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Kids with ADHD lose out later in life

Study: Kids with ADHD lose out later in life

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, or ADHD, is well known to trouble children and teens in their school years, but it’s also likely to affect sufferers’ careers and relationships later in life.

A US study has shown young people diagnosed with ADHD are less likely to gain or sustain employment as adults, and if they are able to hold down a job, will earn significantly less than others.

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A Yale University study of 15,000 Americans who were tracked from their from their teens to around age 30 found that young people diagnosed with ADHD are about 10 to 14 percentage points less likely to be employed. If they do have a job, they earn about 33 per cent less income.

Study leader Jason Fletcher argues early detection of ADHD could help limit the effects the condition has later in life.

But clinical psychologist Chris Allan from the University of Woollongong’s Adult ADHD clinic says it is also important not to dismiss detection later in life, and a need for awareness of the prevalence of adult ADHD.

As it is commonly thought that ADHD is a condition that most people tend to grow out of, the long term social effects were alarming.

But the results do not surprise Allan who says children diagnosed were likely to either still sustain the condition as adults, or suffer from after-effects as they outgrow it.

“At least a third of people diagnosed with ADHD in childhood will continue to suffer from this in adulthood, and it can cause poorer outcomes across a range of areas,” Allan told The Weekly.

“With adult ADHD there will be problems with attention and problems regulating yourself.

“You’re compulsive, fidgety, and your capacity to concentrate in a workplace is poorer than lots of other people so that’s going to affect the ability to sustain employment. I observe the same thing in relationships.”

And those who outgrow the attention disorder, Allan says, may still feel the hangover of childhood ADHD in their work-life and relationships.

“They don’t tend to succeed in school, have relationship problems in school so they’re anxious and have low self-esteem,” he says.

“It’s not an easy lot.”

Along with effective medication there are support groups and programs that sufferers can seek to better manage their behaviour, but Allan argues the greatest cause of disruption in the life of ADHD sufferers could be that it often goes undiagnosed.

“People generally think that as an adult, ADD or ADHD couldn’t possibly be the cause for their problems, but lots of people have it, or still have it from when they were younger, and don’t have it identified. Their behaviours can easily be dismissed by employers,” he says.

“If it is identified, there are accommodations that can be made and you can have a good crack at managing your work-life. They may take longer to do things, they may need quite a structured environment with very little distractions going on.”

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As understanding as some employers can be, it is difficult to make accommodations for an employer, or a loved one affected by a condition they are not aware of.

“The difficulty is identifying the problem before it can be managed,” Allan says.

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Celebrities who keep their kids out of the spotlight

In an age where some celebrity babies are snapped in magazines, some celebs are still doing their best to keep their family’s private lives private.
Adele, Michael Jackman, Julia Roberts

Adele is one of the most recognised celebrities in the world and her triumphant post-baby return to the spotlight at this week’s Golden Globe Awards only confirmed this.

But while she’s happy to pose for photographers and accept a life of fame, she’s determined to keep her three-month-old son out of the spotlight, refusing to reveal his name.

In an age where some celebrity babies are not only pictured in magazines, but have their own social media accounts and feature in reality TV shows, other stars are still doing their best to keep their family’s private life private.

Adele, Michael Jackman, Julia Roberts

Adele, Michael Jackson and Julia Roberts all kept their kids out of the spotlight.

Adele has said revealing her son’s name is “too personal”.

Julia Roberts has said protecting her children from paparazzi is “their human right”.

Michael Jackson famously protected his children from press by covering their faces in public.

Halle Berry chose to leave LA to raise four-year-old Nahla out of the public eye.

The Pinkett-Smith kids are no strangers to show business but were all home-schooled.

Demi Moore stepped out of the spotlight for three years to raise her daughters in Idaho.

Bette Middler told her daughter if she went into show business she would never speak to her again.

Jodie Foster has given her two sons very private upbringings.

Notoriously private Harrison Ford is often thought to have no children, but he has five.

Uma Thurman waited seven months to reveal her daughter’s name.

Kim Kardashian and Kanye West have said their child won’t be part of a reality TV show.

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Elton John ‘completes’ family with second son

Elton John and David Furnish have announced the arrival of their second child, a boy called Elijah Joseph Daniel Furnish-John.
Elton John and David Furnish with their first son Zachary.

Elton John and David Furnish have announced the arrival of their second child, a boy called Elijah Joseph Daniel Furnish-John.

The baby was born in Las Vegas last Friday via a surrogate mother and the couple have spoken about their happiness in an interview with Hello! magazine.

“We are just overwhelmed with happiness and excitement,” Elton said. “Both of us have longed to have children, but the reality that we now have two sons is almost unbelievable.

“The birth of our second son completes our family in a most precious and perfect way. It is difficult to fully express how we are feeling at this time; we are just overwhelmed with happiness and excitement.”

Elton, 65, and David, 50, are believed to have used the same California-based surrogate who carried their first son Zachary, now two.

The identity of the surrogate has never been revealed, and friends say they will keep her name secret forever.

“Elton and David love this lady like a sister and they feel indebted to her for life,” a source said shortly Zachary’s birth.

“Naturally she has been well rewarded. But her identity will never be revealed.”

Zachary and Elijah are believed to have been conceived using the surrogate’s egg, and a mixture of Elton and David’s sperm.

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Sorry Nicole! Prince Albert blasts ‘inaccurate’ Grace Kelly biopic

Sorry Nicole! Prince Albert blasts 'inaccurate' Grace Kelly biopic

Grace Kelly and Nicole Kidman.

Much has been made of her striking resemblance to Grace Kelly, but Nicole Kidman’s portrayal of Monaco’s most glamorous princess has infuriated the late royal’s children.

Prince Albert of Monaco and his sisters Princess Caroline and Princess Stephanie have blasted upcoming biopic Grace of Monaco, declaring it “pointlessly glamorised and historically inaccurate”.

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The film — which is due for release next year — is set in 1962, when Grace was a young princess in Monaco.

It is said to be based on true events, but Albert says many scenes are “pure fiction”.

French newspaper Le Figaro reports the film’s producers sent Albert and his sister’s copies of the script last October in a bid to secure their endorsement of the project.

The move backfired, and Albert and his sisters have now released a statement distancing themselves from the movie.

“We have had absolutely no association with this project which is claims to be about the lives of our parents,” the statement reads.

“For us, this film does not constitute a biographical work, but portrays only a part of her life and has been pointlessly glamorised, and contains important historical inaccuracies as well as scenes of pure fiction.”

Grace was one of the world’s most famous movie stars before she turned her back on Hollywood to marry Monaco’s Prince Rainier III in 1956.

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She died in 1982 of injuries she suffered when her car plunged off a cliff after she suffered a stroke while driving.

Her daughter Stephanie, then 17, was in the passenger seat at the time of the crash, but only suffered minor bruising.

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Jennifer Lopez admits she is insecure about toy boy

Cougar crisis: Jennifer Lopez admits she is insecure about her toy boy lover

Jennifer Lopez has opened up about her insecurities over the 18-year age gap between her and her toyboy Casper Smart, saying she asks him, “Why don’t you go find a young girlfriend?”

Despite her previous public relationships with Ben Affleck and Sean “P.Diddy” Combs, the singer has kept details of her romance with Casper, 25, under wraps, until now.

In a recent interview, J.Lo admitted she can’t understand why he wants to be with a 43-year-old woman.

“I ask him ‘What do you want with me?’ And you think, ‘How long is this gonna be?’ You think, ‘OK, in 10 years I’m going to be like this and you’re going to be like that’ and … men at that age are … I think all different things,” J.Lo told People magazine.

The former American Idol judge began dating her back-up dancer beau shortly after her July 2011 split from Latino singer Marc Anthony, the father of her four-year-old twins, Max and Emme.

In the revealing interview, Lopez credits her new love with helping her get over the breakdown of her eight-year marriage when “her whole world fell apart”.

“I just got out of a big, heavy, devastating thing, and he’s helped me heal. He’s been there for me,” she said.

While Casper has been J.Lo’s rock of late, the mum-of-two is wary of the problems they face in the long-term.

“The truth is we don’t know what’s going to happen,” she said.

Right now though, the On the Floor singer says she has no regrets. “We’re loving this moment right now. We make each other happy.”

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Nicole ‘respects’ her children’s Scientology beliefs

Nicole ‘respects’ her children’s Scientology beliefs

While Nicole Kidman has opened up about her relationship with ex-husband Tom Cruise in recent times, she has been less forthcoming about his controversial religion, Scientology.

But in a recent interview with The Hollywood Reporter the 45-year-old actress touched briefly on the subject.

A new expose on Scientology, Going Clear by Pulitzer Prize winner Lawrence Wright, claims the religion was the main cause of the breakdown of her marriage to Tom, and is heavily referred to throughout.

“I’ll bet it is,” Nicole said when this was pointed out to her by a reporter.

While Nicole no longer has any association with the religion, her two older children, Isabella, 20, and Connor, 17, are devoted to it.

“I’ve chosen not to speak publicly about Scientology,” the actress says. “I have two children who are Scientologists and I utterly respect their beliefs.”

Nicole will neither confirm nor deny the religion forced Tom to turn against her, saying she is more interested in her life today with her second husband Keith Urban and their daughters Sunday Rose and Faith Margaret at their home in Nashville, Tennessee.

“It’s such an easy lifestyle. And it’s more diverse than you’d expect. There’s so much great music,” she said.

“The Black Keys go jogging past the restaurant Keith and I go to. We’ll hang out with Jack White in the studio. And there’s music in our house all the time — Keith plays harmonica, drums, banjo, piano and bass guitar.

“He has a strong will about his career, and so do I. We want each other to thrive and do what we love, and we never interfere in the other’s career choices.”

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Victoria Beckham: Pop princess to style queen

She burst into the spotlight as a baby-faced 20-year-old and morphed into a scantily-clad, fake-tanned WAG before being reborn a fashionista and mother of four.

Now, 18 years after she shot to fame as part of the Spice Girls, Victoria Beckham is a household name with a multi-million dollar fortune, her own eponymous clothing line and one of the most famous faces in the world.

But while she has always been instantly recognisable, Victoria’s appearance has transformed dramatically over the years. These pictures show her changing style.

Victoria Beckham in 1997, 2007 and 2012.

A baby-faced Victoria at the beginning of her career in 1997.

Looking very unlike her current self in 1998.

With new boyfriend David Beckham in 1999.

Victoria in 1999.

Victoria in 2000.

David and Victoria in 2000.

David and Victoria in 2001.

Flashing a lot of cleavage at the MTV Movie Awards in 2003.

Showing off her hair extensions in 2003.

David and Victoria in 2005.

At Fashion Week in 2006.

Victoria in 2006.

Showing off an ample cleavage in 2007.

Victoria looked every inch the WAG in 2007.

Victoria wearing a barely-there minidress in 2007.

Starting to look more sophisticated in 2007.

David and Victoria looking dapper in 2008.

Victoria in 2009.

Looking very fashion-forward in 2009.

At a fashion event in New York in February 2012.

At the opening night of Viva Forever in London last month.

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Vogue diet mum speaks: ‘I made a million mistakes’

Vogue diet mum speaks: 'I made a million mistakes'

Dara-Lynn Weiss and her daughter Bea, who she "shamed" into losing weight. US Vogue.

She sparked worldwide controversy when she wrote about putting her seven-year-old daughter on a diet — now Dara-Lynn Weiss has admitted her approach was far from perfect.

Weiss opened up about her daughter Bea’s battle with her weight in the April 2012 issue of US Vogue.

The now-infamous article went viral, prompting a deluge of vicious criticism of Weiss that has caused her to re-evaluate her parenting tactics.

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“I was expecting a certain level of interest and controversy based on aspects of my approach,” Weiss tells the current issue of NY magazine.

“I lived it, so I knew that was something that people are sort of shocked by. And I accept a lot of the criticism. I am strict. I was abrasive at times. I made a million mistakes. But the idea that I embarrassed or humiliated my child, that’s just wrong.

“It was painful to hear. The whole journey was full of self-doubt and questioning, but I was honest about it. So then to have this wave of people confirming my worst fears …”

But while Weiss insists she didn’t humiliate her daughter, her original account of her “mission” to help Bea lose weight paints a different picture.

Weiss admitted refusing to give Bea dinner, banning her from enjoying her school’s Pizza Fridays, and publicly “deriding” her daughter when she accepted calorific treats like cookies or chocolate from other adults.

In another embarrassing incident, Weiss snatched a cup of hot chocolate out of Bea’s hands and poured it into the garbage bin when the barista couldn’t tell her the exact kilojoule count of the beverage.

But no matter how much criticism she faces, Weiss says she will never regret acting on her daughter’s weight problem, and would do it again if she needed to.

Related: Why are Australian women too posh to push?

“You have to parent your child around the issue of childhood obesity, even if it’s in a public setting,” she said.

“In so many situations in parenting, you have to do what’s unpopular. It’s not something a kid wants to help you out with. It’s not something that other parents are happy to see someone going through.

“Childhood obesity is such an important issue to bring out, and the shaming of parents was at the heart of it. So while there were many times I wanted to recede back into a private life, I didn’t want to be scared off by the criticism, either by people I felt disagreed with me correctly or incorrectly. The importance of this issue overrode my concern about undertaking it.”

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Why are Australian women too posh to push?

Why women should have babies before 35

Every day, in hospitals all around Australia, women who don’t need caesareans are having them.

In the past 15 years our caesarean rate has nearly doubled — leaving us with one of the highest rates of C-sections in the world.

Thirty-two per cent of women now have their babies delivered by caesarean in Australia, and that rate soars in private hospitals to 42.5 per cent.

So why this move to not push?

Midwives blame the medicalisation of childbirth.

“We have an obsession with removing pain in Australia,” Midwifery Professor Sue Kruske says. “Most women want to have a natural birth, but they rely on the advice of the caregiver, and too often it’s to have a caesarean — for no medical reason.”

Doctors, unsurprisingly, disagree. Obstetrician and current President of the Royal Australian and New Zealand College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, Professor Michael Permezel, blames the increasing age of first-time mothers for the increase in surgical intervention.

“It’s patronising to suggest doctors impose their decision on women,” he says, “Women are well educated on their choices now, and increased caesareans are due to older mothers having babies after pursuing their careers first.”

International figures don’t support his claims. In the country with the lowest caesarean rate — The Netherlands — the average age of women having their first baby is pretty much the same as Australia.

Research from Australia also contradicts Permezel’s claims. Data from the Queensland Centre for Mothers and Babies shows that in that state, it’s not just old mothers having babies delivered by caesarean, nor is it sick or fat mothers: it’s all women, across the entire spectrum.

Midwifery Professor Hannah Dahlen believes that “there are a whole series of obstacles and realities that prevent normal birth in this country, and the private sector is driving those increases”.

That we even have to emphasise that a vaginal delivery is ‘normal’ is worrying. Women have been delivering babies the old fashioned way for millennia.

While there have been leaps and bounds in improving safety for mums and bubs in the birthing process, Aussie women need to be more aware about their choices — more aware that having a caesarean is major invasive surgery, and there are real risks involved.

Academics tell us the number of ‘unnecessary’ caesareans is 10,000 nationally. Can you imagine the outcry if Doctors were found to have removed 10,000 appendixes without due cause? The anger if they had used 10,000 anesthetics for no good reason?

But there’s no outcry, because women accept their doctor’s advice, which is often made with convenience, rather than the best outcome, in mind.

Caesareans have their place, but as long as most of us having babies are healthy and fit, more of us should get to experience a natural childbirth.

Yep, it hurts. Yep, bits tear and it’s not exactly graceful to have your legs spread asunder while bellowing at the top of your lungs. But it’s what our bodies were made for. And when that little life you’ve been growing for 10 months is finally laid on your chest, the pain of pushing is forgotten.

Zoe Arnold has two daughters, aged 15 months and three years, who were born naturally.

Writer’s note: Thanks for all the feedback. This is obviously a polarising issue, and while there is opinion in this article, it is based on fact.

A few points, to clarify:

  • The national figures on caesareans quoted in the article are from the 2009 Mothers and Babies report, which can be found here;

  • Australian women are NOT too posh to push, but we do have an ever growing rate of caesareans (according to the OECD and our most prominent maternity researchers), which is not necessarily a “good” thing;

  • I have NO judgement how you have your baby, but science tells us that the optimal way for a baby to be born is naturally, in most cases. Of course, high-risk pregnancies and labours are a different story: often in those cases a caesarean is the best option;

  • This article was based on interviews with 3 eminent maternity experts who all had different opinions, but all agreed that the caesarean rate in Australia was too high, and could be lowered;

  • The best thing for all women is to be well-informed before they head into Labour. Caesareans can save lives when used in the right circumstances, but they can also put both mum and bub at risk when performed unnecessarily, particularly when women have multiple caesars. It’s important we are getting good information from our care providers about all our options.

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How to beat the back-to-work blues

How to beat the back-to-work blues

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It is one of the most dreaded feelings we can experience — returning to work after a holiday and although it may make us feel challenged to head back to work, a leading expert says for some it can be a lot harder.

Workplace psychology expert Dr Mary Casey, who runs the health and education organisation Casey Centre, says a surprising number of people feel more than a little anxious about returning to work. She said some can feel stressed, depressed or totally overwhelmed when returning to work.

“Often we do not realise why we feel the way we do until we have had a break and have to return to the negative energy,” she said.

“We have to find out the real issue underlying the blues in order to overcome them. The underlying problems can be many. Our feelings are most vigorously affected by interpersonal relationships. That is why you should start with examining your work relationships to identify the cause of your work blues.”

Dr Casey has identified eight common work-related problems and strategies to beat the “work” blues.

“Ask yourself if you’re being challenged, and believe in the work you do. If you have been dissatisfied for a year or more, it’s could be time to discover what you do like. Learn new skills by embarking on some study, or look for a new role where your existing skills can be applied.”

“People only do what they do because they can,” Dr Casey said.

“My tips are to control your emotions around any difficult person, set strong boundaries within acceptable limits, don’t take anything too personally, remain professional, and channel your attention into areas of your work that will reward you both personally and professionally.”

“Find out what exactly what bothers you. Adopting an attitude of gratitude may be all that you need: identify the positive attributes of your job — for instance a regular income, stability, mentoring and/or work satisfaction. If you can’t identify positive aspects, then maybe it is time for a change,” Dr Casey says.

“Look into why so much work is being delegated to you. Communicate with management if you need more resources and how it would benefit the business; identify where and how you can delegate to another; or are you doing other people’s work for them and it’s simply become a habit? Take responsibility and stop it immediately as it is your health that suffers in the long run.”

“Remember that you’re employed for a reason — you have expertise, skills and experience. Find a course on assertiveness and learn how to confront issues and speak up for yourself.”

“If you don’t have confidence in yourself, neither will your boss or co-workers, leaving you stagnating in your career growth. Ask yourself is this the deep reason why you dread returning from holidays?” Dr Casey says. She suggests enrolling in a confidence building course if this is an issue for you.

“It is up to you to have clear boundaries for yourself as to what is acceptable to you and what is not acceptable. You need to be perfectly clear on how you will be spoken to and treated. If you are not clear, others will walk all over you,” Dr Casey says.

It is important to remember that, while most work-related issues can be resolved, if you continue to feel that your situation can not be changed it may be worth seeking a new role in a new work place.

“Everyone deserves job satisfaction and peace of mind. Find a reason or goal to motivate you to change your situation or yourself, and be assertive enough to take action.”

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