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Richard Gere splits from wife

Richard Gere splits from wife

Actor Richard Gere and his model wife Carey Lowell are discussing a divorce after ending their 11 year marriage.

The pair, who have a 13-year-old son together, have reportedly been spending a lot of time apart lately due to their different lifestyles.

While the 64-year-old Pretty Woman star cherishes his privacy and is happy to wind down his social life, his 52-year-old estranged wife enjoys spending her time ‘socialising with other bigwigs’ the New York Post reported.

“They have place in Bedford New York and he likes it because it’s quiet and he likes the solitude,” a source told the newspaper.

“She likes being in North Haven in the limelight. They live next door to Jimmy Buffett and his family. And they’re good friends.”

The pair, who married back in 2009 after spending seven years together, haven’t been photographed with each other since the Golden Globe Awards in January.

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Stars celebrate The Weekly’s 80th birthday

In true Women’s Weekly style — with inspiring Australian women and an incredible birthday cake — the magazine celebrated its 80th birthday.

The 80th birthday lunch in Sydney’s Apollo restaurant was hosted by editor-in-chief Helen McCabe alongside 7.30 anchor and Weekly favourite Leigh Sales.

The Governor-General — who outed herself as an AWW cookbook tragic collecting every Christmas recipe collection the magazine has produced — presented scholarship awards to our Women of the Future winners.

Click through for pictures from the event and to see all our special guests.

Helen McCabe cutting the birthday cake.

Her Excellent the Governor General and Deborah Hutton.

Editor-in-chief Helen McCabe

Sandra Sully and Helen McCabe.

Leigh Sales and Kerri-Anne Kennerley

The Governor General Question Bryce.

Deborah Hutton.

Jennifer Byrne, Tracy Grimshaw, and deputy editor Juliet Rieden.

Karl Stefanovic.

Kate Ceberano singing happy birthday.

Quentin Bryce and Leigh Sales.

Unveiling the cover.

Women of the future nominees.

The Governor General is presented with the latest Christmas cookbook. She loves them.

Presenting the Women of the Future People’s Choice award to India McGuigan.

Quentin Bryce presents Susanna Matters with her scholarship prize.

Anna Bligh, who features in this month’s magazine.

MC Leigh Sales with the winners.

The salted caramel celebration cake recipe is in the magazine.

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Your summer beauty bag sorted!

As your skin changes with the season, we have put together a list of beaut products that will have you glowing all summer long!

Summer beauty

As your skin changes with the season, we have put together a list of beaut products that will have you glowing all summer long!

Peppermint Reviving Leg Gel

Whether you have had a long day or a long work, sometimes your body needs some estoring and essential oils are the best way to relax. Cooling peppermint oil is perfect for the summer months.

Try The Body Shop Peppermint Reviving Leg Gel to rejuvenate tired, heavy legs.

**Price: $15.95

Pack size: 250mL

Stockists: The Body Shop retail stores or online at www.thebodyshop.com.au**

Neutrogena Rapid Clear Deep Cleansing wipes

These little beauties are perfect to keep by your bedside or in your handbag.

The wipes freshen the face and clear the skin.

**Price: $7.99

Pack size: 25 wipes

Stockist: Leading supermarkets, variety stores and pharmacies nationally**

Mega Volume Collagene 24H Waterproof Mascara

Long-lasting make-up throughout the summer months is a must! So chose products that defy the elements.

Try L’Oreal Paris Mega Volume Collagene 24H Waterproof Mascara. It not only has 24 hour coverage, but adds volume too.

**Price: $27.95

Stockists: Pharmacies, department stores and variety stores.**

Pantene Ice Shine Shampoo, Conditioner

Days at the beach or outdoors can do your hair a lot of damage. Keep your locks in tact with a three step hair care system including a treatment.

Try Pantene Ice Shine Shampoo, Conditioner and Ice Shine Treatment .

**Price: $7.99 / $7.99 / $9.99

Pack size: Shampoo / Conditioner / Treatment.

Stockists: Leading supermarkets and pharmacies.**

Aloe Fresh Lotion with SPF 15

Beware of the sun’s harmful UV rays during your day to day duties. Applying a moisturiser that is SPF 15+ daily will quickly cancel out any sneaky sun damage.

For all over body hydration and sun protection try Vaseline Aloe Fresh Lotion with SPF 15.

**Price: $7.68 / $11.59 / $16.31

Pack size: 200mL / 375mL / 750mL

Stockist: Priceline and pharmacies nationally.**

Rosewater Balancing Mist

There’s nothing like an afternoon pick me up! A mist spray is exactly what your skin needs to feel refreshed, replenished and revitalised.

Try Jurlique Rosewater Balancing Mist. It offers a hydrating mist that rebalance dryness.

**Price: $35 / $49

Pack size: 50mL / 100mL

Stockists: Available at Jurlique concept stores, Myer, David Jones, selected pharmacies and online at www.jurlique.com.au**

St Tropez Shower Cream

We all try to keep our tan in tact throughout summer and holding on to a gorgeous summer glow isn’t always easy.

Using a body cleanser that enhances your natural tan, like St Tropez Shower Cream, is ideal.

**Price: $22.95

Pack size: 200mL

Stockist: Available at David Jones, Myer, Priceline and leading pharmacies and salons.**

Feet by OPI Double Coverage

Give your feet that loving feeling by wrapping them up in a foot mask. It will restore dryness and smooth calluses.

Try Feet by OPI Double Coverage.

**Price: $24.95

Pack size: 118mL

Stockists: OPI is available in leading beauty salons and David Jones stores Australia wide.**

Cocoa Butter Formula Lip Balm Sunscreen Stick

Your lips are often the most susceptible to sun damage. Protect them with a sunscreen lip balm.

Try Palmer’s Cocoa Butter Formula Lip Balm Sunscreen Stick.

**Price: $3.50 / $5.50

Stockists: Priceline, Chemist Warehouse, Woolworths, Coles, Kmart, Target, My Chemist, selected Pharmacies and selected IGA.**

Ella Baché Great Sunguard 50+ Foundation

Sun protection in foundation is always a must and now SPF 50+ is available.

Try Ella Baché Great Sunguard 50+ Foundation. It not only protects against sun damage, but prevents moisture loss as well.

**Price: $46

Pack size: 30ml

Stockists: Ella Baché salons and David Jones stores nationally.**

Wet Skin Adult SPF 30+ Spray

There’s nothing worse then re-applying sunscreen to wet skin. It doesn’t offer immediate coverage and leaves you with a sticky feeling.

Try Neutrogena Wet Skin Adult SPF 30+ Spray. It’s formulated for application on wet skin and cuts through water to form a broad-spectrum protective barrier.

**Price: $14.99

Stockists: Leading supermarkets, variety stores and pharmacies nationally.**

Clinique Exfoliating Scrub

Your skin can shed 30,000 to 40,000 dead cells naturally per minute! Exfoliating helps this process leaving you with smoother, clearer and brighter skin.

Try Clinique Exfoliating Scrub. It is a water-based scrub that contains menthol, leaving skin feeling fresh and cool.

**Price: $47

Pack size: 100mL

Stockists: David Jones, Myer, Terry White and selected independent pharmacies and at www.clinique.com.au**

Crème Colour Blush

For a fresh pop of colour and a subtle glow on your cheeks and lips, try a creme blush.

Australis Crème Colour Blush comes in Dusky Rose, Flirtatious Pink and Chocolate Truffle, and can be used on both the cheeks and lips.

**Price: $9.95

Stockists: Available at Priceline, Big W, Kmart and selected pharmacies nationally.**

Bio Oil

The harmful effects of the sun can harm skin causing dryness and an uneven skin tone.

To keep your skin in check, try Bio Oil. It is enriched with vitamins A and E and natural plant oils including calendula, lavender, rosemary and chamomile.

**Price: $14.95 / $24.95 / $34.95

Pack size: 60mL / 125mL / 200mL

Stockist: From Priceline, Big W, Target, Kmart, Woolworth’s, Coles and all pharmacies nationally.**

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Tips for attacking your personal budget deficit

Financial worries can be very stressful, so it's important to take control and start looking forward to a debt-free future.
Tips for attacking your personal budget deficit

ONE of the biggest issues in the recent Federal election was the size of the nation’s deficit, which is predicted to reach around $30 billion. With the Government now focused on getting the budget out of the red and into the black, it’s a timely reminder to take stock of our own personal debt levels.

Before coming up with a plan to reduce debt, people need to understand there are three different types of debt — bad debt, necessary debt and good debt — and they should be paid off in that order.

Bad debt refers to large credit card debt that is a struggle to pay off; necessary debt is debt that most of us need to have such as a home loan; while good debt is tax deductible debt, which includes loans for income earning investments, such as real estate or shares.

The general rule of thumb is to pay off bad debt like credit cards first as they have the highest interest rates. Once bad debts are under control, a person can then target other debts such as their car loan and home loan and save even more in interest.

Step-by-step guide to paying off debt and saving on interest:

1. Target credit card debt first:

Credit card debt is fine if you pay it off each month before interest is incurred. But if you have a large amount of debt sitting on your card, it could be costing you an astronomical amount in interest each year. Interest rates on credit cards are sometimes as high as 20 per cent, so it is important to get rid of this kind of debt as fast as possible. To do that you will need to make more than the minimum payments each month.

2. Consolidate credit card debt if you have multiple cards:

If you have several maxed-out cards, consider rolling all the debt on to one low-interest card to save on interest. Once you have done that, remember you still need to make more than the minimum payments each month to make any inroads. Once you have finally paid the card off, consider switching to a debit card.

3. Target car loans and personal loans next:

After your credit cards are under control, the next type of debt you should target is your car loan or any personal loans. As with credit cards, you can cut your interest costs on these types of loans by making additional payments. Car loans can have an interest rate as high as 12 per cent, while personal loans usually have an interest rate of about 14 per cent. Making extra payments is not advised for fixed rate loans, as penalties may apply.

4. Make extra repayments on your home loan:

Mortgages are often referred to as necessary debt. As the interest rates on home loans are much lower than other loans, this type of debt should only be targeted more aggressively after your credit card and other high interest loans are under control. The most effective way to save interest on your home loan is to make extra repayments each month. For example, the monthly repayments on a $300,000 mortgage over a 25-year term at 5 per cent are around $1,753. By increasing your monthly repayments by $400 you could save $76,316 in interest and pay the loan off seven years and seven months earlier.

5. Have an offset account on your home loan:

If you want to pay off your mortgage sooner and cut your interest costs, a home loan with an offset facility can be a quick and simple option. A mortgage offset account is simply a savings account linked to your loan account. The balance in the savings account is offset against what you owe on your mortgage, reducing the amount of interest you pay.

Dianne Charman is an Authorised Representative of AMP Financial Planning Pty Ltd, ABN 89 051 208 327, AFS Licence No. 232706. Any advice given is general only and has not taken into account your objectives, financial situation or needs. Because of this, before acting on any advice, you should consult a financial planner to consider how appropriate the advice is to your objectives, financial situation and needs.

To find your nearest AMP financial planner visit www.amp.com.au/findaplanner.

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A day in the Scottish highlands with Prince Charles

A day in the Scottish highlands with Prince Charles

Prince Charles. © The Australian Women's Weekly. Not for republication. Photograph by John Paul Photography.

To celebrate the 80th birthday of The Australian Women’s Weekly, Prince Charles invited our deputy editor Juliet Rieden to his private Scottish estate for his first interview with the magazine in 40 years.

I first met HRH Prince Charles when I was writing a story about his wife The Duchess of Cornwall last year.

I was in London and the Duchess called her husband over to shake my hand at a reception at Westminster Abbey following a rather moving Sunday service in the Abbey honouring RAF war veterans and we chatted about the couple’s imminent trip to Australia.

The Prince couldn’t wait to introduce his wife to Australians and seemed genuinely excited.

We then crossed paths a few more times more at official functions at his London home Clarence House and again here in Australia.

Each time The Prince remembered me by name, was incredibly courteous, warm and well, very, very busy.

It seemed to me that there was a real sense of urgency in all the important projects he was involved in and I was intrigued to see him at work and with his wife and thought how great it would be to sit down and talk to him properly.

Of course such opportunities are incredibly rare — indeed the one and only time The Weekly had previously been afforded an interview was almost 40 years ago in 1974 and to date the Prince has only agreed to a handful of media interviews.

But knowing how passionate Prince Charles is about Australia I put in my own passionate request to interview the Heir to the Throne for The Weekly’s 80th celebratory issue.

To my delight he not only agreed, but suggested I come to Birkhall, his private home on the Balmoral Estate in Scotland to meet, interview and photograph him and then spend a further few days with him at work around the UK. I even scored a private tour of his famous gardens at Highgrove, his home in England’s south.

To get to Birkhall you first fly to Aberdeen and then drive for an hour or so along winding lanes through the stunning Cairngorms countryside.

This is a very special part of the world. The Prince has said many times that it is here he is able to truly relax, where the cares of public life fall from his shoulders.

He loves to walk in the hills around the estate and I was told to be prepared for a ramble.

The house, previously home to his grandmther, the Queen Mother, is not grand and palatial, but more of a home, surrounded by the Royal Deeside wilderness and the snowy caps of Lochnagar.

Meeting the Prince here felt really special, as if we were getting a window on his private world.

Read Juliet Rieden’s interview with Prince Charles in the October issue of The Australian Women’s Weekly on sale now.

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Prince Charles exclusive goes global

Prince Charles: 'My sons have inherited my love for dancing'

Prince Charles showing off his moves in 1978 and 2010.

From the grounds of his country retreat in Scotland, His Royal Highness Prince Charles has given a revealing exclusive interview with The Australian Women’s Weekly — his first Australian print interview in 40 years.

Speaking with The Weekly’s deputy editor Juliet Rieden, the Prince of Wales discussed his family, his passionate plans for the planet, and what he really thinks of Australians.

In pictures: Prince Charles – Forty years of dad dancing

The Prince’s description of his love of dancing, and his admission that Princes William and Harry inherited the trait from him, has captured international attention with major UK newspapers jumping on the story.

Charles first spoke of his love of dancing in an interview with The Weekly in 1974, declaring “if I hear rhythmic music, I just want to get up and dance.”

In the extensive interview in the magazine’s October issue, he says he still feels the beat, but admits: “It’s slightly less becoming once you get to my age.”

“I think given half a chance though, the old one-two and the two-step can come in handy. I’m glad to say that both my sons have inherited it, I think,” he said.

“They’re very good. They do make me laugh when they get going.”

The interview has made headlines around the world, even ahead of the magazine hitting the stands on Thursday.

The Times has jumped on the dancing line, and also acknowledges Charles’s comments about passing on wisdom to his sons and what William and Harry have learned from him.

“I don’t see what they’re up to when I’m not there, but sometimes I hear back from others that they’re surprisingly similar in some ways (to me),” he told The Weekly.

“So maybe some things rub off … which they wouldn’t want me to know.”

The heir to the throne also speaks about his wife Camilla, and has expressed his delight in Australian wellwishers realising she “is an incredibly good sort”, which has excited The Daily Mail.

In pictures: Prince Charles – Forty years of dad dancing

The interview has also gained attention from the The Daily Express, The Evening Standard, and Metro.

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Kanye on Kim: She could love me without asking for money

Kanye on Kim: She could love me without asking for money

In a candid new interview, Kanye West has explained exactly why he fell for Kim Kardashian.

“She was in a powerful enough situation where she could love me without asking me for my money, which is really hard for me to find,” the 36-year-old said during an interview with BBC Radio 1 while promoting his new album Yeezus.

“She gave me everything. She gave me a family. She gave me a support system.”

The rapper, who welcomed baby North West with Kim three months ago, went on to talk about his daughter’s life in the spotlight, saying she should be paid every time a photographer sells an image of her.

“I’m going to tell my daughter, by the time she understands what it was, ‘Man, me and your mother were in a completely different situation than you’re in,’ ” he said.

“’People could take pictures, people could climb over your fence, and you wouldn’t even get paid for it. You see all these cheques that you getting at age six because people are taking your picture? … I made that happen, Nori.’ That’s what I’m going to tell her.”

During the interview, Kanye also discussed the media, his creativity, and his infamous 2009 MTV Video Music Awards incident with Taylor Swift.

“To be a visionary, all you have to do is make decisions based off of your eyes instead of your ears and your memory,” he said.

“So at the moment of the MTV awards, I made that decision based off of my eyes. I was like, ‘That’s not correct. That is invalid, completely invalid.’ Everybody else don’t move. That’s off their ears. … They’re enslaved.”

The star, who is anything but modest, finished the interview by talking about his achievements and the success of his album, which has topped the charts in the US, UK, Australia and Canada.

“Rap’s the new rock ‘n’ roll. We the rock stars and I’m the biggest of all them,” he declared.

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Simon Cowell hints at marrying Lauren Silverman

Simon Cowell hints at marrying Lauren Silverman

Simon Cowell has confirmed he and girlfriend Lauren Silverman are expecting a baby boy and has hinted at marrying the 36-year-old American socialite.

“I wouldn’t expect Lauren to be a single mother,” the never-married star said during a radio interview with American Idol host Ryan Seacrest.

The 53-year-old had been friends with Lauren for more than six years before the pair began an affair. Lauren split from her husband, Andrew, following the announcement of her pregnancy.

Simon, who will become a dad for the first time, revealed he won’t be in the birthing suite when his baby is born.

“Are you out of your mind?” he said, when asked if he planned to be present.

“This sounds awful but it’s a little bit like you don’t want to go into the restaurant when they’re making your dinner.

“There are certain things you shouldn’t see and that is one of them.”

Lauren, who is already mum to seven-year-old Adam with her former husband, is due in February and currently lives in New York while Simon divides his time between the UK and America.

“I am happy at the moment, it’s kind of an unusual feeling. You see flowers and hear the birds sing, the grass is greener,” said Simon, who was engaged to Mezhgan Hussainy before they split in 2011.

“I genuinely never thought it would happen. I was scared about who I was going to have kids with, but you’ve met Lauren,” he told Ryan, “and we get on really really well.”

While The X Factor mogul is “over the moon” to be welcoming a baby boy, he insists that his child must have a British accent.

“Obviously I have to make sure the baby has an English accent.

“No word of a lie, I said to Lauren what if I just play me on tape while the baby is sleeping so it would subliminally hear me and have a British accent?”

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Ten things not to say to kids

We’ve all been there, mindlessly blurting out words in anger or frustration at our kids. While many things seem relatively harmless, kids are like sponges, soaking up all those underlying messages in what we’re saying. So be aware of the effect your words have on your child’s emotional wellbeing and cut out these common statements from your vocab. By Katy Moore

Shame is a very destructive emotion often prompting intense guilt. Even if a child acts badly, it’s important to help them understand why the actions are wrong and that we all make mistakes we can learn from.

Kids respond best to rules when there’s reason behind them. Spend a few seconds helping them understand why, so they see you as a respected authority figure rather than a dictator.

Whether your son wants the latest Ben 10 figure or you’re stuck in a battle with your screaming daughter over a cancelled play date, you have probably uttered this sentence more than you think. However, it can show your child you don’t find their feelings important and in turn that they don’t have to respect yours. Remember, validating their emotions doesn’t mean giving in to their demands.

You wouldn’t automatically kiss people you were told to kiss and the same goes for kids. Respect their personal space and allow them control over who gets their affection.

Comparing children with a sibling or school friend often plants destructive seeds of inferiority which can create rebelliousness and sibling rivalry. Instead, praise them for what they do well and offer help in areas where they struggle.

Not only can this instil a sense of fear in one parent but it’s a comment that shows you’re not in control of the situation. Passing the buck undermines your own authority and ultimately makes children question why they should listen to you in the first place.

Strangely, not all positive reinforcement is positive. Of course your child is the greatest but too much unspecific praise can make it meaningless: be specific.

Children’s ability to feel safe and communicate feelings is essential for their growth. So while you think you’re being kind saying this, you’re actually implying that their emotions aren’t valid. Listen and deal with their fears rather than discounting them.

It’s not helpful to label your child bad or naughty as they’re likely to believe this is who they are and try to live up to it. Try showing disapproval of the behaviour rather than the child.

Planting abandonment issues in your child is not advisable. Kids don’t know you wouldn’t leave them behind and when of course you don’t, you create an empty threat. Have patience, realise children get distracted quickly and find calm ways to speed thing up.

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Ten bad things that are actually good for you

It’s rude to swear. Loud music will burst your ear drums. Computer games turn you into a zombie. We’re constantly told how our bad habits ruin society but what if they don’t? What if being “bad” is actually good for us? Decide yourself with our top 10 beneficial bad habits. By Katy Moore

Whether you tap, twitch, yawn or stretch, it could help you as fidgeting can burn up to 350 extra calories a day. Research done at a US clinic found evidence to suggest the less fidgety you are, the more obese you could be.

The words we all long to hear, housework is bad for you! Well, kind of. Not only do studies show cleaning products can increase the chances of asthma in newborns but bed making can create a nice moist happy home for those 1.5 million dust mites dancing in your doona.

Could it be the more you snooze the less years you’ll lose? Health expert Professor Peter Axt believes people on the go have a shorter life expectancy than those who live in peace, such as monks. He says it’s evident in the animal kingdom too, where many species find the stress of everyday survival shortens their life in comparison to their cared-for cousins in the zoo.

It may not be a socially acceptable form of pain relief but studies have shown using an outburst of profanities rather than a few “darn its”, allow pain to be handled for longer. Scientists reckon pain thresholds could be higher in “swearers” due to an elevated heart rate which increases aggression levels and the more aggressive you are, the less sensitive you are to pain. Maybe Gordon Ramsey was a test subject?

Despite being criticised for creating socially isolated and overweight kids, it turns out that computer games could be beneficial in multiple areas of learning, especially hand eye coordination and strategic skills.

While mobile phones constantly get bad press about everything from the health risks to antisocial behaviour, Professor Helen Haste in the UK believes texting bridges generation gaps in families. Her social study found for young teens often at odds with their parents, texting was a crucial tool for communication because explosive emotions could be edited out.

Small amounts of stress can actually play a positive role by giving our immune system a kick into action. Stress can boost adrenaline, enabling us to hit that deadline at work but it improves memory too. Just remember though, there’s a fine line between functional stress and stressing out!

Pump up the volume if you want to be happy and alert. According to researchers at Manchester University in UK, the part of the ear called the sacculus goes into happiness overdrive when the beat reaches 90 decibels. It then encourages the brain to join the party by releasing feel-good hormones, which put us on a natural high.

Research conducted at Yale University in the US found that moderate gambling creates mentally healthier, happier people than those who don’t like a flutter. Whether it’s the brain stimulation from different types of gambling, or the social aspect of it, certain forms of gambling can actually be a relief for depression sufferers.

You know the ones, those rivals cleverly disguised as friends. Believe it or not, competitive frenemies can actually boost your confidence and help you achieve goals. Whether they push you out of your comfort zone at the gym or motivate you at work, just make sure your life isn’t dictated by them alone.

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