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Orlando Bloom strides into Sydney

Orlando Bloom has made a flying visit to Australia … without his wife and son.

The British actor touched down in Sydney after his plane was delayed for five hours and diverted to Melbourne, but he still looked relaxed as he strode through the airport wearing a cap and a black and white striped scarf.

His Aussie supermodel wife Miranda Kerr and the pair’s son Flynn did not join him on the visit, which he says is “just a quick trip”.

Orlando Bloom arrives in Sydney.

Orlando is welcomed by waiting media.

On May 26 Orlando was in Cannes for the ‘Zulu’ premiere and closing ceremony.

Miranda and Orlando hit the red carpet together back in Febuary.

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Great read: And the Mountains Echoed

Great read: And the Mountains Echoed

And the Mountains Echoed , by Khaled Hosseini, Bloomsbury, $32.99.

There’s something deliciously engulfing about Khaled Hosseini’s writing, taking us on a journey so intense and recognisable that you never want to let go. It doesn’t matter that the lands he transports us to are faraway and unfamiliar.

In fact, it makes the story even more entrancing — for at the centre of Hosseini’s world is a heart-wrenching pulse of human emotion, the pain and struggles that unite us all; the bonds and betrayals of family and love, the unspeakable brutality of war.

His two previous books — The Kite Runner and A Thousand Splendid Suns — were best-sellers and this new novel is certain to gain him yet more fans.

The story starts in Afghanistan in 1952 with Abdullah and his younger sister, Pari, inseparable in their own childish world as their father battles with poverty and biting winters in a rural village. With their mother dead, Abdullah steps into the breach to raise his beloved sister — the siblings sleeping, eating and playing together as a powerful unit.

Even when their father, Saboor, remarries and adds to the family, Abdullah and Pari share a unique bond.

Then, one day, Pari is bundled up for a mysterious journey across the desert with her father and despite being ordered to remain behind and help his stepmother, Abdullah stubbornly follows them on the long trek to Kabul, incapable of letting his sister out of his sight.

En route, Saboor recounts an allegorical fable about a monster (“a div”) stealing children from starving villagers, which provides a magical and telling framework for the very real stories that follow.

In Kabul, Pari is sold to her uncle’s employer for a better life with rich parents and, in a complex and feverishly engrossing story across many time zones and continents, the ramifications of this action plays out.

This is just one of a clutch of interwoven tales that delve into different types of love, fractured family relations and the impact of war and the Taliban in Afghanistan. And while this may all sound rather heavy, in Hosseini’s hands it is light, lyrical, always surprising and deeply moving.

About the author: KHALED HOSSEINI

Khaled Hosseini was born in Kabul, Afghanistan, in 1965, but his family was granted political asylum in the US in 1980.

Initially trained as a doctor, he has since sold more than 38 million books in 70 countries. He was “astonished” when, in 2003, his debut novel, The Kite Runner, which he says, “I knew I had to write”, became a world best-seller. “I thought I was writing it for myself,” he says. It took Hosseini six years to write his third novel, And The Mountains Echoed. The inspiration for the book’s two main characters came from sisters Hosseini met on his last visit to his homeland.

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The mercury filling debate

The mercury filling debate

Exposure to mercury puts our health at serious risk, so why are we still using it in dental fillings, asks Professor Kerryn Phelps.

The Mad Hatter: Have I gone Mad?

Alice: I’m afraid so. You’re entirely bonkers. But I’ll tell you a secret. All the best people are.

Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

The phrase “mad as a hatter” comes from the past use of mercury in curing felt for hat-making. Hatters exposed to mercury poisoning in their work developed neurological and psychiatric symptoms.

Mercury in any form is poisonous. These days, the occupation most likely to be exposed to mercury is dentistry. Not only are dental workers at risk, but also their clients, past and present. If you are one of the many people with silver-coloured amalgam fillings in your teeth, you could suffer the long-term effects of this potent toxin.

Most people are unaware that dental amalgam fillings contain 50 per cent elemental mercury. According to the United Nations Environment Programme, the use of mercury in tooth fillings represents some 10 per cent of global mercury consumption, thus dental practices are among the largest consumers of mercury in the world.

Mercury can produce many serious adverse health effects, including permanent damage to the central nervous system (especially in children during development), kidney disease, reproductive birth defects because mercury passes through the placental barrier, infertility and lung and cardiac problems.

There has been growing global concern about mercury for some time due to the escalating mercury levels being measured in air, water and fish.

An increasingly vocal consumer group says it is time to “end the mercury age of dentistry” and it now has the backing of a UN global treaty which calls on countries to phase out mercury amalgam.

This treaty, to be named after Minamata in Japan, the site of the world’s worst mercury poisoning incident, was finalised in Geneva this year. More than 140 nations, including Australia, developed the first legally binding agreement to curb mercury pollution. Dental amalgam was recognised as a serious environmental pollutant and was listed in the treaty.

One of the treaty’s recommendations involves encouraging professional societies and dental schools to educate and train dental professionals in the use of mercury-free filling materials.

Dr Lisa Matriste, director of Australians for Mercury Free Dentistry, says there is no justification for the continued use of mercury in dentistry.

“In Australia the continued use of this product is the result of long-standing attitudes amongst dentists,” she says.

“The use of dental amalgam is still taught in Australian dental schools because of tradition. It has been phased out in many countries in the world. For example, it has not been taught in Switzerland for 13 years.

“Mercury-free options have been available for decades and are both cost-effective and durable. Mercury-safe dental protocols are needed to protect our patients, the dental workers and the environment we all share. The Australian public no longer wants to have mercury implanted into their mouths.”

The Australian Dental Association, however, is less definitive than Dr Matriste in its policies towards mercury-free dentistry and suggests provisions for reducing the use of dental amalgam rather than a total ban.

“The ADA supports dentists having available the most appropriate filling materials to suit the clinical situation and so continues to support the availability and use of dental amalgam,” the association’s spokesperson told me.

“The National Health and Medical Research Council has attested to the value and safety of dental amalgam, but has suggested that it would be prudent to reduce its use in special populations, including children, women in pregnancy and persons with existing kidney disease.”

In short, the ADA proposes a “‘phase down’ not ‘phase out’ approach,” which many may feel is unsatisfactory.

ARE AMALGAM FILLINGS SAFE?

Dr Matriste disagrees with the view of some authorities (including the ADA) that old amalgam fillings are “stable”. She says that is a myth.

“You may not be able to see or taste the vapours but mercury can be accurately measured in people’s breath.

“Warnings from the amalgam manufacturer about mercury say that it shouldn’t be stored above 25&degC. Yet everyone knows the body temperature is around 37 degrees. Mercury is easily vaporised from the mouth into the body, especially when drinking warm beverages, eating hot food and smoking cigarettes.

“The mercury fillings also swell because of their metallic nature and you grind off small amounts of the filling which you swallow. So there is constant absorption of mercury into the body. In 1991, the World Health Organisation said that the greatest dietary source of mercury is not fish — it is dental amalgam.”

SHOULD YOU HAVE YOUR AMALGAM FILLINGS REPLACED?

One of the reasons this issue has been kept quiet is we don’t have the infrastructure to remove and replace all dental amalgam fillings safely.

If you plan to have your dental amalgam fillings replaced, you need to talk to your dentist to ensure they know about the right safety protocols which include:

  • Use of a non-latex dental dam.

  • Airway protection. Your nose must be covered. There must be pressurised air under the dam for you to breathe.

  • Suction is crucial: in front and behind the dam.

  • The room environment needs an efficient exhaust system.

  • Air conditioning has to have an external vent.

  • Dentist and dental staff need to wear protective masks.

At this stage, there are two important pieces of advice: do not have any new dental amalgam fillings, especially if you are planning a pregnancy, already pregnant or breastfeeding; and under no circumstances allow your children to have a dental amalgam filling.

ENVIRONMENT

There is a major concern about where discarded mercury amalgam ends up. A dangerous feature of mercury pollution is that micro-organisms in the environment transform the mercury into a more toxic version known as methylmercury.

Mercury amalgam drilled out of teeth and discarded into the dentist’s sink usually ends up in sewage plants and ultimately in the environment, including our waterways.

Mercury left in teeth during cremation ends up in the air. With burials, it can lead to pollution of the earth. Without a doubt, dental clinics are a major source of mercury pollution of waterways.

Installation of equipment attached to the dental clinics’ outlet pipes, known as an amalgam separator, is another recommendation of the Minamata Treaty.

This is designed to make the dental profession environmentally responsible by protecting the aquatic food chain. Most dentists in Victoria and the ACT have complied with this, but other states and territories have been slow to act.

WHAT YOU CAN DO NOW

If you are concerned that you may have been exposed to unsafe mercury levels, then seriously consider consulting with a medical doctor who has undertaken training in heavy metal detoxification.

They can arrange the appropriate tests like hair tissue mineral analysis, faecal, urine, blood and DNA scans to assess your mercury exposure and then supervise its detoxification.

SYMPTOMS OF MERCURY TOXICITY

The United States Environmental Protection Agency has issued a health-effect checklist on mercury exposure.

  • Impaired development of the brain and nervous system in foetuses, infants and children.

  • Impaired thinking, memory, attention, language and fine motor and visual spatial skills.

  • Impaired peripheral vision.

  • Disturbed sensations (feelings of pins and needles, usually in the hands, feet, and around the mouth).

  • Lack of coordination of movements.

  • Impairment of speech, hearing and walking.

  • Muscle weakness, wasting and twitching.

  • Tremors.

  • Emotional changes (eg, mood swings, irritability, nervousness and excessive shyness).

  • Insomnia.

  • Headaches.

  • Reduced cognitive function.

  • At higher exposures, there may be effects on the kidney, respiratory failure and death.

Dear Ms McCabe,

I refer to your article in the May 2013 edition of The Australian Women’s Weekly (AWW) titled “Why our dentists must go mercury free”.

It is disappointing that Professor Kerryn Phelps, a former President of the Australian Medical Association, has chosen to misrepresent published scientific information regarding dental amalgam and failed to consult authoritative international sources.

She sought assistance from the Australian Dental Association Inc. (ADA). Work was done in response and scientific information and an offer to confer provided but this was ignored. The information provided appears to have been ignored.

The ADA wishes to make the following points:

  • Contrary to the AWW article, the United Nations Environment Program’s ‘Minimata Treaty’ does not ‘call on countries to phase out’ dental amalgam, but rather to ‘phase down’ its use. The ADA supports a ‘phase down’ approach.

  • The AWW article states that ‘Mercury]free options … are both cost]effective and durable”. The average fee in Australia for a 3]surface amalgam restoration is $186; for a 3]surface tooth]coloured restoration (‘composite’), $219; for a gold crown, $1432 (ADA FeeSurvey, 2012). The report of the World Health Organisation’s (WHO) “Future use of materials for dental restoration” (2009) states: “In the vast majority of low] and middleincome countries, the use of dental amalgam remains the preferred material for dental fillings or build]up material as alternative materials are currently far too expensive for people and society.’ and ‘In general, dental amalgam outlasts resin composites with median ages of 10]15 years for amalgam, compared with <5 to="" 8="" years="" for="" composites".="">

  • It is correct that mercury can be measured in breath, but only in nanogram amounts. (A nanogram is one thousand millionth of a gram.)

  • It is misleading to compare the recommended storage conditions of mercury (correctly stated in the article to be not above 25&degC), with amalgam at mouth temperature (37&degC). The inference is that amalgam is pure mercury; it is not, in fact, amalgam in the mouth contains a negligible amount of ‘free’ mercury, the rest being present as compounds of silver, tin and copper.

Several international organisations have conducted extensive studies on a possible link between amalgam restorations and adverse health effects.

Examples of the conclusions are:

  • Life Sciences Research Office, USA (2004): “The current data are insufficient to support an association between mercury release from dental amalgam and the various complaints that have been attributed to this restoration.” (Executive Summary)

  • European Commission’s Scientific Committee on Emerging and Newly Identified Health Risks (2008): “It is concluded however, that there is no scientific evidence for (sic) risks of adverse systemic effects exist and the current use of dental amalgam does not pose a risk of systemic disease. The main exposure to mercury in individuals with amalgam restorations occurs during placement or removal of the fillings. The removal of amalgam restorations will transiently increase the exposure of individual patients to relatively high levels of mercury and there is no clinical justification for removing clinically satisfactory amalgam restorations, except in patients suspected of having allergic reactions to amalgam constituents.”

  • US Food and Drug Administration (2009): “FDA considers dental amalgam fillings safe for adults and children ages 6 and above. The amount of mercury measured in the bodies of people with dental amalgam fillings is well below levels associated with adverse health effects.”

  • Health Canada (2006): “… current evidence does not indicate that dental amalgam is causing illness in the general population.’ and ‘A total ban on amalgam is not considered justified. Neither is the removal of sound amalgam fillings in patients who have no indication of adverse health effects attributable to mercury exposure.”

These facts must be brought to the attention of your readers.

Yours sincerely

Dr Karin Alexander

President

Australian Dental Association Inc.

Dear Dr Alexander

I write in response to your letter to the editor of The Australian Women’s Weekly, Helen McCabe.

I will address your points in order.

  • I am disappointed by your allegation that “published scientific information was misrepresented” and that I had, according to you, “failed to consult authoritative international sources”. My research in preparation for this article revealed that this is a highly controversial issue within dentistry. What is clear is that there is sufficient concern within organisations such as the NHMRC to warn against the use of mercury amalgam for children, pregnant and breast feeding women and people with kidney disease. This would not indicate a “safe” material.

  • I did indeed seek assistance from the Australian Dental Association Inc. (ADA) and I thank you for providing that assistance in the form of written responses to my questions. This is a common method used in the media and ensures accurate quoting. The information provided by the ADA was not ignored. On the contrary, I used relevant quotes from those responses, which you will find within the text.

  • Regarding the “phase out” vs “phase down” terminology. You would be well aware that “phasing down” is a negotiated position leading towards phasing out of dental amalgam over time. One of the issues is that the recommended use of amalgam in poorer populations highlights a social inequity.

  • With a “phasing-down” or “phasing-out” approach any timetable would involve development of suitable cost-effective non-mercury materials so that poor people would not be unfairly disadvantaged by being unable to afford dental care.

  • I am sure that you will agree that “lack of proof of harm” is quite a different concept to “proof of safety”. It is not possible to rule out a subclinical toxic effect.

  • Thank you for your acknowledgment that mercury can be measured in breath. You would be aware also that there is controversy about the amount of systemic mercury uptake, varying widely between individuals.Regarding the position of international organisations, Norway, Sweden and Denmark have all banned the use of dental amalgam.In Australia, the NHMRC document acknowledges the considerable uncertainty around the health effects of mercury and that there is sufficient concern to recommend its use be avoided in children and pregnant women. It makes the point that wherever possible alternatives to amalgam should be used.You quote the World Health Organization. Its monograph on mercury and human health says:Studies on humans and animals have demonstrated that dental amalgam contributes significantly to mercury body burden in humans with amalgam fillings.

  • Dental amalgam constitutes a potentially significant source of exposure to elemental mercury is the most common form of exposure to elemental mercury with estimates of daily intake from amalgam restorations ranging from 1 to 27 µ/day.

  • Absorption also varies according to individual factors such as gum chewing and bruxism (tooth grinding).

  • The number of restorations — amalgam or otherwise — is declining, largely due to improved dental hygiene, in all industrialised countries examined declining by 38 per cent since the 1970s in the USA and over 65 per cent in the 10 years from 1986 in the UK.

  • Although several studies have demonstrated that some mercury from amalgam fillings is absorbed, no relationship was observed between the mercury release from amalgam fillings and the mercury concentration in basal brain. However, in the same report it was concluded that ” … even at very low mercury levels, subtle changes in visual system function can be measured.”

  • In multiple sclerosis patients with amalgam fillings, red blood cells, haemoglobin, hematocrit, thyroxine, T lymphocytes and T8 (CD8) suppressor cells levels are significantly lower, while blood urea nitrogen and hair mercury levels are significantly higher.

  • The report also notes that regarding elemental mercury exposure, the main form of exposure from dental amalgam,” most studies rely on assessment of exposure at the time of study, which may not be fully informative, as mercury has a long half-life in the body and thus accumulates in continuous exposure,” making the evaluation of effects on health uncertain.

Regarding the position of international organisations, Norway, Sweden and Denmark have all banned the use of dental amalgam.

In Australia, the NHMRC document acknowledges the considerable uncertainty around the health effects of mercury and that there is sufficient concern to recommend its use be avoided in children and pregnant women. It makes the point that wherever possible alternatives to amalgam should be used.

You quote the World Health Organization. Its monograph on mercury and human health says:

  • Studies on humans and animals have demonstrated that dental amalgam contributes significantly to mercury body burden in humans with amalgam fillings.

  • Dental amalgam constitutes a potentially significant source of exposure to elemental mercury is the most common form of exposure to elemental mercury with estimates of daily intake from amalgam restorations ranging from 1 to 27 µ/day.

  • Absorption also varies according to individual factors such as gum chewing and bruxism (tooth grinding).

  • The number of restorations — amalgam or otherwise — is declining, largely due to improved dental hygiene, in all industrialised countries examined declining by 38 per cent since the 1970s in the USA and over 65 per cent in the 10 years from 1986 in the UK.

  • Although several studies have demonstrated that some mercury from amalgam fillings is absorbed, no relationship was observed between the mercury release from amalgam fillings and the mercury concentration in basal brain. However, in the same report it was concluded that ” … even at very low mercury levels, subtle changes in visual system function can be measured.”

  • In multiple sclerosis patients with amalgam fillings, red blood cells, haemoglobin, hematocrit, thyroxine, T lymphocytes and T8 (CD8) suppressor cells levels are significantly lower, while blood urea nitrogen and hair mercury levels are significantly higher.

  • The report also notes that regarding elemental mercury exposure, the main form of exposure from dental amalgam,” most studies rely on assessment of exposure at the time of study, which may not be fully informative, as mercury has a long half-life in the body and thus accumulates in continuous exposure,” making the evaluation of effects on health uncertain.

I must admit I think it is bold for the ADA or any other organization to have any confidence in claiming that mercury amalgam is “safe” for human health, when there is so much controversy about it.

Consumers have a right to know about this controversy so that they can make informed decisions about whether they allow mercury to be implanted in their teeth, given the uncertainty about its safety.

Yours sincerely

Prof Kerryn Phelps AM

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An Aussie mum’s journey to ‘mow down’ MS

An Aussie mum's journey to 'mow down' MS

On World MS Day, 43-year-old mum-of-three Megan Healy will complete her lawnmower ride from Melbourne to Sydney. As one of the 23,000 Australians affected by the disease Megan is aiming to raise $50,000 for MS research. She shares her story with The Weekly.

Megan Healy was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 1996, but she wasn’t “struck down” by the mysterious disease until ten years later.

After recovering from an initial attack that would forever affect her nervous system, the then 27-year-old continued to live life virtually unobstructed.

“I played tennis, rode horses, played Oztag, and manage to have three children in that time,” she says.

“You wouldn’t really have known that I had MS, apart from the odd attack and massive amount of fatigue.”

In 2007, a severe attack affecting Megan’s spinal cord left her legs to get progressively weaker until she lost mobility, and like many of the estimated 23,000 Australians MS affects, she was left wheelchair-bound and “unable to do anything much, really”.

The thing that sets Megan apart from others isn’t just her fighting spirit — many people with debilitating diseases have that, she’s quick to point out — but that she’s found a unique way to use her experience with MS to help raise awareness for the disease that many Australians lack understanding of and has perplexed even the medical community since its discovery, and she’s also found a way to get around and keep active despite losing most of her ability to move.

When I go to call Megan for our interview I’m not sure if she’s going to pick up. I’ve been warned about this. She can’t always answer, you see, as she needs to find a safe place to park her ride-on lawnmower.

In the lead up to World MS Day, she has embarked on “Megan’s Great MS Mowdown”.

Over the space of two and a half weeks she’s driven her big red mower from Melbourne to Sydney through a number of towns, stopping at schools, community centres, and even a pit stop at parliament house.

Never one to let being wheelchair-bound get in the way of getting around, the ever-restless Megan wanted to do something to not only raise money and awareness for MS but show what people with disabilities can do, and a cross-country lawnmower ride was quirky enough that it just might work.

“It’s my legs on wheels,” she says of the mower that gives her the ability to move around her NSW property and keep up with her kids, and is now also a vehicle for MS awareness.

“The ultimate goal is to raise $50,000 on the ride, but also I just wanted to raise awareness and let people know that there’s lots and lots of people living with MS,” she says.

“And showing people that even though you have a disability, there are plenty of things you can do.”

Since being struck by MS, Megan has noticed a real lack of understanding surrounding the disease, and by speaking at schools and getting attention on her mower ride, that’s something she aims to tackle.

But there are three young people in Megan’s life who truly understand what it’s all about.

“My kids (8, 11 and 14) are amazing,” she says.

“They’re basically my carers. Part of the point of the Mowdown is to show them the old me, because I’ve been in a wheelchair since before they can remember, and this is showing them their mum going out and being a doer, being active.

“Providing adequate care for people with MS is a huge part of the problem, and part of what I want to do is let carers, especially young carers, know what a fabulous job they do and how much it means to the person they’re caring for.”

Megan’s daughter says that her mum is showing people that even if you’ve got a disability you can do anything, but unfortunately that’s not the case for many sufferers of MS.

“MS is different for everyone, but it can be really, really debilitating,” she says.

With more research and a greater understanding of MS, and maybe even a cure, Megan hopes that sufferers in the near future will really be able to do anything and not have their lives obstructed by the disease.

Today is Kiss Goodbye to MS day and the final day of Megan’s Mowdown. You can support Megan’s Great MS Mowdown here and visit her facebook page here.

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Bec Hewitt’s personal demons: “I’m definitely obsessive compulsive”

Bec Hewitt would appear to have it all - three beautiful children, an elite sportsman husband and a mansion in The Bahamas. Yet behind the sunny smile lies a mind that rarely rests.
Bec Hewitt with her daughters Ava and Mia.

Bec and her kids posed for The Australian Women's Weekly back in 2013.

Bec Hewitt would appear to have it all — three beautiful children, an elite sportsman husband and a mansion in The Bahamas. Yet behind the sunny smile lies a mind that rarely rests.

In a candid interview in the June issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly, Bec reveals her personal demons, confessing she is manic about cleaning and tidying her home.

“I’m definitely obsessive compulsive,” she says. “Oh, good golly, any kind of cleaning, bed making. It’s the way I do things. I do that repetition thing. If I’m not sure that I’ve done it, well, I’ll do it again. Though having kids has really helped to break that.”

So was it ever a serious problem?

“Umm,” Bec pauses. “Well, I guess it bothered me because it would consume time unnecessarily. But then you just have to take a step back and look at your behaviour from an outsider’s point of view.

“There was a little while there where I had to work really hard to find a balance. But having kids has definitely helped because you can’t live in a picture-perfect house. You’ve got to learn to let things go a little bit.”

Bec and Lleyton have three kids together, Mia, seven, Cruz, four and two-year-old Ava. The family spends a lot of time of the road, travelling around the world on the professional tennis circuit and the level of organisation this requires feeds Bec’s compulsive habits.

“I do find it hard to sleep at night,” Bec says. “I find it really hard to unwind. The only time I really unwind or relax is when Lleyton is home. We enjoy sitting and watching TV together.

“When I do sit down and watch TV, that’s when I realise how exhausted I really am. But, otherwise, I would never acknowledge it. When Mum asks if I am tired, I usually just tell her, ‘Next question’.

“My dad will sometimes come and stay when we are in Sydney, and Lleyton has had to duck down to Melbourne. Dad will wake up at seven in the morning to come out and find me in the same clothes as the night before, and I just drop everything and start walking to my room because I know I should have been in bed hours ago.

“But I’m not that bad any more. I can’t give you a number on how many hours’ sleep I get each night, but it’s probably less than the average person.”

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Antonia Kidman: Why I had six kids without drugs

Antonia Kidman: Why I had six kids without drugs

Antonia Kidman with her new son Alexander. Photography by Michelle Holden. Styling by Mattie Cronan.

What’s it like to give birth to six children? According to Antonia Kidman it’s sheer euphoria.

The 42-year-old TV presenter and author — who recently welcomed her sixth child, Alexander — discusses kids and childbirth in the June issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

“You know that adrenaline rush you get after exercising really hard? Like after a really long run? That feeling of euphoria? That’s what it’s like for me after childbirth,” she says.

“Which is why I’ve always refused epidurals or drugs during birth. I want to feel it all and, above all, not miss out on that feeling of euphoria.”

Antonia has four children from her previous marriage to Angus Hawley and two from her current marriage to Craig Marran.

The eldest child is 14, the youngest is five months. She’s 42 and has either been pregnant or with a newborn or toddler in her arms pretty much constantly since the age of 28.

She drives an eight-seater car. If there were a poster girl for motherhood in Australia — a high-profile embodiment of fertility — Antonia Kidman would be it. And the pressing question is why? Why so many kids? And the next question is how? How does she cope with so many children?

“People tend to make more of a fuss about it than it really deserves,” Antonia says. “I mean, it was only a couple of generations ago that families of eight or 10 were the norm. It’s only recently that our families have gotten smaller.

“At the end of the day, we’re no different from any other family, except that we have an eight-seater car and a couple of our kids share a room.

“Sure, there’s a bit of crowd control involved and there’s probably less opportunity for one-on-one parenting, but then because we are a blended family there is a lot of to-ing and fro-ing, especially of my first four kids, who travel often to spend time with their dad. So, everything is always shifting, which is quite nice because I like that the family dynamic is always changing.”

So are Antonia’s baby-making days finally over? “I suppose you can never say never,” she says.

Antonia Kidman’s latest book, The Simple Things: Creating An Organised Home, A Happy Family And A Life, co-authored by Sally Collings, published by HarperCollins, $35, is available now.

Read more of this story in the June issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Meet Natasha Walker: She’s not who you think she is

Meet Natasha Walker: She's not who you think she is

Natasha Walker is actually John Purcell. Photography by Alana Landsberry. Styling by Nell Simpson

Natasha Walker is the best-selling authoress of Australia’s hottest erotic fiction … or is she? Caroline Overington reveals Natasha’s big secret.

Don’t read this if you don’t like the feeling of being duped.

Okay.

The Weekly is exclusively revealing today that the author of the racy Australian trilogy, The Secret Lives of Emma, isn’t a woman called Natasha Walker.

It’s a man.

The books, which became best-sellers last year on the back of the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon, were written by a married father-of-two, John Purcell.

John is the chief book buyer and head of marketing at Australia’s largest online bookstore, Booktopia.

The Emma trilogy, an erotic tale of a bored housewife and the young man who lives next door, has sold more than 50,000 copies, which makes John one of Australia’s best-selling authors of “mummy porn”.

That’s quite an achievement for a man who failed his HSC.

“I was in my final months of school when they figured out I couldn’t really read,” he says. “I was pretty much dyslexic. Then a teacher put a copy of Catch-22 in my hands and that changed my life.”

He still failed his exams but had fallen in love with books. He soon began writing his own but — just as women have known for years — quickly discovered that it’s often tough to find a publisher.

John tells The Weekly that he wrote most of the material for his Emma books many years ago, and dumped it in a drawer.

Then, “suddenly, erotica was hot, so I gave my big messy manuscript to my agent and the rest is history”.

Readers pounced on the books — and on John (or “Natasha’s”) website.

“There weren’t too many women who wrote saucy things to me,” says John. “But a few men might be feeling a bit sheepish.”

Read more about John’s journey from dyslexic teenager to best-selling author in the June issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Meet our Women of the Future

Meet our Women of the Future

Rhiannon Tracey-Bradford (pictured with her dog Elvis) is one of the entrants for The Weekly's Women of the Future fund.

To celebrate The Weekly’s 80th birthday we’re proud to have launched a unique initiative to help Australia’s young women of the future fulfil their dreams.

Meet some of the early entrants who are in the race to be among the finalists in our search for the nation’s most inspiring young women.

Rhiannon Tracey-Bradford 25, VIC

When Rhiannon Tracey-Bradford dived into the unmarked pool at her hotel in Bali, late one evening, she had no idea her life was about to change forever.

“The sides of the pool sloped down at an angle, not straight up and down,” she says. “I didn’t know. There was no warning, no lighting. It was midnight.

I remember hitting the bottom and thinking, ‘Oh, no. What have I done?’”

Rhiannon suffered a broken neck and back. When she returned home in an air ambulance, almost dead after an horrific experience in an Indonesian hospital, doctors told her she would never walk again. Australian doctors had to perform more surgery to correct what was done in Bali, but in the process they had to cause even more trauma to Rhiannon’s spinal cord. The chances were she would not even be able to feed herself.

“That was pretty scary,” Rhiannon recalls. “I remember Mum coming in to tell me that I was in the middle of a huge marathon, that if I came out the other end alive, I’d be lucky.”

She survived — mainly because of her mother’s unshakable strength and support, says Rhiannon — but wasn’t prepared to accept a future locked in a wheelchair. Determined to walk again, she sought out a rehabilitation program in the US after failing to find a suitable program here.

“I left the facility able to take my own steps unaided,” she says. “I met people determined to get well. I’d experienced something amazing and it was important to me that other people got to experience it, too.” Now, she is doing many of the things she was once told she would never do. And she is setting up a rehabilitation program for spinal injuries in the northern Melbourne suburb of Thomastown.

“We now have a waiting list of clients wanting to use the facility once it is open,” says Rhiannon. “This is my dream — to be able to help as many people as I can have a better quality of life.”

Lauren Moss 26, program co-ordinator, NT

In a world saturated with celebrity diets and fitness fads, it’s often easy to get caught up in a body-bashing cycle — be it a seemingly innocent throw-away remark to a friend, or that familiar guilty feeling when you open the fridge for a snack late at night.

No one knows this better than Lauren Moss, co-founder of the Skin Deep Project. “A couple of friends told me that they felt embarrassed that body image was their number one concern,” explains Lauren. “It’s a hidden shame to admit how much we really dislike ourselves sometimes.”

The Skin Deep Project aims to promote positive body image with events, activities and opportunities for young Territorians.

“Body image affects so many parts of our lives and the way we feel about ourselves affects many of the decisions we make and the behaviours we undertake. It’s incredibly important that we help people get a better sense of themselves and a bit more pride about who they are — not what they look like.”

Currently without funding, Lauren would use The Weekly’s $20,000 Women of the Future scholarship to make the body image conversation bigger and louder by introducing forums to the project’s website.

“The more people we reach with this message, the better,” says Lauren. “I’d also like to see us become an incorporated body so that we can get our message out into schools.

“We have a strong sense that what we’re doing is right and with a little bit of extra support, we can kick the project up a level.”

Visit skindeepproject.com

Fiona Selimi 26, radiographer, NSW

For most young girls, it’s their mum who’s a constant comforting presence — reading bedtime stories, drying tears and sharing hugs. Yet for Fiona, whose mum, Anna-Maria, was suffering from multiple sclerosis, growing up was different.

“Mum’s condition deteriorated after I was born and, later, she was completely bed-ridden,” says Fiona. “It was a very difficult time.”

The Selimi family rallied, spending most of their time at hospitals and with a constant parade of specialists.

“Looking back, I was angry and disappointed at Mum’s treatment because the doctors didn’t show her any compassion or empathy,” says Fiona, who lost her way when she was just 15, after Anna-Maria died.

“I wasn’t the brightest or most academically focused student and I hung around the bad kids,” Fiona says. “When Mum passed away, that got a lot worse — I started skipping school.”

It took one simple question from a teacher to get Fiona to reconsider her direction. “She asked me, ‘What would your mum say?’ That went right to my heart. I went home and thought, ‘She’s absolutely right’.”

That wake-up call meant Fiona applied herself to her studies. Three years later, she was the dux of her Year 12 class with a UAI of 90.25, all the while working up to 60 hours a week to support her family. Remembering the experiences of her family when her mum was suffering from MS, Fiona knew exactly where her university studies would take her.

“I couldn’t get into medicine, so I did a Bachelor of Science. I’m now studying to get into post-graduate medicine.”

Fiona plans to become a GP and open her own medical centre in Sydney’s Mount Druitt. “I want to make a difference and help others, and I’d like to think that Mum would be really proud.”

Emma Green 23, stay-at-home mum, WA

When Emma Green discovered that her mother had breast cancer three years ago, she was faced with an agonising dilemma. As part of her mother’s medical investigations, Emma found she carried the so-called breast cancer gene, BRCA1, which means she has more than a 50 per cent chance of developing breast cancer like her mother.

After many dark nights of the soul, Emma decided that her peace of mind lay in a radical solution — a prophylactic mastectomy, preventative surgery to remove her breasts, thereby removing the potential risk to her life.

“It’s so scary and a very big decision, but it’s the best option for me,” says Emma, a mother of one-year-old twins and a six-year-old boy.

“My breasts have done their job, they’ve fed my three babies and if they’re going to betray me, make me sick or kill me, I’d like to do whatever I can to prevent that and be here for my husband and children.

“Part of Mum’s journey [with cancer] was to write out her family tree. She discovered cancer on both sides of my family, so we are in the high-risk category.”

Throughout it all, Pink Hope, an online community for women at high risk of developing breast and ovarian cancer, has provided Emma with much-needed support. “Just talking to women in the same situation is comforting. The Pink Hope girls are so supportive and they’ve helped me feel confident with my choice [to undergo surgery].”

Her surgery, which will include full breast reconstruction, will take place early next year.

Emma has become a Pink Hope community ambassador — fundraising, planning events and visiting members after their surgeries — and dreams of expanding her assistance through comfort hampers for mastectomy patients. “For what I get out of Pink Hope, I want to be able to put more in.”

Visit pinkhope.org.au

Susanna Matters 25, primary teacher, NSW

When her female students kept missing their classes in a small rural Kenyan village last year, teacher Susanna Matters wanted to know why.

She asked the only secondary teacher in the village what the problem was. “She told me their regular absences were because they didn’t have any sanitary pads,” says Susanna, who’s a Sydney primary school teacher. “They were using cow dung, grass, rags and padding from old mattresses, things that can cause serious infection.”

Susanna was so shocked that she went to the nearest town and bought enough disposable pads to keep her students in class for the rest of her stay.

“I couldn’t keep being the tooth fairy of sanitary pads forever,” she says. “The flight back to Australia takes about 48 hours and I had nothing else to think about. It’s not a glamorous issue, but it’s also one that isn’t going away. I couldn’t turn my back on my students — any good teacher will tell you that — and I thought, ‘If I don’t do something about it, who will? The buck stops with me’.”

Susanna had worked with non-profit organisations before – as a young ambassador to UNICEF and a Girl Guide leader — and when she got home to Sydney, she started banging the drum. Thus, Goods for Girls was born.

“Goods for Girls isn’t just about handing out disposable pads – we wanted a program that would empower girls and be environmentally friendly as well. We train the girls to make their own washable products, so that not only do they meet their own needs, but they learn to sew on a machine. It’s a vocational skill because often the most affluent person in a village is the tailor.

“If we can get more funding, we’ll buy the products back off the girls. I’m like a proud mother — this is my baby of a solution.”

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Elizabeth Debicki: Australia’s new shining star

Elizabeth Debicki: Australia's new shining star

Elizabeth Debicki. Photography by Nick Scott. Styling by Mattie Cronan.

Whether Baz Luhrmann’s ambitious take on the literary classic, The Great Gatsby, will be a triumph or a flop, one star is certain to shine. Bryce Corbett meets Elizabeth Debicki — the girl from Melbourne tipped to be our next Nicole.

She slinks through the crowd holding hands with Leonardo DiCaprio. A black-sequinned, figure-hugging evening gown, a champagne glass held aloft, a pair of heavily eye-lined doe eyes under a black bob.

Elizabeth Debicki is ready for her close-up.

Plucked from relative obscurity, the gamine, 22-year-old Australian actress is now on a silver screen near you, playing the key supporting role of Jordan Baker in Aussie director Baz Luhrmann’s much anticipated adaptation of The Great Gatsby. And if on-set whispers are any indication, she’s destined to be the movie’s break-out star.

Think about that for a moment. In a cast that includes DiCaprio, Tobey Maguire, Carey Mulligan, Joel Edgerton and Isla Fisher — this ingénue from Melbourne’s eastern suburbs is tipped to be the stand-out.

“I think I saw almost as many young actors for the role of Jordan Baker as for the role of Daisy Buchanan,” Baz tells The Weekly.

“My casting director informed me that the word on the street was that there was a young actor straight out of drama school who could be the new Judy Davis or the new Nicole [Kidman]. You hear this quite a bit — ‘The new someone’.

“But when I saw Elizabeth reading on tape, I immediately flew her to LA. And the very same day, she was running around a room at the Chateau Marmont with Tobey Maguire. She was certainly new alright. She was the new Elizabeth Debicki.”

When The Weekly spoke to Elizabeth, more than a year after watching her perform on set at Sydney’s Fox Studios and with only days to go before she took to the red carpet at the Cannes Film Festival to introduce Gatsby to the world, she was feeling like anything but the country’s new cinema sensation.

“I’m feeling sheer terror, to be honest,” Elizabeth said. “There have been several screenings of Gatsby that I could have seen, but I have made a point of accidentally missing them all. It’s my first big movie and I’m terrified. It’s like the opening night of a play. You have done all the work, you have created this baby, now you just have to let it go out into the world and let it be scrutinised.”

Read more of this story in the June issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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Magazine Wars: Dulcie Boling on her feud with Nene King

Magazine Wars: Dulcie Boling on her feud with Nene King

Photography by James Greer, styling by Mattie Cronan.

As the war between former magazine mavens is about to fire up again with the launch of TV series Paper Giants: Magazine Wars, former New idea editor Dulcie Boling launches a pre-emptive strike in The Weekly, revealing for the first time how she orchestrated the resignation of her rival Nene King, setting the scene for the decade-long publishing skirmish that brought the world Fergie’s toe-sucking, squidgy and Camillagate.

Dulcie Boling, the former editor of New Idea, is not a woman to be intimidated. Far from it. She can hold her own with some of the fiercest competitors Australian business has ever known. She’s the woman who was game enough to stare down Kerry Packer, rub shoulders with Rupert Murdoch and risk the ire of the Palace by publishing the scandalous Camillagate tapes, the infamous recordings of a private conversation between Prince Charles and his then-mistress Camilla Parker Bowles.

Related: Magazine Wars – The real Nene King

She’s also the woman who stood at the helm of New Idea magazine, taking it from a dowdy, run-of-the-mill craft and knitting magazine in the mid-’70s to become a headline-making, news-breaking success in the ’80s and ’90s. She’s the woman who went scoop for scoop with her great rival — and former colleague — Nene King, the editor of Woman’s Day.

Dulcie is also a notoriously private woman. Only rarely does she speak to the media. Yet her profile is about to be writ large once more with this month’s ABC TV mini-series Paper Giants: Magazine Wars, which tells the tale of the bitter circulation war between Woman’s Day and New Idea during the ’80s and ’90s.

Dulcie was the queen bee at New Idea when Nene King joined the magazine as chief reporter in 1979. Dulcie had been the editor for about a year, but was already changing the magazine.

For the first few years, they worked well as a team, well enough for Dulcie to promote Nene first to news editor and then to deputy editor, responsible for commissioning stories and overseeing the staff who worked at a large publishing house in Walsh Street, not far from the heart of Melbourne.

By 1986, New Idea’s circulation was soaring, up from just 400,000 a few years before to nearly 800,000. Profits were sky high, too. Yet so was the tension between Dulcie, cool, controlled and imperious on one side, and Nene, emotional, tempestuous and volcanic on the other.

“I’d been dealing with Nene’s unstable nature almost from the time she arrived,” recalls Dulcie. “To give Nene her due, she was a very good news editor, always chasing down stories. That was why I hired her. But she was a poor writer.”

But when a job came up as editor of TV Week, Dulcie didn’t think Nene was ready. In the June issue of The Weekly Dulcie tells of how she forced Nene out after she was denied the job.

“I manipulated her into threatening to resign. I knew she would do it. I am not proud of myself for doing that, but I don’t regret it. The truth is, it gave her the out. She could say, ‘I told that b-tch where to go and how to get there.’ I think that after she had been with me for six years, Nene deserved that.”

Related: Magazine Wars – The real Nene King

Nene soon became the editor of Woman’s Day, New Idea’s major rival, and began a circulation war with her former boss. Between them, these two titans of the magazine world waged war in the pages of their publications.

Read more of this story in the June issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly.

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