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How you can unlock your hidden equity and earn thousands

See how your family home or first investment property can be a springboard to wealth.

Most of us buy a home first, before we buy an investment property, because we want to live in a place of our own. Fair enough, but if you are serious about growing your wealth you should aim to increase the value of your home as quickly as possible. And throw every spare dollar into paying down your home loan, which is non-tax-deductible debt, so you build up your equity.

Equity is the difference between the value of your home and the amount you owe the bank. For example, married couple Jed and Nicola have their home valued at $600,000. The loan balance is $322,000 so the couple’s equity is $278,000.

The faster you grow the equity you have in the family home or first investment property, the earlier you can access it to invest. You might buy a second property (and then a third and fourth) or you may prefer to build a portfolio of shares or funds.

Some people are prepared to live in rental accommodation to start building wealth before they buy a family home, using the equity in their first property to help them build a portfolio of investment properties.

Let’s say Jed and Nicola bought their home three years ago for $500,000. They borrowed $375,000 at 5.9 per cent over 10 years, because tight budgeting meant they had the capacity to meet the fortnightly repayments of $2077. Half the increase in the home’s value is due to capital growth, but the other half is due to some simple repairs and maintenance, such as repainting and upgrading fixtures and fittings.

So how can they put their equity to work without taking on too much risk? First they need to work out their usable equity. To do this they multiple the value of their home by 80 per cent (to avoid paying lenders mortgage insurance on their home mortgage), equating to $480,000, and then deduct the outstanding debt of $322,000, giving them $158,000.

They could use this to buy an investment property, setting up a facility to release the equity, which is often done by establishing a line of credit that can then be drawn down as needed. This can be used to fund a 20 per cent deposit on an investment property (again avoiding expensive lenders mortgage insurance, which protects the lender, not the borrower) and also to pay for the other costs, including stamp duty (roughly another 5 per cent).

With $158,000 equity, the couple could afford to buy property costing up to $632,000, covering the 25 per cent needed for a deposit and costs.

Yet to mitigate risk, it would be wise to leave some of the facility as a buffer against possible events, such as the property being without a tenant for a time.

The couple could also consider buying more than one property or spreading their investments among property and shares.

Selecting the right investments is the key to making this strategy work. If residential property is your preference, you have to choose between a house and unit, pick a location and decide how much to spend.

Do you invest close to home or consider a different area state? Doing that, you could choose markets that are on the rise, such as Brisbane, rather than ones that may be more fully priced, as Sydney appears to be. It’s important to base your choice on tenant demand, because tenants provide the income. Generally people want to be close to transport, recreation and leisure facilities, as well as schools if they have children.

Once you choose your area, determine its main rental profile: young singles and DINKs (double income no kids) go for apartments and townhouses, whereas young families prefer houses.

Let’s say Jed and Nicola choose a two-bedroom unit in Brisbane as their first investment, paying $450,000 for a solidly built, well-located apartment in a smaller block with a parking space. This is higher than the $395,000 Brisbane median unit price at January 2014, according to RP Data, but it’s an above average unit.

One reason the couple chose Brisbane is that its median unit prices grew 5.6 per cent last year, well below the Australian capital average of 13.3 per cent.

To pay for the deposit they draw 25 per cent of the price from their line of credit – $112,500 – to pay the 20 per cent deposit and the costs. The remaining $360,000 is borrowed through a separate loan, preferably from a different lender, so there is no danger of crosssecuritisation, which could put Jed and Nicola’s home at risk if things turn sour.

Because they are borrowing 105 per cent of the purchase price in two separate loans, both for the purpose of buying the investment unit, the interest on both loans is tax deductible.

The unit should rent at about $480 a week, around the Brisbane median unit rental of 5.5 per cent, according to RP Data. This will give them a yearly income of $24,960, but they will have to pay all expenses associated with the property. These can be deducted from the rental income. If they add up to more than the income, the excess can be deducted from other income for tax purposes, so the property will be negatively geared.

Jed and Nicola still have $45,500 in their line of credit. They decide to keep a buffer of $15,500 and invest the remaining $30,000 in an ungeared share portfolio.

Over the 10 years to December 2012, Australian shares returned an average of 8.9 per cent a year, before tax but after fees, according to the ASX/Russell Investments 2013 long-term investing report.

The 20-year figure was 9.8 per cent. Of course, the averages do mask a lot of volatility.

Russell Investments estimates the dividend yield on Australian shares has averaged around 4 per cent.

Based on this, Jed and Nicola can expect to earn an average of $2670 a year from their shares, including dividends of around $1200.

A version of this article originally appeared in The Australian Women’s Weekly’s How Busy Women Get Rich 2014 issue.

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How to invest in property (even if you only have a 5 per cent deposit)

It’s always a good time to buy an investment home and the process is easier than many of us might think.

The goal most Australians have is to provide a safe and secure future for themselves and their families, and property investment is a very popular way to do this.

Yet in the midst of economic uncertainty, rising costs of living and busy work and home lives, many people believe investing in property is out of their reach, although it is simpler than you may think.

Most Australians have a real opportunity to invest in property with less risk and less impact on their lifestyle.

Property investment provides hope for the future in retirement, but it does need to be done correctly.

There are several things to consider in order to do it the right way. To make property investing much more achievable, one important consideration is to have a team around you. This should consist of a good accountant, property adviser, mortgage broker, conveyancer and property manager.

Many of us are time-poor or not necessarily experienced in distinguishing a good property from a bad one. So it is crucial to engage the services of people who can do all the research and source a suitable property and loan for your needs. In other words, people that represent the buyer (you) rather than the seller.

Understanding what your surplus income is will help guide you in deciding what you can afford to spend towards owning a property. For example, if the interest on the loan for a $350,000 property plus other costs, such as insurance and rates, is about $20,000 a year and the rental income and tax deductions from the property are about $17,000 a year, this would mean a shortfall of $3000, or roughly $58 a week, to own this property.

This is a good example of what negative gearing is – when the costs of owning the property are higher than the income produced from the property. Negative gearing can be similar to a savings plan in some ways, in that, in this example, you are spending $58 a week, but you are putting this sum towards the property and it is helping you own an asset purchased for $350,000, an asset which is growing in value over time.

Knowing your surplus income is important in determining what type of property to consider and if the time is right for you. It is always a good time to buy property – it just depends on the “where” and “what”.

If you have a good-sized surplus, you may wish to have an investment property more focused on the capital growth potential, with a reasonable yield. If your surplus is more limited, you may consider a property with a higher cash-flow, but with reasonable potential for growth. In this case, the important point could be to reduce the out-of-pocket costs of owning the property, quite possibly by it providing you with a growing income.

Having a higher cash-¬flow property can be a great way to get involved in the property market while not negatively impacting on your lifestyle. This helps narrow down the “where”. Once the location has been selected, consider the type of property.

To reduce the risk of vacancy, you should have a property which suits the demographic of the area. For example, for an older demographic, a single-storey, two-bedroom property may be more suitable than a large house with stairs. Likewise, a four-bedroom home is more suitable for a family.

The best thing about property is being able to leverage, meaning you are using other people’s money, normally a bank’s, to invest. The more an investor borrows, the lower the deposit needs to be. Lowering the size of a deposit can be important to many investors, as it means they don’t need as much equity in their current home or cash to put towards the property. In fact, all an investor may need is 5 per cent of the price of the property, plus costs. Perhaps an inheritance or gift can be put in as well, but if 5 per cent is contributed, you could be considered for a loan for the remainder of the price.

Investors often have an interest-only loan so as to reduce the mortgage on their home first because it normally is not providing any tax benefits.

If you have the opportunity to purchase an investment property, reduce the risk by seeking the right advice and using the best research.

Using a good mortgage broker is important for selecting the various lending options and advising you on what type of loan is suitable for you in your circumstances. Do your homework thoroughly and always seek the best advice before you start the process.

What to look for when buying an investment property

1.Location: Properties closer to the CBD, transport, shops and attractions, such as the beach and cafes/restaurants, will always be in high demand and able to maintain rent increases.

2.Outlook: Aim to buy a property that is forecast to double in value every decade, in an area where demand is set to outstrip supply.

3.Rent: Look for a place where you can attract premium rent and be able to increase it annually, according to growth in the property’s value.

4.Floor plan: Go for a logical floor plan that feels right when you walk through it. You don’t want

to have to walk through a bedroom to get to the laundry, for example.

5.Future: Think forward to a time when you may want to sell or renovate – will it appeal to owner/occupiers?

6.Gentrification: Seek out properties in suburbs that are starting to be gentrified and outperform the average in property reports.

7.Research: When you find an area you like, go to open home inspections, and monitor sale prices and growth trends.

A version of this article originally appeared in The Australian Women’s Weekly’s How Busy Women Get Rich 2014 issue.

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Pope urges Catholic Church to welcome divorced and remarried members

Pope Francis calls for a more welcoming approach to single parents, gay people and unmarried straight couples who are living together.

Pope Francis is continuing on his mission to bring the traditional Catholic church’s into the modern era by using his latest edict to encouraging priests to welcome single parents, gay people and unmarried straight couples who are living together.

In a 256-page document – known as an apostolic exhortation and titled “Amoris Laetitia,” Latin for “The Joy of Love” – the 79-year-old Pontiff discusses marriage and family values.

“A pastor cannot feel that it is enough to simply apply moral laws to those living in ‘irregular’ situations, as if they were stones to throw at people’s lives,” he wrote.

He talked of how divorced couples should be looked at with more understanding – not judgment.

The Pope wrote priests should take account of “mitigating factors and situations” and make allowances in “particular cases,” since “the consequences or effects of a rule need not necessarily always be the same.”

Adding even those in an “objective state of sin” can be entitled to receive the “help of the sacraments”.

Traditionally, if a person was married validly and then divorced but never obtained an annulment, then that person is still married in the eyes of the Church. He or she cannot validly marry again in the Catholic Church – something which the Pope worries may drive members away.

After considering the plight of Catholics in his native Argentina who gave up on the process of annulment – to have their unions erased in the eyes of God, Pope Francis last year changed church law to make it simpler and quicker to obtain an annulment everywhere.

In the past he has suggested that annulment should be obtained by the church without fee.

His latest document is a move that is likely to anger church conservatives but the leader wrote:

“By thinking that everything is black and white, we sometimes close off the way of grace and of growth.”

Russell Shaw, a former spokesman for the U.S. Catholic bishops’ conference, told The Wall Street Journal that the Pontiff’s latest statements on marriage open up room for ambiguity on all of the church’s doctrines regarding morality.

“This document has opened up a large and ill-defined vista over a broad range of moral issues,” said Mr Shaw. “If you can discern this way when it comes to marriage questions, what about almost any other moral question?”

During his landmark statements the Pope stopped well short of endorsing same-sex marriage – outlining the conservative belief that it is not equivalent to heterosexual unions.

“There are absolutely no grounds for considering homosexual unions to be in any way similar or even remotely analogous to God’s plan for marriage and family,” the pope wrote.

The Pope was unambiguous about abortion, saying “no alleged right to one’s own body can justify” terminating a pregnancy. He also denounced the death penalty and euthanasia.

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Paul Walker’s daughter receives $13M settlement from crash that killed her dad

Paul Walker’s daughter Meadow Walker has reached a $13 million settlement with the estate of the man driving the car that killed her dad.

Paul Walker’s 17-year-old daughter Meadow Walker has reached a $10.1 USD million settlement with the estate of the man driving the car that crashed and killed them both in 2013, reports Reuters.

The Fast and the Furious actor was a passenger in a 2005 Porsche Carrera GT driven by Roger Rodas when the car, reportedly going at speeds of 150kms per hour, smashed into trees and a utility pole in Santa Clarita, northwest of Los Angeles.

The settlement was reportedly reached in November 2014 but went unnoticed as it was filed under ‘Meadow W.’ on the public record, says gossip site TMZ.

Meadow is the only child and sole heir to her father’s estate and according to her attorney, Jeff Milam, the funds will go into a trust for the teen.

Walker’s death at age 40 threw led production of film “Furious 7,” into a tailspin – but through computer effects and using his brother as a double the movie was completed and released in 2015.

The last in the racing car franchise grossed more than $1.5 billion worldwide, making it among the highest-earning films of all time.

According to reports Milam is still also suing Porsche on behalf of his client – they claim that Walker survived the initial crash but “burned to death because of Porsche’s defective design” – more specifically his seat belt.

But the car’s German manufactures maintains that the actor’s death was caused by “reckless driving and excessive speed.”

After a four-month long investigation the L.A. County Sheriff’s Department

found no drugs or alcohol in either driver or passenger and found the crash was the result of excessive speed, not mechanical failure.

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Mother says sex with her son is ‘incredible’ and reveals they’re trying for baby

A mother and her son say they are madly in love and trying for a baby after beginning a sexual relationship, 30 years after she put him up for adoption.

A mother and her son say they are madly in love and trying for a baby after beginning a sexual relationship, 30 years after she put him up for adoption.

Ben Ford, 30, who left his devastated wife Victoria when he met and fell for his biological mother Kim West, 51, after decades of being apart. The pair claim what they are doing “isn’t incest”, reports British newspaper The New Day.

Ms West, who relocated from the UK to Michigan with be with her unorthodox partner, told the paper: “This is not incest, it is GSA. We are like peas in a pod and meant to be together.

The couple were brought together after Ben, who was living in the US, sent his England-born mum a letter out of the blue in 2013.

West says she first kissed Ben over a bottle of champagne in a hotel room after having “sexy dreams” about him and describes their current sex life with her son as “incredible and mind blowing”.

The GSA condition the couple referred to is Genetic Sexual Attraction – a term used for relatives who feel sexual attraction for each other after meeting as adults.

Surprisingly GSA is said to affect an estimated 50 per cent of lost family member reunions.

The couple say talking to other GSA couples has helped them be more open about their relationship.

“I know people will say we’re disgusting, that we should be able to control our feelings, but when you’re hit by a love so consuming you are willing to give up everything for it, you have to fight for it.

As in Australia, incest is considered illegal in Ben and Kim’s home in the US, but despite the taboo the happy couple are reportedly planning to figure out how to get married and have a baby together.

Of their life planned together West says: “It’s a once in a lifetime chance and something Ben and I are not willing to walk away from.”

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Jennifer Lopez under fire for working with Dr. Luke on new single

Jennifer Lopez slammed after revelation her new single, Ain't Your Mama, was worked on by producer Dr. Luke, who Kesha has accused of sexual abuse.

Jennifer Lopez has come under criticism from her fans after it’s been revealed her new single, Ain’t Your Mama, was worked on by producer Dr. Luke, who has been accused of sexual abuse by singer Kesha.

The 46-year-old singer performed the song at the American Idol finale this week and fans were quick to take note of the controversial collaboration – Dr Luke is the same producer that Kesha accused of drugging and sexually assaulting her, claims he has called “outright lies.”

Shortly after taking to the stage, her final appearance on American Idol as a judge arguably stole the show, Lopez tweeted that her single was available for download but some fans used that opportunity to voice their disappointment.

Titter user @BradCarq wrote: @JLo I’m disgusted to see that this was produced by Dr. Luke. I can’t believe you, I’m disappointed in you, and I won’t listen. #FreeKesha

@stephpayano_ wrote: How is @JLo gonna come out with a feminist song that’s produced by Dr. Luke….that kinda sounds ironic if you ask me

Others called for a boycott of the song because of the Dr. Luke connection:

@hughdansy wrote: Ain’t Your Mama, @JLo’s new single, is a ladies anthem that was produced BY Dr. Luke….. Funny. Don’t buy the song.#SaveKesha

If you respect women, say no to the DrLuke produced single#AintYourMama. I love u @jlo but this is wrong #freekesha#savekesha #girlpower

JLo hasn’t yet responded to the fury.

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My daughter was born at 22 weeks

When Karen lost her baby girl, she knew she wanted to channel her pain into something positive. But she never thought that would be running half-marathons every year!

My first daughter was born prematurely at 22 weeks.

At that early stage in pregnancy, doctors can’t intervene, so we were unfortunately faced with the knowledge that our daughter wouldn’t survive.

I was admitted to the Royal Hospital for Women and my baby girl was born on November 9, 2009, and she was with us for eight precious minutes. My husband Mick and I held her, and she passed in my arms.

We named her Chiara. Her name means ‘light’.

My sister introduced me to the Running for Premature Babies charity the following May, when she told me she’d donated money to the team in memory of Chiara. I thought it was such a beautiful tribute and I knew I wanted to get involved.

Running for Premature Babies is a special running group set up in 2007 by Sophie Smith, after she and husband Ash lost their first-born triplet sons, Henry, Jasper and Evan, following an extremely premature birth at 24 weeks. This year will mark their tenth birthdays.

Since 2007 this special team have raised in excess of $1.5 million which has funded ventilators, equipment and research grants into the area of prematurity – all through ordinary everyday people who have been touched by a child who was born prematurely.

The signature event for Running for Premature Babies is the Sydney Half Marathon every year, so the next year, 2011, I started with the team.

But let me tell you, I am not a runner! The last time I had actually ran any competitive distance was at school, but I really wanted to raise money for the hospital on Chiara’s behalf.

One of my good friends Don decided he’d run the course with me. Through just reaching out to friends, family and colleagues, we raised $5,000. It was quite special.

When I finished the whole 21.1km of the half marathon that first year, I was extremely emotional. Everybody knew I was running for Chiara and they provided such incredible support.

When Chiara passed, my husband and I knew we wanted to do something that would help others. This was a wonderful avenue for us to channel that through.

With Running for Premature Babies, there are celebratory stories, there are people that have survived being born prematurely or who’ve benefited from the equipment. There are also stories like Chiara’s where you’re honouring those that have passed.

So that’s where joining this team worked for us. It allowed us to fundraise and channel all our hopes and dreams and disappointments into something positive.

Karen, daughter Ashley and husband Mick

Each race is an emotional one. My goals each and every year are first and foremost to raise as much money as I can, the second is to finish the course, and the third is to do it in the best time I can.

Crossing the finishing line every time, I’m in tears. I’m greeted by great supporters in friends and family – including my husband and four-year-old daughter Ashley – who have been with me through every race. I’m overwhelmed by everyone’s generosity, the impact that the fundraising will make for people’s lives, and the fact that Chiara’s legacy shines brighter each and every year.

Such beautiful angels are never forgotten.

I wouldn’t want others to be in the unfortunate situation we were in, so we are all for any fundraising we can help with or provide, especially for the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit. Our fundraising helps a child in need, which in turn helps a family though those early dark days.

All up, Don and I have raised $25,000 and we’re hoping to raise much more.

Karen and her good friend, Don

We’re holding a trivia night down in Kyeemagh next month and that’s one way we help with fundraising. This will be the second year we’ve done it and it’s so much fun!

At last year’s trivia fundraiser, we had 140 people show up and raised over $6,000. I had moments of laughing so hard I was in tears, and actual tears because I was just so blown away by everyone’s generosity.

I hope we can do that again this year.

The Running for Premature Babies trivia night is on May 7 at 6pm at Sydney’s Kyeemagh RSL club. For tickets, you can purchase them through Karen at [email protected] or call 0409 982 127.

If you’d like to donate to Karen’s participation in this year’s half marathon, click here.

As told to Jacqui King.

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Married at First Sight’s Clare says Jono has a “bad temper”

Things are going from bad to worse for Jono Pitman and Clare Verrall as the Melbourne real estate agent reveals the tradie’s dark side.
Clare and Jono on Married at First Sight

The tradie has already been linked to a new woman.

Speaking to AAP, Clare Verrall claimed the man she was matched with on the controversial show Married At First Sight has a “bad temper.”

“He does have a temper. A bad temper. A definite temper,” Clare said.

“I’ve never been around a person who has had a bad temper or is particularly hot-headed.”

Clare revealed Jono’s bad temper brought back a barrage of traumatic memories for her following a random attack she suffered a year ago.

Clare, 31, says his volatile side brings back terrible memories.

“I was attacked on the street last year and I still have a little PTSD from that, so having people yell and scream, even if it’s not at me, makes me incredibly anxious so that wasn’t great,” she explained to AAP.

Another aspect of her tester husband’s personality she isn’t a fan of is his outsourcing of chores to his mum.

“His mother does his laundry which didn’t go down very well with me, but we did have some great laughs and some fun together as well,” the reality star mused.

Earlier in the week, reports surfaced that Jono may have already moved on with a new woman after a cosy social media snap of him surfaced on Rachael Baxter’s Instagram account.

In an Instagram photo obtained by The Daily Mail Australia, the self-proclaimed “man’s man” cuddles up to Rachael Baxter.

“You annoy the absolute s–t out of me, but there’s no one else I could imagine waking up next to every morning #soppypost #mrperfect #thanksforbeingyou,” Rachel reportedly penned alongside the photo, which had Instagram user @JonoPitman19 tagged.

In a telling sign, the cosy image – which was uploaded on March 12 – has since been deleted.

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Driver ‘used seatbelt for beer carton, not children’

Wow. Just wow.

A driver who allegedly had a baby freely crawling around a car while two cartons of beer were securely strapped has been caught by Broome police.

Police were doing routine patrols on the Great Northern Highway when they found the 27-year-old male driver and two other adults in the car wearing seatbelts, but the one-year-old baby was found moving around the car, unsecured.

The driver had clearly prioritised the safety of cartons of Emu Export and Victoria Bitter over the child by buckling the alcohol in with a seatbelt.

The shocking incident was part of a police blitz, which also showed that half of the cars stopped by police were speeding, and more than one third had no authority to drive.

Sgt Paul World said one driver was stopped who allegedly blew 0.224 while under a suspended licence.

There were 10 occupants in the car at the time of the stop – six of them were unrestrained children.

“The level of shocking driving behaviour has now escalated to the point where we need to regular patrols and trying to stop this,” Sgt World said.

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Peaches Geldof’s best friend pens emotional letter on the second anniversary of her death

On the two year anniversary of Peaches Geldof’s death, life-long friend, Lily Gutierrez pens an emotional letter in honour of her best pal.
Peaches Geldof

The daughter of Bob Geldof died in a tragic accidental heroin overdose at age 25 in April of 2014.

She was found in the Kent home she shares with her husband, Thomas Cohen and their sons, Astala, three, and Phaedra, two.

Her friends and family were, of course, extremely grief-stricken to hear of their beautiful friends passing, and now – on the two year anniversary of Peaches’ death, her best friend Lily Gutierrez has penned a candid open letter about the late star.

Lily and Peaches met as young girls “in a whirlwind of sleepovers.”

Over the years spent with her other half, Lily gained a close insight about her companion and a world of memories. Her heartfelt essay posted on Motherland.net shares some of these stories.

“I used to have a friend who was a firework of a girl, so brilliant, daring and bright that being near her I often felt I was holding my breath, waiting for her next vivid explosion.”

The beautiful Peaches died at the young age of 25.

“She was a wild, rare thing, always creating chaos,” she continued poetically.

“Her imagination was huge and she told fantastic tales – she was my favourite liar.”

“Two years ago, my dear friend died, but still she visits me in my dreams. Often as bossy and rude as in life, but always hypnotic. Her visits are fleeting, but she always remembers to kiss me on the lips.”

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There’s no doubt the pair were inseparable throughout the years.

They moved to New York together, got married just a week apart and even had matching tattoos.

In the moving essay, Lily described herself and Peaches as “twins in the universe”, always on the same page and at the same stage in life, even when it came to the death of their mothers in their childhoods.

Recalling what she will miss most about her late friend, she says: “The thing I miss most about Peaches, above her quick wit and spark, above her ability to mesmerise, is her heart.”

“I miss the heart that she often tried to keep hidden, anyone who caught a glimpse of it knew it was gigantic.”

“How lucky am I that this friend of mine, that I hold in such high esteem, returned my love. That thought alone will always make me smile.”

Peaches’ husband Thomas Cohen was the one to discover his wife in their Kent home.

Just last week, Peaches’ husband spoke out in his first interview since his wife’s death.

Speaking to the Sunday Times, Thomas Cohen, 25, revealed he won’t let his grief define him.

“At the time I was 23. I had two children who needed to be taken care of and, in maybe early June 2014, I started to do that.”

“I just made the decision to start looking after myself and refused to lose myself and become a traumatised, grief-stricken single father who everyone’s going to look at and think I feel all of these things about,” Thomas added.

You can read Lily’s letter in full right here

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