royal tour hits Sydney and true to Emerald City form the day started on the Harbour.

It was quite a sight as Their Royal Highnesses The Prince of Wales and The Duchess of Cornwall arrived at Garden Island Ferry Wharf from Admiralty House on the Royal Australian Navy’s Admiral’s Barge.

At the wharf, they were met by General David Hurley AC DSC, Chief of the Defence Force and Mrs Linda Hurley and Commander Todd Wilson RAN Commanding Officer HMAS Kuttabul.

Prince Charles got a royal salute and inspected the Royal Guard of Honour and Royal Australian Navy Band before disappearing with his wife inside the Heritage Centre to meet some very proud and gleaming Australian Defence Force personnel who have recently returned from active service.

It’s the first stop on an action-packed day which sees the royal couple going their separate ways and coming together to try and fit in as many meet and greets as possible.

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Dancing robots helping kids with autism

Dancing robots help kids with autism

As scientists may have found an explanation for autism spectrum disorders, their robot counterparts are being trained up to help kids who are affected.

Max and Ben, two knee-high robots, have been dancing, interacting and playing games with students at a Birmingham primary school since March and have had great success in developing the communication skills of the school’s 30 autistic students.

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The robots, developed by the University of Birmingham, have been dubbed “buddies” and are helping to develop interactive learning.

“We have been looking at how technology can support pupils with autism to communicate more effectively,” said Dr Karen Guldberg from the university.

“Pupils and teachers are experimienting with the robots and other technologies in a developmental way and the are showing significant benefits for the classroom.”

The robots cannot display emotions, which means that autistic children find them less threatening and easier to predict, and Ian Lowe, a teacher at the primary school, said the kids just love them.

“The robots have been brilliant at supporting autistic children with their learning,” he said.

“In the future we are looking to see if they can be used to support learning not just at school but at home as well.”

While the robots may help to improve learning and communication skills of children with autism, researchers are getting closer to an explanation and treatment for the disorder.

A new study has discovered a genetic mutation that cuts communication between brain cells to about one-tenth of normal levels has been discovered in people with autism, offering a likely explanation for the cognitive and behavioural difficulties that come with the disorder.

A protein which helps brain cells process data was found to be mutated in autism sufferers, a huge advance scientist’s understanding of autism, which would open up greater possibilities for researchers in the search for autism treatments.

“A treatment is years away,” the study’s principal investigatory Johanna Montgomery from Auckland University said.

“But we now know how it works, we know what goes wrong, so let’s try to figure out a way to fix it.”

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And while that may be years off, the robot treatment seems to be working wonders for autistic kids.

Students from the school said they love playing memory games with them, watching them dance, and according to one of the school’s autistic students, Stephen, the best bit is when they tell Star Wars stories.

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Charles and Camilla farewell Sydney with exclusive dinner

Charles and Camilla farewell Sydney with exclusive dinner

Charles and Camilla arriving at Admiralty House this evening.

Toni Collette and the most recent recipient of the Victoria Cross Corporel Daniel Keighran were among a very exclusive elite of just 20 guests invited by Governor-General Quentin Bryce and husband Michael Bryce to have dinner with Prince Charles and the Duchess of Cornwall at Admiralty House this evening.

The royal couple arrived in a motorcade from a more frenetic Diamond Jubilee Reception at Sydney Opera House to the peace and serenity of Kirribilli, where the four-piece Australian Army Jazz Band played on the lawns on a stunning Sydney evening with views across the harbour.

This was a dinner to showcase talented young Australians from a range of backgrounds in different fields.

Other guests included Channel Ten news presenter Hamish Macdonald, Masterchef’s Poh Ling Yeow, 2009 Young Australian of the year Jonty Bush who developed the One Punch Can Kill anti-violence campaign, Alex Blackwell, Vice-Captain of the Australian Women’s Cricket team, Founder and CEO of Carman’s Fine Foods Carolyn Cresswell, mummy blogger Mia Freedman, Ella Havelka, a dancer with Bangarra and descendant of the Wiradjuri people, and Tanya Denning, the Channel Manager for National Indigenous Television.

The Duchess looked resplendent in a blush chiffon Bruce Oldfield dress with exquisite sequinned bodice worn for the first time at this event and the Prince very dapper in a dark blue double breasted suit. Equally elegant was the Governor-General in a tailored mint skirt suit.

Guests were waited on by stewards in crisp sailor suits from the naval defence force and each was announced as they personally met the royal couple and posed for a group shot on the lawn with the Opera House in the background before heading inside for an intimate dinner.

It is the last function on Sydney’s day of events for the royal couple before they fly out for a final day in Australia in the nation’s capital Canberra.

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First pics: Reese’s baby boy

The apple doesn’t fall too far from the tree and this is certainly the case for Reese Witherspoon and her adorable baby boy Tennessee James Toth.

The actress, 37, debuted her six-week-old son, named after her home state, on a stroll in Los Angeles recently… and he looks just like his mum. Tennessee is Reese’s third child and the first for her and second husband Jim Toth.

Reese’s two children with ex-husband Ryan Phillippe – daughter Ava, 12, and son Deacon, 8 – are overjoyed at the arrival of their baby brother. “The kids met the baby the first day at the hospital,” a source told Us magazine. “Deacon is excited to have a brother. And Ava can’t wait to babysit!”

Reese Witherspoon shows off her bundle of joy.

Reese walks through LA with Tennessee.

Reese picks up her son Deacon after his soccer game.

Reese spends some time with daughter Ava.

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A fire left my family homeless – but no-one can help

A fire left my family homeless - but no-one can help

A housefire destroyed Belma Wilson's home and hospitalised her husband.

Sydney cleaner, Belma Wilson has lost everything in a fire that destroyed her home and left her husband with burns to 30 per cent of his body.

Ms Wilson, 49, told The Australian Women’s Weekly she was distraught but very lucky to be staying in a friend’s tiny studio apartment with her three children.

“We don’t have the documents. Our passports and everything … all gone,” Ms Wilson said.

“The clothes we wore on that day are all we have. We’re back to zero again.”

Attempts by The Weekly to assist the family failed last night as NSW Emergency Housing admitted that without any documentation the department, like Centrelink was unable to assist.

Instead The Weekly was referred to Sydney Multicultural Community Services, a non-Government body set up to assist where families who did not speak English as a first language.

However, at the time of publication they could not be contacted.

The family, which is in shock, is living on the assistance of friends who have donated food but they have no possessions.

Ms Wilson said she was initially unable to see her husband in hospital because the children were so traumatised by the event.

She has since been to the hospital and spoken to the doctors who say the 73-year-old has burns to 30 percent of his body and will be in hospital for three to six months as he undergoes painful skin grafts.

The Filipino born mother came to Australia after her first husband died of a heart attack.

She has two sons and a daughter.

“The thing is we’re alive. That’s the most important thing.”

Although very little is known about the fire at the home in Stony Creek Road, Kingsgrove media reports at the time claimed “LPG was involved”.

“I went to work at 9 o’clock and the children were all in the church having choir practice. At one o’clock my friend called and said ‘your house is burning’. I didn’t know what to do and then suddenly the police rung me.”

The family has had no further contact with the authorities about the cause of the blaze which is also hampering their efforts to secure any emergency assistance.

Her eldest son Bon, 20, who works as a cable assembler said: “We’re still waiting for the police to come back. We keep calling them to find out what actually happened but we’re still waiting.”

Anyone who wishes to donate to the Wilson family please contact us at 02 9282 8120 or email [email protected].

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Charles revisits scene of youthful Bondi bathing

Charles revisits scene of youthful Bondi bathing

Charles in Bondi today, and during a dip in 1977.

Australia put on an amazing show of both power and hospitality today, as Prince Charles enjoyed an afternoon at Bondi Beach.

Security was tight, as the menacing 100ft Nemesis police boat patrolled the shore — normally reserved for surfers — and wetsuit-clad specialist policemen patrolled the waves on a jet boat and two powerful jet skis.

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Four mounted police patrolled the sand on horseback, and dozens of police guarded the Prince’s route.

Prince Charles met a selection of emergency service personnel at the famous Icebergs, and watched as a spectacular show of lightning came down from the heavens.

Torrential rain followed, which meant most of the crowd waiting for Prince Charles on the beach dispersed, and those left gained a fantastic view as he watched a team of youngsters play NRL on the sand.

Most of the police stood at attention at their posts, despite being drenched, fully aware of their important duties.

Meanwhile, Prince Charles continued to be a true gentleman, greeting as many of his royal fans as he could with a smile and a handshake.

“He had a smile for everyone — he really didn’t seem rushed,” says Sally Schenider, 42, who’d travelled from Botany.

Draped on the Bondi sidewalk was the sign “Say g’day to Betty for me” — a playful reference to his mother Queen Elizabeth, and a string of plastic Union Jacks.

Earlier in the day, he visited the Museum of Contemporary Art, perched on the shore of Sydney Harbour, where a massive P&O cruise liner moored alongside hung out a huge but cheeky banner reading, ‘Royal suite available’.

Inside, he met fashion designers and representatives of the nation’s wool industry.

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Bondi must have a special place in the Prince’s heart — back in 1977 he managed to visit incognito for a morning dip, at least until he was spotted by some local surfers.

Today, whether he likes it or not, the Prince must come with an entourage fit for a King.

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All the single ladies: How women saved Obama

All the single ladies: How women saved Obama

Barack Obama celebrates his election victory with wife Michelle and daughters Malia and Sasha.

Beyoncé made it famous, but her hit song will be forever linked with President Barack Obama because it was the single ladies of America who cemented his role at the White House for another four years.

For months political commentators have predicted that the 2012 US Election would be won on the economy, but it was women’s rights that swept Barack Obama back into power and the women of America spoke resoundingly.

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More than 55 million eligible voters in the United States are single women and President Obama won a staggering 67 per cent of their vote.

The issues were clear.

While Obama had arguably achieved a lot for women during his first term — his Obamacare bill included services like coverage of contraception, screening for HIV and sexually transmitted diseases, gestational diabetes and breast feeding support and counselling for domestic violence, and he tripled the number of women appointed to the Supreme Court — it was perhaps his counterparts beliefs that drove women into the arms of Team Obama.

Republican nominee Mitt Romney, a devout Mormon, was labelled a dinosaur with his views on abortion, rape and family. He had previously backed a plan to outlaw all abortion, even in cases of rape and incest, he supported a bill that would have denied women coverage of birth control expenses under their health care and his running mate Paul Ryan co-sponsored a bill to amend the definition of rape to ‘forcible rape’.

And then there were his Senate candidates.

Indiana Senate candidate Richard Mourdock who claimed that babies born of rape were “a gift from god”, and Missouri Senate candidate Todd Akin whose extraordinary statement that suggested women had “biological ways of shutting down a pregnancy” after “legitimate rape” sparked global outrage.

Romney was seen as out-dated, too hard right and too religious — even for a deeply religious country.

Obama was surrounded by women on the campaign trial, from celebrities like Mariah Carey and Oprah to Hilary Clinton, to his wife and daughters who stole the show at every public appearance.

American women love Michelle Obama, adore her, and her impact on the campaign was huge.

So confident in her abilities, she often hit the campaign trail alone on occasions, culminating in a knock-out speech to 4,500 Obama supporters during a whistle-stop appearance at a rally in North Carolina on the second last day of campaigning.

Thousands crammed into an airport hangar at the Charlotte Douglas International Airport, to hear her passionately argue that “When it comes to women’s rights, we know that Barack will always have our back”.

During each public appearance she carefully chose department store clothes, Target or J Crew, and spoke about her husband and the future they wanted for their two daughters Malia and Sasha.

It was clear that a vote for Barack was a vote for Michelle too.

A picture of the two of them hugging, posted on their Facebook and Twitter accounts on the morning of the election was re-tweeted and ‘liked’ so many times it smashed all social media records. But it was voters who summed it up best.

The Washington Post interviewed nine influential and progressive Mormon women in the days before the vote.

Their choice was clear, it was Obama. One woman said: “Mitt Romney reminds me of every well-meaning yet overbearing male church leader who’s ever underestimated me.”

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And then there was the stinging tweet from Obama reminding voters that he was surrounded by amazing women — unlike Mitt Romney who had five sons.

His subtle words, “having these tall, beautiful, strong-willed girls in my home never allows me to underestimate women!” It landed a knockout punch.

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Camilla campaigns for women’s rights

Camilla campaigns for women's rights

Camilla chatting to guests at the Women of the World reception at Government House.

Girl power was out in force at Government House in NSW today when a unique group of more than 80 women attended the Women of the World reception hosted by the Governor of NSW Marie Bashir with the Duchess of Cornwall as a very special guest.

It was an impressive collection of women gathered in Government House’s Ballroom, which included film director Gillian Armstrong, Today show host Lisa Wilkinson, Gold medal-winning Paralympian Carol Cooke, author Nikki Gemmel, singer Katie Noonan, writer Anne Summers, Linda Burney MP, The Weekly’s Editor-in-Chief Helen McCabe and newly elected Woollahra Councillor Deborah Thomas.

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They were here to spread the word and initiate change which is something the Duchess of Cornwall is pretty familiar with.

Women of the World (WOW) is a global festival initiated by London’s Southbank Centre in 2011 to celebrate the achievements of girls and women as well as examine the obstacles that prevent them from achieving their potential.

The Duchess of Cornwall has been involved with WOW since its inception last year, and has hosted two WOW receptions at Clarence House.

And today Jude Kelly OBE, Artistic Director of Southbank Centre and WOW, couldn’t wait to get Australia involved.

“With the great support of Her Royal Highness here we have assembled what I think is a tremendous global opportunity for women to recognise their true potential, to revisit history and realise the achievements that women have made across all walks of life throughout history, throughout the world and then to unlock the potential for girls and women and boys and men when they realise that gender equality could really bring us a different kind of future,” she announced in an inspirational and rousing speech.

“Now all of you in your own sectors are doing great work, but the idea behind Women of the World is to bring all those sectors together, in order to be more than the sum of our parts. Let’s imagine a world where we have equality. Let’s imagine a world when we are not thinking about the millions of girls who can’t get an education, when we are not thinking about the violence that some people have to negotiate as a daily activity.

“The point is that with ladies like Her Royal Highness and like yourselves, it’s up to us to be less timorous in announcing how much better the world will be when equality comes.”

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Jude plans to launch WOW in Australia next year, celebrating the women, past and present, who have shaped the country’s history and culture, with talks, debates, music and workshops and here she’s certainly assembled the women to do the job.

It’s not often a member of the royal family is so outwardly campaigning, but following in the footsteps of her husband, Camilla is proving to be someone who is prepared to get behind things she’s passionate about and as she mingled with guests it was clear her passion was infectious.

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The Duchess becomes a colonel

The Duchess becomes a colonel

Camilla with members of The Royal Australian Corps of Military Police.

After checking out the navy at Garden Island, The Duchess of Cornwall took off solo to a very special appointment at Sydney’s Victoria Barracks.

The latest addition to Camilla’s list of titles is Colonel-in-Chief of The Royal Australian Corps of Military Police and she’s here she to accept the appointment — will we see her on the international beat soon I wonder?

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The Royal Australian Corps of Military Police has been sent to every war and conflict in which Australia has participated since 1901 and continues to serve around the globe.

They’re currently over in Afghanistan where the Duchess’s stepson Prince Harry is serving so she has lots to talk about with Corps.

She arrives onto the green lawns of Victoria Barracks with a motorcycle escort and draws up in front of a rapt crowd of special invitees spontaneously clapping as she steps up to a lectern.

The Army Band strikes up ‘God Save The Queen’ and for a moment the reason for this visit, to celebrate Her Majesty’s Diamond Jubilee, 60 years of service, resonates around this place, home to an arm of her forces.

With a punishing Sydney sun blazing, the Duchess in a simple and elegant Anna Valentine cream dress bordered with white and teamed with a Lock of St James’s hat. She takes the Royal Salute and inspects the Royal Guard and the Australian Army Band.

As she walks along the double line up there are two very vigilant minders looking on from a distance — they are Kaiser and Cliff, Belgian Shepherd dogs and key members of the police security team.

In her second speech of the tour — her first was at the Osteoporosis function in Melbourne — The Duchess begins: “It gives me enormous pleasure to address you today as your new and very proud Colonel-in-Chief. This is a very exciting time for me not only because of the great honour you have done me but also because it is my first trip to Australia and I deeply regret having left it so late.”

She goes on to talk about the unique links between the Royal Family and the Australian Army and to this honour specifically.

“Her Majesty the Queen is Colonel-In-Chief of the Royal Military Police, with whom you have close professional ties and shared lineage. And so I was very keen to know who my predecessor was.

“I think you can imagine my delight and pride when I learned that in the prestigious 96-year history since your formation I have no predecessor and that I am, therefore and self-evidently, your first Colonel-in-Chief,” she beamed adding a trademark quip. “I am delighted to see that you are all wearing your rather dashing scarlet berets and wondered if the Colonel-in-Chief might possibly get to wear one, too?”

As with everything the Duchess has undertaken here in Australia so far, it was a flawless performance which highlighted her warmth and humour and the passion and sense of enjoyment she brings to her relatively new position within the royal firm.

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In the middle of it all one poor officer — an escort of the banner — right in the front row passes out from the heat.

“They’ve been rehearsing all week,” a spokesman for the Military Police tells me “and the adrenalin would be pumping and just got too much him.”

But after a quick visit to the medics he runs back on the field to resume his post in front of his new Colonel-in-Chief.

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