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Why you may be drinking more alcohol than you intend to

Almost half of adult Australians don't know what a standard drink looks like.

Rachel is 37, has three kids and works part time as an executive assistant. Like many of us, Rachel also enjoys the odd glass of wine.

If you asked her about her drinking habits she would describe them as moderate: “a couple of wines here and there, maybe a bit more on the weekend”.

Definitely nothing to worry about. Definitely not too much.

But while she is adamant that she isn’t a big drinker, Rachel’s “couple of wines here and there” add up to well over the recommended alcohol guidelines of two standard drinks a day.

Rachel isn’t in denial, she is just confused about what a unit of alcohol actually looks like. And she is far from alone.

A recent survey sponsored by Diageo found that almost half of adult Australians have no idea how much alcohol is in their favourite drink.

In the survey, 50 per cent of respondents thought that a schooner of full strength beer, a glass of wine and a single serve of spirits with a mixer all represent one standard alcoholic drink.

However, while a 30ml measure of sprit and a mixer is a standard drink, a schooner of full strength beer contains 1.6 standard drinks, and a typical glass of wine (150ml) contains 1.5 standard drinks.

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In other words, Rachel’s “couple of wines” is actually 3 standard drinks or more (depending on whether she has measured 150ml serves).

Nick Westenberg, Public Policy Manager, Diageo Australia notes that the lack of awareness regarding the amount of alcohol in everyday drinks is a huge concern.

“The fact that half the population think that a glass of wine you’re served in a restaurant or schooner of beer at the pub is the same as a standard drink highlights the need for continued consumer information and education,” he said.

Dr Tina Lam from Curtin University’s faculty of health sciences is also concerned. She says that the risk of harm from drinking can be influenced by how much people drink. “The more you drink, the higher the risk [of harm],” she says.

“Many people might underestimate their risk because they underestimate how much they drink.”

Dr Lam says that in terms of acute alcohol-related harms such as injury, risk is minimised by consuming no more than 4 standard drinks on a single occasion.

According to Dr Lam, one way to become savvier about the amount of alcohol you are actually consuming is to conduct an experiment with yourself.

“Pour what you would usually serve in a wine glass you’re familiar with. Then, pour this volume into a measuring container to see how many ml you’ve poured. You might be surprised at how many standard drinks are contained in your usual serve,” she says.

Dr Lam notes that if your usual serve turns out to be 150ml, then you should count your usual serve as 1.5 standard drinks, and two of these usual serve glasses as 3 standard drinks.

“Next, measure out 100ml into your usual wine glass to see what a standard serve actually looks like. If you don’t have a measuring device, or want to do this experiment in your head, a standard shot glass is 30ml. So a standard drink of wine is only about 3 shot glasses worth of liquid,” Dr Lam explains.

When you look at it like this, it is easy to see why so many of us are drinking a lot more than the recommended amount.

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The Bachelor’s NZ winner Fleur Verhoeven dumped after just two days

It was supposed to be her happily ever after but when cameras stopped rolling it was a very different story.

She was supposed to be living out her happily ever after but 48 hours after cameras stopped rolling on New Zealand’s version of The Bachelor contestant Fleur Verhoeven found herself single again.

The 26-year-old winning contestant was presented with a $26,000 commitment ring from Jordan Mauger, the man at the center of The Bachelor across the ditch, but in the two days since the finale the pair have spilt.

“It’s been a crazy last 48 hours really. It still feels like an out of body experience. It’s really overwhelming. I’m taking it a minute at a time,” she told the New Zealand Herald.

During her chat with Focus the blonde from Hawkes Bay said she had been avoiding social media since Jordan broke up with her, but was feeling the support of the public.

“It’s really nice to hear all the amazing words, all the nice things everyone’s saying,” she said. “To be honest, I haven’t read most of it. I’ve kind of stayed away from social media and everything for the last 24 hours. The odd thing I have heard and the little messages here and there from friends and even strangers have been really amazing.”

As for her former flame Fleur, who wasn’t wearing any rings, seemed to want to take the high road, saying, “I respect his honesty and honestly I just wish him all the best.”

Jordan also issued a statement explaining his decision.

“Fleur is a remarkable woman. There is no doubt about that. What I have struggled with is interpreting my feelings from the show to the real world,” the 32-year-old Jordan said.

Adding: “For the last seven weeks, Fleur and myself shared concerns and doubts over that time, hoping that feelings would reignite again.”

Despite his attempts to gain understanding from the public the actor Jordan has been the target of some criticism.

NZ’s reality romance woes hark back to Australia’s own Bachelor drama two years ago when Blake Garvey dumped his finale pick Sam Frost to date another contestant, Louise Pillidge.

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Man finds hilarious note from stranger who hit his car

Maybe you can try this after a prang.

Normally when your car is involved in a fender bender you’re left a little peeved but not one man who was left laughing when a stranger left a refreshing honest note after a prang.

Thomas Callow, a 20-year-old university student from Massachusetts walked off of campus this week to find someone had scratched up his car – but luckily for him the culprit left a note.

However, when Callow opened the piece of paper left on his windshield he didn’t find any contact information.

“I thought the note was a parking ticket because I get those everyday,” Callow told New York Magazine. “Anyways, I opened the note and started instantly laughing hysterically.”

The note read:

“Yo I hit your car. I’m leaving this note cause someone’s watching … They’re still watching … Okay I’m good. My bad n–ga. Peace.”

And instead of being angry about his car – the damage was minor – Callow did what any person his age would do… he took a photo and tweeted it.

“Not even mad about the scratches lmfao…..Hands down the funniest thing that has ever happened to me only in NewB [New Bedford]” Callow captioned.

Since posting the note it has been retweeted more than 45 thousand times.

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Why Shane Warne is furious with Brynne Edelsten

The 46-year-old sports star has accused the American socialite of setting him up.
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Former Aussie cricketer Shane Warne has accused Brynne Edelsten of tipping off the paparazzi as photographers were “conveniently waiting outside” her home when he arrived for a “nightcap” at 1am last night.

The father-of-three, who is known as a notorious ladies man, took to Facebook and Instagram to shame the American personality for allegedly setting up the encounter.

“Some people never cease to amaze me. Listen to this one,” the I’m a Celebrity… Get Me Out Of Here! star began to over 700,000 followers.

“After a fun night raising money for breast cancer in Geelong last night, me and a few friends plus Brynne Edelsten went out for a couple of drinks.”

“Brynne then invited me back to her place around 1am for a nightcap, when I arrived, paparazzi were conveniently waiting outside her home to get the pic, coincidence? I left instantly and thought how sad is that!”

Brynne is yet to comment on the accusations.

Brynne is yet to comment on the accusations, but funnily enough, the father-of-three’s late night incident wasn’t the only one of the night.

The Herald Sun also revealed that a stretch Chrysler limousine booked for I’m a Celeb winner Alex Fevola and his wife Alex had been reported stolen.

Police discovered the vehicle bogged in the mud in a town called Lara situated 18km north-east of Geelong, where the charity poker tournament was held.

All in all, a dramatic night for these Aussie stars.

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Baby brings new joy for family who lost children in MH17 disaster

Maz and Rin Maslin who lost three children in the MH17 disaster have announced they’ve given birth to a baby girl.
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Maz and Rin Maslin — the parents of children Evie, 10, Otis, 8, and Milo, 12, who perished in the MH17 disaster have announced they’ve given birth to a baby girl, Violet.

“Violet May Maslin came in to the world on Tuesday 10 May, bringing with her love and light, hope and joy.

“Our family was torn apart when MH17 was blown out of the sky by the violent anger of a nationalist missile, on July 17, 2014. Our three innocent, beautiful and inspiring children were killed, alongside their grandfather, Nick Norris.

“We believe that Mo, whose 14th birthday was Saturday, Evie, 12 next week, Otis, 10 next month, and Grandad Nick have sent us an amazing gift. Violet’s birth is a testament to our belief that love is stronger than hate.”

Baby Violet

Their three children were on the MH17 flight travelling home from a holiday in Amsterdam with their grandfather, Nick – Mrs Maslin’s father.

The plane was shot out of the sky, with all those on board perishing.

It was by a twist of fate that Maz and Rin weren’t on the same flight – they had decided to stay back in Amsterdam for a few extra days.

The Perth parents flew home after hearing the horrific news that they’d never see their three children again. After attending a memorial service for their children and said in a statement at the time:

“Our children were taken from us by a war in which we, and our country had no part.”

“It is impossible to understand the reason they were blown out of the sky.”

“Our love and respect for our children remains unlimited and unconditional. It will never weaken – our children have been our entire world.”

“We have been two of the luckiest and happiest people on the planet. What remains for us now is to honour our children.”

“Our lives are an ongoing hell. The pain we are enduring is unfathomable, and we grieve alongside families in the Ukraine, the Netherlands, Russia, Malaysia, Australia and elsewhere.”

“Please respect our children’s memory, and stop this pointless war.”

“Love, only love, it is all we have left.”

The Malaysian Airlines plane was destroyed above eastern Ukraine on July 17, 2014, killing 298 people, including 38 Australians.

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Prince William reveals Prince George’s favourite bedtime story

It turns out our favourite little Prince has excellent taste in literature!
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Papa Prince William has just revealed perhaps the most important piece of royal information yet – his son’s favourite story time book.

During a visit to Pegasus Primary School in Oxford, Oxfordshire, the father of George, two, and one-year-old Charlotte let slip the little fun fact whilst chatting to pupils about their favourite books.

Speaking to eight-year-old schoolgirl, Xiomara, the 33-year-old daddy explained that his little ones like to read a Julia Donaldson classic before nodding off.

“His favourite book was The Gruffalo,” said the girl to reporters.

The beloved children’s book is written by Julia Donaldson.

The students presented the Duke of Cambridge with a drawing of a toucan.

The beloved story, first published in 1999, tells the story of a cunning mouse who manages to make it through the deep dark forest unharmed by boasting to predators about a fictional monster called a gruffalo that will scare off any animal that tries to eat it.

It’s a rather uplifting tale about a clever mouse overcoming his enemies with his wit alone, so it’s no wonder that the pint-size Prince and Princess adore it.

Cheeky George and his darling little sister have been seen occasionally grasping onto books in past family portraits.

Most recently, Charlotte held the classic Wheels On The Bus for her first birthday snaps taken by the Duchess herself in their Norfolk home.

These little royals love to read!

Earlier in the day, the father-of-two continued his duties in Oxford by unveiling a plaque as a way to mark the opening of Longwall Library at Oxford University’s Magdelen College, where the Prince of Wales – who later became Edward VIII was a student.

“Do you actually use the library? This isn’t just for show then?” the Duke joked with the students present.

“I hope you all get firsts [first class honours degrees],” he added before admitting that at their age he wasn’t quite as hard working. “I can’t say I was a regular attender of libraries.”

Watch Wills and Kate talk about their uni days in the video player below!

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Appeal to reinstate Baden-Clay’s murder charge granted

The High Court is the last avenue for appeal for both defence and prosecution, meaning this will be the final ruling.

This morning, the High Court granted the Queensland Director of Public Prosecutions leave to argue that Gerard Baden-Clay’s murder conviction should be reinstated.

The final ruling will made by a bench of up to seven judges in Australia’s highest court.

45-year-old Baden-Clay was convicted of the April 2012 murder of his wife, 43-year-old Allison, following a Supreme Court trial in 2014. However, following an appeal, the charge was downgraded to manslaughter.

The downgraded conviction came after Baden-Clay’s legal team successfully argued that while there was enough evidence to prove he killed his wife, there was insufficient evidence to prove he did so with intent.

The successful appeal led to widespread public outcry which culminated in a public rally demanding justice for Allison in King George Square in late 2015.

After the rally, Attorney-General Yvette D’Ath announced the state’s chief lawyer, Director of Public Prosecutions Michael Byrne, QC, would seek leave to appeal the decision in the High Court of Australia.

The hearing is expected to take place sometime in the next three months. It will be the fourth criminal jurisdiction the Baden-Clay case has been argued in since he was charged with his wife’s murder in June, 2012.

Allison Baden-Clay’s body was found on the banks of the Kholo Creek, 14kms from the home she shared with her husband and their three daughters in Brookfield, in Brisbane’s west, on April 30, 2012.

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How to fold your shirt in just two seconds

Think of all the time you're going to save!

Willing yourself to fold the washing can seem like an impossible task at times, and there are those times you just don’t want to do it neatly because it’s insanely time-consuming.

Well, this leads to a life-changing household hack that is going to save you so much time to actually enjoy your weekends.

A YouTube video has been doing the rounds recently from Howcast.com that is claiming to show how to fold your shirts neatly in two seconds.

And it works!

It essentially involves pinching the fabric at two specific points, then whipping the shirt around.

In the video, he pinches a spot just near the centre between his thumb and forefinger, then lines it up with a spot near the collar above where the other hand is. While pinching both of those spots, he pulls the top corner to meet the bottom left-hand spot. Then it all comes together perfectly neat!

It probably won’t make a lot of sense to you just reading it so you’ll have to watch the video a few times to get the hang of it.

Imagine all the things you can do now with your extra time!

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Experts say this behaviour is the no.1 predictor of divorce

Are you guilty of it?

Have you have ever found yourself rolling your eyes at your partner? It might not seem like a big deal, particularly in the heat of the moment. But experts are warning that contemptuous behaviour such as sarcasm, name calling and eye-rolling could be a sign that your relationship is in big trouble.

In fact, according to University of Washington psychology professor John Gottman, contempt is the number one predictor of divorce.

Following 40 years of research in which he studied couples interactions, Gottman has identified four key signs (which he names the four horsemen of the apocalypse) that divorce may be looming.

Contempt is top of the list, followed by criticism, defensiveness and stonewalling (emotionally withdrawing from your partner).

The Weekly Online spoke to Sydney based Imago Relationship Therapist Annie Gurton to find out more about the role contempt plays in relationships.

“John Gottman is spot on,” she says.

“If you find your partner being critical or contemptuous, the chances are that they have lost respect and love, and it is a long hard road back from that to a connected, strong relationship.

It’s not impossible, but it’s really hard.”

Annie says that there is no contempt in healthy relationships. “When we are in love we feel love and adoration, we want to care for them not denigrate them or pull them down,” she says.

If a relationship is in a good place then a couple will cherish and care for each other. “Anything less demonstrates that the feelings of love and respect have gone, maybe temporarily, perhaps permanently,” explains Annie.

Annie also notes that our romantic partners are the perfect people to help us heal and grow. “If you have any deep feelings of anxiety or fear, it is your romantic partner who can help you to recover,” she explains.

“You need to think of your partner as your therapist, and the better they know you the more help they can be to taking you into being the best you that’s possible.”

And while you might think that rolling your eyes or criticising your partner is just part of married life, it is actually a highly corrosive type of behaviour.

“Contempt is simply not conducive to a healing, nurturing relationship. In a good relationship we feel safe, and we can’t feel safe when we are with someone we feel is attacking us,” says Annie.

Contempt in a relationship also undermines effective communication. “We need to spend time looking into each other’s eyes, touching, connecting, and talking. If your partner is contemptuous or critical we cannot trust them with our deepest thoughts, and the relationship struggles to survive,” Annie explains.

So what can you do if contempt has started to creep into your relationship? Annie suggests that seeking some relationship counselling might be a good start.

“In a safe environment you can express your feelings that you are being criticised, and your partner can express their frustrations that underlie the contempt,” she says.

Annie’s advice is to act quickly:

“Contempt and criticism aren’t necessarily the end of the relationship,” she says.

“But the writing is definitely on the wall.”

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Couple who lost their three children on MH17 welcome daughter

In a heartbreakingly beautiful turn of events, Perth couple Anthony Maslin and Marite Norris have welcomed a daughter Violet.
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It’s been nearly two years since the world was left in shock following the MH17 disaster, which saw Malaysia Airlines Flight 17 shot by a missile and crash in Ukraine killing all 283 crew and passengers on board.

Perth couple Anthony and Marite suffered the unimaginable loss of their three children Mo, Evie and Otis as well as their grandfather Nick.

Today, the couple have revealed they recently welcomed their fourth child into the world.

Their precious three kids.

Introducing baby Violet (image/DFAT)

In a statement released to the Department of Foreign Affairs and Trade, they said: “Violet May Maslin came in to the world on Tuesday 10 May, bringing with her love and light, hope and joy.”

“Our family was torn apart when MH17 was blown out of the sky by the violent anger of a nationalist missile, on July 17, 2014. Our three innocent, beautiful and inspiring children were killed, alongside their grandfather, Nick Norris.”

“We believe that Mo, whose 14th birthday was Saturday, Evie, 12 next week, Otis, 10 next month, and Grandad Nick have sent us an amazing gift. Violet’s birth is a testament to our belief that love is stronger than hate.”

Anthony and Marite with their three angels before the tragedy unfolded.

“We still live with pain, but Violet, and the knowledge that all four kids are with us always, brings light to our darkness. As Martin Luther King said, ‘Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.'”

“We will continue to love all four of our children equally. Violet brings some hope and joy for us. We hope she brings hope and joy for you too.”

“Finally, we would like to thank the media for respecting our privacy. Anthony Maslin & Marite Norris.”

A warm congratulations to the brave parents.

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