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Why you shouldn’t compare yourself to Kate

Why you shouldn't compare yourself to Kate

Kate shortly after the birth of George, and last week.

A few short weeks ago, a little baby was delivered to a Princess. He was named George, and his mother proudly stepped out of the hospital with a round belly as she cradled her son in her arms.

Mothers around the world rejoiced — she had a baby bump! she was normal! — and the Princess took her baby home.

Fast forward seven weeks and the same Princess stepped onto a red carpet, in a glittering floor-length gown, straight out of an haute couture fairy tale.

She looked a million bucks: glossy mane, towering Jimmy Choos, and absolutely no baby weight.

And just like that the Princess became a Princess again, separated from us mere mortals by more than just a posh title.

The Duchess of Cambridge is not the only famous mother who is shedding her baby weight fast.

Kim Kardashian was pictured for one of the first times last week since the birth of her baby daughter, North, with a cinched-in belt and tight pants. Apparently traumatised over the ribbing she received for putting on weight while pregnant, the normally publicity-hungry star has been keeping a very low profile.

Meanwhile, back in reality, I went to visit a friend who has a four-week-old son. She looked tired as she answered the door, and smelt vaguely of baby vomit.

Her baby boy is terribly cute, but she is struggling with breastfeeding, the lack of sleep and the complete shock a baby entering your life creates.

Her baby belly is still there, as is the extra weight she put on all over her body.

But despite the extra weight she doesn’t look “bad” … she just looks like a normal new mum, tired but elated, heavier but happier.

She confessed she felt “fat”, and said the endless diets and exercise programs aimed at new mothers made her feel inadequate for still carrying extra weight.

It’s a sad reality when the first few weeks of your baby’s life are consumed with thoughts about how to look like your old self again.

And the truth is, you won’t ever look the same.

Maybe your breasts will be forever larger, engorged by the process of breastfeeding. Or maybe they’ll shrink away to nothing: a reminder of your prepubescent self.

Your hips might be wider, your stomach left scarred by stretchmarks. Almost certainly, the bags under your eyes will be darker, as you adjust to your screaming bundle of joy.

As well, you will have “that” friend who, like the Duchess, will seemingly pop back into shape overnight, without a fitness regime or diet in sight.

The real issue is not whether you struggle to lose your baby weight or not, it’s that it is an issue at all. Women should not be made to feel bad about carrying extra weight post-partum. If it becomes a health issue, that’s different, but pregnancy pounds occur for a reason.

Yep, the Duchess looked a million bucks on that red carpet last week, but us mere mortals can’t compare our lifestyles to hers. Plus, designer frock or not, she still has a baby that screams through the night.

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The female chef showing the boys how it’s done

In the bubbling stockpot of testosterone that is professional cooking, she has risen to the top, becoming one of just six women worldwide to be awarded three Michelin stars.
Elena Arzak

It’s an extraordinary achievement but Elena Arzak never for a moment thought her gender would hold her back because the women in her family have been running a successful restaurant since 1897.

What is now Arzak, San Sebastian’s three Michelin-starred foodie paradise, started as a small family restaurant serving simple, local fare.

Enter Elena’s grandmother Francisca and her sister Serafina. These bustling, efficient ladies took over the kitchen and within a few years, the restaurant was famous across Spain.

Francisca passed the reins on to Elena’s parents Juan Mari and Maite, who gave the eatery its current name and completed its transformation into a world class establishment.

Elena started working at Arzak in the school holidays when she was 11 and knew instantly that her future lay in the kitchen.

“From the time I was a child I felt that magic,” she says. “When I’d come to the restaurant’s kitchen in summer I felt that I’d found my place. It gets into your blood and it has run in my family’s veins for four generations.”

Elena is now joint head chef alongside her father and was voted the World’s Best Female Chef in 2012.

While she never felt her gender held her back, Elena is determined to ensure other women get the opportunity to cook at the top level. Eighty per cent of the staff at Arzak is women and six of the nine senior chefs are women.

“Professionally, I have never had to question my gender,” she says. “But there’s no doubt that there are many things that still have to change. Kitchens like so many other things are a reflection of society.

“I have always defended the role of women in the kitchen. It’s a question of time now. There are many women students at the Basque Culinary Center and little by little they will take on positions of responsibility. In Arzak, for example, there are more women than men.

“My advice to young female chefs is the same I would give to anyone: You have to fight for your goals and dreams.”

This year, Elena has pursued a new dream of her own, opening a new restaurant in London, the family’s first foray outside Spain.

In March, she opened Ametsa with Arzak Instruction, a sleek establishment serving modern Basque cuisine in London’s five-star Halkin hotel.

Taking over the space vacated by David Thompson’s Michelin-starred Nahm in December 2012, Ametsa with Arzak Instruction was one of London’s most eagerly-anticipated restaurant launches of 2013.

The focal point of the dining room is the wave-like ceiling, crafted from 7000 suspended glass tubes filled with different spices.

The dining room at Ametsa with Arzak Instruction.

The food is exquisitely prepared, a mix of traditional Basque flavours and contemporary techniques and a playful sense of humour.

The pigeon is served with “shot”, spheres of balsamic reduction and colourful potato while the “moon rocks” dessert — chocolate-coated pebbles of freeze-dried orange and Cointreau on grey “sand” of powdered sesame seeds — was positively Blumenthal-esque.

Pigeon with shot at Ametsa with Arzak Instruction

Moon rocks at Ametsa with Arzak Instruction.

Time will tell whether Ametsa becomes as big a hit as Arzak, but it was a meal I won’t forget in a hurry!

Ametsa with Arzak Instruction is open for lunch Tuesday to Friday from 12pm to 2pm and Saturday, 12.30pm to 2pm. Dinner is served Monday to Sunday from 6.30pm to 10pm. For more information, or to make a reservation, visit the Ametsa with Arzak Instruction website .

Where to stay:

A room at The Halkin by COMO.

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One of London’s most fashionable addresses and home to another top-class restaurant, Nobu, popular with celebrities the world over. With its stunning park views and signature spa, Shambhala Urban Escape, this luxury five-star hotel is a must-visit when in London. For more information visit www.creativeholidays.com.au or call 1300 301 711.

A room at The Metropolitan by COMO.

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William and Kate’s house up for rent

Kate and William's secret life in Wales

Prince William during a shift as a RAF Search and Rescue pilot on Anglesey.

The house the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge called home for the first two years of their marriage is back on the rental market.

William and Kate moved out of the four-bedroom Anglesey farmhouse last week as William’s three-year tour of duty as a RAF search and rescue pilot came to an end.

The owners have now put the property back up for rent and expect to be inundated with offers to move in.

William and Kate paid £750 a month to rent the house but the owners are expected to charge the new tenants substantially more.

The house, which was chosen by the royals because of its privacy and seclusion, comes with access to a private beach and stunning views of Snowdonia.

William, Kate and baby George have now relocated to London to await the completion of renovations to their new family home, Kensington Palace’s 21-room Apartment 1A.

In one of his final public appearances in Anglesey, William thanked the island’s people for being so welcoming and friendly.

“I know that I speak for Catherine when I say that I have never in my life known somewhere as beautiful and as welcoming as Anglesey,” he said.

“I know that both of us will miss it terribly when my search and rescue tour of duty comes to an end and we have to move elsewhere.

“From the bottom of my heart, thank you for making my wife and me so welcome when we arrived here, as you do thousands of visitors each year.”

William also said he planned to return to the island for holidays with Prince George and any other children the couple have.

“Catherine and I look forward to returning again and again over the coming years with our family,” William said.

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Nigella Lawson’s ex-husband Charles Saatchi takes Trinny Woodall to ‘choking’ restaurant

Just six weeks after divorcing Nigella Lawson, Charles Saatchi has been seen wining and dining TV stylist Trinny Woodall at the same restaurant he was photographed "choking" Nigella.
Charles Saatchi and Trinny Woodall.

Just six weeks after divorcing Nigella Lawson, Charles Saatchi has been seen wining and dining TV stylist Trinny Woodall at the same restaurant he was photographed “choking” Nigella.

Charles, 70, and What Not To Wear presenter Trinny, 49, have met at the Mayfair eatery twice this week, sitting in the same outdoor terrace where Charles was photographed putting his hand around Nigella’s neck three months ago.

He seemed oblivious to the negative connotations the place now holds, sipping his wine and smoking as he chatted to Trinny.

The dates were reportedly set up by Charles’ friends, who are trying to boost his confidence after his 10-year-old marriage to Nigella ended in divorce in July

“Charles used to be a real man about town and they want him to get back to his old ways,” a friend told the UK’s Sunday Mirror newspaper.

“He can be terribly charming and charismatic but his confidence has taken such a bashing from the fall-out over the divorce.”

Trinny’s own 10-year marriage ended in 2008 and she split from her subsequent boyfriend, Italian Stefano Bonfiglio, last Christmas.

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Have Shane Warne and Liz Hurley called off their engagement?

Social media is awash with speculation Shane Warne and Liz Hurley have called off their engagement.
Shane Warne and Liz Hurley in July.

Social media is awash with speculation Shane Warne and Liz Hurley have called off their engagement.

The rumours come after weeks of Twitter silence between the pair who previously seemed unable to go a few hours without tweeting their love for one another.

Hurley was not among the dozens of people who took to Twitter to wish Warne a happy 44th birthday last Friday, and she did not accompany him on his current visit to Australia, instead staying in the UK.

“The obvious thing is they haven’t been tweeting for three weeks,” entertainment reporter Peter Ford told Sunrise.

“This was really a relationship that was born in the Twitterverse and they played it out very publicly so if they suddenly stop tweeting each other and communicating in that fashion people think ‘What’s going on?'”

“Elizabeth was due to arrive in Melbourne over a week ago and she hasn’t turned up. I have a funny feeling that like Ross and Rachel in Friends they may be on a break.”

Adding further fuel to the split speculation are the cryptic messages both Warne and Hurley have posted in the past few weeks.

On September 6, Hurley posted, “The more I know of man, the more I love my dog,” alongside a photo of her and her dog Raja in bed.

The more I know of man, the more I love my dog. Goodnight from me and Raja…. pic.twitter.com/GoWkXnu5Q2

Two days later, Warne posted the equally suggestive: “Something to think about. It’s not what happens in your life, it’s how you react to what life throw at you, in both the good and bad times.”

Something to think about, it’s not what happens in your life, it’s how you react to what life throws at u, in both the good & bad times ! 😃

Neither Warne nor Hurley have commented on the split rumours.

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A very Harry birthday! Party Prince turns 29

Our favourite rogue royal Prince Harry turns 29 today and in true playboy fashion, he is expected to mark the milestone in style.

It’s Harry’s last year as a twenty-something but no official bash has been planned. Instead, he will mark the occasion privately with a carefully-chosen selection of discreet friends.

Given that Harry once partied so hard he ended up playing naked strip billiards with a woman he’d only just met, we can only imagine what he’ll get up to this weekend.

These pictures trace his transformation from tiny tot to Prince Charming.

Prince Harry in 1987 and 2010.

Prince Charles and Princess Diana leaving hospital with the newly born Harry in 1985.

Prince Charles and Princess Diana present Harry and William to crowds in Italy in 1985.

Prince William and Prince Harry in their playroom in London’s Kensington Palace in 1985.

Young William and Harry playing together at Kensington Palace in 1985.

The family in Italy in 1986.

Diana plays with William and Harry at Highgrove in 1986.

Princess Diana carries Prince Harry on her shoulders at Highgrove in 1987.

Harry waves to photographers as he arrives for his first day at nursery school in 1987.

William and Harry attend their first official event at Kensington Palace in 1989.

Harry on a skiing holiday in Lech, Austria, in 1994.

Diana with her boy in the 1990s.

Harry and William march behind their mother’s coffin at her funeral in 1997

Harry shows off his new braces at Sandringham Estate in 1999.

William and Harry at a polo game at Cirencester in Gloucestershire in 2002.

The princes at St Paul’s Cathedral to mark the Golden Jubilee in 2002.

The boys’ nanny was very proud of the young men they grew in to. 2003.

Harry at a polo day at Cirencester Park Polo Club in 2006.

Harry with Kanye West and P Diddy after the Concert for Diana in 2007.

Harry and his former girlfriend Chelsy Davy leaving a church service in Windsor in 2008.

Harry with children during a visit to Lesotho, Africa, in 2008.

Prince Harry in his uniform at RAF Shawbury in 2009.

Harry walking with members of an anti-landmine charity in Mozambique in 2010.

Harry in uniform at an armed forces remembrance events in 2010.

Harry’s tour of the Caribbean won him legions of fans last year.

Harry lived up to his party prince reputation in Belize, downing several cocktails.

Harry couldn’t wait to show off his dance moves in Belize.

Harry looking dapper in beige linen in Nassau.

Harry leaves a Bahamas church service in his military best.

Harry with Usain Bolt.

Harry completed his second tour of Afghanistan this year.

Prince Harry also had a successful tour in the US in May.

Harry in the US.

Harry is currently dating socialite Cressida Bonas, pictured with Princess Eugenie.

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Nicole Kidman knocked to the ground by paparazzi

Nicole Kidman is reportedly pressing charges against the paparazzo who knocked her to the ground as she left a fashion show in New York yesterday.
Nicole Kidman at the Calvin Klein show

Nicole Kidman is reportedly pressing charges against the paparazzo who knocked her to the ground as she left a fashion show in New York yesterday.

Nicole had just left the Calvin Klein show and was heading back to the Carlyle Hotel when freelance photographer Carl Wu bowled her over on his bike.

TMZ reports the paparazzo was speeding down the footpath and attempted to brake when he saw Nicole, but couldn’t stop in time and knocked her over.

Onlookers rushed to help Nicole back onto her feet. Footage appears to show Nicole was in pain after the incident and she was later treated for minor injuries to her ankle.

Witnesses have reported she was furious about the accident and is planning to press charges against Wu, who was also knocked to ground.

Wu has had run-ins with other celebrities including Lady Gaga. He was arrested and charged with riding on the footpath but was released shortly afterwards.

Nicole has also clashed with the paparazzi before, taking Sydney photographer Jamie Fawcett to court over a listening device she alleged he planted outside her Sydney home in 2005.

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Duchess dazzles on first red carpet since baby

The Duchess of Cambridge dazzled on the red carpet last night, attending her first black tie event since becoming a mother.

Kate, 31, wore a glittering floor-length Jenny Packham gown to the Tusk Conservation Awards in London.

And while Kate’s whole life has changed in the past 10 weeks, she showed her personal style is still the same –her hair was in its trademark soft curls and she wore her signature thick black eyeliner.

Kate was said to have been determined to attend the awards because she knows how passionate William is about wildlife conservation.

William looked dapper in a tuxedo while Kate was dazzling in silver.

Kate’s Jenny Packham gown skimmed over her post-pregnancy tummy.

The Duchess wore her hair in her signature loose curls.

The couple left their baby at home in Kensington Palace.

It was Kate’s first red carpet since the birth of her son Prince George.

William is a patron of the Tusk Trust and recently spoke of his passion for wildlife conservation.

Kate seemed in excellent spirits at the event.

Kate made a surprise appearance at the Anglesey Ultra Marathon last month.

She accompanied the Duke of Cambridge who started the race.

Kate was showered with gifts from excited wellwishers.

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Demi Moore dating her ex-boyfriend’s father

Demi Moore dating her ex-boyfriend’s father

Peter Morton and his son Harry (left) who broke up with Demi in May.

It looks like Demi Moore has finally caged her cougar and is again dating men in her own age bracket.

The 50-year-old actress is reportedly dating 66-year-old Hard Rock Cafe founder Peter Morton, the father of 31-year-old Harry Morton, who Demi dated for six months until May this year.

The Ghost star to know the dad while going out with the son — and Demi and Peter began their romance shortly after the split, according to US entertainment site E!.

The pair is now very much “into one another” and see each other three times a week.

According to a source, Demi finds Peter “very charismatic and she loves that about him, he’s a go-getter” while he finds her to be “very grounded” and is “learning from her spirituality”.

“Demi says that thanks to Peter, her toyboy fascination could be over. At 66, she never thought he’d be her type, but she really likes him,” the source said.

Demi has had a long string of younger boyfriends including her estranged husband Ashton Kutcher, 35, who she was awkwardly reunited with earlier this week, and 30-year-old Australian Will Hanigan.

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Duchess sparkles on the red carpet

Catherine, the Duchess of Cambridge has stepped out at her first red carpet event since the birth of her first child, Prince George.

The Duchess and her husband Prince William attended a gala dinner for the Tusk foundation in London on Thursday night.

Wearing a floor-length sequined Jenny Packham gown, Catherine smiled for photographers and greeted fans.

As Catherine and William enjoyed the event, baby George was being looked after by his grandmother Carole Middleton.

Catherine made her first public appearance since welcoming George last month when she attended the Anglesey ultra-marathon with William.

William is a patron of the conservation charity.

Catherine sparkled on the red carpet.

Catherine smiles alongside her husband.

Catherine’s outfit was perfect from head to toe.

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