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Oscar Pistorius had another woman

Oscar Pistorius had another woman

The Paralympic sprinter returns to court – with another blonde beauty in his corner.

In a shock new twist, insiders now claim Oscar Pistorius was seeing a stunning blonde, Erin Stear, at the same time he shot girlfriend Reeva Steenkamp. Just days before Oscar’s latest court hearing, police quizzed party girl Erin, 25, about her relationship with the murder-accused.

Witnesses claim the pair met a number of times earlier this year, and regularly exchanged flirty text messages. The South African sprinter, 26, is on bail for the Valentine’s Day murder of 29-year-old model Reeva, whom he claims to have mistaken for an intruder when he shot her in his home.

While Erin denies having an affair with the world’s most famous double-amputee, Oscar was reportedly meeting up with the fashionista and socialite behind his girlfriend’s back. “Erin met Oscar when Reeva was his girlfriend,” a source tells a UK newspaper. “They hit it off and met up again after messaging each other. She was really excited about getting to know him.”

Cheering for Oscar Erin’s been vocal in her support of the Paralympian on Twitter. “People point fingers too quickly @OscarPistorius. Innocent until proven guilty! Have some empathy!” she tweeted on the day of the shooting. She also revealed that she had her “fingers crossed” during his bail hearings.

Read more about Oscar’s other woman in this week’s Woman’s Day on sale Monday June 3, 2013.

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Why we need to get serious about body image

Why we need to get serious about body image

The ultra-thin models that caused a stir at the Alex Perry show on Monday.

In the late 1990s, the editor ofVogue, Kirstie Clements, was casting for swimsuit models in Sydney, but she decided none of the gorgeous young women were “suitable” to wear a bikini.

As she gave up and went to purchase a sandwich at the cafe across the road, she passed the Northside Clinic, which specialises in treating eating disorders.

Inside, she could see the “pale, young, female patients on portable IV drips, smoking in the courtyard in their dressing gowns”.

“The sad irony did not escape me,” wrote Clements in her autobiography, published earlier this year.

The shocking revelations coincided with Australian Fashion Week, at which frighteningly thin girls took to the catwalk in Sydney. The alarming trend, highlighted byThe Daily Telegraphin a series of reports at the time, was what Clements called “Paris-thin”.

These young women had just returned from the European catwalks, where being anorexic is expected and where, according to Clements, the intermittent hospitalisation of some of the top models is almost unremarkable.

To the general public, the sight of these girls on a Sydney catwalk was a scandal. Yet, from the fashion-pack, there was a world-weary response, with fashionistas pointing to the cyclical nature of this debate and a general view that there is precious little they can really do about it.

Critics of Clements privately grumbled that it was all well and good for her to talk about it after she had leftVogue.

It is a fair point. Internationally,Voguehas been at the forefront of some of the fashion scandals. Yet I am grateful that someone in the industry is prepared to talk openly about the seriousness of the problem of underweight models.

This week, the federal government launched its second annual Positive Body Image Awards, to acknowledge companies and individuals taking a leading role in presenting positive body images.

While many magazines, websites, fashion houses and advertisers have struggled with the Photoshop debate, youth magazines have led the way, presenting unaltered images and declaring their pages “Photoshop free”.

As the editor-in-chief ofThe Australian Women’s Weekly, I have strived to respond to readers’ concerns about Photoshopped images by declaring when images have been altered and limiting our use of airbrushing.

The barrage of complaints I used to receive about airbrushing has now almost stopped, although when the image is provided to us or purchased, there is less control and the debate is easily reignited.

For example, our January cover, featuring Helen Mirren, concerned some readers, who wrote passionate letters about the need to present realistic images of women, regardless of their age.

As is often the case with major celebrities, we were regrettably unable to shoot our own cover. Yet, at the same time, the Mirren cover proved very popular with readers in terms of sales.

This highlights the difficulty of the problem. Actor Keira Knightley, who had her breasts digitally enhanced in a promotional shoot forPirates of the Caribbean, proved that not all celebrities are happy to be airbrushed.

Knightley told People magazine, “Okay, I’m on the cover of a magazine, but somebody else does the hair and the make-up, and airbrushes the f**k out of me. It’s not me, it’s something other people have created.”

She went on to say, “I did one magazine and found out you’re not actually allowed to be on a cover in the US without at least a C cup [bra size] because it turns people off. Apparently, they have done market research and found that women want to see no less than a C cup on other women. Isn’t that crazy?”

I am pleased to say I have never heard of anything so ridiculous in Australia. Yet as chairperson of the government’s awards program, I believe one way to tackle the problem is to encourage change by rewarding positive portrayals of women and men.

In France, for example, politicians have been agitating for laws which insist that all digitally enhanced images be identified. The warnings, which were likened to those around cigarettes, would apply to advertising, press photography and political campaigns.

The magazine industry was appalled, claiming “the camera always lies” and that it was absurd to suggest people could not distinguish between real life and fantasy.

One country leading the way on addressing the problem of anorexic models is Israel, which last year adopted legislation demanding fashion and commercial models have a Body Mass Index of at least 18.5.

It is also called the “Photoshop law” because it demands that computer-generated changes to make models appear thinner be noted along with the images.

Personally, I am against legislation, partly because the prospect of policing a breach of these laws would be a logistical nightmare. Yet the pressure is building here and the experience abroad goes to show that the smart businesses will act before the politicians do.

The 2013 Positive Body Image Awards are open for nominations. To enter, visit the Positive Body Image Awards website. Nominations close on June 21, 2013.

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Angelina Jolie’s triumphant red carpet return after mastectomy

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Angelina Jolie has made her first public appearance since undergoing a double mastectomy, defiantly walking the red carpet in London alongside her adoring partner Brad Pitt.

Angelina missed her beloved aunt’s funeral to fly to the UK to support Brad at the premiere of his new film World War Z.

She looked stunning in an Yves St Laurent gown and received a rapturous reception from the crowd, who brandished signs bidding her to get well soon and declaring her a hero.

Brad and Angelina seemed happy and in love, hugging and kissing for the cameras.

Angelina announced she had undergone a preventative double mastectomy last month.

Angelina missed her aunt’s funeral to support Brad at his premiere.

She had her breasts removed and then reconstructed, with the final surgery on April 27.

Angelina had a mastectomy because she has the BRCA1 breast cancer gene.

Doctors told her she had an 87 per cent chance of developing breast cancer.

The star may still need to have her ovaries removed.

It was Angelina’s first big public appearance since her surgeries.

People in the crowd held signs declaring Angelina “a hero”.

Angelina looking lovely in an Yves St Laurent dress.

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How to survive the mid-year sales

How to survive the mid-year sales

For some, the very word ‘sale’ is music to their ears as they decide how they can use their extra cash they have been saving to bag a bargain. For others, the word can cause them to break out into a sweat.

This is not from the thought of shopping – but because they know their own actions are likely to do untold financial damage to their credit card.

So how do you get financially prepared for the mid-year sales to be able to enjoy the experience and not come crashing back down to earth when those credit card statements land in your mailbox the following month?

According to Bruce Brammall, Consumer Finance Champion for comparethemarket.com.au, the solution is a simple one.

“Like anyone about to tackle a new challenge – whether it’s running a marathon or embarking on a new adventure, it’s all about goal setting and being prepared. And in this case, developing financial fitness is the key,” he says.

Brammall says it’s therefore important before you even start to contemplate which jacket will look better on you, to adopt a top-down approach to being financially responsible about the whole process, which will allow you to feel a whole lot better when you get back home and show everyone what you found during your shopping expedition.

Here are his expert tips:

You can do this by reassessing some of your key expenses and see whether there are cheaper options available. When it comes to insurances (particularly car, health, travel and life insurance), use a comparison website to test your current provider. If it turns out you’re paying too much, it’s easy to switch and potentially save hundreds of dollars a year. This exercise can be the catalyst to put you back in control of your spending, before you even go near a shop.

As you approach the end of financial year it’s a perfect time to draw up a budget, particularly if you’ve never done one before. And then – importantly – stick to it.

A good rule of thumb therefore is to ask yourself how often you can use the item over a year and calculate an average cost per wear/use. If your return on investment is not likely to be realised in the foreseeable future, the decision is easy.

But tax deductions can apply to a lot of things. Spending $100 before 30 June could mean that you get up to $46.50 back in July. You do however need to know clearly beforehand what is allowable.

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How to get soft winter skin

Soft winter skin

During the colder months, without fail, my skin becomes Sahara Desert dry. Fine lines become more obvious, I develop flaky areas and, if the wind picks up, I can look forward to flame red patches around my mouth and chin. If I’m super unlucky, my skin actually becomes sore to the touch and, not surprisingly, my complexion is more flat and dull than fresh and dewy.

At least I can take comfort in the fact that I’m not entirely alone. Indeed, Dr Katherine Armour, consulting dermatologist for L’Oréal Paris, says winter skin that’s dry, red and dull is more common than not.

Why is that exactly?

The main culprit is low humidity and overdoing the steaming hot showers and baths, says Dr Armour. Add to that the fact that a high proportion of us are using chemical laden soaps, bubble baths and foaming cleansers, all of which contribute to skin dryness.

“The weather, the hot water and the products all contribute to skin dryness by stripping the skin of important lipids which seal moisture in,” says Dr Armour.

Factor in cold temperatures complete with icy winds combined with indoor heating and you can start to see why dehydration is so common in winter.

Sure, there are a lucky few whose skin remains supple and hydrated all year round, but they’re few and far between.

The majority of us sufer during winter, at least in dermatological terms anyway. And being young and fabulous doesn’t protect you either.

“Dry skin conditions can afect all ages, all ethnicities and even those with typically normal and normal-to-oily types,” says Dr Angelike Galdi, head chemist and assistant vice-president of research and development for the skincare company Kiehl’s.

For me, that means tight, red skin.

Yet there are several diferent degrees of what would be classified as problem winter skin, says Dr Galdi.

“In the beginning stages, dry skin means fine lines will become more visible,” she says.

“Then skin will feel rough and appear dull and flaky. In the more severe stages, cracked skin can occur. When inflamed, the skin may appear red and swollen.”

Unfortunately, this can be exacerbated by itchiness and the fact that most of us have fingers that are only too willing to scratch. A good scratch may bring relief momentarily, but to state the obvious, it’s not a good idea, says Dr Galdi.

“Repeated rubbing and scratching can produce areas of thickened, rough and damaged skin,” she says. “It can also result in skin dermatitis where skin becomes red and inflamed.”

If that happens, then you’re best of visiting a dermatologist who may prescribe topical cortisone to alleviate the patchiness, dryness and itch. That’s only for the more serious of cases, of course. Generally, you can protect your skin throughout winter by following a reasonably simple skincare routine.

That routine can come in any shape or form depending on your skin type, lifestyle and personal preferences.

One thing it must contain, though, is a quality moisturiser for both day and night. The bottom line? Regular use of a highly efective daily moisturiser packed with humectants is what will get you through winter, says Dr Galdi.

Dr Armour agrees. “Moisturise, moisturise, moisturise,” she says.

To help that quality moisturiser penetrate, try also incorporating a light exfoliation twice weekly, suggests Dr Galdi. This will remove any dry spots and allow effective delivery of your daily moisturiser.

Skip the harsh, fragranced soaps and other cleansing products for face and body, and train yourself to shower in lukewarm rather than piping hot water. Following a not-so-steamy shower or bath, apply a quality moisturiser immediately.

Both Dr Galdi and Dr Armour agree this is when moisturiser will work best.

“Studies have shown that if you apply moisturiser immediately after bathing, it will actually increase the water content of your skin,” says Dr Armour.

While you might opt for a lighter moisturiser in the warmer months, during winter, you’ll need a richer, heavier style of cream – for the face and the body.

If you’re a regular user of products with active ingredients, there’s no need to cut back on these, however.

“Vitamins B3 and C are great for preserving luminosity by attacking brown spots and hyper-pigmentation, no matter what the season,” says Dr Armour.

“Vitamins B3 and B6 also improve the function of the epidermal barrier, which will help prevent further loss of moisture from the skin.”

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Why you should beware of Dr Google

Why you should beware of Dr Google

Here’s a disturbing new trend. More than half of Gen Y (aged 18 to 27) look up symptoms and try to self-diagnose on the internet instead of seeing a doctor, compared to 36 per cent of the rest of us.

It is easy to find yourself up a dark alley, getting wrong information about your health concerns, unless you have professional guidance.

The recent trend of buying supplements and pharmaceuticals over the internet is troubling. There are dangers in self-prescribing, particularly if you do not have a confirmed diagnosis.

There’s also the risk you might be buying from a dodgy offshore operator. Products sold on the internet may be fake, may contain the wrong dose or undisclosed or dangerous ingredients and contaminants.

You just need to look at the recent warning issued by the Therapeutic Goods Administration about buying online — you just don’t know what you are getting.

One warning found so-called “herbal” erectile products containing Viagra and other drugs.

Another was issued for “herbal” slimming pills which contained pharmaceuticals banned in Australia for safety reasons. There is even a do-it-yourself kit for injectable cosmetic products, such as dermal fillers and Botox, which causes severe allergic reactions, infections and facial scarring.

Some internet suppliers are genuine and have safety measures in place, but many do not.

If you follow some simple guidelines, you can use the internet to improve your health.

Web Beware

    1. See your doctor first.
    1. Check the websites are hosted by reputable organisations. Look at government health websites, including the Australian Medical Association (AMA) approved Health Insite and the Victorian government’s Better Health Channel.
    1. Use websites as a resource, never a replacement for a doctor.
    1. If you read something that makes you extremely worried, talk it through with your doctor.

Buying health products online

    1. Deal only with websites that have an Australian street address.
    1. Make sure the supplier has a contact number where a person answers enquiries on the phone and consider the security of your credit card details and identity.
    1. You will need an Australian-issued prescription. Avoid websites offerring medicines without prescription.
    1. Beware of super-cheap pricing. It usually means dodgy.
    1. Herbal products available from international websites are not regulated by the Therapeutic Goods Administration. These products may contain undisclosed and potentially harmful ingredients

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Oprah honoured by Harvard

Media mogul Oprah Winfrey has received an honorary doctorate from Harvard University.

The former talk show host was teary-eyed and looked deeply touched as she accepted the law degree.

Oprah, who was at Harvard to give a speech to the 2013 graduates, was praised for her “extraordinary influence” on education.

“Not too many girls from rural Mississippi have made it all the way here to Cambridge. … I consider today to be a defining milestone,” Oprah said.

“While I may not have graduated from here, my personality is about as Harvard as they come.”

Oprah gets teary-eyed as she receives her doctorate.

Oprah embraces Vice President and Secretary of the University Marc Goodheart.

High-fives all round!

Oprah walks with professor Henry Louis Gates Jr through Harvard Yard.

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Beyoncé furious at H&M for photoshopping her curves

Beyonce furious at H&M for photoshopping her curves

You don’t mess with Queen Beyoncé, especially when it comes to her bootylicious bod.

H&M chiefs learned this out the hard way when they shrank the star’s curves in the advertising campaign for their 2013 summer collection.

The 31-year-old was reportedly outraged to find that her famous curves had been retouched for the advertising campaign for her new bikini line, and insisted only the natural pictures be used.

“When Beyoncé found out they had edited the way her body really looked, she hit the roof,” an insider told Britain’s The Sun.

“She’s a true diva and was furious that she had been given such a snubbing. Her people refused to give the pictures the green light so H&M were forced to use the originals.”

A representative for H&M said the star was always their first choice for the campaign.

“Beyoncé was our only choice for this campaign and we were delighted when she said yes,” the representative told the paper.

“Our goal has always been to portray Beyoncé as the strong and beautiful woman she is. It has been a wonderful working process and a close cooperation. Both parties are happy with the final images.”

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Couples can now get divorced online

Couples can now get divorced online

The internet has been helping people find love for years — now it’s assisting them when things go sour, allowing them to organise their divorce online.

A new software program called Wevorce has launched in the US this week, allowing couples to negotiate the terms of their divorce settlement on the internet.

Instead of paying for two attorneys and sitting through endless official meetings couples can log on and use the program’s six-step process to create their own customised divorce contract remotely.

From custody of children and visitation schedules to division of assets, the entire settlement can be agreed under the supervision of a single mediator for the flat rate of $7500, nearly $20,000 less than the average US divorce cost of $27,000.

Once the divorce terms have been agreed, Wevorce arranges lawyers to present the documents to the relevant court, meaning applicants don’t have to attend any hearings.

“Unlike the traditional two-attorney system, with Wevorce both spouses are guided by a single attorney-mediator known as a Legal Architect,” the Wevorce website reads.

“When needed, you will be joined by co-parenting and financial experts to help untangle even your biggest challenges. These experts work together seamlessly, with the help of technology, to provide the support you need at every step.

“When the process is complete, you’ll have all the necessary legal documents as well as a lifetime of tools, knowledge and agreements — plus the assurance of a local attorney to review the final documents with you.”

Wevorce is sure to be criticised for making divorce too easy, but the new company insists it is not encouraging people to get divorced, just making it easier and more harmonious when they do.

“We’re not pro-divorce; we’re pro-family, pro-relationships, pro-children,” the website says.

“Every 13 seconds someone in the US gets divorced. Still, our society stigmatises, chastises and outright tries to pretend divorce doesn’t exist. Wevorce is changing all that.

“What we’ve done is look at this very common life experience with fresh eyes. Unlike the adversarial approach, we’ve created services around the unique needs of families, not attorneys and courts.”

Currently, the software is only available in the US but if it is popular, it could be expanded internationally. It can also be used by couples who are not married but want to divide their assets amicably when they split.

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EXCLUSIVE: Deadly virus puts kids in peril

EXCLUSIVE: Deadly virus puts children in peril

Sam Newton and his daughter Milla, one, who nearly died from Meningitis caused by enterovirus 71. © News Ltd.

The deaths of three young children believed to have been infected with a dangerous strain of a virus sweeping through childcare centres are being investigated by the NSW Coroner’s Office.

Enterovirus 71 is being blamed for hospitalising at least 36 children with severe neurological symptoms, including meningitis, inflammation of the brain and muscle paralysis.

Five children have been admitted to intensive care, with two requiring intravenous blood therapy, according to latest NSW Health data.

Among them was one-year-old Milla Newton (pictured above) from Manly who was on life support for several days after she contracted meningitis and brain swelling caused by enterovirus 71.

The worst affected area is Western Sydney, followed by the city’s south-eastern and northern suburbs.

NSW Health has issued a statewide alert to GPs with a list of warning signs that warrant immediate referral to an emergency department.

More than 60 children died during an outbreak of enterovirus 71 in Cambodia last year.

Among the latest suspected NSW cases, the average age is two but this has ranged from a newborn to a 10-year-old, with most showing fever, lethargy, involuntary muscle jerks and a rash.

A surveillance system to monitor severe infections at Sydney Children’s Hospital at Randwick and The Children’s Hospital at Westmead has been established, as enterovirus is not a notifiable disease.

In a statement prepared for The Australian Women’s Weekly, a spokeswoman for the NSW Ministry of Health said although deaths linked to the virus hadn’t been reported through its surveillance system, “the NSW Coroner’s Office is investigating the deaths of three young children, between late December 2012 and late March 2013, to determine whether they are linked to enterovirus 71 infections”.

Enterovirus 71 is “fairly rare in NSW”, the spokeswoman said. However, general enteroviruses are relatively common and can cause outbreaks of hand, foot and mouth disease, which is usually mild and currently circulating through Sydney childcare centres.

NSW Health said the virus could “very rarely lead to neurological complications, including inflammation of brain or spinal cord, leading to irritability, jerky movements, unsteadiness and weakness”.

“These symptoms can also be caused by other types of serious infections, including bacterial meningococcal, so any child or adult with these symptoms should see a doctor immediately so the cause can be investigated and managed quickly,” the spokeswoman said.

Surveillance data reveals the number of children admitted to NSW emergency departments for meningitis, brain swelling and brain complications from April to May is the highest in five years.

The spokeswoman says the best way to reduce your chances of infection is to wash hands with soap and water after going to the toilet.

The same principle should be applied after wiping noses and changing nappies or soiled clothing and before eating.

Coughs and sneezes should be covered with a tissue or directed into your elbow rather than hands.

Children with hand, foot and mouth disease should be kept away from childcare or school until their blisters have dried.

Related: The science behind enterovirus 71

The viral danger signs for children

  • Myoclonic jerks (muscle jerks), particularly in sleep.

  • Urinary retention (inability to urinate).

  • Ataxia (loss of voluntary co-ordination), weakness, or any neurological signs.

  • Hypertension (high blood pressure) and/or bradycardia (slow heart rate).

  • Severe, unexplained or persistent tachycardia (abnormally fast heart rate) or poor perfusion (blood flow).

  • Altered level of consciousness or irritability.

  • Tachypnoea (rapid breathing) or any other signs of respiratory distress.

  • Pulmonary oedema (fluid on the lungs) on chest x-ray.

**Source: NSW Health’s Enterovirus Neurological Disease: Information for NSW General Practitioners (plus layman’s definitions in brackets).*

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